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Webmasters / Re: How Do I Know A Good And Reliable Web Hosting Company In Nigeria? by Aladunni(f): 2:08pm On Dec 19, 2008
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Food / Re: Do You Eat Your Meat Before, During, or After a Meal? by Aladunni(f): 5:22pm On Nov 21, 2008
before (to wet the appetite)

after (to wash it down as the food may not be delicious a times, but there is no way meat wont be) tongue
Food / Re: How Good A Cook Are You by Aladunni(f): 5:02pm On Nov 21, 2008
my customers dont complain O grin

when i say customers, i mean mama, papa, brothers and sister and now my fiance.

so i will say, am fairly ok.

abi dem no wan talk am for my face? tongue
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by Aladunni(f): 1:24pm On Nov 15, 2008
kathyekiti:


@aladunni

Quite a bit. It has to do with the fact that fat produces a weak estrogen. The bigger you are, the more likely to have menstrual irregularities

thanks, i just cut on my diet and realized the cycle became irregular. I hope it will regularize?

Meanwhile, kid sister is 5 months plus and more than 3 weeks now had been observing constant cheese like discharge from her vagina, its giving her some concern. it comes with a slight itching and makes sex quite difficult for her because she is not lubricated at all, the cheese seems to block everywhere.

Can you advise on what to do? There is no good gyn close to her.
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by Aladunni(f): 4:59pm On Nov 14, 2008
well done dokinta,

how much can diet affect a menstrual cycle?
Family / Re: Need Someone's Advice by Aladunni(f): 1:54pm On Nov 08, 2008
Baby Jinx:


Signs of An Emotionally Abusive Boyfriend or Partner[/url]



- Doesn’t want you to tell people about the problems between the two of you.

- Makes you feel guilty when you don’t want to have sex.

- Pressures you into having sex when you don’t want to.

- Physically forces you into submission when he wants sex after you have sad no.

- Doesn’t accept or respect your decisions.

- When chatting, sends you a lot of nudges when you aren’t answering fast enough.

- Implies that you lie or directly calls you a liar.

- Doesn’t trust you.

- Checks up on you.

- Comes to your home, school or workplace to look for you when you have asked him not to.

- Keeps sending you text messages or calling if you don’t answer.

- Hangs up the phone when he is talking to you.

- Tells you to hang up the phone when you are talking to friends.

- Gives you the silent treatment.

- Expects you to follow him and ask him what's wrong when he walks off.

- Apologizes but then does the same thing.

- Blames you for things.

- Makes you feel guilty for not spending more time with him.

- Tells you what you “should” do.

- Tells you to do things rather than asking you to do them.

- Tells you to do things rather than telling you how he feels.

- Says he can’t live without you or he will kill himself if you leave him.

- Makes you feel responsible for his feelings

- Makes you afraid of telling him the truth, so you find yourself not telling him things or lieing to him in order to avoid fights and conflicts.

- Says things like "I can't believe you are doing this to me." and "You promised me."



While all of these indicators are emotional, remember that emotional abuse is often the first one used. This nearly always escalates and becomes a physical form of abuse. It always involves control - one partner controlling the actions of the other. If this kind of behavior is present, you have a potentially abusive situation that is likely to only get worse as the relationship progresses.

Grabbing your arm or blocking the door when you are trying to leave is one of the first signs the emotional abuse may later turn into physical violence.

While the emotional abuse could lead to physical violence, it doesn't always lead to this. The abusive person might learn he can sufficiently control you with psychological abuse, guilt trips, fear, professions of love, apologies, gifts and other manipulation.

interesting!!!!
Romance / Re: I Love My Husband Dearly, But I Am Attracted To My Work Colleague ! by Aladunni(f): 5:44pm On Nov 07, 2008
@ poster

go back home!!!

i hope this is not a belated advice, as whatever will happen must have happened tongue
Romance / Re: Romantic Idea! by Aladunni(f): 5:38pm On Nov 07, 2008
DavidDylan:

Most men are too absent-minded to do anything you have suggested above. Here are simple little things you can do:

- Drop her surprise little notes telling her how much she means to you . . . if you can make sure she finds it where her friends are. can't tell you how much a woman appreciates public affection - i don't mean PDA!

- Hold her hand in public . . . don't be shy boy.

- Once in a while try doing something she particularly wants rather than you doing your thing and she just tagging along.

Just the few stuff i have tried that work excellently well. You really don't have to bring a woman the moon to let her know you appreciate her.

these sounds more realistic
TV/Movies / Re: Nkem Owo Aka Osuofia Dead (Rumour or True) by Aladunni(f): 10:36am On Oct 30, 2008
[url]http://www.guardiannewsngr.com/arts/article01//indexn3_html?pdate=301008&ptitle=Who%20wants%20Nkem%20Owoh%20dead?&cpdate=301008[/url]

this should help a little
TV/Movies / Re: Nkem Owo Aka Osuofia Dead (Rumour or True) by Aladunni(f): 5:52pm On Oct 28, 2008
the same way Genevieve Nnaji married Babayaro Celestine

please can someone send us links?
Romance / Re: Ridiculous Excuses Men Give To Evade Marriage by Aladunni(f): 5:49pm On Oct 28, 2008
excuse is still berra than taking a "quiet walk" like a ghost

and they feel like sneaking back in like a ghost at their convenience too  lipsrsealed
Family / Re: To Braid Or Not To Braid!?! by Aladunni(f): 3:40pm On Oct 08, 2008
undecided
Family / Re: Message From Almond Joy by Aladunni(f): 3:22pm On Oct 07, 2008
AlmondJoy!!! She was a personality to meet on nairaland.

Warri man no dey carry last grin

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