₦airaland Forum

jimmynauty:
Just walk away from the house than beat her. Cool down come back home.

Fixed*

ImaIma1:
Mood swings are not general to women. I don't have mood swings. If something is bothering me, I know what it is. But to just be moody for no reason or for my mood to keep swinging, I don't operate that way. I tell my friends that it must be a spirit behind it.

That's why I asked if she has always been that way before they got married or if she has become that way because of events that have happened in the marriage.

Well,not all women are same.

Guess it's hormones at work not any spirit.
It's frustrating having a woman being moody and irritated easily all day.

ImaIma1:
Ask her what is causing her moodiness. Is she having regrets that after fighting for you both to be together, it is one chance she entered?

One day you might get back and she is gone with the kids. Then, you will need to explain to everyone how you have turned her to your personal punching bag.

Mood swings are most times caused by no particular reason.It's just one of the complexities of women.

If I'm the OP, both of us will be swinging the mood together oh.Jangilover things

Sekoni003:
I just do my thing and stay true to myself. And yeah I've dated a couple older women.

@Bold. unfortunately many confuse age with maturity which isn't always the case

Cool.

All the ones I'm attracted to are already married.
Hoping to date older women someday.

Fasindo:



Fulani vs Fulani


If this can happen in Life camp I wonder what people in place like Nyanya, Karimo, Kubwa, Jikwoyi, Durumi, BWARI, Mpape, Gishiri, Mararaba, Masaka, Gwagwarada, Kuje, Lugbe etc will be experiencing on dairly bases.

This has passed becareful.
Most of the northerners misbehaving in Abuja are mostly those displace from their northern homes in far north by Boko Haram/ISWAP and bandits and they relocated to Abuja, but instead of them to maintain peace they started recking havoc in Abuja just to get something to eat. This days I find it difficult to go for early morning jogging to avoid being attack by these hoodlums

Early morning jogging is no more safe.Find one stadium and be jogging there.

AdeniyiA:
Ord... What! who wan die? Na dem go first disfarahan.

Our leaders are being advised on the best way to rescue this country but because they're protected and provided for by the country they continually turn deaf ears to these meaningful advices. Soon it'd boil over and the situation spirals out of control and their elections they are preparing for would be put on hold...

A brigadier general moves with atleast a convoy of 3 vehicles filled with fully armed Soldiers.It could be more depending on how risky the movement is.

If the soldiers should run away, they'll all be court-martialled for abandonment of duty post,mutiny and insubordination.

I'm guessing the general didn't move with his convoy that period.

Sekoni003:
P.S: I have a thing for older women so maybe I'm being sentimental

How have you been handling it?
Have you dated an older woman before?
Many women feel absurd when being asked out by a younger man.
They all claim they want an older man because he'll be more mature.

KiNg0G:
Lol well, nice point sir.

But I think nigeria is wizkid house, weda or not he's the host.
He doesn't need to be holla on a normal sense

That's the right thing to do.
If you're too available, you'll lose value.

KiNg0G:
While mi Abaga were Fighting with fellow rappers on who would had an audience with Rick ross few weeks ago, no pem from wizkid. so you mean to tell me dude wasn't in nigeria.


Over this week dababy was in town shooting video with davido and he even tweeted he felt so at home due to the several hospitalities he received from fans... no peem from wizkid.

What baffles me in all of this, is the fact that wizkid features international artist more than his fellow africa arts, he has more international fanbase, but when they come to his home country he ignores them completely. is it that he doesn't have relationship with those international artist, or it's pride? Ego? Speaking.

I love Wizkid, I love the fact that dude is mature keeping his life private and not to be seen too much on screen even by his fans, but atleast my issue here is too much of everything is bad

I am not saying we should jump all around because this international artist are coming to nigeria, it's not the first time, nothing like inferiority complex here...am just taking about hospitality. First your the one who goes about featuring international artist, hosting shows in their country and when they come to your home you snub them.


Don't be surprised drake can decide to come to nigeria tomorrow, and you might likely not see wizkid in the trends with him unlike davido or some nigeria artist.

Respect is reciprocal.



What's your take on this?

Wizkid going to those artistes when they come here is just like showing up in someone's house unannounced.

If they want to meet wizkid,they will holla him.

Kimiso:
Why are these girls behaving like these

Na Choilila fit do this kain thing.

No think say I don forget you oh.
When I'm back from work,I promise you some little mentions.

Candidlady:
Where in my post did you see HE IS TOO YOUNG TO MARRY?

Where in my post did you see I saw HE IS TOO YOUNG TO MARRY?

sissoko22:
Any sane person reading this will definitely feel pity for your time, I'm not mad at all but feel sorry and pity for you.
Igbos are civilised and Hausa are not, but you encourage and happy with the beheading of and Igbo military couple. Wow
There are Igbos married to to fulanis and hausas in Adamawa, Bauchi, Kano etc.
How can you make a survey in the East and assume the same all over the country.
Marriage between every ethnicities is happening everyday in this country.
Improve on yourself, do alot of research rather than lies from your fellow

You still didn't read to understand.

I never generalized.If you noticed,I used "Many","Most","Majority","95%".
I never used "All" nor "100%".

This is the second or third time you're saying the emboldened.Who told you I'm happy with or encourage it?Yet, you're condemning my assumption.

That's crap!

Asianjollof007:
Lucky you, my mom is the only woman in my family. I wish i have a female sibling even if it's one, i grew up in the midst of battalions. My eye see shege, we all look alike and almost same height. No privacy, they have access to your things without your permission. We fight taya.. Walahi, e no easy!

Hehehe reminds me of hostel life.

Candidlady:
Oh! Now isee

Truly now Iknow you are joking bout getting married

You feel he is too young to marry?
Why?

Asianjollof007:
I'm a guy, i grew up in the midst of my siblings. We are all male, i hate going naked in their presence or them doing the same in my presence. No be everybody like am infact it's irritating, because we carry same organ no mean say i should get comfortable seeing long pricks all the time.

It's true sha.
I'm the only male.
Since my childhood,no man has ever seen my unclothedness

pocohantas:
My females siblings do not go about the house nakèd. Don’t assume it is the standard in every home with females.

Okay.I judged based on my own home.
My sisters shared same room while growing.They sometimes shared same wears and change in the presence of each other.

Jhenny:
Apologies, but you sound like a child or an adult with a child's brain. If you think everyone engages in pre-marital sex, then you need to change your circle. Banging body, What's that?, Perverted soul. You are obviously a teenager because the only think in the minds of many of you is sex and nothing else. Kid

The only ladies in Nigeria that don't engage in premarital sex are my sisters and two other girls like that.

Okay not to be sarcastic,you need to know how many people engage in premarital sex these days.

pocohantas:
As in, is it that hard? This is the main reason I only stayed in the female hostel in my 100L. I hate to share bed with a fellow female, let alone seeing your nakèdness all day. Sometimes I go to a tailor’a shop and they expect me to just strip to my panties in the name of testing clothe. In the full glare of almost 10 women.

Because we have the same parts, I should have to see yours all day? For what exactly?

You didn't grow up among female siblings,right?

sissoko22:
It's a family thing when is Igbo, but you have the gut to generalize when it's in the North?
Where's this hate, double standard and hypocrisy coming from. I've seen fulanis whom are considered along the Igbos as a tribalist and egomaniac marrying varying ethnicities including the Igbos.
How many interethnic marriages do you know?.
How many states have you been to?
Where are you getting these stats from?
You sit down all day discussing and unreasonably hate other people just because you can.


Only enjoy reading comments and occasionally debunk lies, just like your post
So,I've to correct you.
Your lies is so blatant, hateful and unreasonable.
Go out and learn

Always read to understand.

Igbos and hausas are not the same.
I can't recall the number of igbo people that I've met that got married to non igbos.They are too many.Igbos are now civilized.Their children go to other states and when they meet the love of their lives, they're surely marrying.

However,a family from Ohafia may kick against their daughter marrying a yoruba man.That doesn't mean you wouldn't see a family in that same Ohafia that will support their child marrying a yoruba person.
It's a family thingy.

As for the Northerners
Many of them are not civilized.Imagine someone born and bred in the north, schooled in the north,served in the north.You now expect such person not to marry a fellow northerner(except northern christians).
Even if they want to marry a non northerner,their families are usually strict when enforcing their will on their children.

Here in the barracks, you'll find people of different ethnicity.I can assure you that atleast 95% of the hausas here married their fellow hausas.
It's a tribe thingy!!

LyfeJennings:
This is One of them
Found her recently on TikTok
SHE FINE DIE

If this one think say you dey cheat,she fit use nyash suffocate you to death while you're asleep.

ABANGWABOI:
I can see many ignorance in this thread..
As an easterner that lived over a decade in the north,worked and schooled their..

Let me tell you all boldly.. The best wife you can get in Nigeria is a northern Christian lady, when you date or marry them,then compare them with the previous southern girls you have dated and see your family and friends marry.. you would know that northern Christian ladies are the best..
As for the Northern Muslims.. my opinion is simple,Do not near them if you are not a Muslim too,e get why..

Northern Christian girl is more loyal,honest, not a feminist, submissive ,just name it.. than her southern Christian counterparts..

Quote to counter me if you have lived up to 2 decades in the north and has travelled around 85% of Northern states..

Everyone knows northern christians are different.

Sweetplum:
Ignorance. North ko, North Korea ni

You haven't passed any message across.
I don't understand.

salam8528:
Y do we like generalising when it's About the North?

I don't mean all but most of them behave same way.
Look at how majority were supporting the burning of the christian girl.

Abbertee2:
You can live peacefully in north if you don’t have that insulting prophet attitude

It's not about living there but it's about marrying them.

Asides the insulting prophet ish,there are a lot of red lines they have but you don't know.
You know as couples,you will repeatedly cross each other's red lines.

Southernigbo:
Some parts of the north like kafanchan, zango kataf, taraba state, benue and plateau states have Southern mentality and way of life and will gladly and easily marry southern ppl without any prob. In fact their women n girls are as loyal decent and religious as any lady can be

Benue is not north o.

Another issue is religion.
These people are mostly muslims who wouldn't want to marry a non muslim.

Dalil8:
Z Z Z

Napoleon tried to conquer Russia but failed, Hitler tried but failed. NATO too would try and also fail.

Glory to Russia!

If Ukraine is winning,it will be termed propaganda.
Since it's Russia that's winning now, you've started to orgasm.

Jennyclay:
Lol.. You don't expect me to see white then call it red.. If Auchi isn't a good place, I will still tell you.

As for me.. I'm a very cool, respectful and loyal person but I hate nonsense!! I can't allow men ridicule me just like that.

Alright.

I never talked about ridiculing tho.

Jennyclay:
Not just submissive, we are 100% humble and loyal.

Auchi is just a small lovely and beautiful town. Our women are beautiful as well, people even mistake us for fulani girls.

You can ask people about Auchi, and they will still tell you exactly what I have said.

It's seems you're doing a paid promotion for this your Auchi oo lol
You will make a good marketer.

You said Auchi ladies are submissive.Then where did you get your own feminism from?

Jennyclay:
Lol . I just hate nonsense that's all.

Honestly you need to visit Auchi to see things for yourself, I'm not sugar quoting about my place. We live in peace here. Feel free to pick a wife from Auchi. Our women are the caring, hardworking and beautiful.

Have you ever heard any strange or bad news coming from Auchi?? We are peaceful here!

I'll surely come if chanced!

Those are good attributes of women you mentioned.
Are they submissive also?

BluntCrazeMan:
They don't have bad sides, sheey?

If it's coming from an Auchi person,they won't have.

BluntCrazeMan:
Let it not be that you're thinking about the generalisation about Edo Ladies oo

I wouldn't.If not for anything but for many Edo ladies that are in Italy doing what you and I know of

Jennyclay:
Yes, Auchi is in Edo.. And I'm not a Muslim. I'm a Christian.

But Auchi is dominated by Muslims. But we all share the same culture, we all speak same language, (including the Christians & Muslims) We live in peace here in Auchi. We are not Fulanis, Hausas or yorubas.

Muslims and Christians don't fight here! We all condemned the killing of Deborah and we need justice for her.

Funny enough, our names sound weird. You would hear someone bearing names like "Musa Rachel kudirat" but she's a Christian. "Johnson Suleman" but he's a Christian.

You would hear someone bearing names like "Aliyu Victor" but he's a Muslim.

That's to show how peaceful we are here! You need to visit Auchi.

You'd only say the good side of your place.I trust you

I might pick a wife from there.I don't want to marry from my place.Only that,unlike you,she mustn't be a feminist