Family › Re: Bored In Marriage by AlphaStorm: 11:37am On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .
The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.
I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.
Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.
I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...
Please what should I do..??
Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that
please advice Are u not d same mofoka that posted sh*t about wanting a life partner around april this year  YOU MUST BE MAD !!!!! |
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Food › Re: Snake: What We Saw In Our Trap This Morning by AlphaStorm: 12:34pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Lala go nearly craze ontop this post. FP straight !!!!!!!  |
Health › Re: 38-Year-Old Man Commits Suicide In Ibadan By Hanging (Graphic Photo) by AlphaStorm: 12:26pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
38 yr old with 2 wives  !!!! |
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Politics › Re: Izombe, Oguta In Imo Deserted As Soldiers Order Shoot At Sight, 3 Dead (Video) by AlphaStorm: 6:17am On Oct 13, 2021 |
benuejosh: FAKE NEWS! Nigerian soldiers are professionally trained. They can't go about ordering everyone to be killed. IPOB will bring up anything at all to discredit the good works of Nigeria security agencies. Do you know what Abacha did to NADECO  ? Go and find out |
Politics › Re: Maduka Jettisons Crucial Appointment To Save Soul Onboard Local Flight by AlphaStorm: 8:05pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
All na Format !!!!!! Anambra people will hear weeeeen !!!!!!!!! |
Romance › Re: What Amount Will U Hit Before U Begin Misbehave? by AlphaStorm: 7:49am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Differentiate: Be calming down OK That is the only amount that can bring out 13kb of misbehaviour in me. |
Romance › Re: What Amount Will U Hit Before U Begin Misbehave? by AlphaStorm: 2:52pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
999 billion Pounds |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For 549K Cause She Got Hnd Admission. by AlphaStorm: 10:33am On Oct 05, 2021 |
Almightyprosper: I need reasonable people to give me some advise here on how I can deal with such a huge fiasco, The money isn't really my problem but she cheat and she has never accepted once even though I've evidence. Is it appropriate to help her? Or help and give her road out0 of my life cause her cheating lifestyle has caused me more trauma than everyday.. This lady knew I had accident last week for God Men with experience I await your response May Thunder fire you into 16 pieces....!!!!!!  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Adeboye: I Will Receive COVID-19 Vaccine For The Sake Of The Gospel by AlphaStorm: 8:02pm On Oct 02, 2021*. Modified: 9:55pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
One thing I know for sure is tht I will NOT take that vaccine under any condition. |
Celebrities › Re: Rotimi Salami: DNA Test Not Important, Unless Someone Drags Your Child With You by AlphaStorm: 8:36am On Oct 01, 2021 |
Trumann: Men, no need to make noise about DNA. Get your children's toothbrushes and if that is too difficult, give them straw to drink Fanta with. That straw is enough to conduct DNA test with.
Once you have the results, if they are yours, congrats. Don't tell your wife. If they are not, wait for a time when your wife has gone out, get a carpenter to change the locks to the door of your house and tell her to meet you at her father's house.
In the presence of your family and hers, present the result.
Here is a link for DNA testing centres in Nigeria.
https://www.finelib.com/health/laboratories/dna-and-paternity-test
https://www.legit.ng/1135555-cost-dna-test-nigeria-hospital.html
Don't spend your life training bastards, be smart. Do that DNA test today. Odogwu !!!!!!! 4 bottles of ur favorite sir |
Romance › Re: Am A Simp That Needs Help by AlphaStorm: 11:34pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
16 slap salutes for the commander-in-chief of the SIMP forces  . [/b]BASTARD !!!!!!  [\b] Drsnives: Nairalanders pls i seriously need hep oo, its like all the red pilled threads have been reading here is not working at all. Its always easier to bash guys with simping attitudes on their tread while in reality will act worse if reverse happens to be the case. My sincere apologies to guys have bashed pls forgive me.
Imagine inviting a lady all the way from anambra to Delta, after all the spendings, eating and drinking during the day, later at night weh i feel its time for action she told me that she wants to sleep that i should not disturb her, even odinary bobby she no allow me sulk. This is someone i sent 4k for tfare oo and equally bought goodies weh she eat this night. Am pained right now. We met on fb and became friends for like 6months and she was all nice b4 inviting her. My question here is what was she thinking before leaving her state down here, abi she left her state to Delta just to eat my little cash and sleep? As am typing right now shes snoring beside me after consuming 3 superpack indomines and 3 eggs. Mind you this is not the first time this kind of situation is happening oo,whennits time for action a little resistance from them i will just free them. Am soo bitter. I deserve all the insult in the world provided am helped. Lalasticlala pls help me. Forgive my typographical errors pls, am not happy, abi do i force her? |
Properties › Re: My Neighbor Denies Me Sleep With His Generator by AlphaStorm: 6:40am On Sep 20, 2021 |
HRHQueenPhil: If u don't have the balls to confront him as a man, go and buy ear plugs..I love my ex too much but dude can sleep and snore like an old goat..used his money to buy the most expensive ear plugs since I can't be waking him up all the time U love ur ex too much  Okafor's Law |
Romance › Re: My Life After I Put This Inside My Husband's Pillow by AlphaStorm: 2:34pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
La Click La Taliban |
Education › Re: ABU Zaria Lecturer Teaches Students With Rap Songs by AlphaStorm: 2:43pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Wetin Mayshayi no go see inside ABU Zaria  |
Education › Re: UNN Physics Lecturer Gets Stuck In Class While Solving A Question (Photo, Video) by AlphaStorm: 11:00am On Sep 17, 2021 |
molybdenum0012: I almost ran mad studying that course. Imagine staring at a text for a whole week and a still cannot comprehend anything. That is statistical Physics. When they now introduce a little bit of schrodinger equation to it, just know u are fu*ked !!!!! |
Celebrities › Re: How American Media Reported Wizkid's Show VS Nigerian Media (Pictures) by AlphaStorm: 9:11am On Sep 17, 2021 |
deolurexy1: One said facts, the other made a sensational reporting. No Cap Nigger !!!!!! |
Education › Re: UNN Physics Lecturer Gets Stuck In Class While Solving A Question (Photo, Video) by AlphaStorm: 9:09am On Sep 17, 2021 |
molybdenum0012: You probably a high school teacher teaching motion or friction topics oo.
We talking about Quantum, thermodynamics, fluid mechanics, classical physics, astronomy, statistical physics etc. Anybody can get stuck solving physics problems.
All you need to do is take a step backward, calm yourself down and you will figure it out.
Physics is the toughest subject globally. Most physics genius are usually not normal human. Go figure. Statistical physics will fit kpai u if u no take care !!!!!! That shii is d Devil !!!! |
Education › Re: UNN Physics Lecturer Gets Stuck In Class While Solving A Question (Photo, Video) by AlphaStorm: 9:06am On Sep 17, 2021 |
DoggoneDogg: Both are useless subjects but when it gets to advanced levels, I feel physics is worse.
That subject is just too broad. No Cap Nigger !!!!!!!!!!  |
Politics › Re: Gbajabiamila: Reps To Represent Infectious Diseases Bill Soon by AlphaStorm: 4:10pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Teewhy2: I want to believe it is covid that is bringing this bill to the lime light. Hope it won't include punishment for who refuses to take vaccine. U thinking what I am thinking bro  |
Politics › Re: Nigeria's Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Covers Time Magazine by AlphaStorm: 4:09pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Amotolongbo: The most powerful African woman alive, not only Igbo She is Igbo before any other thing |
Romance › Re: Could She Be Carrying My Child? by AlphaStorm: 7:27pm On Sep 13, 2021 |
Princecanada: Hi Nairalanders,
This issue has been bothering for a while now. I am not the promiscuous type. I was a virgin all through my university until I started working in one of the states. She was my first and has been the only one. I have been having relationship problems in the sense that I it's just so difficult for me to get emotionally attached to a lady. I am straight so don't think the other way round. I tried to see if I could work this out with her, but along the line, I lost interest again. So just before my relocation, she said she wants to see me one last time before I travel, I tried to lie to her that I am unavailable,but then she made it seemed like I didn't want to see her, I felt sorry and said no problem that she can come around. I have only had sex with her once but with protection, on this her second visit, she said she wouldn't want protection anymore as she doesn't enjoy sex with condom, and that she wants to enjoy sex before I leave. I told her I am not comfortable with the idea as I don't want her to get pregnant as she is still a student in one of the universities. She said she can only get pregnant if she wants to, and that as a student, she doesn't want that yet. When she came over, the did happened but even then I still used a condom, condom broke on 3 occasions, then I decided to raw, and when I felt I was about to release, I pulled out. Even though I pulled out, I was uncomfortable because I have heard that precum can also get a lady pregnant. I was scared about any possibility of infection too. Took her to the hospital the next day, did HIV and other STD tests which came out negative. We went together to see the doctor for post pills, but she declined taking any that since I didn't release in her, she will be fine. And that she has pills she can take too. I was furious at her, but had to respect her decision as it is her body.
Three weeks after, she called that she thinks she's pregnant, that she missed her period which is very unusual. I was so mad at her and told her, I didn't want to hear any of that as I made it clear to her from the beginning. She started crying and got emotional, that got to me and I told her not to worry, that I will pay her bride price and marry her. I earn about half a million monthly, so I believe I can take care of her and the kid. She paused and said she needs to think about it. Regarding abortion, I already told her, my tradition forbids me from giving any form of material and financial assistance to her to do that, if at all she wants to do it, it has to be her sole decision. I made it clear to her that I won't be involved in the decision to abort the pregnancy. She called back after a couple of minutes that she is not comfortable with my decision to marry her, that I want to do that because of the pregnancy. She asked if there was no pregnancy,would I have chosen to marry her, I told her, I don't know. She said then that she is going to abort it, I pleaded with her not to abort seeing the possibility of me becoming a dad soon, she said she will go ahead to abort, that her friend have gotten her some meds already. She called few days later that she just got the drugs, and have taken them, and that she is experiencing blood flow and stomach ache, that I shouldn't abandon her in this difficult time. I said no problem, so I kept calling to check on her very often. After a week, I stopped calling as usual, and that became a problem. I wanted her to move on with her life.
I kept in touch with her and supported her financially when the need arose. When I told her, I am back to the same city with her, she said she wanted to see me that it's very important, I said what's so important that we can't discuss over the phone, she said when I see her I will know. Well, when the day came for her to see me, I told her I was unavailable, then she coded I was avoiding her. We chatted, and she told me the pregnancy is still there. I told her to stop messing with me as I am currently trying to move on and build a new relationship. She insisted, then I said well, if you are, deliver the child, I will take responsibility. She said is that all I have to say, that I want to make her my Baby Mama? I then asked her, what more does she want? I offered marriage before, but now, that's no longer on the table. When the baby is borne I will take responsibility. Well, long story short, at the end of our chat, she said, she was never pregnant, and that she will only get pregnant if she wants to. I then told her, I am not going to forgive her in a hurry.
Since then, we stopped communicating. Recently,I saw her WhatsApp status with her visibly pregnant in the picture. I have been seeing most of her status update on Facebook and WhatsApp, I feel so sorry for her most of the time. She has done nothing wrong but love me. The problem is me, I can't seem to be able to really love back the way I ought to. Feelings die after few weeks and months. This happened to all the 6 ladies I have dated.
My worry right now is, could she be carrying my child? I didn't release in her, but there could be a possibility of precum. One of her friends once called me that she noticed she is pregnant, and I am the only one she has known to be dating her. She claimed to have called me without her knowledge and consent and ask if she told me she was pregnant.
I was a good boy and should have remained a virgin till marriage if I had known. Now look how complicated my life just got. I never wanted to have kids with different women. I haven't really been myself since. If you are a young single guy, please learn from my experience.
For the mature minds in the house, what do you advise I do about my present predicament? YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE. IF SHIT CAN SHIT, IT STILL WOULDN'T BE AS SHITTY AS YOU ARE. I CAN BET THE BITCH HAS BEEN PREGNANT ALL ALONG EVEN B4 U FU*KED HER NUMBNUTS ....!!!!!! FIR BENEFIT OF A DOUBT, LET HR DELIVER THE CHILD AND ASK FOR A DNA. YOU ARE JUST BEING STUPID !!!! |
Romance › Re: How Many Persons Have You Dated In Your Entire Life by AlphaStorm: 10:18pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Strange: Could This Be The Skull Of Golaith? (photo) by AlphaStorm: 4:25pm On Sep 07, 2021 |
NO It is the skull of a Human. We Modern Humans have actually been devolving over centuries until we got the small stature |
Phones › Re: Infinix Zero X Pro To Feature 108MP Triple Camera With OIS, Periscope Zoom Lens by AlphaStorm: 9:50am On Sep 07, 2021 |
lalajnr: if you are talking about phone Samsung Apple and Xiaomi comes to mind who be htc They made d first android phones and are the main reason why google pixel series are hot cakes. HTC used to be the Nokia of the s60 days during the early years of Android |
Phones › Re: Infinix Zero X Pro To Feature 108MP Triple Camera With OIS, Periscope Zoom Lens by AlphaStorm: 6:57am On Sep 07, 2021 |
SunshineHQ: shamelessly copied redmi note 10 pro design Redmi has copied apple, htc and samsung for years |
Romance › Re: As A Grown Man What Is The Longest Time You've Stayed Single And Why by AlphaStorm: 9:29pm On Sep 05, 2021 |
9 years.
Broke with no Job. A broke Nigga should not have erections |
Romance › Re: Should I Return Everything Back To The Guy? by AlphaStorm: 7:17am On Aug 28, 2021 |
Do not return the MONEY |
Health › Re: Please What Is Breaking Out On My Skin ? by AlphaStorm: 10:09am On Aug 26, 2021 |
gfon: it is o,had it once.My dickk was like roasted corn,shit was crazy.So the earlier u treat it,the better.Have forgotten the medications i took. SCABIES IS NOT AN STD. IT IS CAUSED BY A PARASITE AND IS HIGHLY CONTAGIOUS |
Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife In A Sway Back Sitting Mode On A Private Jet-photo by AlphaStorm: 9:42am On Aug 24, 2021 |
yinkus6750: Thank God for the youth generation of kings the South is producing. Will surely boost civilisation and development within the region HOW  Please explain |
Health › Re: Maduka Rescues Girl With SARS Stray Bullet And Amputation In Hospital by AlphaStorm: 7:29am On Aug 24, 2021 |
Maduka will mess them up. |