I actually thought I'd have something to contribute

Nna men.. Nwa wuu pawpaw mehn..

I got here first

OP, please change the group of women that you move with

Well, why do ladies with solid assets attract good and responsible men?

Why are they condemning?

The rule is that you won't be allowed to take your phone to the polling booth. You can take your phone to the election area but not the polling booth; so why the condemnation?

MissRaine69:

Why lie to him in the first place?
If a woman for example is sleeping with 2+ men and has not used contraception she should know that in the event of becoming pregnant then the father could be any one of those three men and one day it will come out.

You should watch Paternity Court on YouTube

jade14:


bro please go and find out how much they said names give out to charity, fund raisers, houses, cars and the rest...this guys own half of currency in circulation and if you dont know they leave a lavish life...

bill gate lives in a million dollar crib with the air space above it restricted and got no neighbours cause he bought all the cribs around and uses it for nothing

make them no decieve you...money is for spending

Take a cue from what you said:

give out to charity, fund raisers they do this for a purpose
houses, cars and the rest these are investments
bill gate lives in a million dollar crib with the air space above it restricted and got no neighbours cause he bought all the cribs around and uses it for nothing security. Isn't it clear to see?

Money is for spending wisely

Daeylar:


Your question is ridiculous and has no point at all.
Have you gone with each of those men/women to every single occasion or event they have attended to know if they spray money or not? So why are you asking op that question?
And even if they haven't, and so what?
When did those guys become the standard? Who cares if they spray money or not?

No I haven't.

You didn't see the point in the question. Let me spell it out in pixels:

Money worked hard for is hardly spent anyhow; and by anyhow, I mean, for only the show of it, and not for value.

Yeah, they are not the standards, accepting your stance..

Now my thoughts.. I don't even get the purpose of your post. Please spell it out!

One question..

Have you ever seen Bill Gates, Dangote, Jack Ma, Jeff Bezos, Warren Buffet, any child of the Rothschild family, any child of the Walmart family spray money like that?

Maybe it's her subtle, respectful way of saying..

I'm not really enjoying this thing.. Let's take a break

Picks mic!

Testing! Testing.. 1, 2, 3.
Testing! Attention please!

Okay..

I'd give my own points as to why I think fornication could be a sin.

Trying to follow ground rules, I'd not base my points on religion or culture but on science, facts which we all, irrespective of our sentimental inclinations can understand.

As stated by OP, why should a sexual relationship between two consenting adults be referred to as a transgression of a law? There's no civil law (universal (as by the UN,) federal, state or local government) that prohibits or seeks to penalize sex between two consenting adults.

My definition of sin is anything you do that'll cause you or/and someone else harm.

If a sexual relationship between two consenting adults will cause harm, emotionally or physically; through disease transmission, deceit or any other thing that poses harm to any of both parties, then it is a sin, and obviously, there is a penalty that either (or both) of them will have to suffer.

Apart from that, if the sexual relationship will pose no harm now or in the nearest future, it's not a sin to me.

Drops mic!

OP could you please give us a definition of what you mean by sin and include it in the original post.

Thanks

Following..


1. Remember! OP said he isn't here to argue but learn

2. Matured minds and posters only.

3. Please don't derail the thread. Please!

4. And when you place your arguments, use points that everyone can relate to, irrespective of religion or culture.

I'd be as grateful as OP.

Thanks.

Funny what some people's major concerns are

Please see her dp (if she hasn't changed it) before attempting to give her anything.

I know y'all didn't even plan to give her anything sef

1. Grow your business

2. Grow your business

3. Grow your business

It depends on the relationship sha.

3 is the center of any meaningful relationship as far as I know

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Okay. So, what?

Where's the bum?

Y'all know what that period up there is for?

To save space.

Want to buy that land? 50000 likes

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So your babe is agreeing to be exchanged for half the price of a car..

Cheap! Spits!

Highex:


Hi alterswerve,
I could use a job too. I stay around Aguda.

Replied your mail

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Replied your mail

Highex:


Hi alterswerve,
I could use a job too. I stay around Aguda.

Replied your mail

You actually created a thread for this..

Kinggnicole:

Lol..were you expecting me to give the cliche Nigerian wife "pray that God touches his heart" advice?

I say it again! She has to leave if it gets to that point. From the write up above, her husband is outright disrespectful and obviously doesn't care about her needs and wants. Imagine telling her to stay and take care of the children so that nothing happens to them since she knows she's not fertile. How insensitive!

OP apologise to him again(if you need to because this is an issue of trust and is quite sensitive too) but tell him squarely that you are not quitting your job. Also give him some more time. If he's not budging , you know what to do.

Neither did I advise her to pray.

I was being practical. Clashing egos won't solve this problem. One person has to bulge and I gave her pros and cons of why she should and I also said she should take that route if her marriage is of very high importance to her.

Your advice is not bad if she's a strong feminist tho