₦airaland Forum

Slayar:
You were stating different things without any studies or research to back it up.

The rate of crime and everyother vice is on a high,to levels never seen before.The west is having problems containing the aftermath of their thriving liberalism and then you're here supporting same shit that took them where they are currently ,claiming it's better than good - old parenting ,where is your proof?

That is basic child psychology go and study it and think if that was a baseless statement, I told you that I am an example of that and you have the guts to say that there is no research to back it up which expert are you?

The west is having problems with liberalism because that is some made up BS that only exist in your head. it is better than old parenting because the corrupt and myopic, close minded and undeveloped Nigerian society is enough proof that it does not work.

Family is the basic unit and Nigerian leaders all came from homes where they were instilled the so-called "good-old parenting" but hey look where we are

Where is the west at with liberalism that Nigeria is better than, crime is on a high because it is being reported thanks to social media the previous generation were no different because they were the ones who failed the younger ones and taught them what they are doing today it has no business with liberalism, if you have a problem with liberalism you have a problem with the major tenets of democracy.

Slayar:
Lol,are you to be the judge in your own case? On a faceless forum?

Yes, because on the faceless I know myself alone and I am in a better position to judge since neither of us know one another you assumed something you have no idea of about me so I am in the best position to refute.

Legendoo:
[s]From blm the aggreived to degenerates the aggreived.

We see you[/s]

Keep quiet

Legendoo:
[s]Wokeness is for retards.


The perpetually aggrieved.

If you don't get it[/s] ...

Stop peddling alternative facts and heed to the correction and stop adding meanings to things not found in the dictionary.

CSTRR:
Go to america.
The vast majority of the black young women are baby mamas or rejected the status with countless abortions.

Their model is not the solution.

If you cannot bring out facts why not shut up instead of churning out balderdash that only exist in your head.

Slayar:
If you raise a child with this mentality, the pikin go spoil.

I was raised with this approach and I did not turn out bad so my siiblings and I,our kids have all turned out right and will keep turning out right.

So keep your silly assumption to yourself

Legendoo:
Lol, the fact that you want me to Google What wokeness means shows you don't understand what we mean when we say wokeness.

I read your earlier explaination on what wokeness is ,you are a few year's behind.


Open your eyes , Google cannot help you here.

You are the one deluding yourself if you think there is another defination to what wokeness stands for

WriterNig:
Sanctions can't have any effect on a country like Russia....

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Seun what do y'all think?

Sanctions have effects on Russia that is why they keep sanctioning them, the Russian economy is weak because of sanctions as well.

mediainc:
This is what happens when you make a puppet president. Biden is a puppet, a fake.

Biden is a puppet in your view village stop saying rubbish

Legendoo:
Wokeness strike's again.

U never see something.

You don't know the meaning of 'wholeness Google it up before abusing the word.

Spherical77:
you are right. Sadly, African parents had been brainwashed to see abortion as a free ticket to death or hell. Most African parents will never consider abortion even if 10 men gang rape their daughters and got them pregnant. Just few fraction of them are wiser and smart enough to see the importance of abortion. We Africans still have a long way to go truly

Nor be lie the matter tire me

Richy4:
I strongly agreed with u on the first paragraph...

As for the second, if u have seen rose flower growing before, the thorns and all,
u will believe that some children can come from a dysfunctional home and still be okay in the society..

True

michlins:
if you raise your child right in a good environment from day one, chances of them going wary is very low.

A child is like a book, whatever you write is what stays. You can't raise a child in a dysfunctional family and society and expect him or her to turn out right.

I agree with your first paragraph with you however kids are humans that deserve respect and dignity who should not be beaten anyhow in the name of discipline.

A child is not like a book, the child can always grow up and decide for him/herself and write a whole new chapter so it does not always stay because some of us have unlearned some of the things we learnt while growing up.Some children in dysfunctional or bad environments still turn out right who vice verse it is up to the child to carve their own part as parents we are to aid, guide and advice our children not live their lives for them or make choices for them the child will later on be able to tell right from wrong

Richy4:

I agree with you that parenting is a very difficult job..But I think it was not about being soft hearted or hardened... It's about wisdom and understanding...

There are lots of parents that beats their children, yet nothing... When they have succeeded in putting fears in those kids, just few mins of freedom, u won't know those kids.. because they will do the unimaginable..

Beating does not solve much believe me... It ends up damaging the kids... They will grow up becoming wife beaters, children beaters... When they get to a platform, they claimed that they were raised that way and turned out to be alright without knowing that they were really damaged inside...

I agree with you
Beating kids especially without moderation, correction or giving them valid reasons for doing so is nothing short of psychological, physical and emotional abuse.

A 17 year old girl was impregnated by a man who is likely older than her and she is still a minor under Nigerian law and minors generally cannot give consent.
Under the child rights act of 2003 which has not be ratified in many Northern states the age of consent is 18 if this lady is in a state that has adopted the child rights act she was statutorily raped and this is enough grounds to terminate a pregnancy what does a 17 year old in today's world know about parenting?that such a child will be burdened to become one at an age where she cannot feed herself..

This is highly messed up, Nigerian is a messed up society where women are not protected, this girl will likely bear the consequences alone and the rapist may not be held accountable.

michlins:
Should we tell him guys.


Your parents failed in parenting her. What happened to the old style of beating sense into a child when they start getting wayward. Dem no born you well to talk back to my parents. Parenting is a very difficult job and not for the soft hearted

This woke generation will tell you it's wrong but see where it landed her.

My heart goes out to the innocent unborn child who didn't do anything to deserve being brought into this mess

And you think today's parents don't still beat their kids,after all the beating they still end up as yahoo boys,ritualist, runs girls, gigolos and other vices you think those ones were not beaten abi?

Better study the psychology of children beating does not work on every child sometimes what they see you do is enough to correct them, for others communication helps it depends on the kind of communication languages some children have some are auditory others are not.

The parenting of those days were no better because the kids still turned out bad and hid things from their parents that wasn't discipline but fear.Parenting is with love you are raising humans not animals that you must always abuse in the name of beating without correction.If the parents of old were so good we won't be so corrupt, hateful and bitter and lack basic human emotion/love or call it decency.
It was the older generation that thought us every known corruption and vices we have today despite all the beating, no ground breaking innovation or progress attributed to the Nigerian society.

You don't know the meaning of "woke" study it and don't make it look like a bad or terrible thing, you Nigerians should stop buying into racist conservative narrative that was designed to attack the true purpose of what "woke" means which is to be alert and aware of racial/social injustices in our society there is nothing wrong in being woke.

The earth is evolving, we are in the information era, the age of Aquarius the era of social/political and environmental awareness and enlightenment.

Feminism is the best thing that has happened to women so grateful for the proto-feminists like Mary Wollstonecraft, Marie De France, Susan B. Anthony and many more

Your memories will forever live on.

And it will crash just like how Trump university and the Trump foundation died natural deaths and went bankrupt.

What happened to right wing sites like Gettr and Parler no ones care and twitter didn't lose anything when they permanently banned agent orange as many predicted.

seunsiju:
go sit down jur,......If u no get better talk

Better kneel down and pray to God for sense to guide you so that you can think things through before acting on them and giving woman belle.

posty56:
irresponsible bast*Rd, your mama send you to school to go aquire knowledge, instead you go school go the distribute preek, if you know what's good for you better drop out go find work cause you are just wasting your parents resources,. see as you dey talk baby mama with pride

Waste of school fees.

Kobojunkie:
More advice ke?

All these babymama's wey no even open eye at all. With two baby mama's, this boy should be working in some factory somewhere to make money to pay for the welfare of his kids abeg! See as him still dey talk of ASUU and his parents accommodating another babymama... what nonsense.

That is how you know someone with no ambition but prrikk they will be doing adult things forgetting that it comes with adult responsibilities.

seunsiju:
I guess her best friend link the news to her mother, then they come over to my place to confirm if i was responsible for the pregnancy, in which i said Yes and both my parent and her parent have met, and her parent is against the idea of abortion, cos it make take her life...
Bro, am in big depression., My parent said he should be staying wit me at school cos they cant accomodate another babymama, but i cant host her cos i will lose focus on my studies..my other babymama is already in sad and confused state,cos i alreadadvicey promised her marriage after am done in schoOl...
Am so confused, THANKS to ASUU STRIKE, at least i can focus on the issue on ground.....
Thanks for all the advice on my former post that reach front page.....
More advise needed, Should she stay with me or i should rent an apartment for her

You are an undergraduate likely with no stable source of income but you enjoy going in raw and have succeeded in impregnating two women who are the low-class clowns engaging with men like you?

You promised your first baby mama marriage you still had the guts to cheat on her and give another woman belle Nawa.

I don't have any advice for you because your type will not learn and take it my advice is for the ladies because my gender is embarrassing me that was how I kept seeing post of ladies fighting one another on valentines day because of prrikk.

Ladies you must not date every available prrikk you see have some class and know what you sleep with.

If the guy cannot use protection protect yourself because in this part of the world which is not friendly to women you are left to suffer the consequences if you must have unprotected sex with a guy let it be with who can marry you on the go and not one with a baby mama or no future ambition.

Girls use your head everything must not be about money.

earthsync:
June 12

UNIBEN

leye4u:
The vaccine propaganda has done alot of damage to your thinking pattern.

To be sincere...what you are saying isn't logical, you are just pouring out the Covid 19 narrative that we all hear in the news media.

What you are saying isn't new we all hear the same from Dr Fauci....lol

Stop listening to CNN and the likes , those guys are wicked and dont mean well for you.

May the Lord be with you .Amen

Please keep quiet you don't know anything neither are you an expert in the field.
If you know what logic is you would not be saying this rubbish and you are the one listening to propaganda.

lexy2014:
[s]et cases of children contracting the virus is very very low& insignificant. Despite your attempt to hype the situation out of proportion, 5year olds aren't the ones wearing nose masks. It's the people who have been "fully vaccinated" that are wearing nose masks. How does that show that d vaccine is effective[/s]?

Stop quoting me I am not interested in discussing with you

DoggoneDogg:
[s][/s]

Auntie Mumu, can a polio vaccine recipient contract polio??

Uncle mumu are we talking about polio or corona uncle mum, is polio the same as corona?

Lightorder:
I am still undefiled the way God created me. Unjabbed

Yeah, because you were never immunized as a child before and was never given injections and drugs

DoggoneDogg:
[s][/s]


[s]A vaccine is not a drug that may or may not be 100% effective. A vaccine protects against a disease 100%. When you get a polio vaccine, you can NEVER get polio.

Go back to school illiterate[/s].

Shut up is covid the same thing as polio you dummy does the vaccine provide anti bodies yes or no?

potent5:
You mean the compromised experts and epidemio..whatever that couldn't conduct ordinary safety tests before injecting you with the vaccine? You de even mention Google. Sorry o.

Did the vaccine not go through clinical trials is that not a safety test already? And I should listen to you because you are not compromised and you know what you are saying right?

justosee:
I took a vaccine for polio, yellow fever, chickenpox, measles and the rest as a kid, and I was protected from getting those diseases. Why should the Covid19 vaccine be different?

Have you thought go reason that maybe because it is a novel virus still subjected do study and new discoveries and the fact that none of these you mentioned was a pandemic that caused a public health emergency which crippled world economies to the extent that a lot of money was invested towards research to get a vaccine that will still be effective towards the virus to reduce its severity and deaths.

What data? Same data that came from those pushing vaccines?

You that did not produce the vaccine and you are not a specialist or epidemiologist what valid reason do you have to compel me to not believe the experts but rather believe you?

I ask again, why is the virus not ravaging countries with low vaccination rates?
As a football fan, I have observed the rise in cases of heart issues among players and fans during games since they started forcing the vaccine on us.

South Africa has a low vaccination rate and it is ravaging them at a time,most countries with low vaccination rates have a messed up health care system and don't even give a hoot as to what happens to their populace because they are mostly poor and lack simple basic amenities.They don't even have money to procure the vaccines and they are mainly African countries relying on foreign donations as usual that they waited for Bill Gates and WHO to donate vaccines for polio.

You observed nonsense that is not backed up with any data or empirical facts but just seems to be happening in your head.

Boniwhite:
Shut up!

Your mouth