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Iamafinegirl:
Did you tell them that when we are talking
“You are not serious is a big INSULT for you”
Did u tell then that when u say I like trump and I say “me I hater trump because of this and that” it is already an offense and you admitted to you having issues with me airing opinions because you are boss or what I don’t know?
Did you tell them a simple conversation or difference in opinion even on a gist is an insult to you?

Did you tell them I think of quality and wen a frying pan was needed I was saying the new expensive ones sef are not good, they burn. Second new is better in this case and we got a second new one? Because it’s not necessarily about cost but most times you won’t even be able to understand the depth of what I suggest sometimes.

Did you tell them I explained something one day that I paid money to so and so person to avoid a problem and you tried to give me another solution to have taken and I was like “me I don’t want wahala oo thats why I did what I did@ and because everything is fight and arguement for you you had stood up stormed out of the house because you felt i said I don’t want your wahala etc when all I was saying is that I didn’t want wahala if d issue boomeranged and so I didn’t even look for other means I just did d surest method in question” did u settle down to listen or because you never patient and always ready to call everything an argument or fight you had kickstarted your nature?

Did you tell them you wanted a car and I said this car is too expensive tell someone who we know imports to bring for you although the person could delay and may change the car you agreed on but I said do a written agreement with him so it would be cheaper for you and that way he won’t do anything funny ? And you would spend less and get a better grade or level like the one I got instead of paying for something lower at the same price as the one you paid for in town. Out of love, did you not turn it to fight and say I am wicked, and louded the issue and dramatised it as being evil.
Did you tell them you lied to me that you don’t drink or smoke?
But you drink and lied from foundation of a relationship to win a girl?
When I realised out of anger I said you lied to me you don’t drink but you are a drunkard.
Did your remember saying my father who doesn’t drink at all and you know fully is the drunkard
You have called me demonic woman
You have called me stupid woman
You have called me very stupid woman
The list is endless but if we discussing and you don’t understand what I am saying and I am frustrated talking and I say “you no dey understand English” you just flare up that that is a big insult.
Things that aren’t insults you made them insults to defend yourself.
Did you tell them the most times we went to Shoprite then I use to be the one buying things...and you usually pick nothing. So why should Shoprite be so expensive if I buy water “nestle water” and other things from there even before we ever dated and you used to follow me there to win me and I never asked you to pay for me or use you as a toaster?

Did you tell them that you are building and I am also building? And the months you spent all your salary not even on the building alone oo. Busy dashing people and at 3rd of the month you were broke and I was like how would we handle the house you said I am there and I held those months because that’s what a good woman would do.

Did you tell dem that wen you arrived at the counsellor we told them we had a 60k and 40k rule as at then but we just weren’t piling it in the same account and the pastor said ok we should do it as a joint account so no one would feel he is bringing all the money” and we stop spending differently. you told them it’s the pastor who proposed it or he told us that ok you people should just put the money in a seperate account and the wife asked what else is making you angry and you said contributions for repair should be added”.

Did you tell them that when your drivers license expired and there was a delay with joint account , you said you would keep some part of the contribution for where you stay but I must submit all my own contribution to your younger sisters account while you submit just some to her because you don’t trust me with money. The younger sister would now be the one dishing out the feeding money to me who is the one working? While you comfortably keep part of your contribution as a boss. Did you tell them I said you should give her all if i would also have to submit my own all to her since she is the chosen financial manager of our own institution so she can be dishing out money to both of us as at when due since distance is not a barrier to bank transfer so I would also monitor u because you don’t trust me with money and you want to monitor what I am eating when u aren’t even there with me.

Did you tell them you don’t live according to your means and you always borrowing and financing a lifestyle heavier than you inclusive of feeding (because you eat 70-80%) of all the food in the house? Did you tell them you have collected above 14 million naira loan and you haven’t completed any house you are building aside still having normal money people have used to complete their own houses.

Did you tell them you give them babes money and say send me your account number Cus I have seen it but to buy Apple extra for me out of a budget as per my love this one na for u from my pocket? Did you tell then as we came back from your location you had meeting with your babe asking if hostel has resumed and all by 6pm same day?

Did u tell them that I had been using clin-cap face cream, benzoxide peroxide face cream, and you have been using it with me and I have never said this cream is 2000 and the other is 1000 let’s contribute from budget but you bought olaybact for me 400 naira and you were balancing account for me?

Did you tell them I did a soap mix of 13000 naira to 15,000 naira and you have been lovingly using it With me since January and I have never in my life said your contribution for soap but you won’t even do it, if you did sef you would have been asking for money by now.

Did you tell them that even to buy apple while taking me to were you lived loveingly as per this is my new location has to be from the budget and that you couldn’t say babes aside this budget this for you?
Did you tell them I also contributed for the fuel as you were taking me lovingly to your new location? Location you dey go dey come yourself but as I go follow u go know d place I must pay for transport. I for kukuma just enter public transport. But I don’t even have a problem with that since that’s what he wanted. We just accounted for my path

Did you tell them...that I am not wasteful and you went ahead to do things you wanted to do and started blaming me for it. Like buying a new tv when your mum was around for them...knowing fully well I hardly look at a television and you did it for you and yours?
Did you tell them this girl who doesn’t contribute lovingly gives your sis money and also give your mum at least in the best way I can afford within my means but you no send me message so that’s my business you are not even seeing it. Na me send myself?
When last did you buy me a gift in a year and half? It was a wig when you were still trying to toast me. That was only when you were trying to win my heart.
Did you tell them you don’t do anything for me I don’t ask you for money for cloth, hair etc or my own fuel as I am a responsible adult and not a burden on a man which you know yourself. Did you let them know that the food you eat 70% of and the house repair you would do definitely if I am there or not is what you would always come and stand on my head for when we weren’t yet contributing in a joint account. Did you tell them you don’t take care of me and you are just so self centered about the feeding part because you eat more of the food? Yet I was still buying food oo no be say I go out and don’t bring anything to the house. I still buy meat, tomatoes, onion etc but maybe not just up to the person who consumes the 80%

Did u tell them d day you took me out and water was bought which was like two years ago was a special day I think maybe Valentine or my birthday or something and “I was only asking to be treated special”. As per today na correct day, spoil me na.
Did you tell them that I spoke of u buying some thing like blender or electronic because you need quality one to last. The cheap juicer bought did it last? No
Was there not finally a decision where the expensive “binatone” blender was picked because for some things, quality is important so it lasts?
Did you tell them I met condoms in your other room and you alleged it’s your boss that came to your house to use it? Because you couldn’t tell him no?
Did you tell them that if I want to do something you would use my car and if you want to do something you would use my car and I said love should cover all this there should be no differentiating of car for activities and you can use mine when you want and viceversal?

The day he said I said drug was too expensive did he tell you he spent all his income that month already by 3rd or so due to poor planning and I used my income all for the month for food. Ofcourse I am sure he borrowed as usual for fuel for his car that month and maybe some extra things like suya etc you may want to eat and that’s why I couldn’t afford to buy that cream or is it even tablet I desperately needed quality type of drug to treat that ailment because it use to be stubborn when it comes but couldn’t afford it that month ?

In addition I forgot. The generator I would tell you to put on when wet had a generator house while some or most Nigerians just make a metal cover or so for their generator. So rain fell and the splash I could look wasn’t much and I would say it’s not like water entered this thing in its house like Dt just few splash on surface. I owned a generator I ran without it having issue before meeting you and while you where toasting me. I didn’t know I am unqualified to run a gen. I stopped touching your gen because it was complain upon complain or I am arguing with you by having a different opinion about ah it’s small splashes. Ofcourse if a gen was drenched would I with my full senses say lets put it on? When Nigerians keep their gen outside with normal cover.

You would go out and meet the true definition of a Nigerian woman. Take care of her is what a man does, send her money for hair, dress, clothes etc.
And still buy food n do stuff.
You would remember I was never a burden on u
I hope you would have love enough for her to cover taking care of her abi u would start complaining and shouting on her too. I just hope you don’t faint then.

On the other hand I Wld meet the true definition of Nigerian man who knows he is to care. Simple

please let him go, he is not the one. this bros no follow 14million in loans already

we have a lot of dump people in this part of the world

the church and the donor are mad.

reasons why you need to double date when you're not yet married. how can a girl be telling you another guy who is richer than you is asking her out, tell her she can go with the guy if she want him. women and fish brain, if care is not taking one of her friend is advising her. lol

buy otapiapia or any anti cockroache insecticide. no cockroach be that, I have experience it once until I became enemy of cockroaches I no longer see them. pour water on the scratches you will feel pains that's is to show you it's cockroaches

Lion26:
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Lion26:
Wetin

how to use facebook without them blocking it

bro drop it here

Toto done kill my guy. lol

they should learn to be civilised. Rent an apartment in a community. pay nepa bills and useful to the community not building a mould house in bush and causing problem to the community. this Fulani people are mostly drug addict. They're primitive tribe refuse to accept recent developments and try to force other people to accept rubbish from them

BestAccessories:
Merry Christmas.

I could have easily finish you for not fully using your brain but today na Bro J birthday and I no wan abuse people on his birthday.

Like you said, let everybody respect each other. Which is why when a woman is arguing with you, you don't slap or beat her. You simply walk away. Yes, she expect you to beat her and come shout to the whole world that he beat me but why not disappoint her and make her regrets her actions.

I am not saying you should tolerate abuse, violent or allow any women beat you because you love or like her, My message is simple and clear, DON'T BE THE ABUSER. DON'T BE THE FIRST TO SLAP OR BEAT A WOMAN because she argue with you or disagree with you.

I hope my message is clear to you. If not, PLEASE READ IT SLOWLY to understand.

Thanks

I don't have strength to argue with you, if you as a woman refuse to respect and control yourself you will surely collect na my own be that.

RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.


You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.


YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.

I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.

There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.

Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.


7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.


Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.


Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money




Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.


You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.



There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.


It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful.

what are you even saying. he don't deserve his privacy or what. lol what's really your problem with the way people choose to live. if na me them go, go first until they tell they're coming. you think it's easy to make money and feed your family come be external and unplanned visitors

BestAccessories:
You both (Valenciabaddie & Lovethaa) are immature and weak.

You both need to grow up and have sense.

When both of you started dating, you make it a private affairs now you have small issue the general public need to settle or advise you both. YOU NEED HELP.

Aunt Valenciabaddie, Your boyfriend is jobless and he his spending lavishly on you. If you have sense or use your brain very well, are you not supposed to ask question? Are you evening suppose to collect money from a jobless man. You collect mobile phone and cash as gift from him and you didn't question the source. YOU NEED HELP and need to go make something out of your life.

Brother Lovethaa, Chief SIMP, woman beater, bad temperamental somebody. You need to be ashamed of yourself "Yes I smashed your phone because Its from my ritual money ..very annoying" What kind of a wimp are you? if it was your sister a guy beat like that will you be happy or be praising him for beating your sister. Why will you even beat a woman you are dating, you are not even married yet and you are already a woman beater. What type of a man are you? Why are you so weak and clueless. Why will you loss your temperament and beat a woman you once claimed you loved. MEN, you need help and learn how to control your anger problem.

Instead of using the little you had to better your life, you are busy looking for a liability. How do a liability want to manage another liability without becoming a calamity. Even, as your ex-liability claimed, your parent are rich, if your parent are lazy like you will you be enjoying the benefits you have today. If they didn't build the legacy, will you be living happily today.

Oga please go make something of yourself and make your parent proud instead of been a burden to them.

Please also stop chasing or dating jobless immature women who can't afford a lifestyle but want to live it and seriously speaking, you need to work on your anger Man.

NEVER EVER BEAT A WOMAN. WHETHER YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR YOUR WIFE. DON'T EVER DO THAT AGAIN. IT MAKES YOU A WEAK MAN.

shut the Bleep up with that rubbish statement never beat a woman. Let everybody respect each other. if you disrespect me I disrespect you. no two ways about it

banging in university is nothing. just be a gamer with small money. na you go run. natural I no too get strength for girls

CANDYDADDY:
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Hey bro or sis

This is Nigeria, we don't have unlimited data you have there to watch your video

stop being a broke ass. even though u no get data leave am at night you use midnight 250mb at the rate of 25naira to watch am. support this guy hustle. no Dee fall your hand for public. lol

no need for the money, we want the female dpo to be prosecuted. money can't bring him back

I remembered my girlfriend checking my phone and what she saw. my male friend was asking of her I told him we have broken up that I don't need her again that I have bleeped her. mumu me forgot to delete the stuff after like three month we make up again and she was using my phone to watch movie I went to get something, she checked my watsap and saw the text broke up with me again. lol. but we settle the stuff shaaa. I remembered one of my bestie and how she was bragging for me that she can't straff one guy lol. I was really surprised when I checked her watsap and the boy was telling her he missed fucking her.lol but later she willingly told me about it without me asking her. that lady was my best sex mate. love is different from sex.

quote the law for them. most this Fulani fishing out threat don't even know law. mofos

time is coming when men will accept defeat and face death one on one. that day men go stripe on with better tools face any mother fucker government officials face to face till death. attack senate house or government house after all life means nothing in this part of the world. we go carry tools face them one day. na once everybody go die. since they refused to get sense. I think I'm ready for that

female gender are naturally complicated. them themselves are confused. marry for the sake of kids. love doesn't exist in this part of the world it's just all about manipulations

I no come this life to suffer I must follow politician Hanty trying to hook up with a politician. lol Na her side hustle be this. Moreover I have huge respect for her due to her present in the protest

when you make yourself look expensive with fake life, boom life set in you start looking for someone husband that will sponsor the fake shit. lol hanty look for your own husband and build it idiot looking for where you didn't sow to reap.

this is the reason Trump and China don't want muslims in their countries. bunch of mofos that has no human empathy. Animals in human skin. if I reach my village and see any muslim I will kill the person

Fero24:
Sorry bross.. Do you by chance bear the name jeff?

no bro

personally to me I can't date any girl called amaka. they're naturally stupid

lol. I think I have been in such relationship before, where I told a girl how I love her she keeps telling me she has a boyfriend. I decided to move on, later she gave me kpekus and still kept her boyfriend. truth be told I love that girl have to accept being number 2 guy. untill she refuse giving me the stuff again recently, I have no option to let go. life of a man doesn't depends on kpekus. lol life no balance at all hustle hard and let all this unserious girls go

mumu post. lol those that witness the mansacar went for the revenge. it a mistake to of the light at first secondly soldiers has no right to shot close to peaceful protesters. They started the war, youth gave them the war.

you're not the only one so shut up mugu. I lost my 2milion naira invest due to buhari policies. right now I'm left with 5k I don't even know where to start from. man up n believe

AlexBells:
Forget about who is doing well, he is not the worst, all I'm saying is if this get more intense, sooner or later Yorubas will wish they stood by him

nothing is going out of hand, this is just a slap on the cheek to reset all their brain. He should use his power to treat people right. imagine the oppression people face from him everyday from agboro to mama oja to thugs collecting money from poor citizens that just want to survive imagine tinubu daughter determining how a market is being run by imposing tax on innocent traders, see what oluomo is doing to traders in oshodi imposing unnecessary tax. Have ever being in oshodi before and how youth of yorubas doing anyhow job just to eat does things does not matter to them, it's all about selfish interest to soldiers shooting at the middle of the night why they not shot in the morning, Let him take this as a warning that youth are not smiling we want a better country. Yes tinubu has foresight. He saw what buhari will turn this country to when he single handedly hand power to him and he went ahead to convince people to support buhari. Let him use his power right. he's an important member of this nation. And we have huge respect for him. let him learn his lesson from this one. And treat the citizens right. this Fulani has only power but they don't know how to run an even small organization without using force talkless a country. lol they have no mercy for other tribes. all they care is them themselves. death to the oppressors. #Endsar, End bad government, End godfatherism

mumu post. we want a better Nigeria. it was all a planned game. Let's call a spade a spade is tinubu really doing well in Lagos. where we have mass poverty, daily oppression by his thugs. This just a warning for him to stand right and treat the south properly we know what we deserve and we are asking for it. their no way military can enter lagos without tinubu not being aware of it. it's good for innocent citizens to die.