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1. Don't try to change or control your spouse.

2. Make her feel appreciated.

3. Above everything else, take care of yourself and be happy. Smile often, especially first thing in the morning. Laugh at her jokes. Make her laugh. Enjoy your life together.

well, my friend, if most of the women you encounter are prostitutes, then perhaps you're living in the wrong part of town!

who cares if he has a car or not? You people talk as if a man with no car is worthless.

It depends on the age. Children start remembering things around 4 or 5 years old. So I would cover up by then. Bathing with a 2 or 3 year old child won't scar them.

Remember that he's being on his best behavior because the relationship is new and he's trying to impress you.

You can't change him and it will most likely only get worse with time.

It is educational for children to know what the human body looks like. These things should be discussed with children. "Look, you have a penis and mama doesn't. That's because mama is a girl and you are a boy." Simple, yet very important.

Of course, it should be age appropriate.

It is healthy for children to see their parents' bodies. No reason to treat our bodies as shameful or dirty.

ebba with okra soup and goat or oxtail stew.

, It's what we had for supper, Makes me so blissful!

I cannot be a housewife. It's too much work for me! Stronger women can handle it but me? -no!

Here in Canada, women get 1 year off of work (paid) to care for the children. At the end of the year, I was so tired. Returning to work was a relief.

In our country, it is also common for fathers to take several months away from work to help with newborn babies. My male workmates who opted to stay home ALL said the same thing: "Ah, it's so nice and relaxing to be back at work!"

My husband stayed home with our daughter for a week. Then he came to me and said, "Having children is SO much work. It's rewarding but too much work. I don't think we can have 6 kids afterall. I'm done." hehe, after a week!

No, I'd much rather have a career. It's so much less work and you actually get appreciation.

anyone else care to add?

I really appreciate everyone's responses. very insightful!

MallamMusa:
Who is actually stupid, the woman that insults another woman she knows nothing about, who said nothing about her or mallam musa that is happy with himself and engrossed with his wealth? be the judge.

I vote the latter.

Thank you, Mallam, for amusing us all tonight. You are too much of a joke!

They say women who marry for money earn every penny.

so which one are you losing? sicky or preggo?

Make pancake mix, then drop spoonfuls of it in hot oil. When brown, roll in icing sugar.

mmm,

I love Garnier. The only products I will use on my face.

arles35, please be careful.

You might be in love with the idea of this man but the truth is that you do not truly know him.

full depth:
u don't call it cheating, we only call it that when caught in the act .
We call it simple comparism . VARIETY is the spice of life. u can't continue to live on one kind of food alone,u'll die or become malnourished, something else should be sampled or tried .

Would it be ok for your wife to sample as well?