₦airaland Forum

omogidi234:
You don't have to change the property to his name. The property is already his when you are married under the law (Marriage Act). To the issue of whether you will tell him or not, one of the challenges we have in this generation is that we use less grievous words for bad things to make it less frightening. e.g Adultery, we say it is extra-marital affair. Adultery sound frightening, while EMA sounds cool. The truth is when you are married to someone and you have something that you are not telling him/her either by omission or commission, the appropriate word is DECEIT. It is one of the factors that scatter marriage like fast. If you can by omission not tell him/her about your property, then you can do same if you had a child before marriage.

MRBrownJ:
i guess if thats what you believe, BUT let us reverse the case for a minute..... and imagine that your husband had a kid before marriage, and since he didnt talk about it or let you know, you wouldnt know that the child existed. wouldnt you think that this is dishonesty?!

pcguru1:
Well that is technically lying by omission.

MRBrownJ:
you are right but you also shouldnt HIDE anything from your partner... starting marriage life with dishonesty will only lead to failure.

peeparty:
Amokeme has come again. You know go tell your husband say you get property

MRBrownJ:
what kind of nonsense is this?! change the name for what?!?!? is he gonna put her name on all HIS possession?!

whatever they buy, from the day of marriage and forth, should have both their name, UNLESS there is a clear difference of opinion in the union as to how they should spend their money (aka if she spends all her money on shoes and bs, while he spends all HIS on building a house.



as much as what the husband demands is wrong, hiding such fact from her husband is WORST!

queenstl:
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The guy sent me his message to share. Read below…

My name is Akinmuda Oluwafemi, presently a 500level medical student of the college of Medicine, university of lagos. October 19 2007, at the age of 15, I alongside Mercy Richards, Yetunde Brown and Henry Akahara represented Nigeria at the House of Commons, London to participate in the world slavery youth debate. We returned back to Nigeria with Gold medals.
An Evidence of good performance and representation of the federal republic of Nigeria. Only Henry Akahara was granted scholarship by the lagos state government under the administration of Governor Raji fashola to study in the UK… he claimed to have been the only one that went for the debate and won the medal and the lagos state government without making further investigations granted him. I remember, the director of the British council called a meeting with we all and our parents to be quiet that in due time we would be called. Till now, nothing. I’m just reminiscing, next year I would be a doctor, do I want to serve this country?Does this country have anything to offer?
Even when you go the extra mile to represent and honour this country at different levels and you still are not appreciated, I ask myself is it worth it being a Nigerian? On second thoughts however, is it just the PDP government that was so selfish and corrupt and won’t recognise an award for excellence from the highest level “The Queen of England Herself” courtesy LORD John Prescott? Is it worth is being a Nigerian Google “kemishia Kelly” she was a participant, ever since recognised by Jamaica as a participant. Even wikipedia recognises her. All other people that participated in the debate today are recognised for their excellence and hold strong posts in their various countries.
And here I am, just reminiscing. I just want all Nigerians to read this, and think of it over and over…. So in all I just want this to go public, and let all Nigerians feel my pain, and lookout for this APC administration. Would they prove me wrong about my feeling as a Nigerian? Do they appreciate excellence?? Time would tell…

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Source: http://examhall.net/home/the-queen-of-england-recognised-my-performance-but-nigeria-did-not-young-nigerian-laments/

SaintHephzibah:
yea but she looks more younger than the lady i'm seeing in ur profile pics

akinjosh:
I'll rather ask you out that allow you spend 14 years ...
#beautifulandintelligent

peeparty:
Lukayo I know of one that does.

peeparty:
Some enjoy it .

FlirtyKaren:
lalasticlala

Laila is 31 years old, a full time blogger, full time banker and a full time wife and mum to these boys!

obiorathesubtle:
Your mother's friend? She's supposed to be retired yea?



She probably gave you that money with all her heart and you think it's an insult?? Judge yourself!

Hideme:
I've completed it.

Youngpo413:
K

zaragal:
Wen I saw a "f" on dat moniker I started crying , would hav asked u out

KingEbukasBlog:
A man would be proud to have you as his wife

JudgementHammer:
Op asking someone out means

-ure ready to spend for [b][b]that[/b][/b] person cus d person was on his/her own jeje b4 u asked him/her out

-ure ready to take d blame and bear the pain if the person misbehaves and walks out of the relationship. Afterall he/she didn't ask for it, u did

And these are the least things a woman's nature can bear so its better she stays on her own and show appreciation when the man comes for her

wristbangle:
I totally agree with u OP. However I feel there may be conflict atimes when the husband will feel that his wife is not sub missive enough and also the may stylishly shed some of the heavy weight financial side for his wife.

Sweetdreams

rexkexmilan:
OP, Be frank with Yourself... If a Girl approaches you "First" and Start teliing you Funny Stuffs, How will you feel? How will you assess the Girl?

dake40:
Not everybody is born with a Spoon let alone a sliver one!.......I guess you are from a wealthy background!.. That's good but remember some students went through hell to get their fees paid!............

Your comment distressed me into quoting u!....