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Kaffy tho

Please does anyone know when it will be released? The date I mean.

heheheh we ladies can fear sha! Lol

LionBaba:
It's the rave of the moment, feminism that is.

Where abi what is the feminism in this her post now?

Cordis92:
Don't worry Davido, since you have decided to turn our women into babymamas, your daughter MUST be a babymama.

Cute pictures though

Did he rape them?

Toks2008:
Lol!...you are not catching the drift....too bad...

Ok then...
Would have loved to hear it tho.

Toks2008:
I will only gist you if you are above 26 and single.

Am not above 26
Age is now a barrier for gist

But really after 4years... got me thinking, what does she really want?

Toks2008:
Thank God you did not waste 13years with one as I did.

13 years
I'm curious

scooby12:
You have been talking for almost a year. I read your diary about this same chick too. Saw the thread you created to post her pictures with boyfriend. The only thing I got from your story then was, this chick doesn't want you. I even saw on a thread that you got arrested for stalking her.
This shít is just weird bro. I mean, I don't even know.

If it makes you feel better to keep talking about her, then go on alaye.

Nothing do you.

he won't admit anything you say,I feel he still likes her, but he is pained because she is probably happy and he can't do anything about it.
His lashing out about the issue is his grieving style

gokuu:
So many dumb and sexist comments.
Nigerian men (including broke ones) always believe women want their money (even when they don't have any).

If you don't know any independent women, it's a function of your environment.

The bold is just perfect!!!! And family too. but they will ignore that. I don't have weak or dumb minded friends, and sometimes when I read some things here on NL, I wonder if I'm really sharing same planet with this people.
But then, some came from really messed up families.. and they just continue with the frustration,

TheSlyone2:
Do you seriously wanna do this? Are you aware of the vital role money plays in today's marriages? Do you know how many marriages have broken up as a result of the man not being able to fend for his family??

Now, as a man, you won't expect me to venture into marriage without having a stable income. Even the society at large will ridicule you if such happens...

Now, from your words, true love trumps money and material things... Are you serious right now?
How many marriages are built entirely on true love?

You seem like a lover gurl. Do I've got one question for you.. Can you marry a broke ass in the name of love?

Nobody is ignoring the vital role money plays in a relationship or marriage.. and I don't have a problem admitting it's importance either.
But when you make it one sided?, then that I have a problem with.

Why should a man or a WOMAN go into a relationship or marriage without a stable income to start with?!.
People like you or who share same mentality as you, are the problems of the society tho in bits.
You preach "men work hard and you will get any girl of your dreams( and definitely you will get the bees and you wonder how stupid women are, ignoring your faulty mentality too)
But how about you preach "Everybody should work hard to get the spouse that they are compatible with financially"? Or is this a problem to preach or talk about? Do you get my point now?.

And to answer your question, oh yes, I can date a broke guy but can't get married to one. You know why? Because by the time we will be getting married his status would have changed positively.

TheSlyone2:
Actually, when you make the money as a man, you have varieties of girls to choose from... You ll be your own boss and making decision wouldn't be an issue for at all

With the bold, I take it that money is the ONLY thing you can bring to the table then?
A reasonable woman won't date your kind for anything. So yeah, you only have the bee girls you talked about to choose from

TheSlyone2:
Make the money and see girls flock around you like bees...


Money over Bitches

Yeah you are correct. You see those "girls" that will be flocking around you like bees.. are exactly the kind you definitely deserve with this mentality. So it is a win win situation.

What if she didn't want to mingle for those 3years? Or she had other things like businesses she was focused on? Some people have better things or priorities than sex or dating.
Is just sad that most people's thought are just one way..
And even if another guy was dating her and all... how about the guy? Was he alone for the 3years?
Oh sorry, I forgot, there is always a problem with "the Nigerian woman" but the men are always saints

tosyne2much:
DonJazzy, enough of this childishness as this doesn't suit your age anymore. This is what your younger ones should be doing, not you. Build a family and stop flaunting someone you aren't married to, on social media. You will earn more respect when you flaunt your wife (not baby mama) or child on social media than this

I don't know if my comment makes any sense

Is not everybody's choice to build a family naw or get married, as long as the life he is living is working for him, then he is good.

God bless him

37m please how much is one jamb form really?
Misplaced priorities! All this are just Avenue to embezzle funds

Scream:
Why should I be surprised?! These days that women marry wives... I'm surprised that they haven't started impregnating themselves.

And men don't marry "husbands" ?

Nice
Anyways, for anyone in category 2,(irrespective of the gender) please stay away from relationships and actualize your vision/plan, and allow it yield to a satisfactory level before you mingle

Riyikebaby:
The pictures are on fleet, I think I saw one for them holding itel S31

Thank you

Congratulations girl!
It's definitely not how fast but how well.

Congratulations girl!
It's definitely not how fast but how well.

adabekee12:
Beating(physical) is not the only form of abuse, there is financial and mental abuse also.

Financial abuse?? Please can you enlightened me on this, never heard of it before

Some women live for "what will people say" and die in that abusive marriage!
Lost a close family friend to this because of the "protecting my marriage/ making it work and for the sake of my children" crap! She was and always has been soft to a fault. She wouldn't talk about it, we will just be seeing different marks everyday. Her family told her not ro leave that he will change as time goes on and for the sake of her children.
Now when she died, the same useless people asking her to stay were still the same people murmuring about why she didnt leave. insulting her during the wake keeping Mtcheeew.
Live your life the way you want it, not the way society expect you to. Because truth is nobody cares! They are just bored and want to entertain themselves with your life that's all!

Chelseafan1:
Amokeme, another pretty soul.

Awww thank you

Jhamzy:
I bliv you to an extent. I even prefer starting up from friendship before going into serious relationship. But that solo struggle is not applicable in all situation because sometimes on your path of challenge, you might just find your God's sent spouse who is compatible with you.

Must it be a spouse? Can't it be a friend or even a stranger? The help mustn't come from a boyfriend or husband naw. That's what I'm saying

Toks2008:
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You either forget having any commited affair with any lady if you are not financially buoyant
enough to spice up that romance or risk losing that lady to a dude who is more loaded but if the lady is nice enough...she just might decide to still be with you while dating another guy to get enough money to take care of you and herself.

I think the bold should apply to ladies too. I mean, you will definitely need to spend money at one point or another in a relationship. So why go into a relationship when you can't even take care of yourself alone first? I know some people will be like "it doesn't have to involve money and all that" but trust me, it is not true. You will still spend money. The calls you make to each other, the data you use in chatting all the visits... they involve money not stones.

I am of the opinion that if you are not financially stable to an extent, you have absolutely NO business being in a relationship/dating or even married.
And this applies to both men and women!

I don't like it when write ups like this drag the whole gender through the mud because of some few bad eggs.
And my advise to the guys always complaining about women leaving them because of their financial status is this; struggle to be financially balanced to an extent before you think about being in a relationship or getting married. After the struggle, find a lady at the same financial range or level as you, then you can start a relationship! Same applies to the women!
And yes LOVE is never and will never be enough, compatibility is KEY. Friendship and respect are also important factors in a relationship. And that's why I don't see anything wrong with same-category relationships/marriage. Things are easier that way.

Relationship shouldn't be a poverty elevation program, we have friends and family for that. I'm a firm believer of solo struggle.

Happy international women's day to all the real women out there!
Happy international women's day to the women who live a drama free life!
Happy international women's day to the women who support other women's success rather than pulling it down!
Happy international women's day to those women who are broken inside but still manage to wear a glamorous smile!
Happy international women's day to all the women hustling legitimately just so they don't depend on any man for anything!
Happy international women's day to women who have made God the center of their life and not a man!
Happy international women's day to all the single mothers playing both roles..
****note*** A single mother and a baby mama are not the same thing, just so we are clear,
Happy international women's day to women who fall on their kneels to pray for the success of the men in their lives!
Not every woman is a WOMAN.
anybody can be a woman either by birth or surgery.
But it takes discipline to be a REAL WOMAN!
A real woman can stand perfectly still and manage to get things done..
A real woman can influence rather than provoke..
A real woman can inspire rather than challenge..
A real woman can affect a nation from her home..
A real woman draws strength from troubles, smiles during distress and grows strong with prayers!
Be a REAL WOMAN AND NOT A SYNTHETIC ONE

Cc seun lalastisca Mynd44

Wish I can adopt an older brother or sister

adem30:
This man should take things easy. This was the same way Buhari over stressed himself.

[b]Nigerians are ingrate, they will soon come for his hea[/b]d

We are just hostile not necessarily ingrates