menix:
Mum would certainly find out but it might b late if u dont tell her.

Telling her wuld certainly destroy d home, y not tell an elderly one close to mum nd see if it would be ideal disclosing it to mum since dey know beta abt ur family.

Yoruba men nd having secret family is something i dont understand....

There is nothing Yoruba about her father's life style. This happens everywhere. There is a female friend of mine whose family is going through exactly this and the man is not a Yoruba man.

Let her tell her mum. The relationship has been destroyed about 20yrs ago. There is nothing much they can do now to amend. Please tell ur mum immediately.

obowunmi:

Obowunmi, come and share ur experience ohhhhh. The way u r laffing, im begining to suspect u ohhhhh

Ewuro4:
Hmmm
How bout their men?

You want to give it a try? If yes, then you will have to prepare body and soul together because you are going to experience something that you have never experienced in your entire life before. If you doubt me, ask people.

Masturbation:
Mehn.
Calabar girls are all sex goddess.
My near death experience was with a Calabar girl.
I lasted for 3 minutes on her because of the way she handled me.

Tell us more. How was it near death experience?

obowunmi:
Reason why my dad married my mom.

Hmmmmm. That is nice.

May your gentle soul rest in peace. We miss you.

5minsmadness:

Yeah, there's no way a guy would be with that girl and cheat. If it was the sexual thing she was the best ever. Also very homely and caring. But her pops was a JW and insisted she marry one too. I had to bow out.

So in your relationship with other tribes, what is your rating with reference to Calabar girls?

Please if your company is into the above subject matter, kindly drop your contact here, I will reach you for more details.

Thanks

5minsmadness:

Yes Sir. One of my intimate girlfriends was calabar. I used to have bouts of asthma after sex with her.

And I'm not asthmatic.

Lol. Imagine if you had ended up marrying her, what would have become of your life?

crackhaus:
Don't you people have spouses to spend today/tonight with instead of discussing marriage again for like 1,000,000th time on NL?

Crackhaus, u have come again?

5minsmadness:

The simple answer is YES. They are EXEMPLARY in bed.

Do u have personal experience with them?

I had a discussion few days ago with a lady. She was of the opinion that guys/ladies from Calabar are very good in bed. She even cited cases of her friends who had similar experience. I told her that it is not true.

My question here is that, is it true that they are exceptional good in relationship and in bed?

folabayo1:
because of an ordinary man? Na wa ooo

Did I hear u well. U said ordinary man. It seems to me that u dont know how valuable a man is. Maybe u need to ask the two of them

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Nneka123:
lol

All these silly men

you don enter today!, i pray your wife deals with you

Nnneka, what is wrong with you? Mind ur utterance.

SAMBARRY:
I'm not a marriage counsellor but bad is bad . that woman's aggressive behaviour is nonsense but some men sef are worthless. Maybe he will collect salary and instead of him to drop money for the people at home he will carry it to the beer parlour and be forming serve them round or be spending the money on office or pepper soup joint prostitutes

So coogar was just pulling ur legs. Anyway u have condemned the act. But despite the fact that women are aware that it is not good, why do they still engage in it?

Are there no other peaceful means of resolving the issue without 'clothe holding'? Or they think that by allowing the man to leave will make them appear stupid?

coogar:


sambarry will be the best person to answer this question. she's mediated more than 300 spousal fights in the last 3 years.

She must be a seasoned marriage councellor. Let me wait for her professional views.

coogar:


one havard report actually said 70% of the domestic violence are initiated by women. most men love to remove themselves from incessant noisemaking but troublesome wives would lock his shirt or stand in his way so they can continue to throw verbal abuses at him. they hurt more when men don't give them the attention they crave.

But why do women(some) behave this way. I would like to hear from married women why this behaviour.

coogar:


that's how they get physically abused and then scream blue murder after the deed is done. tell the husband to call her parents to come and collect their unruly daughter. the man should put his 2 hands in his pockets and wait.....

I'm still wondering why some women can cause so much trouble but pretend to be so innocent at the end of the day.

I am of the opinion that most stories about how some husbands beat their wives are actually caused by the wives.

In a situation where there is an issue between husband and wife and the husband wants to leave just to avoid more serious issues but the wife hold on to his clothe demanding that the man is not going anywhere.

What should be the husband reaction?

I sincerely want to know starting from primary school to higher institutions, that after graduation and the school issues one his/her certificate. Then for whatever reason such certificate is misplaced that one cannot find it again.

My question is that, can the school re-issue another certificate.

GreenWhiteGreen:





Weak and useless men will do that. Bush!it

Officer abeg, calm down. There are more than two colors

This onila of a girl always has a story to share about her family. This, maybe one of such.

iceberylin:


Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite

U must be one frustrated fellow.

I just love this man and his campaign strategies. I wish u more strength. But, if you win dont become a pain in our nect like what Johnathan has become.

danielmichael:
I am going through what is
a classic midlife crisis with
a bit of a twist. I’m in my
early 40s and have a great
wife and two great young
kids, all of whom I love
dearly. I’ve been with my
wife for over 20 years.
Everyone tells me how
lucky I am to have the
perfect marriage. But, of
course, I don’t feel so
lucky. Instead I feel
burdened, trapped by the
overwhelming obligations
of family and of keeping up
appearances. The way I’ve
tried to deal with these
feelings is by seeing
prostitutes.
About eight months ago, I
met and paid for the
woman of my dreams.
She’s beautiful, a sexual
dynamo, smart, funny and
sweet. She’s not a typical
prostitute; she’s more like
the girl next door who
wants to get paid for her
great looks and abundant
sexual talents.
I soon went from being her
client to being her friend
and confidant. Her
presence in my life does
two things for me. First I
get to feel those incredibly
strong emotions that I
haven’t felt in years about
my wife (lust and longing),
and more important, I feel
so free during the few
hours a month I get to see
her. Not only do we explore
sexual fantasies that would
be completely out of
bounds with my wife, but
more important, I can
completely relax around
her and joke around and
talk frankly, and not have
to worry about things like
who’s picking up whom
from school.
Of course, I know that this
whole thing is incredibly
stupid and immature, but I
can’t figure out how to
unring the bell and go back
to a life without this
woman. Do you think it
will be possible to not see
her and forget about the
pleasure, love and passion
that we had? I’ve tried for
a few weeks at a time, but
I’ve always felt the need to
see her again — the urge
for release, both literally
and metaphorically, was
too strong. I have a hard
time imagining life without
her, but at the same time,
she could never be a part
of my “real” life — I have
too much invested in my
marriage and family to
break it up.
So the question boils down
to this: How do I give up
sexual (and emotional)
nirvana for the sake of my
family?

It is always good not to start what you cannot finish. But since you have started, you have to put in the exact energy and resources you put in the first to get the second woman. If you fail to do it, you wont get the desired result that you're looking for.

You have a limited time to do this, because you have already sacrificed the future of your family in the altar of lust and selfishness.

The seemingly sexual gratification and all the pheripherals that you seem to enjoy will soon become a burning element in your marrow.

Note: One cannot and will never enjoy sex successfully outside his/her marriage

2undexy:
Almost all the Ekaetes i've met are related to servants or house maid fields (so to speak).

It is now so prevalent that all our Igbo/Calabar folks settled for the name Ekaete as their maid, don't know maybe they are servant inclined, (just saying though), and which is not suppose to be so.

What your take on this guyz.

And please, am not throwing jibes at anyone, and if incidentally or possbly your name is Ekate, i mean no harm..just 'facting' what's going on in our country for possible solutions.

I would have love to educate you on the subject matter, but I cannot due to my tight schedule.

We are all aware of the recent National Conference where billions of naira was spent, some delegates even died during the conference.

My question is, what has happened to the report?

tit:



jonathan might not be an angel,
but buhari is a demon!
do not invite demon into your life.

I believe that you are aware of the negative impacts of Johnathan system of government, but for selfish reasons you decided not to speak the truth. You must be a very wicked fellow. The evil that you support will one day align with you.

Speakdatruth:
n ds rubbish made frontpage?

Why are you this unhappy in your life?

Nigeria government has many institutions/agencies which police force is one of them.

I would like to know how this money is been accounted for since no receipt. I mean the money they charge for bailing an individual being arrested for either committing offense or not.

Road Safety which is one of government agencies directs those they charge for commiting offense to pay their fine through bank which I believe to some extent can be accounted for. But with police, I dont think such practice is observed.

I just mentioned Road Safety, there are other government agencies that direct those that have financial transaction with them to carry out such through designated banks.

If police has ever issued you a receipt for the money they charged you for bailing yourself or someone, share it. If no, why is it so?