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real22:
My own opinion. You should have a stable job or a good source of income. You should be able to rent a good apartment for ur new family & at least give your wife #30k to #40k every month for the up keep of the house.

Then for the marriage plan form introduction to traditional to white wedding have a budget of 1.5m to 2m naira.

This girl is very funny

Op, thanks for the information. Now, let me make some calls

iebanehita:
If i may come in?

What she meant was that you should improve on your social life.

Attend birthday parties, cocktail dinners, seminars, inaugural lectures (for the nerds), conferences, watch a musical concert (gospel or secular artiste), attend anniversary (your place of work or that of a colleague), watch a movie/drama night, go on tour/sight seeing of places you fantasies as a child, chill out n enjoy being single for the time being, for the spiritually minded, you can meet with people at a convention or any church programme.

Bros all this to get a lady. It appears so stresdful.

I really dont know why some guys find it so hard to have a girl, maybe it is caused by their lives style

pickabeau1:
Yes .. good land appreciates wella

Just buy it in you and your spouse name
Put child as next of kin

A land that will be fallow for so many years.. legal hoops, name change etc, hmmm...well..... what works for you

I want it to be in her name cos she is already an heir to some stuff

pickabeau1:
aluta has said it

people have lands and houses these days just lyingfallow as their pikin no even send because they cant be bothered from their own lives.

Invest in the deposit for now and if possible, some form of educational insurance product

Consistency is the key

It is easier to save 20,000 monthly over a 5 year period than to open a fixed deposit of 1.2m immediately

Same amount

Hmmmmm. I have to think about this seriously. I was thinking that the land is better because of the fact it will appreciate to a large extent over time.

I need more inputs. Thanks

nikkyshyne:
I prefer the fixed deposit. If you intend buying a plot of land, it has to be a meaningful plot. Not all those plots in bushes and agents deceiving you of development potentials.

Niky, the plot will be meaningful if we finally settle for land and it will be within an estate. Thanks for ur input

alutacontinua:
One year don reash already?
I trust she's looking cuter by the day
ehen, as per question-any of the above is cool! Maybe a deposit might be better sha cos you wouldn't have to start taking plenty plenty things into consideration e.g. location, what happens years down the line etc etc!

My point is one plot of land fit get small small wahala for side but deposit would keep yielding interest till angel is ready! And who knows? You might decide to keep adding in subsequent years!

happy birthday in advance to her!

Yes ohhhhh one year is almost here. Thnks for ur contribution. For d regards, I will tell her.

We are planning a birthday gift for our daughter.

I am of the opinion that we should buy her a plot of land, but my wife is of the opinion that we should do fix deposit for her. This will be her first birthday.

Please I need your opinion. Thanks

moca:
This is d most childish thing i hv ever seen online.
Posting somebody's picture without her consent online?

Requesting strangers call ur baby mama?
Dont u know her house or people?

I tell u, unless she decides otherwise, that lady has gone for good.

Eww, see show of lv.
I call this immaturity and stupidity at d highest level.
Better remove that picture if u value ur baby gal not to talk of ur woman.

O buro ogologo bu na nwa m etoka.

U hv no reason being in a relationship if ur thought process is this way.

U are very wicked. Stop living a frustrated life. I wonder how ur neigbour dogs cope with this attitude of yours

To some yes. To some no.

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9iceboi:
Due to what happened 2 me last month I ve decided that I will spend my monthly income like this.....

Lol

AfricanApple: normally no

with Nigerian mentality yes

Can u explain further by your above statement(Nigerian mentality)

It is true that the level of achievement and success a man will attain in life is determined by the type of wife in his life.

I really dont know why some women created by God turn out to be very wicked.

How come this guy never reply anybody?

Please I need a professional make_up artist in Abuja that offers training.

@Op I'm interested. Kndly snd ur phone number to dis my line 08061352480. I have a frnd in Ibadan that will help me meet with u.

liquidsnake: That other man in suit looks so shabby. Looks too large for him.

If he is the ceo of Blackstone then this project has already failed o.

Your statement is absolutely wrong. You really don't have idea what it means to be rich.

There is a level one gets to, that dressing is the least in his/her list. But the middle class will try all his power on dressing so as to impress others.

Chrisbenogor: So I went back and read the thread all over again, I don't know about you but I try my best to be balanced when I make my view points known. Going by what has just happened then people would not even remain married. Single folks come in to read this thread and if this is what it would take for marriages to break down then why go into it?

Now let us look at the facts of what happened (according to her)


There was a misunderstanding on thursday and then on saturday she was out of her husbands house. The time frame was short to me and the fact that she was preggers triggered the question in my head of what state this marriage was at before this misunderstanding on thursday. It seems from what I gather she wrote


I am guessing what she is saying from here is that the last time they had a major disagreement was a year ago.....and even then he had left the house for 4 weeks. So there is a pattern here, telling us all the evil things he has done without for one mentioning what role she has played in all this is not being fair to the man.

Violence should not be condoned, however this does not make sense without proper context.

After he asked what did she reply? What did he reply? Who struck first? that is what we should be asking
Anyone who just pounces on anybody because they got asked why they did not shut a door belongs in a psychiatric ward. So like I said it must have been enabled, of course restraint should have been shown on both sides. The nephews could have walked away or she should have picked it up somewhere else. Anyways they are wrong to have raised their hands on her and in my opinion deserve to leave the house. However let it not look like she was sitting peacefully and then she got attacked.


What really here is the problem? At least she admits that they were good prior to the incident, I also do not have a time frame for when he did the things he is supposedly done, did he constantly go out and come back by 12 am everyday? Is that the issue? Has he one time or the other gotten angry and said horrible stuff oh probably when was that?

In my very honest opinion, this issue is not yet enough for her to have packed out just like that. Unless of course deep down she should admit that she is no longer ready for the marriage, at least she should own up to it and not achieve it by painting her hubby as the only one who does not want it.


Anyways, what do I know.....

This guy sef, its like u are drinking alomo bitter in an empty stomoach.

alutacontinua: Did you just miss this part too
You're a citizen of the states, meaning if you have to put in for anything (all other things being equal, you have an edge over a non-citizen), are y'all just tryna be good ambassadors of your country here or what?


I'll gladly exchange my Naija passport for an American passport anytime anyday, QUOTE ME ANYWHERE! That passport pisses the hell outta me.


and oops! You wanna stay forever in Naija, yeah? Well, your child might not agree with you.
If op can afford it, give your child the opportunity (who knows, lil cutie might decide he prefers the western life to the 1790 life in Naija, life would be much easier for him with his citizenship). Dual ctizenship is never something to regret! And if he decides to stay put in his fatherland, he's always a NIGERIAN!

Hmmm. I think u have raised some points here. If op can afford it, let him go ahead. But I think he shld buy d land and have his baby here.

Aluta come tell us the benefits of giving birth abroad

Dantedasz: Na lie joor.
This man must have some how done this damage to his d.1ck in order to discredit his wife.
No woman can be violent in marriage.
Violence in marriage is solely performed by men on their wives or on themselves.

Which part of the world do u live in?

@All thank you so much. We say Amen to all the prayers. We are all doing fine.

We are full of joy as we celebrate the arrival of our baby girl today 24/12/13. The experience is a story for another day as I was present from beginning to the very end.

I can't really write much at this moment as I'm really tire.

Once again glory to His name forever.

Please if you know such kindly drop your contact let me reach you.

Thank you.

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@op without even reading through your write up, I know that it is very dangerous. I wonder what would have happened to a friend of mine in 2003 if he was living alone. The guy would have died of severe stormoach pain at about 3am. But because I was around, that was how his life was restored

RIP dear sister. I miss you dearly

olumide098: @Mutalim..I really believe in your point but cant even disclose my salary to my girlfriend coz am afraid i may loose her....what do u think i can do?

Olumide y do u want to start ur life dis way? Why are u hiding ur salary frm her? Pls tell her if she is not ok with it, let her take a walk

demelza: No matter how long truth travels, it will always arrive at its destination.
I am happy for you Op, congrats.
P.S Is she thinking of divorcing the randy man?

Nawa for u. U just jump to divorce. If she divorce him, sebi u go marry am. Divorce lawyer. Any small thin divorce. #sooo#

@kuylie or kunje. For ur mind u are happy. Thank ur stars that the guy didn't die in the process, this one u are browsing and posting on NL, u would have been eating half done beans inside jail.

Be rest assured that those ur boy friends soldiers would not have help u.