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mizzkweenbee:
I'll try and make this as brief as possible. Have been dating this guy for almost a year now. Things were going smoothly till he travelled(outside the country)early this year, I got to find out he is married but the wife stays outside and he has relocated to go be with her. After he left, his best friend started calling me often, sending me messages, tryna check on me and all that. I didn't really take it serious till few days ago, he called me and was like since we both didn't av a date for val, let him take me out. I obliged. He took me to a fancy restaurant and was telling me how much he has always loved me and had wanted to tell me about his friend but didn't wanna betray him. I was shocked outta ma senses when he brought out a ring and proposed in front of everyone. Now my question is, can u marry ur ex's best friend, can I really trust this guy, isn't he like his friend. He's a nice guy really but I dnt know if i can marry him. Your advice'll really be appreciated.

If your story is true, then let him know your fears. Your ex may not like it for his friend to date his ex, especially if you both have been intimate.
Still you don't need to worry about your ex if he was actually married and toying with your heart. Your main worry is the one that has proposed. Is he genuine or not?
Now, minus the insincerity of your ex regarding his being married without letting you know, it is not right for your friends ex to date you - dating here, is only applicable when you get intimate with him. You can only be ordinary friends.
I hope you get my message clearly. If the man is genuine go on with him. You don't owe the insincere man any explanation.
But my fear is what if the allegation against your ex is false, and he only said it to 'tap his friend's wine ' at his absence? So confirm his allegations against your ex b4 taking your decision.

cococandy:
I just saw this sweet post on Facebook and thought of sharing..

That line about the importance of saying " I love you " really touched me. And the world continues to miss that. Forgetting that life is too short.

playtheblues:
That sounds like personal vendetta.

Yes my dear! The last word said it all. Likely the writer has a grudge against the lady, Freda Francis.

johnydon22:
That's not a human bite unless she has an extra-large mouth with sharp teeth like a carnivore.

Otherwise, we need a better lie

It happened in the front of others.

Cannibalism

brainy4oli:
As a licenced and practicing dentist, I have to say, u shud stop these lies. U have mouth odour, see a professional. And d dentist is d best person to see.

When mouth odour cases come to my clinic, d usual question I ask them is, "Have u had scaling and Polishing before? If yes, when?" Then I go into other questioning.

Op if u must know, mouth odour has a myriad of causes. A problem with the nose, or antrum (sure u won't knw what antrum means, check it out) can cause mouth odour. Systemic problems like gastro-intestinal infections, obstruction, indigestion; upper respiratory tract infections could also cause odour from the mouth.
While from the mouth, causes include, a cavity in a tooth, gum infections, calculus or plaque load on teeth, etc.

Halitosis or bad breadth could also simply be psychogenic, meaning the person has no odour but he or she feels that they has mouth odour.

So pls OP, let the professionals do their job. Ur job is to enlighten people to come to us. Thanks.

Meanwhile read my post on the importance of seeing a dentist.

https://www.nairaland.com/2807611/pictures-what-didnt-know-dentist

From your writeup one can understand that there are many causesof mouth odour. And some are even beyond the dentist's knowledge. It would have been better if you had talked about using raw honey to treat mouth odours emanating from bacterial infection of the mouth. Tell us whether it is true or not.

sukkot:
now the KJV version of the bible is divinely inspired and I can emphatically tell you that it is the only version that reflects the hebrew and greek scrolls from which it was transliterated. so based on that I will use the KJV. in the KJV it says ' In my Father's house are many mansions ' . Now with the bible it is EXTREMELY important to go into the etymology of words because the bible was written when words dont necessarily mean what they mean today. the meaning of some words have transformed with time. so looking at the etymology of MANSION, in ancient greek and persian and latin ( two empires reigning when the bulk of the bible was written ), the word MANSION means ' TO REMAIN '. so basically when he says in my fathers house there are many mansions he is saying all those who are chosen into heaven will remain there and will never be kicked out again. to further back this up I will go into the book of revelation 3 vs 12

revelation 3 vs 12 Him that overcometh will I make a pillar in the temple of my God, and he shall go no more out: <<<< SO IF YOU OVERCOME AND ARE CHOSEN, YOU WILL NO LONGER GO OUT, MEANING YOU WILL REMAIN, WHICH IS WHAT MANSION MEANS

HOWEVER IF YOUR CONCERN IS ABOUT THE RICHES THAT THOSE WHO MAKE IT WILL GET, YES THEY WILL RECEIVE THE RICHES OF THE WORLD, GOLD AND SILVER AND THE NATIONS OF THE WORLD WILL PAY TITHES ( ITS CALLED TRIBUTARY ) TO THOSE WHO MAKE IT. SO YES THERE WILL BE PHYSICAL RICHES ALSO ( AND I CAN PROVE THAT TOO WITH THE BIBLE ), HOWEVER THE VERSE ABOUT THE MANSION IS NOT REFERRING TO A PHYSICAL HOUSE. IT MEANS ONCE YOU MAKE IT - YOU REMAIN IN THE FOLD FOREVER

After the resurrection, people would still be eating and drinking and would still enjoy palacial privileges. Remember he is the king of kings. He created all the precious stones and the like. He promised those who would suffer with him would reign with him. There are beautiful physical houses to be inhabited in the new world where the Lord Jesus would reign.

Please, who is Chris Okafor?

ecosanders:
this bitches aint loyal at all, am currently in d same mess, though mine was just a year old before she start misbehaving, am seriously hurt right now, but i have to move on, i cant just imagine what i have not done for dis bitch, school fees, accommodation, laptops, phones family expenses etc..

its now she know her boyfriend in abroad have return.

dont kill urself o, she is not worth it.

Take heart, Bro! O ga-adi mma!

AfroKnight:
[size=13pt]What really annoys me right now is the OP calling her faithful. For crying out loud, she was still in a relationship with you when she clearly told you she had found someone else.

Did the new guy just appear from heaven like that? No!

She was playing you for like 2 months or more. You are here calling her faithful. Rubbish. Keep deceiving yourself.

You'd better realize how lucky you are to lose a fairweather girlfriend. Many men made (and still make) this painful discovery after marriage. Thank your creator and move on.[/size]

On point!

On another note, Bro, give not your strength to woman! When you are through with this episode, remember that.

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Decker:
Look bro, first things first. I'll advise that you don't relent in your hard work and search for a job, but you shouldn't make the mistake of doing all this with the mindset of winning your girl back.
To be honest with you, the girl made her decision and she chose someone else, someone more financially capable over you, despite the long way you the both of you had come. It's kind of sad, I know, but it's her choice and she has her reasons. She has told you she has moved on and I think you should too. Things like this happen at some point in our lives and when this kind of things happen, the best thing to do is to just wipe the dust of pain and regret off of you and move on with your life. That girl betrayed your love and friendship, all on the altar of having a better life. That tells a lot about her character and what exactly it is she wants from life. Even if you do win her back, which is highly improbable, what's your guarantee that she won't leave you for someone else in future when the going beings to get tough?

The thing about love is that it makes you think that person you are in love with is the best person out there, but that's not true.
You might think that no one can be as pretty and fun and smart and all those good qualities you admire in her, all in one, but there are actually other girls like that out there, better girls. And out of them, there is one for you. But in other for you to see them, you first have to remove the scales of supposed love from your eyes.
So, stop crying like a baby and get this girl off your mind, free yourself from all the negativity and keep looking for a job and I know you will find one. And when you do find one, work hard to be established in it, and along the line, you will find the right girl who really deserves you.

Such maturity!

menix:
Umu Nwanne mu oo, biko nu aha the woman si which tribe

Even google can't get her tribe..

Her business associate that gave her the drug must be Igbo.

Incorrect1:
Name checkers!
Na we dey here.!
Name checkers!!
Na we dey here!!
Name checkers!!!
Na we dey here gidi gbam!!!

Was disappointed when I discovered that she is not Igbo.

Okijajuju1:
From frying Pan to Fire.


Christianity and Islam are both the same cake with different icing.

So, which one do you advocate?

Ramon92:
.. Cos she knows that hell is a figment of man's imagination, meant as a mind control tool to control the weak and gullible...

#ImAlsoProudImGoingToHell

wishing you repentance

kroger:
I graduated with the least of grades "PASS" from one of the federal universities, not because i was a numskull but because i did not join the band wagon of the "sorters". More so i was financially inept which resulted in missing some exams, but after 4 years the war was over. With my kind of grade the future was deem for me with no hope. I took some computer programming courses to add to my CV i thought it would be of help. Alas four years on no single interview, i was roaming the streets without hope

God finally answered my call and i travel to the united states for greener pastures, i enrolled for a six months IT course and after completion i received my first phone interview from one of the telecom company and later on skype interview. after three days i was called for a one on one interview at their corporate office. It was straight forward with three interviewers, they asked about my skills and what i could do , which i told them with great confidence. A system was brought in and i was asked to configure bla bla bla which i did. To my amazement none asked a question pertaining my degree what they where hammering on was on the job.

After completion i was given the job instantly to resume the following Monday with a well furnished office and a very good pay. Right Now i am the manager of my team of which i developed a standard software for the company that remains number one.

My point is why is Nigeria hell bent on class of degree rather what the individual has to offer.There are lots of talented 3rd class and pass job seekers out there if given a chance will perform far better. I think this is also one of the bane that is making the Nigerian economy a far cry, it hurts seeing the lower class graduates not given a chance. I weep for Nigeria. I recently sent my resume to one of the Nigerian job boards just to test if i will be contacted but no call as usual maybe because of my lower degree . Nigeria has a very long way to go, even the oyibos that taught us the system isn't even using it its just so annoying.

For all those with a lower degree believe in yourself, a paper should not define your worth but rather look inward and surely you will conquer.

Pardon my English and thanks for reading

Tell them, Bro!

Jadekitana:
A friend was chatting me up last night that he has been dating this lady for 2years now yet nothing has happened she keeps saying he should wait. The worst thing she invited him to Abuja last weekend for a wedding, after which he checked into a hotel with her. She slept with her pant and bra yet didn't allow my friend to touch her when he tried to, she threatened to leave the room for him! That's how he came to lagos empty. She would be 26 this year and has refused to have sex.

By the way i'v been tripping for this my friend for a year now,he threw me to the friend zone and keeps running to Abuja to meet madam Virgin who is busy hoarding her c.unt like it's made of gold. Some guys would just blatantly ignore the green light and be chasing what's not chasing them and yes i'm a Hater

Your time will come.

If they look around they will see other responsible beauties that are doing one menial job or the other.

konvict0111:
You have made an intelligent submission with your post on this subject, but I'm afraid your opinion has been influenced by your own penchant for the disease that is "Feminism".

Life is complex and is hardly defined by any rule, yet, from time to time, we must learn to commit to see beyond our noses, shun every form of sentiments and say the gospel truth no matter who is involved.

No matter the analysis we choose to do with this, a lady with kids from her teenage years must have been wayward in certain respect. I understand that there should be room for improvement in all cases, but we must learn to avoid choices that will damage us in the years and years to come.

I could just go on with my thoughts, but I'm obviously not a big fan of these things.

Yes! Having two kids during teenage age points to some previous waywardness .But she can't be more wayward than the lady with 2 or more abortions. This lady with 2 kids is not trying to hide her previous waywardness. But the one given to abortions is obviously trying to hide things from us.
Moreover we don't even know the circumstances that led to her having 2 kids for her former lover.

It is you that would choose whom to marry.
Aside having bad character, you can confidently marry her. But talk to your parents with love, for them to see the reason why she is a wife material, if she is.
The two children that she already had is not a problem. In terms of responsibility, she is already working. In terms of morals, she's better than a lady that have had 2 abortions .
Love between you two, to me, is not infatuation, cause you have seen her character a little bit. Thinking like an African, she is still within the reproductive age.
And you are not alone in this- marrying a lady who is your senior.

CyberWolf:
Instead of him to sit his nyash down and work on his useless budget, he is wasting our money traveling round the globe. Later his sycophants will tell us that he had no time to go through the budget..

Nice one

SemuhleB:
**** How is the step mother whoring around? Is she still married? Is she having sex with multiple men? She is single and having a boyfriend is allowed as she is not cheating. That house is also her house so it also belongs to her. So must she go and do it outside or do it in a hotel for the rest of her life? So all those men who remarried new wives or in relationships should also respect their deceased wife by never spending time with them at their own house? Surely you are not this moronic. I am suspicious about the son in law. I won't be surprised that he has the hoohah for his step mother and that's why he was so against the relationship and attacked the guy. He could have spoken to his mother in law sincerely about it but he decided to kill instead. I mean if you stab someone in the head what did he expect would happen

Exactly, my dear! In Igbo traditional society, there is no adult that frowns at a widow having a lover in her late husband's home. Rather, many atimes, they encourage her to stay and bear children for the husband.
It is only adolescents who are immature that go to poke nose on the affairs of such widow and her lover.

EroticAngelina:
the step mother is a stoopid bitchhh.

She can whoree around with the whole men in her village, buh she should give the late husband respect and stay off the house when fvcking!

The guy shouldn't have stabbed the lover.
too bad the imbe.cile is dead, we can't get his own side of the story

So, na for bush she go dey meet her man, when there is a house?
The husband has died, so she can find a new husband.

luvablesam:
The greatest officially recorded number of children born to one mother is 69, to the wife of Feodor Vassilyev (b. 1707–c . 1782), a peasant from Shuya, Russia. In 27
confinements she gave birth to 16 pairs of twins, seven sets of triplets and four sets of quadruplets. Numerous contemporaneous sources exist, which suggest that this seemingly improbably and statistically unlikely story is true. The case was reported to Moscow by the Monastery of Nikolsk on 27 Feb 1782, which had recorded every birth.It is noted that, by this time, only two of the children who were born in the period.
1725–65 failed to survive their infancy.
4 x 4 = 16
7 x 3 = 21
16 x 2 = 32
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27 births 69 children

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Is this still possible?

Nothing is impossible

What's wrong with hiring mercenaries to fight insurgents?
If hiring them turned the table against boko haram during GEJ 's era, there's nothing wrong with continuing to engage them.
America can never boast that it must be her military that would defeat terrorists. They pay mercenaries and are still paying them to eliminate terrorists.

pobosky20:
Nawa o!!! This senator no sabi talk o. Insurgents still control "half" of Borno state? How? Borno has 27 LGAs (if I'm right),half of it is how many? Borno covers a land area of about 70,898 km2, half of it is what?
chai!! chai!! There is God o.

His figures are not confusing. Nigerian troops control 3 LGAs. Boko Haram controls 3 LGAs. The remaining 21 are shared between the insurgents and Nigerian troops.

Jesusloveyou:
very shameful for u saTANist wailers to uncover d truth reported by ndume but believe d lie said by ur fellow saTANist

You are calling people satanist, while your name is jesuslovesyou?

vedaxcool:
[s][/s]

Some people cannot technically spell lying..

The senator is entitled to his opinion. The military with its intelligence apparatus are in a better position to tell Nigerians the truth about matters on the ground. From all indication bh cannot hold territory they are simply doing hit and run attacks. NA keeps inflicting one deadly body count after another BH. That's remains a truth the wailing zombies seek to distort.

That's the constituency of the senator. I believe that he knows what he is saying, and not just expressing opinion.
Can't you see the names of the towns he mentioned? Is that expression of opinion only?

SoNature:
All these foreign bullsh*t; I bet Nollywood films have more interesting quotes we can easily relate to.

Quote them and we will appreciate them, too.