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Op, you are right on what you have itemized herein.

The Dr and his colleagues should be charged for negligence. He was supposed to have acted on his instinct by trying to save the lives of those accident victim first and after stabilizing them, he can now start making calls.
He allowed them to die in his presence and he is here saying he was moved to tears.

2nd time that I am seeing a True King that knows God.

May God give him wisdom to rule.

cruzita:
I'm happy this is coming from a guy because I opened a similar thread some weeks back and they said its because I'm a girl.girls are soft and weak at heart and can easily be manipulated by the sweet words from a guy especially the one she loves.sometimes they do these things out of love but the guys take them for granted.some guys really need to change

You are right.But some ladies will also accuse some guys if the guy do not wanna sleep with them, they say the guy is not a man.

Both will be blamed for their action. It takes two to tango. Ladies must use their brain when a guy is after s3s they must be ready to say what they want at that point no matter the pressure because a woman is at the losing end at the end of the day. They should restrain themselves from such until they get married.
A guy becomes a saint and a preacher when in the mood to get in-between the two legs of a lady.After getting what he wants, he changes his character and you see that demon in him.

repogirl:
let me repeat myself and risk sounding like a broken disc...it is a choice, some people don't want to settle... You can't force them. If they eventually decide to marry they will.

I don't understand what the big deal is about marriage.... Do you need it to make heaven or live longer? Or does it guarantee happiness?

It comes with its own challenges and except one is really ready for it and what it brings, I won't advice anyone to get married just because its what everyone does when they reach a certain age.

What do you even mean by trauma of single hood? A woman who knows herself will never be going through any trauma just because she is single. I guess Oprah Winfrey's life must be traumatic as hell.

You should know better as Oprah Winfrey has been in a serious marriage issues herself. I have been with most beautiful ladies who are single and they confess that it has not been easy staying single no matter how people look at them.

One told me that it has not been easy for her as most guys seems to be scared of their person. I have known so many of them that has won beauty pageant passing through this issue of been single.
You can interpret the issue the way you see it outwardly and not inwardly. It is not easy for them just like most single mothers.

Kachisbarbie:
I no need pray too much. Truckpusher will marry me_ I am covered.
You sef fit be potential, abi you done marry already?

You are too beautiful and if your image really is to measure your heart, you must be a beautiful lady inwardly.Keep it up as good things must come your way.

repogirl:
lol, well, I am married already, almost seven years now.... So I guess you know nothing bout 'my type'.

If you are married that long, why try to give a pix of their status as a good thing.

Are you not enjoying your marriage as I can see that you look responsible. You should encourage others out there to get married in order to save more ladies from the trauma of single-hood.

Listen, I had a girl I was dating and b4 she got an admission to a higher institution. We have been having s3s and on one of the holidays she came, we got intimate and she told me that she wanted to show me something.She took my dig and started giving me mouth action. I later asked her how she got doing that. She replied that it was through some novels she read that she learnt the trick.

I never went further but deep down, I knew she has stated doing that somewhere because the way she handled that never showed that she just read it from the pages of any novel.

Ladies can form.

Nothing wrong with that question at all. Why did she ask you if you have dated b4? The same way you asked her if she has had abortion before.

For her action goes to show that she has done that.If she is straight, she supposed to have said "No, but why do you ask such"Do I look like someone who already had one."

repogirl:
Being single or married is a choice.... There are beauty queens who choose to be married while some enjoy their spinsterhood, is it a crime? Or is it by force to be married?

Abi does it look like they are sad? Or did they tell you they are dying to be married?

OP, respect peoples choices, marriage is not by force.

Don't worry. When you fail to get married tomorrow, you start going from one church or babalowo to other for deliverance.

It is not by force but inwardly, you ladies are dying cus no true man is willing to settle with your type.

A friend married one and he saw hell cus her wants were insatiable

BeeBeeOoh:
Because their problems are much more bigger than the one Nigeria is facing now..

You are funny. Tooooooooooooooooooo funny

They should tell Falana who is defending them and calling on The Federal government to bring the officer to book for his action.

People should realize that there is a government and no single individual or group should hold the country to ransom.

Shitti or whatever they call them should not confront any security agents on official duty.

Falana should listen to people who live in Kaduna what they are passing through on the activities of this man, while he is in the comfort of his office in GRA asking the Federal government to bring the officers to book, thereby inciting the group to stand for their right.

One can imagine a police officer demanding N20K from a family going through pain whereby a minor is raped and her life in danger.

May the officer that demanded that money be involved in an accident or be killed in line of duty.

BABANGBALI:
dont mind all dis bad belle people. Even without the professor being a VP,do they think he can't afford travelling to Dubai?some people are just daft.

Exactly. I cannot understand how people reason. A well read man who has been comfortable cannot travel with his family to Dubai even when ordinary people travel to Dubai to buy just cloth for themselves?

Poverty is what Op is suffering from.

simonlee:
My fellow Nigerians....
It's barely 7 months when the APC Gov't assumed power, but they way the country has turned upside-down, you'll think bad luck has waited patiently for Nigerians to vote APC.
See the queue in our gas stations, you'll think it was being given free of charge. But we buy at double the price (tears in my eyes)
To pay salaries na issue for a whole federal gov't. Seeing an alert is enough reason to give thanksgiving in church (tears start rolling down my face)
Now our able VP, Prof. Osinbajo is travelling to Dubai on vacation, as if Christmas never do am (starts wailing)
Chai.....is this change?!!!


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Stop spewing trash. When Jonathan's administration was sharing the money and stashing same abroad, what did you do or say?

This administration met an empty volt and you want them to change things overnight? You must be a block head.

If you have money in your account with a bank and hoping to use that money to start something, only for you to get to the bank and was told that there was nothing in your account to start life with, what will you do? Will your life be the same or you just start robbing Peter to Pay Paul?

Think like a human being and not like an ape.

This is how madness starts. Some people will feel that he has arrived not knowing that foo---lishness starts like this.

amtaken:
May God save us from vices in this Buhari's fake change regime.

Are you normal? Don't think so.

mumu.

Dont do that. Allow her be.That is just what life is all about. Since she told you never to tell her friend, do not tell your lady. She will have more respect for you.Great men dont gossip.

I concur. They have lost my respect because of greed for their own selfish reasons. That is why I see people like the so called Kanu, instead of investing his brain for something reasonable, he is here trying to deceive those animals who has no brain to seek for secession

Op, in developed world, this is nothing,but this part of the world, something is gonna be somehow.

The problem herein is; She has two daughters from two different men of which she does not know their whereabouts sounds funny. If it were to be just one child involved, you can handle that and explain to your parents of the issue.

The story of what transpired between those guys and herself irrespective of her age then or now is solely, the story she told you alone and no one here to buttress her story.

There is nohow you cannot open up to your parents in the first place about who she is and where she is coming from.

If you can be able to take care of the responsibilities of those children that are not yours, then you have to carry your cross and take her. Note that the taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage.

This kind of ladies having children from different men are been left to be married by older men who has cash and can shower her and those kids with cash. As a young man, a time will come when you will start feeling the burden of having to deal with the whole issue.
Anyway, you are a man and if you have the raw cash to be able to take care of the lady and her children and also handle your parent's attitude towards this, then be a man that you claim to be and marry the lady .

Too bad. She should be arrested.

That is where you get 90% of gay people in Nigeria. Too bad.

fhelihx:
Falana too dey run mouth..

Too much. Why must those guys wanna attack or block the army chief from passing the highway?

Falana should go get himself soft drink and stop making unnecessary statement on this issue. That was how Boko Haram started.

You do not argue with people like this because what we are looking outwardly in the pix, is not the person speaking. It is the demon living inside her.May God have mercy on this lost soul and convert her like Saul.

ImpactWorld:
Many people are actually neat outside but very dirty at home.

This include some of the people passing judgement here.

Years ago, I read a book and I got a point which says:

If you cannot pick a particular shirt/item from your wardrobe when the light is out, then maybe you are not really organised (paraphrased)

How many people can confidently receive important visitors in their home impromptu without trying to do emergency rearrangement of the house/room?

You are 110% true here. Many, many, many exhibit this habit even personal hygiene is a problem to many. I was went to a guy's house who is married and a banker and was shocked to see his armpit bushy and dirty, looking brownish in color.I was shocked.

I was wondering how he sleeps with his wife and for his to be like that, his wife should be something else.

mostyg:
Why not? Because her family house is unkept does not mean she's dirty. I actually do not see that as a reason not to be married to someone. Everybody has his own dirty secret/weakness.

You are wrong. She is equally dirty.As a lady, if her house is like that and she comes out to display neatness outwardly, she is dirty inwardly also she will display dirtiness if married to a new place. If she cannot clean her parents house, she cannot carry neatness to any new place.She sees nothing wrong with dirtiness

[quote author=wwwkaycom post=41321103]I felt the same way, I even asked him to come to my house and pick as many of the kitchen things as he wanted but he refused saying his fiancee must learn how to be responsible, it was at this time he told me he had bought quite a number of kitchen wares, micro wave, cooker etc Well, I love responsible ladies but they can still talk things over[/quote]My brother, your friend is very right calling off the relationship as this is not a flimsy excuse as the sign the lady is exhibiting now, is how the future is going to be.


For her to start saying at this early stage that it was the guy's responsibility to provide for those items goes to show how she is going to display her attitude in future.Are you telling me now that if by tomorrow if they are married and the guy has no money for the home, she cannot help out?

For me. the guy is right and should look for someone he can build his life with.

You have messed up by shouting back to your mother at your age, even if you are forty yrs old.You did wrong and you have to apologize to her.

Who the hell are you to feel too big to the mother that gave birth to you? Be careful because if she lays a curse on you, you are in trouble. Better be careful and ask for her forgiveness, if not, a time will come when you will be married and your children will ride you like a horse and even insult you in the presence of their friends.

Too bad.

Op, May The Almighty Jesus secure you and yours IJN as you have saved the life of this lady, so shall yours be saved. I know that she will NOT die but to live for the glory of God.

Most drivers here do not take caution when driving even when they see someone, they try to accelerate their vehicle not minding the danger the pedestrian or other road users are in.

She is a paragon of beauty. I dust my cap for her.