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Falconx47:
The choice of what wine to use at your wedding is yours to make, same as the wedding itself...it's not mandatory.

Is sugary artificial drinks and wine immune from adulteration, poison, jazz or village people...or whatever makes the people avoid the palm wine tradition?

Ignorance is the bane of many.

its best to bring your own palmwine. I have heard stories about poisoning, but it can't just be limited to palmwine. So, it is best to bring your own palmwine.

Wow. no condemnation except for one person. But if it was reversed and it was a 15year old girl that was raped by her male teacher, the monikers listed below
SmellySperm
underwrld999
AsherAmari
Freestainworld
TheEnygma
JustCruise
complexBoss12
Brainard22
Sundaland
frank800
DaddyRochie1642
ChiefSosa
Skyfornia
Anaerobi
javaguru
Ahmed0336
southsouthking
Sundaland

would be falling over themselves, to insult and condemn the man.

Why is it that you people keep quiet when there is female on male rape? Or do you guys secretly encourage it? Why do you people rush to condemn rape when it is male on female, but keep mute when it is female on male? Why?
Matured responses please.

She should be in prison for attempted murder.

please please please. It is the person that has a problem that should sort it out. people that have issues should sort out their issues before presenting themselves for relationships

Sweetshuga:
Well said, I don't know why most people advise lovers to leave their partners because of a fault which isn't their making and by the way, love is all about helping each other overcome their weaknesses and not abandon them to deal with it, if we don't help our partners overcome their flaws then why are we friends and lovers?

The bolded,
It is not his duty to help her overcome her problems. If the woman in question felt that her temper was an issue, she would have worked on it.

You sound like the type that encourage people into relationships when it is obvious that the other party has issues.

Issues should be dealt with by the person that has it, before putting themselves forward for relationships.

TripleDdotcom:
Faults and being prone to error is one of the things that define humanity. But dealing with it with the right attitude is what's important.

The wrong attitude - like some people do - is to recognize the attitude and continue with it or not bother to change it due to malicious desires or the carefree attitude and excuse of "everybody has faults".

But the right attitude is to recognize that fault and strive as much as possible to correct it; getting back up and continue to try if someone fails or relapses in it.

People are out there with their own faults; there's most likely something you wouldn't like if your present girl was replaced with a thousand different women. You'll probably find an area where she's lagging in character just as you yourself are lagging in perfect character to some extent.

So eliminating someone from your life - just because she has a MANAGEABLE/REPARABLE fault - is somewhat illogical or not ideal as a move.

Anger is not a good thing. it destroys things and its consequences can be very disastrous. There are numerous aspects or examples of life affairs that I could give in which if anger was to be applied, calamities will most likely follow.

What you must do now is to come together with her to identify this problem and try as much as you can - with all credible means within your capacity - to rid her of this problem. On that (the measures you're going to take), you should do your research. This is not a time to leave her. She needs your help; it's a time for you to help her.

But if after all efforts and no considerable changes have reflected, then you have to pick a choice.

Take her like that, knowing you're at risk of whatever fate has in store for you as a consequence of her anger OR you leave her to free yourself from whatever her problem could result to for you in future.

Take care son, and God guide you.


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if a woman with hot temper does not sit well with you, why are you still with her?

Okay, you brought up hold up as a reason for Anambra having it own airport. It is a good reason. But you forget Enugu has an airport too. At least no hold on that side.

Now if hold is the problem for Delta airport, wouldn't the second Niger bridge that is being built address that issue?

ArewaNightmare:
Anambra needs it more than that Asaba u mentioned , it helps for booming and easy business and not this asaba airport wey hold up go hold you until u miss ur flight

Nice, but is that what Anambarians need? Delta already has an airport, Enugu already has an airport. In my opinion it is a waste. Unless there is a reason i don't know about.

Lol. its alright. you are a rare breed.

bukatyne:
35 year old man young?

Anyways, I don't dig older men.

The bolded, he is actually young relationship wise. He would find a lot of younger ladies to wife. If he were a woman then the bolded would have been understandable.

bukatyne:
That fact a man of '35' thinks he is young relationship wise is funny.

The usual 'I will take care of you', 'I am better/richer than your boyfriend', 'I am ready to marry you now' etc. etc. lines.

Hear! hear!!

pansophist:
A perfect girlfriend is one that embraces her feminity, can prepare healthy meals, takes good care of herself and respects me. She should have a personality outside our relationship, enhancing our union to be far better than my singlehood. She should be responsible to herself, which serves as a benchmark on how she can be responsible for me.

She should prefer being at peace, than the need to be right, should have tamed all the typical females vices such as manipulation, jealousy, nagging, high maintenance, victimhood, need for unhealthy attention, and discontentment. She should carry herself with grace, that is reflected by her appearance, content of her speech, social circle and her relation with others. As a general requirement, this will do.

My sister, e shock me o!

bukatyne:
With the look of things, Nigeria has not started spoiling.

I don't know when employers started asking for report cards when each level has a final report.

I also thought the report cards is a total evaluation of the child's performance for the period under review?

How would a child have the mental fortitude to face life if he/she is not properly accessed from birth?

Na wa o.

Lol. I have never heard of job seekers being asked to bring their report cards from primary or secondary school as CV. It is really shocking that people are using it to defend this nonsense. Sacking a man that said the truth. And we want Nigeria to be a great country. We dey deceive each other for this country.

Iseoluwani:
since when did you use a report card to search for job or submitted it with your CV.

the teacher wrote the truth and u feel like it is demoralizing, u guys are simply part of a failed community. I faced a similar situation with the guy, in that they told me not use red pen to write in the report card, I told them I can't rewrite what I have written.

during our days if our position was 4th downward, we are in trouble not now that ur set glorify failure

Are you living on Mars? In this day and age? Parents go to school to check on their children?

Calm down, only very few parents do that. In fact, learning good morals, being respectful and other good manners which normally should be learnt in the home have now been pushed to the teachers and school, parents are too busy to know what is going on.

So while your comments are well intentioned, they would not work.

Do you know that some students use their school fees to play bet9ja?
Do you know that some students jump the school to go to wherever during school hours?
Do you know that some students have refused to bring their parents to school even after the student has been asked to do so by the school authority?

I taught during NYSC, so i know what I am talking about. I know what I saw.

Amotolongbo:
If you know what effect this kind of comment can have on the child later in the future, you won’t like it on your ward’s report card. When a potential employer sees it.

Best thing is to visit your ward’s school occasionally to ask about his/her comportment from the class teacher and not this nonsense on the report card

it is shocking!! See the number of people condemning the man for saying the truth.

pek:
Report card. Says it all. Our moral standing started failing when we decided turning blind eyes to immoralities and bad behaviours. A good parent will be happy to see his son's bad behaviour exposed. I remember my class teacher's comment close to forty years. It made me a better person.

the question should be, "are the comments true?", "do comments reflect the behaviour of my son/daughter in school?" Not this self righteous question you are asking and the first comment you made about private schools being a business.

No wonder more and more children are becoming devious, parents don't want to hear the truth about what their kids are up to in school. Like you, they would rather prefer lies. Its a shame!

Amotolongbo:
Can you allow this kinda “truth” be written in your ward’s report card?

Thank you.

Priam:
Buy the Mouka Flora brand and not comfy.

Flora is for a higher weight category than comfy

meobizy:
In this day and age, people are still delivering more than three children? Hmm. Brave humans still exist in the world.

If money is not an issue, what's the problem?

Typical.

Nicholehemsworth:
the type of women you date are exactly my definition of local women

Topmaike007:
1080p video quality movie.. You will think you're in movie theater

Wow.

Topmaike007:
so you know that Nani guy that download from torrent site?

His movies start from 5gb upward

What kind of movie has a size of 5gb upwards?

Would there be land for it?

The black man and his inferority complex. i wonder if the british call their own food local, i wonder if the Chinese call their own food local. But the black man would confidently call his own food local. Tufiakwa!!

The world would never respect the black man until he respects himself.

This is an unfortunate comment. What is your definition of a local woman?

Nicholehemsworth:
Broke men attract local women... you attracted your type ..

The bolded,
Before nko, what should they specialise in? Chinese cuisine?

It is only a few ladies that try out other cuisines. And for them to try it out they would have to watch food channels, follow foreign food blogs etc.

Lovethaa:
One of my girlfriends ( A girl that is a friend) decided to make me breakfast , she went into the kitchen and the food below was the result ...

I was impressed .she took her time and came out with this delicacy..

There was one time I tried this same thing with my Yoruba babe,told her to cook me something special ,. this babe went into the kitchen only to come out with semo and vegetable.. not that I don't like semo + vegetables just that I was expecting something new ..

Most Nigerian babes specialize in local food ..

If they are not cooking spaghetti or indomie , then be prepared to eat rice or swallow.. they don't know any other meals than that..


Ladies pls surprise men with different food .. try new things not everytime Rice and Spaghetti

My last babe almost finished me with spaghetti.. I was so lean that I started looking like spaghetti..

I left her only to jam one igbo amaka ,that one finish me with black soup and Akpu...if u shake me that time .your hand go break..my hand strong anyhow due to too much Akpu..


I think when it comes to food.. Exposure matters.


Have you ever had a special food prepared by a lady that surprised you.? share your experience

She is naturally thick. And she does do a lot of exercise to reduce her weight

meobizy:
Cuppy never drop one and she’s this large. I don’t want to imagine her size if she does so in the future.

Igbo not ibo

ogkrakkid:
OP is just a clown ... funny tho...it happens in every tribe. Yoruba, ibo, hausa. and d rest..normal yans.

Very true. That's how some people laugh at the Chinese language. We should learn to be respectful to other people's culture in Nigeria, otherwise there would be no peace.

mrfizy:
Every language is funny to non speakers.Learn to respect people's language.Unam Ikot.

Martinez39s:
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Why are you even engaging her?

Wow. Well it is good she re wrote the exam and passed it at her second sitting. I remember writing the exam. I did not know anything. Lord have mercy.

Ilamina:
Yea, the girl that used to come second in my class
Failed the exam

She was so hurt, her ego was hurt
Because her elder brother and sister, all attended the school. .it was like a family tradition and pride

And she was a proud catholic
The school was her dream school

She went to another catholic school and did her js1
And wrote the exam again and passed it

And repeated her js1 in loyola
Instead of going to js2 in her other school
Because loyola only takes from js1

To show you, how desperate she was to go there

That school eh. Their entrance exam questions are harder than JAMB questions.