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This is unfortunate. But it serves her right. How can you marry a man without investigating him? How can you swear before God and man to live the rest of your life with a man that you have not investigated?

I have been saying it. People don't understand what marriage is about any more. People just marry like that. Women are not investigating the family they are marrying into, men are not investigating the family they are marrying from.

Its unfortunate, like you said she is living in regret. Regret is one of the most painful emotions any human being can have.

Romanoff:
Return their brideprice.

A marriage built on lies will come crashing down like a pack of cards.

That's how one scammed a woman I know that he's a pastor and a contractor. He proposed to this woman when he found out she was doing well.

Time to plan wedding, Baba said he had not been paid for all his contracts. Aunty used her money to fund wedding.

12 years down the line, oga has refused to do anything and he was never a contractor. Aunty is still feeding him and their two children, she's the one paying fees and all.

She done old pass her age and the man still no gree give her peace.

All you'd need to do is look at her and you'd see years of regrets.

pansophist:
The funny thing is even that the good women that deserve such public proposal don't even want it. They want it private, with honour, and to hug you and cry without strangers taking pictures and all the acting. If your woman wants a public proposal like this, tell her that I said she is very mad. And you the man is x10 madder.

The bolded,
i seriously doubt that normal healthy men wear tight boxers. so that their dick and bum would be more pronounced? You are probably referring to homosexuals.

Teespice:
I laugh in Spanish.

Women are the cause of men having Erectile dysfunction. Chai.

After placing laptops on your laps, wearing that very tight boxer that you say makes your bum and dicck more pronounced, drinking beer like a mobile brewery, smoking like chimney, you will still say that women are the cause of men having ED.

Whatever makes you lot sleep at night.

The bolded,
I like your confidence.

pansophist:
Actually, I support the females with this one. A real man should hold himself accountable physically, and to that effect, proper strength training and dieting (ketogenic) lifestyle should be his lifelong goals. Personally, I do not drink, smoke, do drugs, or put unhealthy substances in my body. I can run about 12km within an hour, deadlift weight x2 my body size, and can see my six packs clearly. I do not even look my age, and if I shave, I am confused with a man in his 20's.

The end result is that I am strong, I am very fine, helps my confidence, and put me miles ahead compared to other men that my woman will hardly be motivated to cheat. And if she wants to cheat, well, she knows at the back of her mind that I can replace her in the next minutes. If you haven't seen a man that turns a woman's head, you haven't met pansophist And to be attractive (different from being handsome) is super easy for men. Just have less body fat to 10%, a bit of toned muscles (like Brad Pitt in the movie fightclub), rock a badass beard, come get small money. Just like Charles Inojie, na them go de rush you.

So dear men, it is not hard to handle your woman to her utmost sexual satisfaction, just be discipline to adhere to a healthy lifestyle, it is hard I know, but which hard will you choose? The hardship of discipline and reaping the reward or let yourself go and bear the burden of it? And the more you go in your discipline, the simpler it becomes to sustain. The amount of men with potbelly anytime I visit Naija, makes me shake my head. Men with PB (potbelly), don't you love yourself? If these men find themselves in a western country where their money cant buy sex, then soapy becomes the unfortunate anthem choice. Because over here, the dynamics change. Women want fine sexy boys. Having a Ph.D. doesn't make a woman wet unless the desperate ones looking for marriage

But that doesn't mean women are blameless here, it goes both ways. Women, don't let yourself go fat. Most men (unless males suffering from female scarcity) will always pick a non-fat woman. Sometimes I see fat prostitutes and I ask my sweetheart, do men pay these women? She is shocked too. If I am a sex-starved man, at least I will pay for a shot with a slim fine one, not a doughy, round-looking woman. but to each his own. It is also pitiable when I see women in their 20's, a period in their life where they can literally date celebrities just for being youthful but some let themselves go fat. This is like shooting your leg. You can argue all you want, but a woman's value in the eyes of men and society will always be judged by her appearance more than men. In the end, marry your type. If you are fit, go for a fit man and vice versa. Helps you stay faithful.

I agree with you.

AngelicDamsel:
Some celebs are always fresh in our memories. We don't notice how old they've become. A 15yr old daughter as second.

Before you know it they become grandparents and in our memories they are still the lover boys we used to know.

I think celebs of old made more lasting impressions on us than these palasa celebs of today.
See Aki and Pawpaw. Can they ever grow out of that character, I doubt. I see many old celebs today and I'm like....... What!

How time flies!

This is really bad. From the write up this is just pure scam. Its not like he was actually investing the money or trading forex or bitcoin with it. He was just using the money to support his lifestyle.

Lol. It is a mindset. Many of my fellow corp members then, hated camp with a passion and hated service year in general, I avoided such people.
I enjoyed my camp simply because i made up my mind to enjoy it, to participate in camp activities, to interact with my fellow corp members. Was my camp perfect? no it wasn't. I still regret that I wasn't chosen to march from my platoon. That our platoon commander too like woman

I did not waste my service year because i took advantage of the opportunity presented to get certificate in Computer Networking(CCNA) and a course completion certificate in software engineering(Microsoft Technology). I was doing a third course Microsoft windows server by the time my service year end.

The north that you mentioned, immediately after my service year, I read of an Igbo guy that was serving in Katsina. His parents were begging him to come home, he refused. He said he was now doing business where he was posted to selling and herding goats I think. And even crossing over into Niger. The same North that we southerners look down on.

You see, its a mindset. You and only you alone, can decide to waste your service year. You and only you alone can decide that your service year would be fruitful

stanley000:
why won't it be when u served at the SE or SS. Your counterparts that went up north I doubt they can say the same thing.

I agree with you. Fix the issues that are bedeviling NYSC.
I enjoyed my service year as well. Camp was wonderful, in fact i remember wishing we could remain in camp for longer.

I also achieved a lot during my service year, so i don't look back on that 1 year as a loss.

bukatyne:
IMHO, every country needs some form of National Service/military training/para military for its youths as a rite of passage.

It builds patriotism and let the youth experience another aspect of their country.

I thoroughly enjoyed my service year and it helped me see/explore the SS part of the country.

Rather than scrap NYSC because of insecurity, why can't they make country more secure?

Would students or traders be stopped from interstate trips? Would Nigerians no longer take interstate trips for leisure?

This is perfect!!
I want to highlight the last part of the tweets, about the woman having an opinion and the man taking her opinion into consideration.
That is exactly how I envision my relationship (girlfriend or wife).

CaveAdullam:
Daddy has spoken!

Could you elaborate?

bukatyne:
This is also very noticeable at work.

How are you watching these series?

bukatyne:
@bold:

To think I started Pinnochio because of you, this life na per head

It is an interesting watch so far.

An ex feminist. Her eyes were opened when she started listening to what men were trying to say and stopped seeing men as the enemy.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3WMuzhQXJoY

Pansophist
Martinez93s
CaveAdullam
If you guys know any one male or female that deny that men have issues please share the video with them or tag them.

I understand you very well.

But let me take you up on one of the points you made, that is investors being reluctant to invest.

Now once a govt notices that investors are reluctant to invest, the govt asks the question; why are investors reluctant to invest? Once the govt answers that question they can go ahead to enact policies that would encourage investments, this is part of "creating an enabling environment"

Government being in business IMO is not a good thing, especially in Nigeria. Nepotism, tribalism, religious bigotry etc. wouldn't allow for growth

Please note I am speaking from how I feel a government should function

LegendHero:
Yes you’re right. But sometimes if the government see that private investors are reluctant to invest on their own, they can set up some form of partnership program to boost them.

Remember Akwa-Ibom might not boast of enormous private players so government can come in to help and serve as buffer if needed.

If you’re talking about state like Lagos will huge private players, it could be a different ball game.

There are textbook definition that says government have no business whatsoever, but sometimes reality could be different based on the factors at play.

Government has no business doing business. Government should be for regulation.

IMO instead of government building factories, why not create an enabling environment so that entrepreneurs and private businesses build the said factories?

LegendHero:
I have been watching the development in Akwa-Ibom for a while now and I think this governor is really trying.

I hope he can handover some of these factories he’s building to the private sector and make it some sort of PPP.

This is really nice. But such acts of kindness, mercy and compassion should also be extended to men.
I highly doubt that, if it were a man, that he would have received such kindness.

Why not explain it? or just ignored my comment.

Arizona1:
Do you even know the essence of OTP? Don't talk about things you don't know.

I hope you find a solution very soon.
However, i am surprised, do people still use OTP? Bank apps should have taken care of that.

Lol your last sentence re-enforces my possessive statement. She is not yet your girlfriend or wife, but you are behaving like she is.

Silentgroper:
i knew dz is u were heading to. I just gave out a girl's info to someone i've neva met or seen. In dz time wey unknown gun men dey kidnap pple. I had to say dat to let d niqqa knw he shouldnt try anything funny on my future wife or gf.

Yes you're very okay

Silentgroper:
Lol. Obsessive? .. Where is d obsession in my post.. D same girl i ignore her gaze sometimes.
Dz one seems fixated on me. She would definitely turn down oda guys bcuz of me. She's nt ur regular instagram, fb chic.

Sorry I meant possessive.

The 1st bolded,
Lol, Or maybe high on love. I can understand if the guy feels his wumi is the most beautiful girl in the world in his opinion.

The second bolded,
Lol. Guys have been lying since God knows when about the girls they have slept with, even girls that they have never slept with.

Men that are actually sleeping with the really beautiful ladies normally don't announce it.

Most guys sleep with ordinary ladies that just gave them small attention, because the really beautiful ladies are looking for a higher class of men.

I don't know if you saw the video a couple of weeks ago, where a guy was just sitting and watching 2 girls eat but he wasn't eating anything then one of the girls suddenly looked at the camera?
Those are the type of girls that 90% of guys sleep with. Girls that aren't beautiful like that. I sometimes call them 2 by 2 girls.

Infolenka:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder yes, but no sane man will say that the wumi girl is more attractive than the girl I posted. Unless such a man was high on drugs.

The reason I even posted it was because of how the guy was bragging and boasting that wumi is the most beautiful girl he has ever seen and that she is more beautiful than the girl I posted.

That's how all these other liars will come on this thread and brag. But when you see the girls that they claim to have fuçked, she no even reach. They are all clowns. I've asked two for proof like pictures taken with this girls and they've all ran away.

She's not yet your girlfriend but you're already posessive?
I wonder what you would do, when you find out another guy has chanced you.

Tomorrow you would see another girl more curvy, more beautiful than her. E no worth am jare.

Silentgroper:
llmao. Bros wan go cia ontop curviness.
1. Okiki is d only name i knw abt her 4 nw.
2. Oyo state, ogbomosho.
3.Ebenezer baptist church.

man, if something happens to dat girl, i'll find u nd skin u alive, truss me.

Infolenka:
Clown

Lol the wumi girl does not look as curvy or beautiful as the the girl infolenka posted.
But remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

No I haven't. The girl I dated isn't as tall or thick.

Well said

bukatyne:
Decent single man/woman does not translate to decent in relationships.

you meant younger?

bukatyne:
Well, older employees are easier to manipulate and more docile because they have more responsibilities.

SportsHD:
Rapists need a stiffer law in nigeria. Like getting castrated. But also law in nigeria is shiiit.

1. How would such a law be implemented when it comes to female rapists?
2. How would you compensate men who have been wrongfully convicted of rape when you have already castrated them eg is the post from yesterday. How would compensate those 2 men, mr/mrs castrater?

https://www.nairaland.com/6557530/2-brothers-spent-31-years

How is his reaction defective?

rhektor:
Defective I mean to write

The news about him having extra marital affair and his 'alleged' wife denying she had a baby recently was not enough.

Men if you don't challenge unfair systems like the way actor Yomi Fabiyi did in the case of baba ijesha,
This can happen to you too.

Many men were supporting the illegal denial of bail for baba ijesha. Many men were supporting feminists to go and protest and deny baba ijesha bail.
This is wrong. If it's a bailable offence, baba ijesha has a right to bail.

Men know this, one day it might be you or father or your brother or your uncle.
Never support an illegal process, because that same illegal and unfair process could be used against you in the future.

Unlike these 2 men who were wrongfully accused, tried and convicted. Nobody is going to compensate you in Nigeria.

31 years of their life just gone like that, nobody is talking about their psychological scars, many of you are just mesmerised by the money, it's a shame.

Those of you that support death penalty, so you people would have killed 2 innocent men?
Those of you that support castration, so you people would have castrated 2 innocent men?
Those of you that saved pictures of a man smashing another man's testicles whenever a rape story comes out, so you people would have smashed 2 innocent men's testicles?

Remember it might be you

Say no to the death penalty
Say no to Castration
Say no to Jungle justice

Your don't know who might be innocent.

Explorers:
* A jury decided Mr Henry McCollum and Mr Leon Brown should received $31 million each in compensatory damages, $1 million for every year spent in prison.


* The jury also awarded them $13 million in punitive damages.

Two half brothers wrongfully sent to death row have been awarded $75 million in damages after spending decades behind bars for the 1983 rape and murder of an 11-year-old girl.

1976 school photo of Henry McCollum.

Attorneys for the men have said they were scared teenagers who had low IQs when they were questioned by police and coerced into confessing.

McCollum was then 19, and Brown was 15. Both were convicted and sentenced to death.

In a June 10, 1987 photo, Leon Brown sits in the day room of his Death Row cell block in Raleigh, NC's Central Prison.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9583089/2-men-wrongfully-sent-death-row-awarded-75M-damages.html?ito=social-facebook