₦airaland Forum

As if women's bills are what Nigeria needs.

Seun:
He has nothing to offer apart from being a muslim northerner. Shame. He's responsible for killing women's bills in the house of assembly.

@bolded,
I'm interested in reading what you have to say

MetaPhysical:
Arewa, stop lying. Mundane reality in North is intolerance for diversity. Yes, there are different tribes and practices but your muslim majority shut them down and they are forced to adopt, even if in pretense, a public image that does not conflict with Islam. This is why many of your christians adopt Islamic names. To outsider, it becomes difficult to distinguish their religion. Names like Ibrahim, Yusuf, Suleiman, Adamu, Hauwa, Maryam, and so on. Even so, you have no remorse in massacring them when you feel offended by their ways.
NW is worse than NE in maltreatment and persecution of christians. In NE, christians attain high public office and hold political positions. The only time such has ever happened in NW was Kaduna, and you muslims ended up humiliating him out of office before finally plotting his murder.

Your response is completely a distraction and missed the point on what Seun is alluding to.

I don't have time currently to tackle you deeper on this, monitoring APC primary at moment. If this thread is still active after primary[b] I wont mind breaking down your geopolitical region historically, culturally and politically and correct the myths and misunderstanding about North[/b].

How many northerners are educated up to the level of holding such positions in universities?

alasane:
Only Northerners believe Nigeria is one. Visit Northern Universities and see Yoruba’s, Igbos and other tribes as HODs, DVCs & Exam officers. But try and visit Universities in the South, East or West is hardly for you to see a staff or student there occupying such position.

God bless you

Aflix:
Lol, is it in the same north that Deborah, a northern Christain was brutally murdered and burnt for “blasphemy”?Is it that same north? Something as horrendous as that happened and the so called united Northerners defended the barbaric act.

I’m a Muslim, a very devout one, but I would be scared to give contrary notions on matters of religion and politics in the midst of northern Muslim. I know any wrong word/sentence can lead to my instant death.

You talk like it’s not the same north that there are divisions even within Muslims. They’ve been countless conflicts amongst these divisions that has lead to senseless loss of life and property.

True, the south is not all united. But don’t come here to paint a false picture of northern unity. The only unity y’all have is the unity to hold on to power no matter the cost. If the north is as united as you say, why haven’t you been able to stop Boko haram and other terrorist group. They are only a small number compared to the population of the northerners.

A vigilante was even killed some days ago for same “blasphemy” in your so called united north.

The problem you people have is that you don’t like telling yourselves the truth.

Asin eh. The person that is behind that arrewa moniker made me laugh with his write up. He painted a rosy picture of the North, which is far from reality.

WesternOligarch:
Seun likes to pander to public opinion to seem woke. But what you wrote up there is utter BS. There's a level of distrust between kanuris and hausa/fulanis, kaduna state is literally divided along religious lines, I also have first hand experience to what northern Muslims(mostly hausa/fulani) did during the 1999/2000 Sharia crisis in places like jos and other parts of the country. I all my years of experience, hausa/fulani are actually the most tribalistic in nigeria but are just happy singing one nigeria because it favors them.

@bolded, if the northerners are very accommodating why do they start rioting and burning down churches? Why did they kill Deborah, let's not even talk of the other Christians that we might not even know about.

IgbuduMonkey:
as a Southerner living in the North, I agree with most of what you have said. I am however of the opinion that the Fulani Jihad that occured just before Western colonization is mostly responsible for the political unity of the North. Politically, colonization came at the right time for the North.

[b]On tribalism, you are spot on. The Northerners are by far more accommodating than the other major tribes and do not mind people of other tribes being their next door neighbour. [/b]The Igbos are the most tribalistic Nigerians, but they don't know it. I used to think it was the Yorubas, but Yorubas are just scared of other people(maybe timid or distrustful) but the Igbos have a derogatory view of people that are not like them. It shows in the fact that Igboland is the least diverse part of the entire country.

@op, good job!

Was Deborah not a northerner?
Christian northerners are scared of the Muslims, so they bend over backwards so as not to offend them.

Arrewa:
Dear seun osewa!!

The north is not all about Islam!! That's where Many of u southerners are getting it wrong in first place!!

The north is not all about HausaFulani!!


We are united not just because of religious... average Fulani Christian,Hausa Christian and other northern Christian feel more carried along in the north than in the south!!

We have large number of Christians in Borno,yobe,Gombe,kebbi, and other northern States. Northern Christians speak Hausa, dress in kaftans, eat northern food, we share same culture and values!!

The only difference is that they are Christans who go to Church! Most of them even answer indigenous northern names!

Kanuri see a Hausa man as his brother...

Hausas sees Fulanis as Brothers...

Zuru see see a Bura as a brother, kanakuris see Nupe sas brother!! And so on and on!

A bura from Borno can be a governor in Kano (In the case of shekarau)

Fulani, Hausa, kanuri,nupe,bura,zuru can rule in any part of the north as long as he has the public appeal by playing his politics right!!

That cannot be said in that south even thou u are predominantly Christans!!

Tribalism is killing the south!!

Just because majority of bokoharam are kanuris we don't go about killing kanuris because of bokoharam attack in Kano!

Because majority of bandit are fulanis other northern tribes don't go about killing innocent Fulanis around them!! Calling it "reprisal"

An average northerner is not a tribalistic bigot!!

Come to Kano and see how northern tribes are living together in harmony!!

Only southerners especially the igbos isolate themselves in Sabo Gari!!

That's why we are politically united!!

We tried uniting with the south but we were subjected to inhuman act and betrayal!!

Our leaders were killed in the process!! We lost sardauna, Abubakar Tafawabelewa and Many of our leaders!

Even if we try to forgive and unite, The south will always have a reason to smear and subject the north to all sort physical and verbal attacks!!

We have over 300 tribes in the north!!

Dear seun... The south gave the north the strength and the unity it has today!!

Not just religion as u projected!!

How did the mother enter the night club?

Whether you pick old or young, or whether you pick good or bad, or whatever, make sure you pick someone that has gone on record to say he would restructure Nigeria.

Seun:
We have tried a bad man (a former military dictator and tribal bigot) for the last 7 years and we have suffered. Let us try a good man biko.


Tinubu is too old for the job. This is a job that turns young men into old men. The job that killed Yar'adua. Let's pick someone who is vibrant.

wash your face regularly with soap. rub powder on your face and also, after bathing in the night, before going to bed, rub powder on your face(like ojuju).
It really helped me. Especially regularly washing my face.

If you die for or because of your faith in Christ Jesus, it's martyrdom, "the blood of the martyrs is the seed of the church". If you die for your country, it's patriotism.
However, I don't know what to call those who die for just being Nigerians, individuals ruthlessly hacked to death and roasted in fire by rampaging blood thirsty religious fanatics in a country that says it is secular with rule of law.
What do I call those massacred in St Francis Catholic Church by terrorists that seem to be enabled by some criminal elements in the country? If they were told to renounce their faith in Christ Jesus and they refused and got killed, I could call them martyrs without hesitation. They were killed because they were unfortunate to be in Nigeria where killing is now as easy as ABC everywhere. Let's leave nomenclature for now.
A MESSAGE FOR THE KNIGHTS OF THE CHURCH.
knighthood was established to protect the church, if I'm not mistaken, from external aggression. It's time to up the game. I plead, appeal and suggest that knights in the church should organise and get licensed guns. Drop the ceremonial swords for now, get government licensed guns, get some members trained and carry the guns concealed for eventualities like Owo massacre. Self defence is not against Christian and Catholic doctrine.
Parishes that are too poor to have government licensed automatic guns should be assisted by the rich ones. If we have to dedicate the bazaar of one year to achieve this let it be. Let's help government to ward off killers from worship centers.
It is practically impossible for government to deploy security operatives to all churches, so this is a necessary complementary efforts. Knights of the church, it's time. Let's not ever think that this incident will not happen again. This is not the first, who says it will be the last? It is safe to say other churches and our muslim brethren can do same. Government needs help to secure Nigerians.
A MESSAGE TO OUR CHRISTIAN POLITICIANS.
You all know that Nigeria needs to be restructured, our security architecture needs to be urgently redesigned. for reasons beyond comprehension, I don't know why you guys don't make it a priority. You are more intent in getting your party slots for one elective position or the other, you are more concerned with getting your party to win one election or the other, you have refused to tackle the fundamental issues with the country.
please, eschew personal and partisan interest and make the interest of Nigeria your priority. Pursue the restructuring of Nigeria from the constitutional point of view to governance levels vigorously. Stop playing the ostrich.
may the souls of the victims of St Francis Catholic Church Owo massacre rest in peace. ���


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Please don't compare what happened in the US to what is happening in Nigeria
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BluntTheApostle:
Why politicising the issue?

Yes, insecurity has risen, but it is the same everywhere in the world, due to job losses and economic meltdown arising from the oil slump, the lockdowns, and all that.

Last month, May 25, a gunman entered a primary school in the United States, and killed 19 pupils. Is that also the fault of Buhari?

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Okay, thank you.

tonexman18:
on tv, yes

Did Peter Obi condemn Deborah's murder and that of the vigilante in Abuja?[quote author=onthehill post=113506184]Labour Party Presidential candidate for Nigeria's 2023 presidential election, Peter Obi has condemned the attack by unknown gunmen on christians at St. Francis Catholic Church in Owo, Ondo state today, IGBERETV reports.

Condemning the attack via his Twitter handle, Peter Obi wrote;



https://twitter.com/PeterObi/status/1533512869110853638?t=Xlf_8aETi0oeXkdOvFK1sA&s=19[/quote]

Why is she still in contact with her ex?

Tinububalls:
The right question is, why is she sleeping over in the Ex house?

Lol, you are very funny. What are you doing with a girl that is still in contact with her ex-boyfriend? Let us not even mention her:
1. going to see him in his house
2. sleeping in his house.

Like I said in another thread, many of you men would learn the hard way.

This award was given to Ronaldo by fans. However, the award that was done by the united players themselves was given to DeGea.
It is very telling that majority of the united players did not vote for Ronaldo as their player of the year.

Lol. It would not stop. The best thing is to restructure Nigeria

Malory:
With Peter Obi all these nonsense will stop

Okay

ubunja:
never been to Nigeria.

I did not want to say anything until I got confirmation from a newspaper.
Now that I've confirmed it, let me ask, why aren't you demanding for the restructuring of Nigeria?

You shout Peter Obi, you shout Tinubu, you shout whomever. Yet neither Peter Obi nor Tinubu have said anything about restructuring Nigeria.

Things like this would continue happening and politicians would not do or say anything about it. Why? Because block votes come from the north, the North are kingmakers (president-makers) in Nigeria.

You're still not demanding restructuring? Okay o!

#Saynotojunglejustice

Have you lived in Nigeria before, and for how long?

ubunja:
its an interesting dynamic over here,, homosexuality being legal means there's a real thriving gay subculture; but is it big enough to inconvenience women? Maybe Yes maybe No. Because gays are by far one of the most successful groups of men I think it's more a case of women being drawn to certain upwardly mobile gents only to realize they're gay. The men they like usually turn out to be homo. I think that's what's happening.

But then there's other factors that are more directly eating away at the prospective male market like the fact that a lot of men are in jail, some hooked on drugs, others chasing alcohol and many just flat out losing interest in dating for whatever reason.

it should be noted that when women complain of a shortage of men , in any country on any continent, they're only complaining of the Beta Bucks shortage. cause women will never run out of men who wanna smash. it's the shortage of men willing to commit which troubles women cause it means many things: eg it means there's no one women can use to correct their mistakes (no step fathers for those alpha's kids), and it means women may have to work till they die since there's no "retirement package" men that will wife them up and support them later on in life.
and in SA it's no different, sex before marriage is a huge norm here with cohabitation exactly like in the US where a girl as young as 20 can just pack her bag and go live with her BF and no one at home bats an eye. so the sex is always plentiful, it's the commitment that's going down the drain, given that SA men have always been commitment-phobic (cause most are raised by single mothers so they never learnt what it is for a man to love a woman since they never had a father figure), its now even worse cause social media and the slow but steady awakening of men to the real nature of women, are all making men see women as short term pleasures but long term headaches. if these men hated commitment before, the hate it MORE now. which is a real dilemma for SA women who find themselves good enough for sex but not good enough for marriage.
there's a complaint that SA women love Money, but let me tell you SA women don't even know what gold digging is. they are one of the cheapest groups of women in Africa. I belong to an exclusive gold diggers group of SA women on Instagram and I'm always laughing at the things they demand and their stories. these are working class women cute as hell but they're literally chasing peanuts. and they just love that dick they'll even turn around and let you golddig them if you're good at sex. lol.

given that commitment is hard to come by, it's a buyer's market out here, you can have the cutest chick for the lowest bride price. bride prices are notoriously low here. which is rather strange cause these girls are hot. but then again most of them drink and like to party.
I could go on..... hope I answered you.

Many Nigerian men would learn the hard way

Carcholce:
Nigerian men are simps that’s why. The way “we” spend and lavish money on women surprises other nationals which makes them want to experience same with Nigerian men.

Some Nigerian men are openly marrying prostitutes in Asia and Europe. I do not know what to think of it. When these girls come into the country, they pay off their sponsors and take the girl in as a girlfriend/wife.

Like you know very well that the lady came to Japan to do prostitution work and you pay off her sponsor (which is also a retired ho.e), and take the girl in as a girlfriend or wife. They pay from $10k to $20k for these girls. When you go to places like Turkey and it’s neighboring countries, most Nigerian men that get married/have kids over there actually married hoess and they know very well these women are hoess.


I fvcked a Tanzania lady two weeks ago that told me a Nigerian guy bought her the iPhone 13 pro max she’s using and also gave her $3k to pay off the money She owes her sponsor. They are dating. Like real dating. The guy always feel jealous when she’s out of his sight, he calls her phone repeatedly and demands her to switch to video calls. Omon!

The same English that is a secondary language for most people in Nigeria?
The same English of which 99% of Nigerian speakers can't even make good sentences or grammar or pronunciation?

Guy stop showing your inferiority complex.

Foreigna2:
They are all from countries where English is not their official language.
English is Nigeria's official language and Mercy speaks English like a vegetable hawker.

Gbam!!

DropsMic:
The whites will never be as daft or lost as the blacks who not only mock those who can't speak the white man's language but also see those who don't worship the white man's God as doomed.

People are just funny. This is the inferiority complex that I speak about. You are mocking a black Nigerian lady because of her English accent, but you are mute when a white person speaks English with an accent, we blacks have serious issues.

Yeah that can happen. He has been used to not having a car. He would need some time to adjust to his new reality.

America the trouble maker. Tomorrow they would change it again to antagonise or bait China.

Awon I don't hit women group

Would you laugh and call the boy an iron man, if the roles were reversed?

God1000:
Lol, she's iron lady

@ 1st bolded,
We can start changing it, provided more men are willing to speak up and take action against such evil women. Most times men just ignore or don't take action.

@ 2nd bolded,
Don't even deal with toxic women in the first place.

AfroKnight:


This is a win for men and a satisfying loss for feminists, feminazis and their male enablers who consistently ignore the fact that men can be victims of abuse just like women.

Amber Heard used the metoo movement to smear Johnny Depp and cause him great loss in his sterling career. Thunder faya her for that.

I hope she gets charged for perjury in other countries where she lied to ruin the innocent man’s career.

It didn’t take much for misguided Hollywood execs and the manipulative media to cancel Depp. But they refused to make reparations even when evidence came out a couple of years ago. They still refused to remove her from Aquaman. That’s disgusting. But that is life in todays world.

It should not be so. But if you are a man, you must prove beyond every doubt that you didn’t do what a woman with crocodile tears has accused you of.

Learn from this. Obtain evidence when dealing with toxic women. And make sure you get justice when they try to ruin you with false accusations. Be steadfast like Johnny Depp.

He did it for us men.

Little by little, the world is waking up to how wicked and evil some women can be.
Little by little, men are beginning to speak up and take action against evil women.
Little by little, domestic violence against men is being taken seriously.
Little by little, men are beginning to know that women are quite capable of being violent.