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Yes, I'm pleased when a white person makes effort to speak our language

WoundedLamb:
Awesome!


Lmao.... so of all the mad lines the guy was spitting, "omoge no be so" was the one pleased you the most?

Lol. I wasn't comparing Nigeria and the US.

Sterope:
Nigeria is much worse on that list. How can you not see it?

I bet we have more kids in cults, drugs, gambling, prostitution, poor school TIMES the poverty.


I will be afraid what the future brings.

Lol na only you oh.

Stanleyville:
Overrated tbvh....maybe na only me

I swear, Especially the part he was singing, "omoge no be so girl you just capture my soul"

I was like see this Englishman dey sing pidgin English.

Emmyreal4:
The remix is better, Ed sheeran killed it

I love Peru remix

Okay

WoundedLamb:
Yours is a different discussion. Whether the US is declining or not was never the gist of my comment. I only pointed out that their model of raising kids isn't the cause as suggested by the post I quoted. Pulling the girl's hair is simply wrong.

You need to pay more attention.

The US is actually collapsing on itself.
We're currently witnessing the gradual decline of the American Empire and American hegemony.

So the post you quoted is correct, America is declining.

Oops, soro I just saw it is you wounded lamb.

You live over there so you would definitely be blinded. Its a well known fact that the citizens of an Empire don't realise that their Empire is collapsing until it is too late. Eg the Roman citizens.

WoundedLamb:
Hhmm... permit me to share my opinion on this.

So you don't think it was wrong for the teacher to pull a 12 year-old girl by her hair? Do you really think the teacher pulled her as a corrective measure or just out of uncontrolled anger? Even in Nigeria, I doubt if any parent would take it lightly. What I see playing out here is ethnocentrism. You're probably using the African standard as the ideal standard for measuring the performance of another society and it makes sense why you think that society will blow up one day. But the truth is, the US has been like this for long and they're still churning out great people, game changers. You don't hit people in places like New Zealand and Canada, yet these countries are believed to have the most polite people in the world.

It's natural for kids/teenagers to pass through a rebellious phase. This is when they become self-aware, express themselves through different means and find out where they fit in. Adults also get the chance to communicate with real personalities and guide accordingly. Hitting them like animals is a magic solution. It might make them not to do certain things out of fear, but they'd still outgrow the fear at a point or move away from home where you wouldn't see them to hit. At best, they just master ways to evade being caught doing the wrong things. At the end, you have adults whose idea of being smart is being able to get away with doing tye wrong things. Hardened, violent and angry adults with no empathy towards one another.

Any animal trainer will tell you that only those who lack creative ways of training animals resort to hitting them. If this is true for animals, why hit kids that speak your human language? Going by the final products, there's really no evidence that the Nigerian or African way of bringing up kids is any better than what you have in the western world. There are deviants in the US just like the streets of Nigeria are littered with the so-called yahoo boys, oloshos, pick-pocketers, abgeros and what have you. The American system might not be perfect but Africa is certainly not a model.

Thanks.

It would also be hard for the boss to retaliate because she has evidence.

LordReed:
When something like that is disclosed it is harder for the boss to retaliate because it would be immediately seen for what it is.

So a woman is scared to admonish her boss but she is not scared to report him?

LordReed:
You think a woman would straight up admonish her boss when its not clear what the power dynamic between them will yield as a result of her admonishment?

I rejected the contents of the message.
If a man sexts a woman and she is not interested she can reject or admonish him, this can happen by replying through texting or doing it face to face. This was I meant, with the bolded.

My point is that it wrong for the man to be punished for flirting or sexting in the event that the lady in question did not reject it.

My point is that, feminism has succeeded in making destroying the relationship between men and women, especially in the west.

The CNN person why was he the only person to resign, why didn't the female staff resign? Look it is just stupid.

LordReed:
Oh I am sorry I thought you were actually talking to me. I apologise.

But you didn't reject the text message, you replied to it which of course can lead to further conversation. Or do you mean to block the person because rejecting a text message is not possible.

Did you not ask me how to reject text messages?

LordReed:
Report me for asking you a question? Are you a comedian? LoLz.

Stop using SMS alerts as proof of payment!!

If someone tells you they have sent you money even if you received the alert, open your bank app and check for the transaction details.
Note: I did not say check your balance in the app, I said check for the transaction details.
This because it takes a little more time for your balance to reflect the new transaction, but in your transaction details you can see the transaction already, if truly the person has paid you.

I learnt this from a POS agent and it works for me when transacting on binance.

It does not matter. You don't use the time allotted for English mass for Igbo mass. That is just wrong. Mzflexydeeva you see what I am saying? It is first and foremost, a mentality problem.
English mass is created so that those who don't understand the language of the community they find themselves in, can worship in English.

It does not matter if the other ethnic groups are not up to 10%

If the Igbos feel that they don't understand English or don't want to use English then they should speak with parish priest to create a time slot for Igbo mass. Then let other ethnic nationals have their English mass.

You can't because you are the majority deprive others from worshipping adequately.

Amojii:
What you said is correct but what if the other ethnics are not up to 10℅
Separate mass for them will be boring and frustrating

Let's call a spade a spade Igbo's dominants catholic church in Nigeria even in the North yoruba's have long moved to mega churches own by their Yoruba pastors

That why Igbo's do not have mega churches, well maybe only chosen

The only thing there is to learn the language and enjoy the other side of thing for ones it will not kill you.

Just reply, bros I am not interested don't send me such messages again or I would report you!!

LordReed:
How do you reject a text message? LoL

Wow that was very wrong. More than any other reason, I believe it is a mentality problem i.e since the majority at English mass are Igbo, therefore let us use Igbo language.
It is a wrong mentality to be using the time allotted for English mass, for Igbo mass. Unfortunately some Igbos don't see anything wrong with it.

It is wrong.

Mzflexydeeva:
Yes it was an English mass. I actually spoke with another catholic who is Igbo and she was like you know most Catholics are Igbo that’s why… we just laughed over it

In the real life example you sited was it an English mass?

Mzflexydeeva:
I am forced to comment. I am not saying what this priest has done is right but I can understand a bit of what he is saying. Banning is the solution rather ways to foster harmony among all tribes in the church should be sought for.


I for one, I am a catholic but going to church in Lagos has been very discouraging. I have attended a mass where the priest was practically giving sermon in Igbo. Most priest especially those from the East forget the term universal when they mount the pulpit. It’s actually discouraging when at a mass all the Igbo people are laughing over what a priest has said and you just sit there lost. If you are not Igbo sometimes going for mass is no use. Just find the readings and stay at home because you won’t enjoy mass. I am not Yoruba either but I know of a church that has Yoruba mass and others in English. So maybe having an Igbo mass strictly for igbos would help.

This is unfortunate.
Catholics are shooting themselves in the foot.
Things are changing, more and more young people are turning away from God and the church, yet all this priest can think about is that Igbo songs are dominating his parish. Smh.

See where Human beings are living

Who remembers that story from the Bible, when Isaac asked Abraham, where is the lamb for the sacrifice? And Abraham responded, God would provide.

OP respect yourself. Cut ties with that person he is no friend.

Go to NYSC there would be huge opportunities especially through SAED(Skill Acquisition and Entrepreneurship Development)

Also, you would meet people during camp, network and make good friends and connections.

I'm not sure it is up to 70% but many 9ja guys are a getting wiser.

Faber:
I have a pretty ex, she's not yet married, she's still stalking me, begging me to come marry her, Omoh my fear is that every where don open and I know that no guy in his right senses will marry her

They believe they are too pretty to suffer. Instead of to develop themselves they spend most times on mirror, Facebook and tiktok. They realize this very late. And give it to Nija guys over 70% of them don wise up o

Is she the daughter of Theophilus Danjuma? Its like the man married a white woman

Amen

baralatie:
How many do you want to read in the papers!
Then I would suggest you get every daily news paper from UK and USA!
A lot of disciplinary work hit people for misconduct and inappropriate behaviour such as this both here in Nigeria and abroad!
Don't try or mess with office politics!
Dem smell you na go
I am still remembering the female ranch manager in Abuja here o.wont name the bank.
Inappropriate behaviour towards a colleague led to her withdrawal(sack is a rough word).
It was complain by the male colleague that fell into the heads of senior boys in Lagos and they just placed her on observation(without her knowing)
Fiam!
That was how she joined oluomo Nigeria limited(road branch).
Or the one that nearly escaped in v.i here in Lagos.


I can not count .
You can go all day and drag this issue but my one Kobo advice stay the heck the hell aware from inappropriate behaviour such as this in an office environment!
Abi you want forget ordinary female soldier recruit that accepted proposal from corper(no be beg them start to dey beg a whole CODS).
Abeg God deliver us from carelessness!

Please stop relying on sms alerts, when receiving money from people. Instead open your bank app and check the transaction details if the money has entered.
That is how I confirm receipt of payment

Well, you could be right that female principals, teachers and female police officers are dismissed from office for inappropriate behaviour. But I am yet to read about such happening.

In the case about the Atlanta nursing director, she was withdrawn not fired. If the genders were reversed the man would have been fired.

baralatie:
We have female.principals,teachers and female police officers being dismissed out of office for inappropriate behaviour towards male staffs ok!
At least I know of UK and us
I just remembered a case in Atlanta where a nursing director was withdrawn from office because of a fling with a janitor!
So office rules applies to both sexes in the office environment.
Them catch you na go

You might be right, that a lot of women have lost their jobs because of an affair with their boss or worker. Although I am yet to read anything of such.
Also, about the UK health minister, I am familiar with it. He did not loose his job because of the affair, he lost his job because he broke COVID-19 distancing rules. But yet did the woman he had an affair with lose her job too?

Feminism did not start today, so bringing up Bill Clinton is not useful. Feminism started gaining momentum in the 60s. The woman in question Monica Lewinsky she became an instant celebrity. If the genders were reversed I doubt the man would have become a celebrity. So, you see feminism is playing a part in it.

sanpipita:
Its not true lots of women have lost their jobs or resigned after being outed for an affair with their boss or worker, I can refer you to case of former UK health prime minister matt Hancock, all this has nothing to do with feminism btw laws in west as just strict, bill Clinton was impeached for having an affair in his office, that's how they roll for many years now

The first bolded,
Just because you have not seen it happen does not mean it is abnormal.

The second bolded,
It has everything to do with feminism. Now what boundaries are you talking about?

The third bolded,
are you trying to be funny or what. How many women in positions of power have resigned in such a scenario? When female child rapists are not held accountable for their abominable actions, you here telling me story.

Druss:
There is a difference between sexting and flirting. Sexting in the office environment is not normal. This has nothing to do with male emasculation.

Y'all attacking females over this is an indication that you do not consider their viewpoint valid. Women are not objects. This has nothing to do with feminism but respecting boundaries.

In the scenario you described yes it is wrong and the woman would and should get in trouble if she continues. She is the positionally superior.

If you want to do sexting there must be a foundation. In this day and age anyone doing sexting is a careless person.

My point is that it wrong for the man to be punished for flirting or sexting in the event that the lady in question did not reject it.

My point is that, feminism has succeeded in making destroying the relationship between men and women, especially in the west.

The CNN person why was he the only person to resign, why didn't the female staff resign? Look it is just stupid.

sanpipita:
They will still face disciplinary issues if caught, what exactly is your point? CNN CEO resigned after it was found out he had a affair with a staff.

Lol, like I said before, that saying is story for the gods

sukkot:
thats true but try not to shit where you eat

Lol.
Attraction can happen at anytime.

sukkot:
oh absolutely nothing wrong with gender attraction. thats what the remaining 15 hours of your day is for. can you just focus for 9 hours and get your mind away from your private parts so as to get the job done ? you have 15 hours left out of 24 to think about your private parts

You keep getting it wrong that is not the difference between a 3rd world country and a first world country.

But at least in our 3rd world country, we understand males and females would always be attracted to each other, and there is nothing wrong with it. Unlike the hypocritical first world country

sukkot:
thats the differene between a turd world country and a first world country. first world country they prefer you check your personal life and emotions and sexual desires at home before you step into their office. turd world country you can come to office with konji and be harrasing everybody