₦airaland Forum

ExudeLoveToAll:
You still don't get it?

When that child needs tuition, feeding, accommodation you will be the one to pay.

When the child needs mentorship via discipline you will be reminded you are not the father of the child. 99percent of the time your relationship is dependent on providing money for the upkeep of the child, the moment you can't provide that money you will be jettisoned like a pack of card.

The dynamics of having a soft of polyandry is another issue altogether, an issue you don't wish for your enemy.

Yeah, I agree... Very good points.

However, these don't apply to every single mother out there... A lot of them are good and responsible. It's not carved in stone.

Besides, if a man can afford it, what's the big deal helping in raising the kid?!! In any case, it's no different from adopting kids once the money is there... If you don't have the funds, then find your level.

Additionally, is this any worse than marrying single ladies who end up saddling the man with Paternity fraud?!!

Well, it all comes down to choices... If single mothers are not one's type, he should avoid, no matter how attractive they are.

sylve11:
Frost, the child is not the issue here. Loving them is not the issue here, too.

Most of the single mothers are extremely manipulative.

If things are right, a virgin man is supposed to marry a virgin woman. The scattered ones can as well get themselves. Hope you understand.

You make a great point, but it doesn't always happen like that... Nothing is ever that simple.

Virgin ladies can do far worse to a man than single mothers.

Great character is not always wrapped up in virginity.

My point is... We should keep an open mind at all times.

Once you find a good woman, it shouldn't matter whether she is a virgin or not.

Why should a single woman's child or the fact that she has a child repulse anyone?!!

Does birthing a child make a woman less human?!! Is that supposed to make them less attractive?!!

SMH!!!

...And this is news because?!!

Banana Republic...!

Security is at an all-time low across the nation, and the criminals know this... So, they are capitalizing on it.

Every smart person should watch his back, keep a really low profile (no flashy cars, clothes, outings, etc).

Abagworo:
Most Igbo haters are praying for him not to be freed cause they are happy with the insecurity his detention has created in the Southeast.

You mean there was no insecurity while he was free in UK?!!!

Why do our lawyers dress so ridiculously like clowns?!!

Must you imitate your former Colonial Masters??! Are you still slaves?!

This is just a very stupid report.

Victor Osimhen himself knows he is not yet worthy to lace Okocha's shoes.

You dumb and brainless journalists and bloggers will just wake up and start fishing for issues where there are none.

The only thing you all do is say R.I.P and "They will never go unpunished". Yet, insecurity and killings are worsening daily, all directly linked to skyrocketing poverty and poor security across the nation.

pquaver:
Keep quiet..it IS Not dead now 4 IS greater thank 27.. it IS Not dead now a governor Set House of assembly ON fire and Bulldozer IT..you willwail when the time comes but WE will let U do that because na Ur Birth right..If Una No wailer WHO will..

Sigh... I wish I knew what you were talking about.

A governor has been elected into office, same as a President... I'm more concerned about the office of the governor suddenly becoming a playground for the manipulation of godfathers.

Don't ever come at me again with such stupidity... I'm not a supporter of political parties and politicians.

If Fubara eventually gets removed, then just know that democracy is dead in Nigeria.

The competition in that area is ruthless... They are out of their depth.

MrJames007:
Can't remember when I last stepped inside a bank. It's been quite long.

Same here... Na letter of reference carry me enter there for the first time in a really long time.

Robbers that are not well equipped on a single bike, successfully robbed a bank!!!


Forget... There is no security in this 3rd world nation.

Everyone is technically available as long as marital commitment or engagement has not been done.


Girlfriend or boyfriend is just a loose term that doesn't infer serious commitment.

You can't travel by Air cos it's ridiculously expensive...!

Traveling by road is now at your own risk.

Even train is expensive and equally unsafe.

Okay, let no one travel... Living within your locale is now unsafe due to increasing robbery and crime rate...!

Those in the villages can no longer safely go about their lives or farm due to terrorists and bandits roaming about freely.


Yet, one bastard here is rushing to tell us that crime is everywhere in the world... That we should stop painting Nigeria negative outside.

Meanwhile, your president is more concerned about roaming about abroad claiming to be attracting millions of investors and investments into the nation... Into this insecurity!

Issokay... Renewed hope is truly here.

After just 6 months?!!... Park well and shut the fvck up, you fat fool!


It's too early to bitch and complain...!

The main Suffering hasn't started yet... That will surely come later next year.

The cover up for looting in this 3rd world nation is on a whole new level.


These people are basically telling you boldly and unabashedly how much they are siphoning from the coffers of this nation, while constantly telling you that the nation is poor and bankrupt.

Irredeemable!!!

No nation on Earth can ever develop or soar amidst this shocking level of Corruption.

Lol... Una don reawaken this useless and idiotic Vaccine drive!

Starboytwo:
the word useless is not enough for man utd. They need something stronger than useless.

A useless boy can still become useful, but man utd own don finish kpatakpata...

It's good like this...!

Sometimes, if you don't hit rock bottom, you won't take the needed steps to be great again.

Arsenal, Milan, Liverpool, and others have been here before.

It's United and Chelsea's time at the bottom... They should put their houses in order, and start competing again.

These clubs need serious and ruthless overhaul... Sadly, their owners are not ready to make the tough decisions.

Beverlyjean:
Manchester is a useless club

No, they are not... It's a great club with idiotic players.

Half of that team still needs to be shipped out, starting from Rashford, Martial and Sancho.

Of course, the Coach has finally reached the limit of his stay... Unfortunately, the next coach won't fare any better with these same players.

Congrats to Napoli.

Man United was never in the competition. Their fans should be glad that they can now fully focus on getting top 4 in the league.

EPL's chances this season in UCL don't look that bright with Man City and Arsenal.

Congrats to FC Copenhagen on making the Knockout stage of the UCL.

Congrats to some degree to Man United on finishing bottom of the group... You guys have been spared the stress and embarrassment of being dumped out of Europa league too.

You people can now focus on your top 4 pursuit, which is clearly all you guys are aiming for this season.

Small Club.

Okay... They are more powerful than the Federal Government.

So, basically they are the ones ruling the nation, Abi?!!


SMH!!!

Good one... I just think African football has crawled for too damn long.

The worst is West African football.

Starboy is clearly flexing his vacation away from the stress of music...!

He is doing well.

Always great to see people connecting with their roots.

Awoof dey purge normally...!

The way you Nigerian bloggers collobi the words "netizens", "storm", "react/reactions", "sparked", etc, is really irritating.


It seems your vocabulary is severely limited.

That's what happens when Chickens are allowed to drive...!

PoliteActivist:
Not true.. He was a no nonsense head of state with Idiagbo, he fought in the Biafra war, Osinbajo would be another Idiagbo (picking up his slack), the North and military would be fully behind him, etc

He led Nigeria down the cesspit economically. It was an outright disaster, the very worst the nation had experienced under a military head.

The man has been renown for his cluelessness.

IboHausaYoruba:
Wow! Wiz Kid's fortune should be reading in over 200 million dollars. And you can't see him making noise around like Davido that was fortunately born into a very wealthy family.

If you don't drag Davido into this, your brain won't rest Abi?!

No one chooses his lineage or condition of birth... It's what you do with your life opportunities that matters.

There are several rich kids who amounted to nothing... Davido has worked hard and paid his dues.

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
You just brought back memories
There was soo much hope with the election of Buhari.
There'd be 24/7 electricity. No more Boko, one dollar will gradually be equal to one naira, etc

Misplaced and unrealistic hope...!

Anyone with half a brain could have seen that Buhari had absolutely nothing to offer.