₦airaland Forum

Look at the future leaders... Already embezzling at lowly class rep level.

Imagine if this one becomes a minister, governor or senator.

A real hydra-headed problem...!

As you are arresting one, at least 3 of his kinsmen are rushing to take his place.

Generation of vipers.

Strictly for sports news and updates...!

Instagram is solely for financial updates... LinkedIn for career access.

No time for nonsense!

Sigh... Someone actually sat down to do that??!

Lazy and dull youths!

Karlifate:
Yeah, right.


A woman attaining spectacular career success increases the probability of her divorcing her husband.

Why?

Because when her status in the macro hierarchy rises, it increases the probability that she will attain status higher than her husband‘s, thereby cause her attraction to her husband to die because he no longer appeals to her hypergamy.


Men, if your wife suddenly gets a promotion at work, that increases the probability of her divorcing you.


If a husband‘s income is higher than his wife‘s income, the probability of divorce is low.


If a husband‘s income is lower than his wife‘s income, the probability of divorce is high.


Income is a proxy for ‘Status in the Macro Dominance Hierarchy‘.

Honestly, I can neither agree nor disagree with you on these...!

I have been in great relationships with higher-earning ladies, and your theory didn't hold.

A lot of the divorce cases of today involve men earning far higher than their wives... I know a lot of unions where earning power is reversed between husbands and wives, yet their love and unions grew stronger.

See ehn, a woman who starts disrespecting her husband openly and blatantly when she starts earning more probably never really respected him, even when he was the macro earner... The same woman would cheat on him while he earns more with someone who offers more.

Well, the possibilities and impossibilities are endless... The drama in Marriage is just not for the unprepared.

Luckysbab:
In this case, the gender differentiation is justifiable.

Actually, it's never justifiable in any case...

Whenever a man marries late (or early), it's his choice and preference, but for a woman, it has to be down to her poor character (mostly arrogance). Such thinking is beyond archaic and obtuse.

Whether for biological (mostly child-bearing) or otherwise, no one (man or woman) should be age-shamed or blackmailed into matrimony.

Marriage is too serious and complicated a matter for anyone to jump into out of peer or societal pressure.

Mosba:
Being 30 should worry every woman because no sensible guy will marry a lady at 30. Any girl age 30 and still single is never going to make a loving wife. They would have over used themselves and when the husband now need them after marriage then they will start giving all kinds of excuses as to why they hate sex. Avoid 30 years old and above ladies for marriage and have peace

Your generalization is weak and amusing (Ignorant too)...!

In today's hyper-sexed generation, do you know how many sexual encounters ladies and guys below 30 have had??!

The day some girls below 18 opened up about their sex life, my lower jaw almost knack ground... Those girls had seen it all!

The truth is... Marriage no longer holds the attraction and lure on young people as it did decades ago. I have seen young men grow serious cold feet a few days before their weddings, and the same with brides.

Like it or not, in years to come, young people will turn their backs on marriage, and opt for cohabiting.

Towncrier007:
Too much shakara will make them single at 30

So, what makes a man single at 30 and above??! Too much Shakara??!... Because most men today, even at 40 are nowhere prepared to be husbands or heads of families.

It's not always enough to make these things about gender.

AmyNwa10:
It's for this very reason; the dear of being unmarried at 30 as a lady that has pushed a lot of women to ending up with any man just to be tagged, "she married early."

The men aren't even helping, since they have a knack for calling >30 unmarried ladies derogatory names such as evening newspaper.
We'll just marry anyhow to avoid all of that.

Many married anyhow and suffered far worse fates than being termed "Evening Newspaper".

Do you think every married person out there is fulfilled and happy??! Honestly, there might likely be more miserable and depressed married people than single.

I'm not taking sides on this argument, but no one should be pressured or age-shamed into a marriage they are ill-prepared for or unhappy with... It makes no sense.

It's better to be married late and fulfilled with your soulmate than marry early into misery, unhappiness, and endless drama.

Most educated ladies nowadays, get married when they are over 30... This seems to have become the norm these days.

I don't see any big deal in it... In several years to come, cohabitation will largely replace marriages.

A lot of the ones in marriage are either enduring or considering Divorce.

African culture is fast degrading in most areas including the areas of matrimony and home-making.

Sigh... Common sense is becoming so rare these days.

Forget low self-worth... How dumb must a human be to fall for such a shockingly childish scam?

10k Dollars??! Come on!

If you can afford a pet lion, you ought to be able to afford better skincare cosmetics... Just look at those knuckles.

Sigh... What a greedy hoe.

What's the big deal here?!! They are clearly actors paid to entertain.

Franzinni:
Droga stop living in your imaginations there hardly any scenario you can think of that had not been deeply considered ... Nigeria can be useless on other things but some things, they excell at. If he dies in custody, there won't be a thing done. They might be noise made here and there it won't go beyond that because the programming has already taken effect. And most people that will join the rank and file will first consider thier property and investment first.

The one living in his illusion is you...

The same illusion that made you clowns think killing Yusuf Mohammed would be swept under and nothing would happen... Well, it's been over 12 years, how many soldiers have been needlessly wasted??!!


You people truly deserve your brainless leaders.

Most of the appointments are the usual Political settlements rather than meritocracy.

Typical examples include:

Wike (FCT minister)
Keyamo, Aviation minister (Biggest joke of them all)



I honestly thought and hoped Tinubu would do better than his predecessors... Shame.

hammerT:
THE ONLY THING KANU IS DOING IN DSS CUSTODY IS CAUSING IGBO LEADERS I.E. GOVERNORS, SENATORS AND OHANAEZE TO COME AND BEG.



HE IS A BARGAINING CHIP.



LOSE THE BARGAINING CHIP, U SEE NOBODY AGAIN. tHEY WONT TALK TO YOU BECAUSE MATTERS WILL GET OUT OF CONTROL.

I honestly feel they are playing with fire at this point...!

It seems they don't value peace in this nation.

Kanu will soon become a serious bone in their neck.

If he dies in their care... The repercussions upon the nation will be unfathomable.

DSS, anything you do, keep that man hale and hearty.


That MKO Abiola's people allowed his death slide, doesn't mean Ipob and Southeast will do the same if anything goes wrong.


Y'all shouldn't intentionally be playing with fire.... You guys haven't been able to eradicate Boko Haram after over 12 years, how do you now handle another vengeful guerilla warfare within the same nation?!!


My counsel at this point is to reach an agreement with UK Justice system and Interpol, and hand him over to them... Shift the burden of justice over to the man's other nationality... Do this before things go wrong.

He might die of natural causes in your hands, but there is no way on Earth you are gonna explain that to his already agitating and agitated followers.

Don't make a martyr out of that man.

Throwback:
Dele Alake messed up with his " A Serious Government would nominate Minister in 1 month" tripe.

I don't even feel he should have been nominated.

What exactly is wrong with that statement??! Should a serious government take over 3 months to set up a functioning and running ministerial cabinet??!

Why are you guys so easily offended by criticisms and truth??!

Keyamo, Aviation Minister; Wike, FCT!

Interesting times ahead...!

That's why I keep saying we are not yet practicing democracy in the proper way.


All because of ethnicity and religion, we permit these politicians to do what they like without repercussions.

Well... That's nothing new.

Phranx1:
You dey forbid return ticket ni ? Nonsensical nonsensity

Are you sure you understood what she analysed there?!!

Taylor90:
You know the most underrated advantage of living abroad is their swift medical treatment and care

Do you know that Sam Okparaji died at Surulere football stadium because ambulance no gree start

Does this lady know how many Nigerians that has lost their lives because NEPA took light during surgical procedures

Do you know how many lives that has wasted in Nigeria to negligence and poor facilities?

Do you know I know someone that lost a mom because of 10k balance before treatments?

This is a free health insurance you get abroad for free

Let’s not even talk of minimum wage, basic amunities, security, standard of living and the rest

Omo I’m very sure Nigeria is the forbidden country God told Abraham

Well, from her analysis, it is actually cheaper for a moderately earning and prudent person to stay in America than in Nigeria.

They are trying everything possible to break the will of the Military junta.

Buhari's government also said the same thing...!

Same excuse every cycle.

Wow... Soludo should keep it up.

Hope Uzodinma has done fairly well too in this area in Imo state...

advanceDNA:
Mayb im old school..but I dont like the operation of modern day relationships...

How many pple does the average young person fvck before settling down?? Can there really be "settling down" after such long years of jumping from one person to another in the name of dating...

That's why the divorce rate is extremely high, and rising daily...!

These people never really "settle" down, not even after getting married.

Emilokan... It's his turn to...!

wizkidblogger:
so is it possible not to wear bra and the nipples won't point out ?

Yes... That depends on the clothing material.

I know ladies who don't wear bra at all, but you won't know except you look very closely.