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Cheii my joy is so full right now.. But wait how can this story end like that... I need videos please.... Serves him right �����

It's a great achievement I've been praying for as well... I celebrate with you my brother.. EMI yin agbe ibe pe pe... A greater one is coming. Congratulations �

Hope the husband is reading this.... This is the only advice I've got for you too... Try it and thank us later....if you still need your home... The follow this advice. Happy Sunday

yettymuse:
Divorce is not even an option because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. You just have to make your marriage work. I hate to hear about cheating causing dissolution in marriages or relationships.

By the way your wife could be flirting and not cheating completely... Are you still doing those things you were doing during courtship? 9 years is a long time and trust me you must have begin to adopt the mama and papa style. When was the last time you both went for a dinner, movies, walk, vacation...?
Do you even still remember to call your wife sweet names?? Some foot massage after a hectic day?... Raunchy whatsapp message whilst at work?, breakfast in bed.... Little gift, lingeries, etc..

How's is your sex life? Do you communicate your fantasies and cravings? , when was she last time she got an orgasmic gift and said "THANK YOU"! Hunku you're married so no limits, no boundaries... Set everything on fire!

Maybe your marriage needs a rejuvenation, we sef dey get bored sometimes..

Reignite 'em romantic spark and set the atmosphere on fire. Instead of snooping, change your mode of dressing, stay trim and fit, wear a clean hair cut and smear some cologne mix n match.

If all this doesn't work, pray and watch WAR ROOM, please watch this movie and your marriage would be back to how it was.

Amennnn this is terrible haba

EzendiEgo1:


21 times and she is still alive, I beg this woman is incredible.

In any situation you find yourself thank baba God for life.

Woman I speak in your life, Receive divine healing this Night

Amen

Who brought this nuisance up? So your tiny brain wrote this? You mean once a man cheats on his wife, the wife should check herself? Why so dumb? Is there any justification for cheating on one's spouse? I pity your wife and your generation.[aquote author=DrToche post=67027835]lol..when will woman understand they have no power to stop men's nature...well kee on deceiving una selves...life goes on

if u like have understanding if you like don't have understanding


who knows what prompted her hubby to cheat....women won't take time to examine themselves to see where they need to work on..esp the oussy smell something they ignore it all thinking its OK to serve their man smelling something....



what am I even saying sef...

well work on urself women and acquire understanding[/quote]

Highest level of wickedness ��

Both of you needs a marriage counselor and of course you guys should retrace your steps and calm your ego... There and then your love will be renewed.. Good luck guys

jbaby265:
hello house pqlease help a sister out.. my relationship of 6 to 7 years is about to crash..
I Love my man and he loves me too.. he stands by me in all times and I do the same for him too in fact our relationship is a typical example of grassroots relationship.. but recently I'm beginning to get frustrated at his attitude or should I say our attitude towards each other.. which is why I resorted to you guys.. this is a faceless forum so I feel comfortable to share my worries..

in recent years I found out that our quarrels, dispute, misunderstanding and bitterness has drastically increased and it bothers me alot.. he quarrel more often this days and can even stay up-to a month without communication.. he complains about everything I do and that's me angry.. AM NOT A SAINT HERE cos he complains of my non Challentless too.. but this our constant quarrels and misunderstanding is driving crazy.. I've cried and ask GOd to dissolve us if it's not his will for us to get married rather than us fighting all the time. HONESTLY AM CONFUSED PLEASE YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED. I love him and he loves me but we fight a lot.. our wedding is Sept ( still don't believe is possible though)..

Thanks for this truth... That post is as baseless as anything

gnykelly:
look all this are bullshit. I went to submit my CV on Monday. the guy just skim through and ask some questions. he look at my demeanor and rationalize that I will be honest.

employers knows that what you've written can be done by anyone.

qualified graduate are never in short of supply. honest people are.


if you will get the job you will.

That's why Nigeria is still backwards, imagine so a cv should be well written to get a job? Why are we like this in this country... What the person has to offer isn't a criteria anymore, it's a cv... Do you know how many people has a well written cv and very very sound but till now they're jobless. Please if the job is mine it's mine cos whatever is mine will not pass me! Naijas I hail thee. [color=#770077][/color]

Mehnn this is the first time I'm seeing nairalanders giving a sensible advice, bro please stop punishing yourself, do the needful, set aside ego, your ego will ruin your home and nothing more..

Wow this is awesome.... The gate of hell shall not prevail the church is marching on. Amen

I'm sure this is your parents fault, both of them suppose to have prevent you by using condom.. And yet they failed to give you a proper upbringing.... When in the nearest future, things now work against you,
you won't know its your silly manner that caused it. Well may God forgive you.

DrinkLimca:
Years of thorough banging of her vagina has finally paid..

We are all watching... But I decree as the true daughter of zion, any attempt from anybody either a Muslim or a Christian or a pagan to cause religion Wahala in this nation will never succeed in the name of Jesus Christ amen. Whosoever derive joy in war between religions, the Almighty God will strike them dead instantly. Amen

Yes she's completely mad... What a stupid comment.
Beast woman

bigdot1759:
YOU'RE COOPERATELY MAD weere na so ur parents dey flog u

Hey madam, just shush that fucking dustbin mouth of yours, can you beat your child this way?all in the name of spare the rod... Oshisko. Definitely you can do worse than this... We Sabi you... Beast of all nations. Total nonsense

MrsNwaAmaikpe:
there is nothing wrong in flogging the boy . He simply disobeyed simple instructions and got punished

They should use aboniki or chineese rub to massage it for him......

Spare the rod and spoil the child

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Congratulations I'm next in line to testify. Amen

Too sad

Human being are so damn wicked hun!

His Twitter handle is written boldly bro... Get him through that

slurity1:
please. I need to buy this guy products. any link please?

Wow! Amazing! Your talents will make way for you in Jesus name. ��

Sure thing.. By then she'll remember her dumb words but will be too late for her

blackbeau1:
Hope she knows she will get married and then, someone else is gonna screw her husband to death. It's called karma

Very soon you will get married and cry so hard for this dullard statement you made... Those hailing you are your worst enemies... Life will teach you sense watch out.... Shey you are happy married men are all over you now... I pity you seriously.. Hmmmm lips sealed#

This is inhumane for God's sake.. What a wicked world

Jesus! This is so scary

Your own don done!

This post is baseless and senseless, are you justifying adultery or what.... You ain't supposed to mislead up growing youths, so women have no life anymore? It's only to satisfy the hopeless men right?

Mehnnnnn I'm still in shock..... These women get mind ehnnn

Hi Mr, firstly I think you don't love or trust your wife a bit,
actually you thought you did... A marriage of just 18months? I fear your home will have enough ups and downs. See go and write today's day down, you will be sorry you ever doubted your wife, if I were the wife, I swear I'll make life miserable for you after the confirmation of the paternity... Some of you men are still boys but you jump into marriage. Fine! You saw your wife chat with another guy but to me it doesn't call for doubting the paternity. Those people advising you to chase her out, they're still mama's boy so what advice can they give.... In short I'm vexing right now... Enough said sha... You guys still have a long way to go and more work to do

MemphisRaynes:
Hi, please I need honest and mature contribution on this matter. I love my wife so much, and I don't want to have a failed marriage, not so early.

My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity of the baby.

I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May 19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.

My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him, and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"

I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the paternity of her Pregnancy.

On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May 19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional, she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.

Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my situation?

Okay if wise woman should shut up when a man is provoked, what should an unwise man do? Rubbish!
The ego in some of you guys will push you to hell fire with no amendments.

Emanodimo:
Man are wired to flex their hand when the heat is on. A wise woman knows what to do at that moment. You dont have to reply on somethings a man does.

Get the details of this story first before you start your own recommendation, most of you guys are beast,
why not beat or slap your boss whenever he provoked you? What is bad is bad stop preaching Rubbish, let's put an end to domestic violence, it's a bad stigma... When are we gonna stop raising violent generations... Think of your kids and your life... What if he successfully hits her With that iron and she died, will you join him in jail to protest for him... Mr man get it right now or never... I pity whoever you marry sha

WhoBeThisMan:
what if he was restraining her and that happened? Look I've been a victim of this kind of situation. I was trying to retain her, I never ever laid my hand on her. She blew it out of proportion and called me a woman beater