ufotty2001:
90% of girls are liabilities.. there have nothing to offer rather than puss.y.. My girlfriend ask me of 100k today!! I ask myself why am I giving this girl this money..?. For the past 3yrs she has not bought me a single thing before or even to give me one Naira. I have to tell her I don't have. She got angry. I deleted her number and block her on WhatsApp and fb. That is spirit of entitlement

NewSoul:
I don't know what to call it maybe mgtow(but I don't think so) but I don't just want anything to do with women and ladies. Like, I just feel a woman can't be of benefit to me in any scenario whether it is when I need help or want advice. I just feel a woman does not have the capacity to render any meaningful thing to my life asides sex which I don't give a hoot about because I read somewhere in a book that storing sexual energy is powerful and brings out the best in you as a man.

I have uncles and aunts but I'll rather contact an uncle if I'm in dire need or distress. If an aunt promises me something I take it with a pinch of salt but if an uncle promises me something I have much hope (though it is best not to put your trust in man but God) same scenario if it is a brother or sister. I just feel women can't anything to my life and peradventure they do you any minute favour they begin to feel like Jesus Christ that has sacrificed their life for you (something as trivial as lending you N500; emphasis on lending because trust me a woman never gives anything for free there is always something she'll collect back from you or something she hopes to gain from you in future)

In addition, their attitude jeez! I think this one is the root of my avoiding the gender at all cost. They are very disrespectful when as a guy or man you don't measure up to a certain standard they have in their naive minds. Sales girl will be rude, nurse will be insolent and the usher will be belligerent because you don't meet up to that standard. The standard I'm talking about is not just financial it may be looks, height, academic achievement, masculinity just to mention a few.

I'm going to give few examples. There was a day I went to a CBT centre to make corrections on a document. It was a lady. This one just started changing it for me. Please draw your face mask up. She inflated the price of the service charge from 3500 to 3800 as if that was not enough this human started asking me why I was just coming like wtf As in she was asking me why I was coming to a cBT centre by past 1PM no I for come by 5AM na nonsense!. I just told her I could not pay her asking price and walked to another CBT centre here a man was in charge. He welcomed me and asked me to sit down while he attended to a customer that was there before me. While he was at it he was pleading that I should be patient (what an irony) in the course of my waiting I asked him the price he charges and he said N3500. In summary I got a better customer treatment from a male attendant.

Scenario 2: There's this woman I use to buy like a derica of beans from and some eggs. I just like buying beans from her because her beans look neat, well picked and devoid of stones. So I liked to patronise that same thing from her most times beans and eggs.
Then one day I came and asked her for the price of one small paint bucket of beans she said N2100. I told her that I was told that it's N1800 na. She started frowning and giving me attitude telling me how it has increased and giving me more attitude. I felt like giving her John Cena's attitude adjustment what the hell. I started mentioning all I wanted to buy which was quite much and the usual beans and egg I used to buy. These woman suddenly started smiling at me and treating and talking to me politely like really? Really? In my mind I was like don't waste your fake smiles and inauthentic niceness jarey, last time you'll see me in your shop.

You buy something to give you nylon na problem, trying to start stupid conversation with you of why you don't have a girlfriend madam could you just keep shut and sell what I came to buy . In my area they know me already I will walk past all the women and go to the Mallam at the end of the street to buy from who will package my stuff well in nylon no matter how small it is, not give me attitude and querying me of my decision not to have a girlfriend as if that is what I came to life for, to be having sex like a rabid monkey.

Finally to the men that pedestalises this women/ladies and make them a mini god. You guys are complete fools and idiots are empowering these species to be more toxic and disrespectful because they know you'll come crawling and begging for the "bitcoin" between their legs. Continue feeding them with more power. Feed the snake very well and it will recoil and still strike you. If all men can just keep their joystick in sleep mode for a very long time. You'll see how this species will be so powerless . Their power remains the "clitcoin" and if you don't patronise they won't sell and when they don't sell they become hungry and when they become hungry they drop their stupid pride and attitude and the world becomes a less toxic place.

But No, you'll still see some p**sy worshippers coming to attack me on this post because they can't do without their dose of "clitcaine"

iLegendd:
Look at the Rubbish I'm Cooking Because of No Money [Picture]

Two of my younger siblings with a cousin visited and they've been with me for 5 days now. They'll leave in few days' time. As a hereditary, we can all cook, but I decided to cook for them today as a loving brother.

I went to the market, bought a bag of rice, carton of tomatoes, different spices, beans, two basin of garri, meat, chicken, assorted, dried fish, catfish, fruits, and the list almost endless. The money is not the issue.

The issue is: I don't want you to suffer as I used to. I want to reveal one of the ways I make free money to you for free. You already know it, but I'll show you how I turn 20 — 28k to 100k+ and how I turn 100k+ to millions.

Before I explain this, let me post a picture of them watching TV while I cook for them.

Typing...

newswires:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJIQtP20-_8

https://www.instagram.com/p/CXs7HnqLoGs/?utm_medium=copy_link

Datboredberry:
when the were crazy.. and they were angry and misbehaved.. did you created a thread to belittle every white girl..

Or like the typical black man with a slave mentality, you just took it..?

It's so cute how you set high standards for women of your own race and when a few don't meet up, you tag every woman with your skin as bad only to exonerate the women of another race cause you've dated only one... Pathetic...

White women are the least committed... That's the one reason black men white women relationships are the worse... But as long as it's white skin, y'all sell off your ... Reminds me of some Nigerian dude on twitter who wrote that's he's 'priviledged' to have sex with a white girl...

Loyal lap dogs...

husseinchoice:
I have been dating my girl for the past two years now.. she has this habit of keeping male friends in which she claimed to confide in them more than female ones. lately, I noticed there is fluent conversation between my girl and her manager, he calls and text her at night and sometimes drop her at her house.. in summary, I went to my gf house during late hour on Wednesday to recover my laptop and phone chargers only to meet her door locked from inside, the light was off and the windows were also locked. I knocked the hell out of the door but no response, I called her line but she was not picking. I spent 50 minutes sitting down down outside waiting only for her to come out with her manager.. she was shocked on seeing me, she was staring at me and she told her manager good night. I went inside and took my chargers, I wanted to leave but she hold on to me tightly and begin to cry, she said i should beat her if that will calm me. I don't know what to do because it's almost 12:30am and I couldn't go back home due to security reasons. I stayed over while she was busy crying the whole night.. I left her house very early in the morning.. since then she has been calling and sending series of messages.
I don't know what to do. I love her dearly but am heartbroken.
Pls help...

Isaacpromise1:
Recently a friend of mine in his early thirties who has been thinking of getting married within first four month of next year broke up with his girl …… both had a good relationship at least that I know of and they seems cool with each other …… when i asked him the reason for their break up, he said they had a discussion and he asked this lady who they’ve been together for seven months her body counts and her response was fourteen! This my friend is actually an introvert, a reserved guy and a bit religious; my concern was when I asked him why body counts really matters to him and his response was he has only been with just two ladies and can never trust a lady who has been with such number of guys because she will definitely cheat in marriage!

*Does body count really matters?
*Should you even discuss such in a relationship?
*Is it likely that those who have a high figure body count will definitely cheat in marriage?

Yinkakolawole:
I met a newly lady in my working place. she is a fresh graduate from kogi state, she came to spend a little time her seniour sister here in my street, her sister live close to my working place. We became friends when she came to my working place to get some bread, I worked in a modern bakery. So i talked to her that i like her & i told her i want to marry her, and she say yes to me. she even told me that she just break up with her boyfriend, i see that as an opportunity then the relationship started, everyday i make her a special bread that costed me #1,500 everyday. Our relationship is over six month now. But i become suspicious when her ex started calling her over month now, and they do talk more than an hour. I comfronted her but she said he is just calling & that she can never date him again because he always beat her to pulp anytime there is a little misunderstanding between them. But she told me she cant stop picking his call everyday. Plz what should i do?

Creativeace:
The thing about movies is that even when we all the know they've been scripted and acted, we just cant keep our subconscious minds from connecting and vibing with the emotions and energy its giving out

Back when we were kids, our enviroments made us watch movies especially Nigerian-movies that were predominantly about the manifestation of whitcraft in the dark, so we grew up afraid of the dark and couldnt dare to leave our rooms in the dark !

Also with age and experience comes emasculation and we tend to vibe to diffrent kinds of movies that affects our personalities !

So everyone has that movie character from whom he learnt one or two things from.

Where do you think most of our teenage girls learn the acts of drama from ? zeeworld and telemundo ofcourse !

I'll go first
Ragnar lothbrok of the viking series has influenced my masculinity in a lot of ways, from being emotionally cold to most things, to being strategic and never revealing your end~game untill its about to unfold.




Share yours !

Toks2008:
Creating this thread has been on my mind for a long time but for some reasons I kept shelving it but after coming across a thread on front page about a 41 year old single lady asking for advise I think it is about time I drop this.

Now what you are about to read is for ladies who are still single in their late 30s and I will make it as simple and as real as possible...

You will never come across the advise I'm about to give you from pastors or many relationship experts but as many people already know me, I keep it as real as possible.

1. Understand that not everybody will get married:


Science has made the world easier you can get pregnant without sex ....in some advance country a lady can marry herself then impregnate her self with sperm donor. Yea I think it's France or Germany or Korea I have forgotten the country..

Yea if you need a child and u haven't found a responsible guy get a sperm donor.
Here in Nigeria where everything is being tied to spirituality it might b hard .. why some families would see it as a taboo

Marriage is not a do or die thing... Marriage does not define who you are and you must never be bothered by what people say cos most of them are Clueless about the institution of marriage. Those who truly understand will never look down on you because you are single. Your happiness is more important than marriage.

2. Be financially independent: Any single lady in her late 30s should never make it a priority to get married cos the more you worry about it the more pressure you put on yourself and this is bad for your psych.

At this stage of your life, self actualization is what you need and trust me, by the time you make it a priority to get the best out of life, this will inadvertently gravitate men to you.

Before I give this third advise let me share this very touching story...

I remember a certain lady who contacted me about 6years ago and she said she has made up her mind to be a single mum if she turns 36 and she is still unmarried and asking me to be ready to donate sperm for her cos she sees me as a responsible guy... Furthermore, she will not put any pressure on me to be financially responsible for the child as she is well to do but she just want to have a child to avoid a situation where she will reach menopause and still childless.

Unfortunately she left this world before she could make this happen... So What is the point?

3. GET A SPERM DONOR TO BEAT EARLY MENOPAUSE.

The paramount purpose of a lady is not necessarily marriage but to multiply, bring forth new generations and replenish the earth. The good thing is that with the modern medical advancement, any lady can achieve this without getting married.

Believe it or not, it is better to get a sperm donor and be a single mum than getting married under pressure to a jerk who will make life hell for you.

If you are a lady still single in your late 30s please get a man to donate sperm for you. You don't have to sleep with him and he needs not be financially responsible for the child but just for you to point to somebody in future as the child's father. This will let you relax to get a better choice of a husband.

4. A man who will love you will love you.

Some may say once they are single mums, guys will run from them and YES I agree but this will also attract real men who understand that single motherhood is not a taboo but Infact a proof that a lady is fertile, a proof that she is responsible enough to keep a baby even when they had the choice to abort.. No genuine man will reject a lady cos she is a single mum especially if the child(ren) is her first.

5. And lastly as suggested by Pocohantas in the comment below... If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.

According to her, as a lady gets older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

All I wrote, this is an opinionated advise but any lady in this position could still decide to wait until she finds a husband but she must understand that whilst she is waiting, her time is ticking and menopause will definitely come regardless.

I hope this makes sense.

Ilamina:
I hope I will be looking stunning like this lovely lady

pgmind:
I rejoice with you and congratulate you Sir. May God Almighty spare your life more to enjoy your wealth.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

pocohantas:


When you spend all day insulting them. Which sane woman would slide into your DM?

God1000:
Some guys have done unimaginable just to get a lady's attention or please her, some fight over women, steal money from their parents or engage in crime and criminality all to Impress girls, yahoo guys spend all their money on ladies.
I have a neighbor (a bike rider) that wasted all his money and energy on ladies for almost ten years, eventually he borrowed huge amount of money from cooperative that he was gonna buy a bike but instead he went home to marry a wife with the money, I don't know who advised him to do such a thing, he's into serious debt now, he doesn't have anything, he doesn't have his own bike as well, I just pity the poor woman he married, they've taken away all his property in the house including the mattress and cooking gas.
He's now using my gas everyday to cook.

So many guys would have made it big in life if not for ladies that ruined them completely, and the funny thing in the end is that they end up not marrying such girls after everything. So guys should learn how to control themselves and be responsible.

So ladies, what crazy thing has a guy done for you all in the name of love? Or what insane thing have you made a guy do before?

TMSMedia:
"Go And Hustle" – Zlatan Ibile Tells Street Hawker Who Tried To Collect Money From Him (Photos, Video)

Nigerian rapper and singer, Zlatan Ibile was seen telling a street hawker to go and hustle instead of looking for free money, IgbereTV reports.

The Lagos Anthem crooner took to the streets of Lagos and blessed some child beggars with N500 each.

As he was giving out the money to the beggars, a teenage hawker tried to collect his share but Zlatan refused.

When the little man insisted on getting his own N500 by stretching out his hand, Zlatan, in a visibly irritated mood simply told him to go and hustle.

The musician then wound up his car glass and made to zoom off

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=573KP2xORVs

https://igberetvnews.com/1407632/go-hustle-zlatan-ibile-tells-street-hawker-tried-collect-money-photos-video/

Carmartng:
Man of the people, Man of the year 2021, Obi Cubana buys himself a 2022 Mercedes Benz Maybach S580 guard 4matic bulletproof worth over 250 Million Naria.

Obinna Iyiegbu popularly known as Obi Cubana is a Nigerian Based businessman, entertainer, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and show killer, he is the chairman and the owner of the popular Cabana groups.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSO9-XTMN7Q

Obi Cubana friend, Man Like Chico took to his Instagram story to share the news of the newly acquired vehicle with Congrats boss @obi_cubana, Its plenty

https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.carmart.ng/public/blog/obi-cubana-buys-2022-mercedes-benz-maybach-s580-guard-4matic-bulletproof/

Awesomeelly:
I have dated like 7 girls so far, and the longest I have been with one is three months..
I just get tired about the whole thing and end things.

EkehPraise:

Do you know that I recharge her and also buy data for her? The same data package I use is what I buy for her

virginprincess:
Why do you have a problem with my moniker? did i tell you i'm a princess, that aside, back to your question, women are not heartless we are just smarter and wiser now, as a man it is his duty to call her,or buy her airtime for her to call him if he so much craves for her call.

Truvelisback:
Let me be frank here. Ladies who would marry men they are richer than are very rare and few to find,yes. Why? They believe that it's the responsibilities of men to take care of them and must or should pay almost all the bills in the home or marriage if not all. The women who would marry men they are richer than are very, very few and rare to find. These women could be women who have been single for very long, who are tired of selecting men, some of them could even be single mothers, With the age range of 30,35,40 upward.

mykealpha:
How much you go pay?