₦airaland Forum

I have thought through this & concluded that early child bearing for a MAN simply breeds children lacking or having lower sense of responsibility. the saying 'I want to live long to see my grand children ' is a compound statement that can be split into two statements.
1. I want to live long
2. I want to see my grand children
the first is a statement of hope while the second that looks like a statement of love is truly a statement of GREED. Maybe the saying should have been 'I want to live long to build my children'
If a man marries @ the age of 45 for example & his first child turns 5 when he turned 50. @ this age, he must have been @ the peak of his achievement & the child simply grow up knowing everyday that his dad is growing old & that build his sense of responsibility everyday. He begins to ask himself on a daily basis as soon as he understand that people die, questions like "how will I continue this business?", how will I do this myself, don't want to disturb my old dad?", "how will I be like him?" because @ that age, the man simply become a role model. the child must have been saved from the early marriage troubles like the man cheating on the wife, drinking out & coming home late, & all other petty troubles. & again, divorce will be rare @ this stage.
On the other hand, if the man marries ayt the age 25-30 for example, he gives birth to children that apart from Growing up to seeing his mistakes as a man, the children grow up depending on their dad for almost everything they automatically quickly develop the sense of 'dad will do it'. By the time the dad is 40, the child is already a teenager. I have seen fater & son running into eachother in "joints". Situations like this simply kill the child's sense of responsibility in the name of wanting to see his child! Today people wants to marry early to safe for their grandchildren & great grandchildren, that's greed. Save yourself the troubles & build your own children well & they just take it up from there. Enjoy your life till you're 45, marry a beautiful young lady & build your home while retiring.

What about "Maggie" or "ovaltine", OMO nko?

Trends like this comes like heavy flood that one can do little or nothing about & it sweeps through everything everywhere.you just have to put your own head up. Men putting earrings, ladies without headties in church, crazy hairstyles etc are things we all first frowned at in the society but now are everywhere.

Happy birthday WIZI, LLNP. Keep having fun! I listen to very few Nigerian artists & wizkid is one.

Am sure if you're not a politician then you're into petroleum!!! Those are the sectors that can afford that level of wastage(madness)in this country. 2million just on baby footwears? This isn't just wasteful, it is total madness!

OK.....!!!

otokx: Is planting of tree going to bring about good roads or eradicate flooding caused by blocked drainage, canals and natural water ways?

You're so not understanding! Tree planting isn't gonna bring good roads but are gonna maintain it. Trees prevents erosion which is the main cause of water logging & flooding. the governor is telling you the only way to revive your environment & if you're wise you'll do exactly what he says

ambrosini593: After all the true love Nigeria representative “Goldie” went to play instead of the money is finally out. She fell into the hands of kenya Gangster Prezzo. But unfortunately she is out of the game. What a shame. Assuming she played her game as suppose the story would have been different. She lost the opportunity of a life time. What is your say on her eviction?

Who told you falling in love with a "gangstar" isn't part of her strategy to win the money? the fact that her strategy failed doesn't mean she lost focus of the main prize.
It's isn't that I love style there anyways. Thank God she's home. We're saved from further embarrassments from her.

"scandal is a necessary for stardom" only for those who are incompetent. She couldn't make the stage @ the right age, that doesn't make younger beauties that made the stage crooks!

It's six months to Xmas today & it seems right to start this campaign.
By Next Xmas, there won't be selling & buying "rubber" trees like we usually have it. Our own local trees will be lighted-up during the best season of them all.
It's crazy when we buy rubber trees that has it's original truly growing in a foreign field, cut down our own trees to cook Xmas meal & then merry with music after succeeding in taking a closer step to destroying our eco-system.
I recommend "Dongoyaro", Mango or any other tree except ofcourse the one you call "Christmas tree". Light one up in your Compound & have fun. If you do not have one, it simply means its been long cut down. Grow one NOW.
STOP deforestation. Merry Xmas in advance!!

Don't you guys get it yet? Africa, Nigeria is the fresh market for drug deals, prostitutions, & all sort of immoral activities those agents of the devil (hip hop artists) call business. America, Europe is getting exhausted!!! Its not about music cause there's no music, not a single one from them.

sunical: no matter what, when, and who, any man has a chance to SWEEP any woman off her feet. He just needs the right BROOM. #ACN #EdoDecides

Am so loving this! By 2015, bdb sorry pdp will be history!!!

I like polluting the air aloud when am alone. I don't know why but I feel it gives me the sense of "something big that isn't good for your body just escaped"

Wearing my wristwatch around in the house even when am not putting on cloths. I wear my wristwatch to odd places like bathroom, toilet, etc. A cousin once felt I was trying to refuse him wear my wristwatch one of the times he came visiting spending some weeks. Have been misunderstood some couple of times because of this habit but I can't just stop.

cap28: Exactly my brother!


here is another Fela masterpiece that can never be replicated (even by his sons):


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMKxeWlCMcI

Thanks for dishing me good music. Though I have these tracks, it is more interesting when I know someone feels this just the way am feeling it.

freecocoa: So people still dey go vote?una own better.

People like you are reasons Nigerian future generation will know the meaning, chant & even shed their blood dealing with these words; corruption, bad roads, PHCN, hunger, malaria, polio, condone, Boko, Biafra, etc. You are a woman, we are talking about your children here & you're sounding like someone from the caves.
Get up, get out & cast a vote

Depot: Nothing concern me jor,me just invite my babe come make i Bleep beta Bleep jor

Imagine 10,000 youths like you in Edo state that will be bleeping on some dirty toto when his destiny is been decided outside in his absence......imagine a doomed Edo!

WebSurfer: Me self №r know,,,, am in Edo Central.. I don't think am going out,,, I hate politics

It's a shame on this country & especially on you that a youth will open his mouth to say those annoying & insensitive words. What is wrong with these nigerian youths seff? You complain of insecurity, corruption, bad administration etc & still you were giving an opportunity to make a change or maintain a better governance yet you say those words? Even if this is gonna cost you your life @least you should still make a try. What it is costing you now is just a little time of your lifetime. What are you gonna tell your children? That the country is bad & nothing can be done about it?
So, get your lazy ass up now & do least expected of you.

cap28: can you compare that trash to this?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJ1hx88nz9M

Impossible! You can't compare sleep with death nah!
Until we get back to gaining that part of our senses that appeals to musicians showing their skills with musical instruments, we may never enjoy music again just some lousy noise.

chosen04: So they want me to believe that a cursed niGERian Police man turned down the bribe of mouth watering N61,200?

You call N16,200 mouth watering? Compare to dozens of police men & innocent citizens that would have been victims of the muderers? Your mouth must be very very DRY!

I think this is a "good" news. Atleast we are now sure it's not Muslims vs Christians situation; thus no need for repraisal attacks or splitting palava.....since it's not religion, we take the next option; "bad governance".

:-XThis one will never get a lift o! Even a cab will dodge! Maybe keke napep will manage her sha! But am sure she will spend quality time waving vehicles down. She's odd to the society; a misfit!

"can this be skirt?" "what if its a skirt!".... I had to run through google to check the original meaning of "skirt". Kaaki skirt comes in form jeans & are always blue or black but this is green kaaki sack!... sorry skirt with an orange boot to match!
How can a sense of dressing be this dead?

Your case sounds lame. If a case against the pastor slapping her member can't be won, I wonder how yours will be. Gooluck anyways!