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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Experience Job Hire Opening by aparata: 8:50am On Nov 10, 2021
Interested in a joining a commercial bank as an RM, please email below with your CV. Location Edo State only. evaosas1@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Vacancy To Teach Economics by aparata: 6:06pm On Oct 31, 2021
I should give you all that cos of 4k a week job, bros try other things don't think human resources is for you. Make i carry MSc come give you submit transcript and all my grades Kai nothing I no go hear, ����

Please this is an academic job, so your past grades in the stated courses are required.

Some have applied with no grades and with a CV showing they're interested in an IT job. This is not an IT job, please.



Business / Re: Can Someone Use My Phone To Borrow Loan From Loan Apps? Any Harm? by aparata: 7:04pm On Oct 26, 2021
No risk jare. Don't mind all these guys na ignorance. As far as he is using his phone number to apply and his bvn, verification is done on his own phone number. Don't allow him use your number that's all I can say.

A colleague wants to use my phone to borrow loan from one of these loan apps( fairmoney) because he doesn't have a smart phone. He will download the app, register with his details, collect the loan, then i can delete the app. Please is there any harm in that? Make i no go enter trouble say i one help person.
Before making this post, the person started the process but could not complete it due to paystack error,he went to bank to sort that out yesterday and has called me to pls come today, this is when i started having double mind. Can i just delete the app (I already granted those permission they requested).
NYSC / Re: Iorliam Jennifer Awashima: Bandits Kidnap Corper On Her Way To NYSC Camp by aparata: 4:00pm On Oct 21, 2021
My happiness is that this guy always claim to be Christian at least he knows what is in the Bible. All the curses in that holy book will remain with you and your household for always been in the side of evil. You can't escape it cos bible said in the time of ignorant God overlooks, but your own case is different. You're doomed forever no redemption.

We pray she comes back home to her family safe and sound.

So shall it be in Jesus name. �

Prayers going up.

Welcome to Nairaland, where stupidity reign Supreme.
And then you really see the numbers between sane and insane posts!

Welcome to Nairaland!

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Family / Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by aparata: 4:00pm On Sep 29, 2021
Bros,you're the one that needs help here seriously, telling a mother not to kiss the child,even fathers do. Try to go for your mental rahabilitaion you cant skip it,the abused you suffered is telling on you.

[1quote author=bobontop post=106257969]My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.[/quote]


Politics / Re: Saraki, Gbemi Kick As Library Named After Their Father Is Demolished by aparata: 9:30am On Sep 29, 2021
When she was busy supporting otoge because of her brother she didn't know she was fighting her family, she is a bigger fool,whats goes around comes around. She should delete her blood so we know she is no longer part of the family. Do you know this is like how many humiliation she have faced after that. She is just starting when kwara will finish with her family she will know she doesnt have a name apart from that her otoge family. Nonsense


How is she a fool She should go and fight the local govt or what
Politics / Re: Loans: Ali Ndume Berates Buhari, Senate by aparata: 9:23am On Sep 29, 2021
Bros we join you to say amen to him. It shall be so for him no going back,thank God he knows the scriptures and is settled right as he deserves it. Good things will be far from the useless mannarrbbqgrill abi na vultures em call him self .if you prefer evill for good then may evill not depart from your household

[s][/s]May your life be ruled like how incompetent Buhari is ruling Nigeria. The evil you are surporting will be your lot. May your remaining existence be like Nigeria's existence under corrupt Buhari. So shall it be, say "Amen."

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Urgently Need A Job by aparata: 4:16pm On Sep 28, 2021
So sorry dear, how can one send you some jobs advert?
Please help your sister to get back to her feet.
I need a job,in a any manufacturing company like pharmaceutical, beverage, wine etc.
I have a degree in microbiology, with 5 years experience in pharmaceutical company as quality control officer/ microbiologist.
I have attend trainings/workshops by NAFDAC and PMGMAN.
I resigned from my job 4 years ago after my wedding and relocate to Lagos where my husband resides.
I never knew getting a job in Lagos won't be this easy.
Since then I have been struggling to get a job but to no avail.
I don't even have a child yet, I am so so lonely.
I need a job to keep me going and keep my body and soul together.
Please help your sister out, I will be very grateful.
I am available for job anytime, any day.
Location: Lagos
God bless you as you help me get back to my feet again.
My contact : humbleamandab@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Urgent Help Needed Please (not Finances) by aparata: 4:14pm On Sep 28, 2021
Why not drop your contact,some people might be of help

Hello guys, please I need your help.

I've been in Lagos for the past few weeks job-hunting. I'm not even talking about white-collar jobs here, any kind of job, dirty or not, so far it's legal. I've been able to get few construction gigs (as labourer), but it's not consistent. embarassed
Please if you have any menial job or you know someone who has, please help a brother

My intention is to do this for a while in order to raise money for my planned business start-up.
I'm sorry if this doesn't sit well with the MOD, but the fact is I really need help.
I'm strong, I can do any kind of job, menial or not. I'm a graduate, but that doesn't even matter here.

P.S: I can come to any part of the city for the work
Family / Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by aparata: 3:35pm On Sep 27, 2021
Try compalin to her church people

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U won't understand am really hurt and depressed
Dat her own thinking too dat Abi they will settle d matter for us
But for how can we continue like dis mind u age is not on our side
Am always emontioal disturb when we have issues cause me I like us playing together yur family suppose yur confider especially yur wife but if you can get it from her again what d use of staying in d relationship
U sef reason am babes[/quote]
Family / Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by aparata: 8:56pm On Sep 21, 2021
People like you make women look at men as irresponsible because una dey over do things in the name of care and love. I got no pity for you. You deserve worst,they no inform you to be a man in your marriage?

My greetings nairalanders,
I am married for 10years now and blessed woth 3 wonderful kids but my woman is a bit difficult.

To cut the long story short, i went out with a colleague on friday and due to the fact that the kids are on holiday, i took my wife along because she was already raising the roof bout my outing ( NOTE: I have never ever gone out without my family to avoid wife's palava).

On getting there, she complained i was looking at some ladies lustfully which was not at all.......just trying to figure out some important things in my head. After which she complained that i was drunk.....lo and behold i wasnt because i dont take beer, i only take red wine, bullet and spinnorf......which i took a red wine and bullet before leaving the house and also took 3 bottles of spinnorff ( I was never drunk with all of those)

Fast forward to today, i am very open with my finances guess one of my mistakes.........she noticed that a thousand naira (#1000) was missing in my wallet and all means to explain to her proved abortive even though i give her money for things she love like body cream, cloths and others but after all nagging, i was vexed and went to the kids room which i politely asked her to let me be at the moment because i cant withstand her nagging over a thousand naira but she persisted and i have to shut the door against her but she opened it and told me she hates me and regret marrying me.....sounded like the rapture sound initially but later realised it actually came from my woman, my mother of my kids!!!!

i still cant place those words.....could it be out of anger or she actually mean the words for real?

Please help a heartbroken brother.


Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Help Me I'm Confused And Don't Know What To Do by aparata: 8:46pm On Aug 27, 2021
What's your contact number


Thank you very much.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Loan Recovery Officers At Ikeja by aparata: 2:38pm On Aug 24, 2021
30k basic and if you perform well you can earn up to 60k in a month. You can still delete it

The pay is based on basic salary plus commission on daily basis
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Vacancy For Customer Service Representative At Ikeja by aparata: 11:14pm On Aug 21, 2021
That 30k salary is too poor, I suggest you increase the basic pay to 50k or you set it at 40k but the commission will be very attractive that they should be no limit to anyone earning as far as you work hard. Setting the maximum earning at 60k basic 30k makes it very unattractive, many people will opt out.

Employment Type:
Full Time
Job Level:
Entry level
Minimum Qualification:
High School (S.S.C.E)
Job Summary
We are looking to hire a detail-oriented individual who is willing to learn and be dedicated, to fill this position.
Job Description

Loan repayment follow-up.
Respond to applicants' questions and resolve any loan-related issues.
Operate in compliance with laws and regulations. Devise customized recovery strategy on a case by case basis, reducing the non-performing loans owed by customers
Minimizing customer response times by issuing reminder notices and customer statements and monitoring collection of debts in a timely manner
Negotiating with clients on arrangements regarding payments and making recommendations to management to ensure departmental guidelines in relation to instalment agreements and the processing of monies received are adhered to
Establish repayment schedules, monitoring repayment of debts, and adherence by debtors to instalment schedules.
Key Requirements:

Proficiency in Computer Operation.
Sound Risk Management experience
Good knowledge of Lagos Island and Mainland
Ability to recover loans in large volumes without default Experienced in repayment tracking and loan collection without a day default
Proficiency in Microsoft Office package, especially Excel and Word

Excellent Communication Skills.
Enthusiastic and highly focus
Excellent team spirit and communications skills
Excellent Human Relations and Inter-personal skills
Teamwork and Leadership skills
Customer Oriented Mindset.
The candidate must reside around Ikeja.
Working Hours:

9:00am - 6:00pm
One hour break at noon
Work every Monday - Saturday.
We have a standard promotion and salary increase plan, welcome to submit your application and interview.
send CV to nikeola00@gmail.com using the job title as the subject

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Politics / Re: Muaz Magaji Deletes Post Celebrating Taliban After Backlash by aparata: 9:29am On Aug 18, 2021
Why dignifying him with a response. You should ignore him, so he will know he is a useless nonentity.

When will you grow up and stop fooling yourself... Everytime... All of us @Manna abi Minna. Do you look like someone that has a meaningful job?


Politics / Re: APC Suspends Suleiman Adamu (Yola) For Criticizing Buhari In Leaked Audio by aparata: 7:22pm On Aug 10, 2021
You forgot when you asked them to kill ipob? Incurable bigot

no matter how u hate someone, never wish him death cause their is no coming back from dat
Sports / Re: Strongest Man In Africa Pulls A Trailer Loaded With Rice In Ghana (Video) by aparata: 7:19pm On Jun 28, 2021
Na high bp dey call you so, you take everything so serious even when people are catching cruise. There is a level of zombiism abeg, not everything you take serious cos of one useless being. The country is hard already people have to find a way to make fun of the situation to live long. Loosens up a bit bro

Ọmọ, there's levels to wailing óò.

Career / Re: How I End Up Washing People's Poo As A Graduate With 2:1 by aparata: 3:35pm On Jun 26, 2021
Drop your phone number and your location

I don't know if this is the right place to post this but permit me to go ahead regardless.

How I end up washing people's poo as a graduate with 2:1.

Growing up, I used to admire graduates a lot especially the way they do things, conduct themselves and the rest. You see them living in a good house and in the morning, they dress up properly, go to work and return in the evening. Non-graduates of course used to jealous graduates a lot as it were. Fast forward to today, the table has sharply turned 360°. Now, graduates have not only been ridicule but reduced almost to nothing. Non-graduates who learnt one skill or the other are the ones kicking money bags to the bank.

Well, I finished university 3 years ago and couldn't find a job despite aggressive job hunting due to obvious reasons. Being the first in the family, the pressure was/is already much on me. The aged parents have tried within their powers thinking the best they could do for me was training me to acquire a university degree but in today's Nigeria, it's glaringly not enough.

Let me not bother you all with long story but I don't see myself continuing with this kind of life any longer because it's not what I envisaged.

According to the heading, I graduated with second class upper division which of course is a good grade considered very employable according to society standard and labour market. Despite this, I searched for job in every nook and cranny I could but to no avail. Everyday I have to eat food, rent expiring, bills piling up, parents looking up to me and younger ones who are already in school every now and then would call and ask for assistance and which I didn't have. Out of no option, I accepted an offer to work as a laundry man in a hotel for 15k/month. That's how I thought I have at least got something doing. Frankly speaking, I didn't have an in depth knowledge of the job description.

Obviously, this would be a long story but let try and shorten it. Do you know that I have drained so much from my body in the course of this work physically and health wise? Practically, I wash between15-25 bedsheets/duvets everyday as the hotel does not have washing machine....parked since it got spoilt. Consequently, my pams have developed thick skin which is now very tough, rough and scratchy.

However, the above might not just be my only anger. More annoying is that, some guests are so inhumane. Is it because you paid money to lodge in the place that's why you believe you have to do wickedness? Why I'm writing this is because of the very one that happened few days ago. Actually that wasn't the first time. It's been happening over and over before. Could you believe a guest used the hotel bedsheets and defecated on it, folded it and kept it and checked out. As a laundry man, of course it landed on me and I was the one who washed the poo off. Oh God! Like I said, that wasn't the first time although other ones only used the bedsheets to clean their buttocks (for whatever reasons because I believe tissue paper is always there) after defecating but this particular guest 'pooed' fully inside the bedsheets, folded it and dropped it for whoever to come carry it and wash. I'm not writing fiction here please. This is 100% real of what I'm going through in the supposed 15k/month job. How wicked? When toilet was there?

Moving forward, equally, I can't count the number of times I have washed menstrual blood from bedsheets. These men bring even women who are on menses to sleep with them and end up pouring menstrual blood all over the bedsheets and I would be the one to wash it. God why?

Most annoying of all is, the management pays salary on the 26th of the following month. How inhumane some people can be? In other words, I have to work 2 months to get 1 month salary or simply put, 15/2=7500. In reality, that is the salary I'm receiving as a graduate. When I picked up the job, my plan was to raise up to 50k within the shortest possible time and move to something else, but unfortunately, I don't even know what I'm doing now. I have been in the job for 6 months now with nothing to show for it. This is why I said I can't continue with the present condition. The situation is beyond the one people say 'hold unto it. At all at all, na him bad pass". This one is worst than "at all at all".

Before I end it, just a few questions. Dear Nigerians with good job, abeg where una dey see diz good job after graduation? Abeg where una dey see money do business after school? Where una dey see money chop food and live life? Me still dey very hungry as I'm typing this. Abeg na beg I beg una, make una put me on abeg. Make una be my God father/mother. I don taya for this life. I be una brother o. Help me and help the society by extension. Thank you.
Health / Re: Morning Erection Is Now scarce by aparata: 10:57am On Jun 26, 2021
Don't do it
Please there's this married woman madly in love with me recently, at a time we are just friends but she keep on telling me how her husband ve been outside the country for years now, and she is affecting her growth, she ve not had sex since the man left, now every night she wants us to do sex chat which she should be her nude but she insisted she won't let any man Bleep her,

Now she said i can suck her breast, pussy kiss romance her but i asked her can she resist Bleep when a man succeeded in sucking ur pussy she said yes,

Guys she is doing well in her business, I love her as a friend but she really need me around her. Now my question she is a married woman so guys if i suck her kiss her without fucking her have i committed adultery?

And can i go on with her since we won't have sex?

I need advice


Politics / Re: Standard Chartered To Replace China Loans For Rail Projects In Nigeria by aparata: 3:27pm On Jun 24, 2021
That's not a Nigerian Bank

Looking for for fund in Nigerian banks to fund railway project to NIGER. Nawah ooo
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Name The Worst Companies To Work For In Nigeria And Give Your Reasons by aparata: 4:02pm On Jun 13, 2021
Bfree Africa, Loan recovery compaby for fairmoney and branch,they use to be in Oregun now in Ilupeju, they employ and sack you same month, one useless guy dey call Chuks and one Afi whether na Germany he come from or where dey call that one Julian, they use people like rag. They will even make you resign your job to join them but you won't last one month, they recruit almost everyday, people should beware of where they go to seek for job. Some or destiny killers and time wasters


Politics / Re: Twitter Ban: House Of Representatives Summons Lai Mohammed by aparata: 1:25pm On Jun 08, 2021
Your shame dey shame me

He can go ahead and grant their invitation, but any attempt to reverse the ban will be met with strong opposition.

This country will not be burnt down under our own very eyes by the tools of these Westerners.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Urgent Marketing Job by aparata: 2:15pm On Nov 08, 2020
0805 970 2662 Lagos

This job is very urgent. Only 6 people needed.

Is a weekly pay job. Training is tomorrow Monday 9th November 2020

If interested, comment with your phone number and address. And I will call you immediately.... Location, Lagos and Calabar only

Celebrities / Re: Rachel Bakam Celebrates Birthday By Paying Bills Of Southern Kaduna Victims by aparata: 10:59pm On Sep 16, 2020
Inferiority complex, why not be a man of your own brand and stand your ground.

I love this not like righteousness89 doing the talks about end time without practicing humanity hypocrite
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by aparata: 11:39am On Nov 25, 2019
From experience, if that's the only bad character she has,go ahead with the marriage. As far as she knows your financial background. When things set ,you won't even ask her she will be forced to spend. Sometimes she will have to do that to save herself from ridicule. When she starts bearing children she will change. Is not a big deal

There's this lady I've been dating for two years now. We happen to be members of the same church and I ought to have taken the relationship to the next level by getting my parents to her place for our introduction last month but I had a rethink and postponed our introduction due to an issue that might cause problem in the future

I noticed my girlfriend is the stingy type. When I mean stingy, it's on the high side. Assuming she's just averagely stingy I wouldn't really be bothered but this is gross.

I work as a bank teller (contract staff) and my salary isn't really much while she works in Shoprite. Even from the little I earn, I'm always sensitive to her needs and I tip her whether she's stranded or not since I love her but how can I explain being with a lady for two solid years and I've never for once received any gift no matter how little it is? Not even something as little as toothbrush or hair cream

Initially, I didn't see this as a big deal probably because I grew up with the mentality that it's a taboo for a man to expect gifts or little support from his girlfriend when he's in dire need
but I've now grown to realize that "give and take" is one of the key elements of a good relationship

Even if I get stranded or go into debt, my girlfriend acts nonchalant and she'll be the
last person that will ever render a little financial assistance to help my situation. You might say I should sit her down and discuss about it. Yes I've already done that and I made her understand that I actually postponed our introduction for no other reason but because I'm still indecisive if I want to spend the rest of my life with a selfish woman but her response shows she takes pride in being stingy

I even used logic to whine her younger brother recently just to be sure if she's stingy to me alone but the boy confirmed it that her sister is very stingy. I decided to carry out my findings on her brother because I believe he should know her better.

You might want to talk about sex but my belief is that sex is just a mutual pleasure and does not define what a woman gives to you in a relationship especially a relationship that will lead to the altar

What's getting me worried is that we've come a long way but I don't want to end up with a selfish woman because it's written all over her that she cares so much only about her own well being

Please advice your fellow brother. Do I have a reason to be worried? I've been jumping a lagoon for a woman who can't jump a gutter for me especially when it comes to giving. Should I tolerate this level of stinginess from a woman simply because I'm a man?

P.S: I'm still with her because she has other good traits

Please pardon my typos. I wrote this in a hurry
Business / Re: 25 Most Expensive World Currencies In 2019 by aparata: 9:58am On Nov 23, 2019
Is Nigeria not a Muslim Country,why are they not in the list? Nonsense ingredients

yet Ipobs abuse islam
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Customer Service Representatives by aparata: 8:16pm On Nov 19, 2019
Why do you keep posting this? I have applied for more than ten people in the same location you mentioned, you never invited one person, is it that non of them is qualified for the job and you have been posting this for over two months.

Oak Pensions - We are a licensed Pension Fund Administrator with over 7 years of professional experience in Pension Funds Administration. We are incorporated to manage and administer retirement savings contributions of employees in Nigeria as a result of the Pension Reform Act of 2004. Pensions Alliance Limited is a joint venture between First Securities Discount House Limited (FSDH) (now known as FSDH Merchant Bank) and African Alliance Insurance Company Limited.
We are recruiting to fill the position below:
Job Title: Customer Service Representative
Locations: Asaba-Delta, Enugu Onitsha-Anambra and Edo
Job Objective
To ensure that the goals and objectives of OAK as regards customer service is carried out and maintained through hardwork and dedication to delighting both internal and external customers.
Bachelor's Degree in any discipline
A Masters degree will be an added advantage
Must be able to converse fluently in the local dialect of the location
Ability to comprehend, capture as well as interpret basic customer information.
A sound knowledge of telephone etiquette
Strong knowledge of the company’s products
Basic computer knowledge/technological skills.
Person Specification:
Good communication & interpersonal skills
Proactive and responsive in a fast-moving & dynamic environment
Flexible, firm, fair and ability to manage pressure (both Internal & External)
Attention to detail and Confident
Application Closing Date
30th Nov, 2019.
How to Apply
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: hroakpensions@gmail.com and state the Job Role/Location as the Subject. E.g Customer ServiceRep/Asaba
Romance / Re: Born On A Sunday, Dying On A Sunday by aparata: 3:07pm On Nov 16, 2019
Check your mail

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I am at a crossroad. That's where I am. And I think my contact is on my siggy.....

Romance / Re: Born On A Sunday, Dying On A Sunday by aparata: 2:36pm On Nov 16, 2019
Where are you,and can you drop your contact?


I think I am jinxed. Homeless, lonely, poor, low self esteem and living with a severe ulcer that affects my back and make me jobless coz employers can't keep a sickly person.

Now I am in the worst place of my life and it's overwhelming. I have no strength to carry on anymore.

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Regret Laminating My O'level Original Certificate. by aparata: 10:08am On Nov 16, 2019
Is it workforce job you are crying for? Bros don't trouble your self,keep searching, the work itself na nonsense work. You can finish that interview successfully and do documentations and you will not hear from them again. They doesn't worth the pain ,keep on applying to other places the Lord will see you through. No serious recruiter can disqualify you for such a flimsy reason, a lot of people have a different date from the one in their waec and they back it up with affidavit.

Greetings to you my fellow nairalanders,

My heart is filled with tears as I type this because today, the devil used Mr Joel in the recruit department of workforce group to be the stumbling blocks to my breakthrough.

I went for an interview with workforce group gbagada, and during my credentials check, Mr Joel accused me of tampering with my D.O.B on my Waec certificate just because it was laminated and the ink looks faint. Mind you the D.O.B on my O'Level corresponded with my ID card and my birth certificate.

I tried to prove my innocence, but rather he chased me away from his desk, and that was how I lost the job as I wasn't interviewed. I almost cried right in front of everyone there, because I have been searching for a job for months now and this happened.

I don't know who needs to hear this but please, do not laminate your credentials, so that you can be able to defend the authenticity of it when your recruiters touch them.

A young man in the name of Ayo who also works in that department saw how downcast I was and walk up to me and encouraged me not to be troubled, that something big will come my way. Thank you Ayo for your word of encouragement. God bless you, I believe something big will come, and when it does I'll share the news.

Thank you too Mr Joel, you were only doing your job. Cheers �

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