Where was the mother when all of these was happening? There was a thread about a man who was carrying out virginity test on his daughter and some individuals said he was was invading her privacy but daily cases such as this gives credence to such actions. Most of these teenage girls you see in uniforms have either had sex or carried out one sexual act, "small pikin no dey again"

Form is temporary, class is permanent. We all are made for great things, your situation at any point in time should not hold you back from living but theres Time for everything. When theres no money in the account, its time for hustling not toasting

I have finally gotten one over my village people , FTC After 5 years on nairaland in a thread on frontpage

More reasons why you should marry your friend but not all friends are meant for dating. There are different levels of friendships and thus the levels of comitments are also different. Communication has been a major issue in marriages and thats why your partner should be someone whom you can connect with outside the bedroom which is just one of the many rooms in a home

JamaicanLove:



I do have suicidal thoughts sometimes

Don't know what it means

But sometimes, whenever I think about taking my life, my thoughts go to my dad, how he would feel. The pains he would go through, when I'm gone.
He doesn't even know that I have chronic asthma, and sleep apnea.
I hide this things from him.
I'm an introvert, I don't associate.
Lots of things are weighing me down.
Who am I Kidding, no one here gives a fuc.k

Now that you have decided to share, I actually give a fvck

There is nothing like yahoo boys anymore, that trend ended about 10 years ago, what we have are ritualists. How many of the acclaimed yahoo boys know where (@) dey for laptop?

If you get to watch his full confession, you would be left in awe. Abiola was betrayed by his own people because of money, so they should stop acting like victims

Money is not an assurance for happiness

Khonifer:


Smh for Nigerians! Don't open your eyes and educate yourself. Resort to insults like a stupid child

If you get mind to order, mke sure say u get power to pay. Look at their faces as if them no know wetin dem do, hungry bitches

RuddyFusion:
Please I will appreciate a good advice on how to deal with this situation.

How can you deal with a relationship that was ended abruptly without any reasonable reason?

My problem is not that she just ended the relationship in a fit of anger, but the fact that both of us are on the same team working on work related project ....So we will be seeing each other everyday for the next couple of months..

I want to feel normal and OK but I don't know how I will pull that off with Monday fast approaching...

I wish I can start off with someone else almost immediately to push this off my mind, but that's not the case...

I will appreciate any advice that will help..

Thanks in advance

When you are advised never to date a colleague, you guys will never listen, it would look as if somebody no like u. You just have to deal with whatever u see. Since you cant totally avoid her, things are bound to be awkward between u two, just work on the mental aspect of it, its a thing of the mind.

Every girl will be like a virgin if that was the case

What then happens when they are not allowed to have their way in d new party? The next line of action will be to decamp again I guess

AccessME:
you are the one that's stupid for not understanding what am trying to portray! Read again and graps well.

Most persons who would end up commenting most probably are charging their phones with generator or have not had power for at least a week. If we make everyday of the year democracy day, would that give us power? Would there be jobs for graduates? And most importantly, would it stop the politicians from stealing our collective wealth while the masses live in abject poverty? Nigerians are said be be educated but i doubt if a majority are anywhere near intelligent

Omololu007:
I've not benefited anything from OBJ, so if buhari put him in jail till 2023,I don't give a dam about it.

A man that spent $16 billion on power, yet there is no light does not deserve any pity.

During the tenure of OBJ,I lived in bariga from 2003 to 2007,during those years,I didn't sleep with power supply for up to 2 weeks,and there was no day I enjoyed power supply for 24 hours,OBJ you're a foolish man that deserve to rot in jail.

OBJ never cared about Yoruba's living at bariga that were not seeing power supply,though he was spending billions of dollars on power supply, I have not pity for the useless man.

I hope buhari will arrest you and lock you up till 2023

Buhari will have my vote if he can lock this useless man in jail.

Foolish man.

There was no $16 Billion spent on power, stop this unfounded rhetoric, Mind you I'm not a fan of Obasanjo or even like him.

Based on the issue raised by Fayose, as much as we would like to see baba in jail, it should be done the righy way because if the wrong precedence is set, it would not b just the guilty who would be affected.

LaudableXX:


Sorry sir, but the only ass on this thread is just you. And thank God, everyone can read and they have seen it. Talk to any fully qualified psychologist. They will tell you that no woman files for a divorce immediately she encounters or experiences an abusive situation the first time, at the hands of her husband. The abuse must have gone on repeatedly for ages, before she finally plucks up courage to apply for a divorce. Others make excuses for such husbands and continue to stay in the marriage, until they get so emotionally damaged or physically brutalised that it is impossible to continue with their lives.

Do you remember the banker Titilayo Omozoje Arowolo, that was killed by her abusive husband Akolade Arowolo in 2011? Or the case of late Fatima Ibrahim Manu who was killed by her husband Umar Manu in 2016? Google it. Abuse can go both ways in a marriage. A man can also be abused by his wife, and even get killed in the process. Mr Bilyamin Muhammed Bello, son of a former chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, Haliru Bello, was allegedly stabbed to the death by his wife, Maryam Sanda. Were the lives of these deceased people, not ruined by their spouses?

Many women make excuses for cheating husbands, especially in Nigeria. You can decide to play the ostrich, by claiming it does not happen. Na you sabi. Many of them do not want to have a broken home, either because they have children for the man, or because they are financially dependent on such men. Nigerian society also stigmatises single mums to a certain extent, and some women do not want to go through that. This is not America, where a woman can automatically move out of her matrimonial home today, file for divorce tomorrow and is automatically granted alimony, once the case comes up in court.

My neighbour is a classic case. She suffered abuse for years at the hands of her husband, who eventually left her for someone else, after he had disfigured her with several beatings. That was when she finally filed for divorce. He had already wrecked her life by then. So Oga, educate yourself before you start talking about things you do not know!

You are just pathetic, take your miserable frustrated life and stupid opinion elsewhere. Dont quote me again. Animal!

I really do not understand the reason why some persons would wake up one morning and choose to cross the DESERT to another mans land for whatever reason. The money they pay to smugglers would open a business no matter how small it may be but GREED would not let them listen to reason even with the stories filtering around and when everything goes south they come around and claim victims.

LaudableXX:


A little knowledge is a dangerous thing. And when people like you start flaunting a little knowledge, it gives cause for alarm. Is divorce automatic? Do you get it the day you apply for it? Before the divorce comes through, the man could have wrecked her life. So stop saying what you do not know. Do you know how many women in this Nigeria of today, have been infected with STD or HIV by their husbands?

Most women (not all) who marry as virgins, are the ones that are quick to make excuses for their husband's bad behaviour. They tend to suffer his philandering and abuse quietly for years, before their self-control and tolerance threshold, snaps. Don't blame them. That is the limit of their knowledge. So please learn a little more about real life, before jumping to strange conclusions.

What is dangerous is when people like you who know nothing act like smart asses. So they must be under the same roof until d divorce is granted before she can leave cos her hands and legs will be tied there. People leave their matrimonial homes, some are even chased out without a divorce so what sense do u think u are making based on ur divorce analysis?

Where did you get your statistics from to have come to a conclusion that most women make excuses for their cheating husbands? Stop being myopic by trying to make ur conjectures seem like the norm, you can only speak about what you think you know and not using ur limited knowledge as a yardstick

greatforever:
I posted sth here last month. but I haven't moved on she hasn't soften her pedal she insists we separate. D reasons she gave was da I was making jokes which wen I was with her I apologised. I TLD her I was sorry...
she even went ahead to tell me da I'm a good person but she doesn't want any relationship 4 now.

d prob now is da I haven't moved on from her. her thought keep rising in my mind...

pls help I want to move on

She has made up her mind, shes just being subtle aboit it based on what she said. Theres another guy, this I can bet on, its better you also move, I have been there and trust me when I say you guys are "never getting back together".

Coward of the county- Kenny Rogers

This write up is totally STUPID! Imagine you implying that we all have homosexual tendecy

After recharging #100, MTN always gift me 10Mb. A picture is like 150kb max, and i could download like 5 and 3 porn videos in addition. What did she say her name was again?

Every disappointment is a blessing in disguise. Its obvious that she is not ready to take her own life serious based on what you had going with her and the relationship you have with her family which is more than enough reason to have blocked every other guy. Let it not look as though you played with their daughter, let the said uncle know what you found and the fact that you can no longer be with their hoe of a daughter since they cared enough to appreciate your interest and probably hoping for a union.

I guess he just remembered something

I have ran out of degrading adjectives in describing this country. Let everybody just go their own way

If i were the guy, would have done the same which is to disappear without trace. She has already been offered to the gods, this is not something new to those who know how these guys operate. Go to school and study, they would rather jump up and down with no direction or purpose

If i wanted someone like any of them, then why move out to a clone version, I would just stay put. But thats never gonna happen, even in a billion light years

So you decided to create a thread to bring up such a stupid issue. Grow up