Shes a fvcking stupid two timer. I believe she is not receiving the sort of treatment she envisaged from the other guy thats why she is trying to make a desperate attempt at getting back with you. I dont know why you are looking for ways to make her let you be when you could simply act as though shes dead

The heart wants what it wants. Marriage is contracted primarily based on prospects not out of sentiments, its obvious you have two choices not three cos I dont believe u would in your present position be considering the home based eagles

LaudableXX:


Oga, nobody is getting worked up, so why are you saying calm down? If she marries a philanderer, after undergoing countless virginity tests, whose life will be ruined? Is it not her own?

How will it ruin her life? Because the last time i checked, divorce is legal. So if he chooses to be stupid, he will only be doing himself.

LaudableXX:

That is not called 'looking out for his own.' It is called demeaning the girl, and ridiculing her dignity. Wtf? Girls like that who live such sheltered lives, end up going haywire once they taste a little freedom. Na barracks she dey? God forbid, but there is no law that says the man she marries will respect or love her simply for her virginity. What if the guy she eventually marries turns out to be a serial philanderer, or a wolf in sheep's clothing, that ends up abusing her at will?

Instead of him to sit his daughter down and give her a sound moral education, and proper self-awareness training, he is policing her up and down with virginity test. Wubbish!

Oga calm down. Theres no particular way to training a child and we all cannot have a one dimensional view to life,
If she ends up marrying a philanderer, its his way of life not hers, and she cannot be held responsible for him turning out that way.

Whether they fix May 29 or June 12, it does not put food on the table, a roof over my head or clothes on my back. Lets stop all these sentiments for Gods sake, can the dead or hungry celebrate? People are dying daily and the I just heard today that Diesel and Kerosene prices have gone up but those who are suffering or going to feel the effect of all these are here calling themselves names. If you are going to vote Buhari because he changed one silly date and not because its an informed decision, then you must be dumb as fvck

It only goes to show that the Nigerian project is but an illusion. How many of those who seat in power have their children schooling in Nigeria or more precisely, a public University? Its either the minister of works daughter graduating from a UK university today or senators son in the US tomorrow

chinachukwu:
My girlfriend narrated to me that while she was coming back from work, One man claiming to be a foreigner stop her and told her to help her that he's stranded,while she was conversing with the foreigner a bike man came and suggested that they should help the foreigner.
My girlfriend agreed and followed them to one private place,the fraudster took away her phone,the bike man raped her and told her to go home and get any money&ATM that's in their house.
Unfortunately while she was at home searching for money and atm she couldn't see any, on the process she came downstairs to call the fraudster to tell them that she didn't see any money then i saw her and noticed that something was wrong, immediately i started persuading her to tell me the problem, she refused saying that she took an oath not to tell anyone.
I kept on persuading her until she told me that two people took her and also one of them raped her.



Please my fellow nairalands, what do i do?
I need your advise.

She was under a spell but thank God u were there. Most importantly, take her to the hospital to get ARV drugs should it be that she has been exposed.

jayinfo2:
Hello guys, I really need your help here.

I just realised I have lost my girlfriend to another guy. I feel so devastated and betrayed because I love this lady unapologetically.

Her friend just told me not to give up on her. I should fight to get her back.

I'm kinda confused if I should really fight to get her back or let her just go.


N.b I really do love this lady.

You should start taking boxing lessons for all the future fights that is to come

Desperate times call for desperate measures. He is simply looking out for one of his own, whether We think its ideal or not, doesn't count.

Abiola was never a head of state at any time or president, so y d title?

Its more or less a culture. Right from childhood, "tell them say I no dey" while comfortably sitting in d parlour is a phrase a majority were asked to relay to some neighbours and friends

tunjiajayi:
Corruption fighting back

You are not worth being qualified with the most degrading adjectives cos that would be me doing u a favor

Sarri plays a very quick style of tiki taka football, which i doubt moses would fit into

If you get to enquire, u might find out that the idiot has never sent or spent more than 10k on his siblings or parents

You call that kindergaten jabs fighting dirty

Provided you are not gay,a paedophile or rapist, then I guess u are normal

Are u gonna marry her friends?

Germany did not win the last world cup relying on any single individual, they played in a system, so did Portugal when they won the Euros with Ronaldo on the sidelines that fateful day. Perhaps some of you have forgotten what happened to Brazil with Neymar and all their flashy stars against a German team playing with a system

It has gotten to the point whereby If this government calls this country Nigeria, we would need to go and verify. Very useless bunch

They sell crude and use part of the proceeds to buy PMS as sole importers, which they claim the landing cost is more than the pump price and finally dip their hands once more into our national purse, withdraw our common wealth and pay subsidy to themselves. Is this government not wonderful

Zaikon:


Too poor bro.

Why is Rohr not seeing Nwakali.

No more additions allowed after d 30 man list has been submitted which happened before the match against athletico

Please, just for identification purpose and not because of future reference as pertaining any male thread , just kindly fill in d monikers of the babes under their respective pics. Thanks as u do so

Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

I have been looking for an older lady, baba just drop d contact or make i PM you?

Always shifting the goal post. Would she had come up with such shitty defense if it was her daughter? Just imagine her asking him to pray for the pastor as if he does not know what he is doing, Stupid hypocrite

koboko69:


U are very naive and ignorant. You are also a political baby. The only time they remember this guys is before elections....they arm them and never get the guns back. I dont understand what u mean by easily fix them...what kind of kindergarten talk is that. I guess u also missed where he said Ahmed's chief of staff gave them 2 guns.
Most of this thugs commit all kind of atrocities cos they have god fathers that can always save them. The police knows them, virtually all politicians are involved in this, including Tinubu....
Just that police will open your matter when u step on powerful toes. Unfortunately for Saraki, his book have been opened. Arming thugs and sponsoring political thugs is still a crime in Nigeria.

And you must be stupid. He never said he was given any gun by the COS, he only said he was given a car gift as compensation for their thuggery during the elections. The guns as he stated was brought by the dismissed police officer who brought them out of his car when they met him at the rendezvous.

Incase u are as daft as u potray urself to be, its no news that people get political appointments after the elections and for someone who would have done as much as he claims, he would have gotten one as compensation if he only had asked.

Go back and listen carefully to the audio again, it seems u have ear problem, and dont ever mention me if u have nothing sensible to say other than tantrums

I laugh in spiritual voices , Very weak evidence. Even if he got a car as compensation for "Political mobilization" as be mentioned, which could be denied based on his specifics which is election disturbance and could be said to be campaining instead, i fail to see the link between both events.

If he really had any link to the governor and senator on d scale he described, I doubt he would choose to go and rob by endangering his life when he could get fixed somewhere in d government.

He said it was the policeman who supplied the weapons for the operation and not the governor or saraki who have no knowledge of wat he was up to.

Finally, his claim of receiving a car gift from the COS of d governor for election activities even if true is a weak attempt to saving his head, i'm guessing he was not d only one gifted a car for work done during elections, thats if the COS will agree to knowing him in d first place

eezeribe:
Everything about Efe must always be crude... His voice, personality, music... Just everything about him
He needs to be refined...
All those years spent in warri have really taken a toll on him...

What do u mean?(bolded) . Have you ever been to warri? How many persons do u know from there? There are people born and bred in warri who dont even speak pidgin, so stop with te stereotype

darkchild64:


well what you consider wrong or right is none of my business, what I am concerned with is that you obey your bible which says that you should treat others the way you want others to treat you,don't maltreat or abuse gay people SIMPLE, whether you consider them abnormal or not that is us own wahala

And you had to bring in the bible to justify and promote what God the author of that same Bible had and still condemns

openmine:

Just learnt some thing new today about tabula rasa


"In Locke's philosophy, tabula rasa was the theory that at birth the (human) mind is a "blank slate" without rules for processing data, and that data is added and rules for processing are formed solely by one's sensory experiences."


Thanks for the enlightenment.... please permission to share your write-ups.... Thanks in advance!

Permission granted sir

darkchild64:


the problem with human being is ignorance

several hundred years ago our people use to kill twins what was their justification ; "that twins were abnormal and evil" the culture and religion in place also supported that,right now gay people are facing the same problem they are viewed as lesser humans and are constantly bullied and abused again what is the justification ; "that gays are abnormal and evil" maybe no one is born gay,but at the same time I must remind you that no one is born straight either,and its good you bear in mind that animals also express homosexuality too which means it is not something human beings manufactured it is NATURAL,the fact that scientists haven't found a biological basis for homosexuality and in fact sexuality as a whole doesn't mean that sexual orientation is something we choose,there are a lot of factors that determine sexual orientation why don't you do a little research before displaying your bias on what is normal and what is not

p.s Morality is not universal neither is religion,people's basis on choosing what is moral or not defer but one thing we have to bear in mind is this any morality that leads to someone impeding on one's basic human rights is not morality at all,whatever your religion or culture says morality is,you have no right to implement it on others against their will otherwise boko haram will be right because they are doing what they feel is moral and also religious only this time they are imposing their own form of morality on others against their will,if you smeagOl and other homophobic persons demean and abuse gay people because you feel they do not conform to your own definition of morality and religion then in theory you are no different from book haram

Some cultures killed twins and not our people. Morality is a universal theory, it only has different facets to it, and nobody is forcing anyone to accept anything. If i choose not to accept the GAYbriel way of life, it remains my choice.

Scientists dont need to start searching for a basis for sexuality cos by design, a man has a dick and a woman has a vagina and both compliment each other, not only that but by nature man is not immortal and thus procreation is a necessity if man is to continue existing. Homosexuality does not fit into the grand scheme of nature for the very fact that it does not sustain or allow continuity.

Man is born tabula rasa but the basic thing about being born is that its a natural design mapped out for survival of the species. The choice to be an homosexual goes against natures design of you even being born and if allowed to continue spreading will act like a virus which will eventually be enemical to us all.

Nobody is condemning anyone but whats wrong is wrong

wwwtortoise:
Hypocrites everywhere

Most of the 'reactors' do worse behind the closet and they will be the ones criticizing at the forefront.

I am indifferent about the whole drama anyways.

Maybe someone should kindly point out where in the bible it's a taboo for a feminine gender to lift the sacrament.

Nobody holy pass.

Have u ever heard of a female being a priest in the bible?