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akeentech:
Go for Ademola Lookman of Everton

The boy is just good

Blonchilli:
Please help, my younger brother left home since 6pm yesterday and we haven't seen him. His phone is switched off and his friends saw him on a bike on New Road, after Nene fuel station, Sapele, Delta State. He's only 13 and my mother is worried sick. Any valuable information would be necessary. Call any of these numbers 08068041094, 08165026942 and 0816706 7477. Please help

Go and check all his friends houses, he's in one of their house. Same thing happened in my area, before Christmas but it was a 17 year old, she went on a flexing spree with one yahoo boy, guess who was her most frequent visitor, her cousin who swore on her life that she knew nothing.

Mylestone:
I have the 3 EBOOKS

Chairman, abeg I fit get d e-books from u?

jboy73:
No wonder u sound like a mad person

See me see wahala o, imagine this imbecil.e, e b like say swear dey follow u, Abi I resemble ur village people

jboy73:
Alcohols.
Shisha.
Igbo.
Drugs and sluts everywhere.
More like Nairaland Yahoo boys and runs girls hookup party.
AKA when Olosho's meet their business partners.
Op please update.
Where is that forever upcoming musician with infinity low self-esteem? Airforce1 abi Airfucks2?

I know that small, bald headed, introverted , stingy dwarf that owns this forum will never grace such occasion.
Such recluse person.

Lol...... Though u made some valid points as to the smoking and some skimpily dressed peeps(sluts) but everybody get e life to live

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

You are an embarrassment to say the least . So if your brother kills someone tomorrow, u will sing his praises because he's your brother? It's people like u who set their children up for life of waywardness and still go out to defend them with no remorse. You are really shameless and disgusting (spits)

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okoyemekun:
I totally disagree with some of these figures,i will soon write an article which I have titled FROM THE FARM TO MY POT,i am very sure the unemployment in the north is reducing cos of some ingenious solution being adopted by some of the youths of Northern Nigeria. There is a new set of millionaires being created everyday in Northern Nigeria but NBS is not capturing them. I don't know if anyone has noticed it,but there is an increase of northerns selling raw pepper on the nook and corner of every street in Lagos, what is happening is Northerns have succeeded in creating supply which didn't exist three yrs ago,by supplying pepper to the end users they have succeeded in removing the yoruba retailers and moving the money directly to the hands of the farmer,same for onions,oranges,potatoes,beans,cabbages( all are being sold in wheel barrows on the street of lagos).
My submission is this,as much as I want to agree that the blue collar jobs are evaporating but the wise ones amongst will look,study and adapt what these northerns are doing,ignore all these NBS statics and key into what is going on around your street corner. GOD BLESS NIGERIAN, for those who want to criticize my opinion, go read Pastor E A adeboye prophecy for 2018

Sorry to say, You are a fool! So I went to school, paid through my nose to survive so that I can go to the streets of Lagos to push pepper and tomato on a wheelbarrow? In fact, you must be mad

traeces:
According to your submission, "The sin of the rich man wasn't that he didn't love Lazarus but was that "He Was INSENSITIVE to the plight of the beggar ". " but I am saying the sin of that rich man and indeed every unbeliever is the sin of unbelief. To back up my position, I quoted John 3:18 which says,

"He who believes in Him [who clings to, trusts in, relies on Him] is not judged [he who trusts in Him never comes up for judgment; for him there is no rejection, no condemnation--he incurs no damnation]; but he who does not believe (cleave to, rely on, trust in Him) is judged already [he has already been convicted and has already received his sentence] because he has not believed in and trusted in the name of the only begotten Son of God. [He is condemned for refusing to let his trust rest in Christ's name.]" Amp

What's the relationship between the story of Lazarus and unbelief? I would suggest u read through the original post again.

MyFlair:
The rich man had no love for Lazarus. were he his brother wouldnt he have treated him of that tormenting wounds?

The question should be where are Lazarus' family members? The rich man was kind enough to allow a total stranger stay by his door steps and even feed from his table. If he had no love for Lazarus, he would have sent him away.

irynterri:
thanks for your wonderful contribution, not loving his neighbor as himself covers the umbrella of insensitivity, although I think your mentioning insensitivity hit the nail on its head. thanks for the correction

Insensitivity is not necessarily the absence of love . Lazarus for example slept by his gate and ate the crumbs from his table, the question is, was Lazarus the only one around the rich man and was his going to hell based on just that? I missed something important in my first submission which is "The sin of OMISSION" which borders on what he failed to do not just for Lazarus who was just a template but also to others and from what he said to Abraham about sending Lazarus to his brothers meant they lived in a particular manner not different from the way he lived.

traeces:
Your assertion is great but I am convinced you missed an important point as your assertion is not rooted enough in scripture.

Condemnation which lands people in hell is first and foremost due to the sin of unbelief. John 3:18 What you do or do not do is immaterial as long as faith in God is not in place. You can give your body to be burnt for the poor if you want but unless you first believe that God is and a rewarder of those who diligently seek him, you cannot please God. This thought is evident in verses 28-30 of the Luke scripture OP posted.

God calls everyone to put their faith in Christ Jesus and come to him in repentance.

what condemnation are u talking about? Where did I talk about condemnation? What has belief in God got to do with what I said? what makes my supposed assertion unscriptural and the yardstick for such measurements? And how does what u just said apply to my submissions?

irynterri:
SERMON
The parable of the rich man and Lazarus is argued by many to be a true life story, because unlike others a character was named. There are several lessons to be learned from this wonderful story told by Our Lord and they include the following:
1. MATERIAL WEALTH IS NOT ALWAYS A SIGN THAT YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT PATH OF SALVATION : contrary to claims of some prosperity preachers, this story comes to show that you being wealthy does not mean you are on the right path with God. The Pharisees of Jesus' time were money loving people who believed been wealthy was a sign your worship was acceptable to God. Wealth does not only come from God, you can get money from the devil, you can get money from cheating others , you can get from falsifying your scales, but good wealth come from God and more important to him is what you do with it, for to whom more is given, more is expected. Hence,stop envying those around you who are rich without following the way of the Father,for what lies ahead of them you do not Know and might not wish to partake in it, stop questioning God when you see a poor righteous man, for what lies ahead of him is the greatest that can happen to any mortal,remember the earth and its wealth is not our home, we all will leave here one day. BEEN POOR DOES NOT MEAN GOD HATES YOU.

2. THE SIN OF THE RICH MAN
The sin of the rich man was not loving his neighbor like himself. Your neighbor is any one around you, whether rich or poor, male or female, believer or non-believer. Show all love and help all in need. Jesus did not accuse him of not helping anyone at all, he was accused of not helping the Beggar at his gate. So many of us today do the most abominable things to those who we feel are not in our social status around us, look around in churches and you can easily spot who the house girl is in a family, some rich families make their house helps sleep on the bare floor and eat spoilt food. O how vile the fruit we bear are! A tree is known by its fruit, does who produce sweet fruits are good and bad fruits are bad. So ask your yourself what sort of fruit do I produce? Start by using the litmus test of how you treat does who cannot pay you back. Do you throw feasts for your rich friends and ignore your parents need?, do you throw feasts and ignore the plea of a friend in need of a loan?

IS THIS ONLY ABOUT MATERIAL WEALTH?
No, it is whatever you are blessed with. You are blessed with the gift of preaching,you preach far and wide but you do not preach to your children, siblings to change from their sinful ways. In whatever measure you have, give to the poor (those who don't have) for the Good Lord is a friend and lover of the poor.

THE BROTHERS OF THE RICH MAN
these are doubting Thomas. Those who have hardened their hearts and minds against life after death. They see themselves to be intelligent simply because they seem to differ. The live as though they will live forever. They say to themselves, look at all the money I have through my hard work yet this believer who claims his Bible told him he will be given all he asks for is poor. This is the ideology of the Rich man's brothers that is why the rich man requested for a dead man to go back to them because it is only then they would believe. To all who doubt the existence of an after life, we pray to God for their hearts to be open before it is too late.
Thanks for reading this,kindly share your contribution
Cc Lalasticlala

Your sermon though wonderful doesn't really tell what the sin of the rich man was . Most persons have argued that he didn't love Lazarus, but I don't believe that was the case, cos he allowed him stay at his gate and eat from his table even though they were leftovers.

For The rich man to have been able to identify Lazarus at the other side simply points to the fact that he knows who Lazarus is, most probably while moving in and out of his mansion could have asked about him when he saw him sitting at his gate. The Bible said he lived in luxury while Lazarus begged and had sores all over, did he ever refuse to help Lazarus? I don't think so cos if that were to be the case, Lazarus would most likely not remain at his gate cos Lazarus would need to eat to survive and would have moved on to another place where he would get food but he remained and even died there. We can actually say the rich man was generous to the beggar cos he allowed him to lay his head within his property and allowed him to feed from his table, eating the same food he ate.

The sin of the rich man wasn't that he didn't love Lazarus but was that "He Was INSENSITIVE to the plight of the beggar". The sin of insensitivity is so faint that it's almost impossible to detect, and it's everywhere, in the church, on your streets and even in the family.

HIV doesn't mean the end of the world, let her get tested and start treatment if she has been exposed.

Rhetorical question

You cannot love others if you do not love yourself First. Stop being a sissy and move on.

It's obvious u don't care about what she does which is a good thing, no need beating around the bush, since u already know there's no future for that relationship, just avoid having the supposed conversation if u can cos it would be the case of u flogging a dead horse.

Your luck is not dependent on someone else, u alone make your own. No ones responsible for your failure or success

Pray, pray and continue praying until you can pray no more.

What the fvck is wrong with some dudes? You have a beef with ur fellow man and the next line of action is to call out his wife. And to the husband fellow and those of you looking for trouble online, there's no ethics in war, anything is allowed.

nnodubukky:
After you have received the actual data worth of the money taken, you will also receive another data called bonus data. so the addition of the two gives you the #500-2GB or #1000-4GB as the case maybe.

OK.... So how do I check/verify the bonus data?

kunleajaye:
Hello peeps. It's with a heavy heart that I have to say that my marriage is on it's last legs(or so I think). Sometimes last year I made a post asking for advice and things actually got a bit better afterwards (https://www.nairaland.com/3415462/dont-feel-attracted-wife-anymore), but alas, it didn't last.

My wife returned to her cold self and it just went downhill from there. We started arguing again over the tiniest of reasons. Some of the reasons for our petty arguements was the issue of her engrossing herself in school activities that sometimes took her attention from home duties. I told her a couple of times that i wasn't against her doing things like what she did and wasn't in the way of her achieving her desires and goals, but she shouldn't forget she's a mother and wife and one of her primary duties is her family. Sometimes she'd spend so much time in one fruitless meeting or the other, and when she gets home, she'll be too tired to do anything. It got to a point I had to do alot of cooking for the house so that the kids won't be hungry. It's not that she didn't do her duties. It's just the inconvenience of it all and the way her outside activities affected us that really got to me.

Another thing that got on my nerves was her attitude to her degree. Agreed, with all the things she did, she still maintained a very good GPA and was one of the best students in her department. Her lecturers would at times request she take their classes for them while they attended to other pressing issues. It was a good thing and i felt proud, but in her mind the main thing she wanted to do was business. Buying and selling like she did when we first got here and before she started school. She wanted to set up a store where she'd import and sell african prints. There were days during the summer when I'd plan on doing Uber to supplement the little I brought in as a paycheck, only for her to tell me she'd registered for one event or another to display her wares. I'll just have to stay back at home with the kids till she returned later in the night. It really did get me upset and I once asked her what the point of the degree she had studied for if all she wanted to do was sit in a store and sell stuff? We had this argument several times on end.

What eventually broke the camel's back was something she said that I'll never forgive her for. One evening, after putting the kids to bed, she approached me and said she wanted to apply for a loan. I asked her what she needed the loan for. She said for her shop. How much does she need? Ten thousand dollars. How does she expect to apply for ten thousand dollars when we have no way of paying back? Besides, where does she expect me to get the collateral from? She said someone would stand in for her. I told her I don't support the idea and she should be patient. At least after her graduation, she would be able to work full time and earn a better pay which she could then channel to doing whatever she wanted. She said no. She doesn't want to work, but sell her stuff. We started bickering back and forth about this cos I was already fed up of the whole issue, and at some point she screamed, saying I do not support her as a husband, and maybe she would have been better off marrying Awwal. [/color]


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Awwal was another guy who fancied her when we met during our youth service in camp; she had once told me that back then she loved him as much as she loved me, and if she had to choose, she would have picked him instead of me. I asked her why she then chose me, and she said her late mother had advised her "don't make a future husband into an ordinary boyfriend, and don't make an ordinary boyfriend into a husband." In other words, don't confuse lust for love.
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[color=#000099]She realized what she said and immediately began to apologize. I don't know how I kept my cool, and I walked away quietly. It only got worse after then. We no longer talked liked we once did apart from the necessary exchanges. I let her do whatever pleased her. Our arguements continued and sometimes we wont speak for days. I started keeping late nights, staying more in the lab after school or sometimes driving to a bar to drown my sorrows. I tried getting a marriage counselor, but the damage had already been done. Our sex life became virtually non-existent. We just remained together because of the kids.

A man has needs, and if he wasn't getting them at home, he'd start looking outside. I'm not proud to say this, but during some of my late nights out, I'd visit a discrete gentleman's club. It was on one of these outings I met one of the girls who danced there. She was a young college kid in her junior year. Over the next week or so she gave me a listening ear and I poured my heart out to her. She invited me over to her place one evening (she shared a three bedroom house with two other girls), one thing led to another and she was giving me a full n@ked massage with her body. We didn't have penetrative sex, but she gave me the sexual release my wife had denied me for such a long time. I offered to pay for her services afterwards, but she told me not to, as it was just her way of showing she cared. We ended up making similar arrangements a few more times, and each time we took it a bit further. The furthest we went was the time we had a 69 on her bed, and she came all over my face while I splooged her mouth. I always had to wipe myself off properly and take a shower once I got home to rid of all the oil and smell of pheromones on my person.

I guess my wife suspected something was going on cos she asked me one day if i had been seeing anyone. I asked her why she asked, and she shrugged, murmuring something to the fact that it was unusual of me not to have disturbed her for sex in such a very long time. I told her since she had decided to control when and the frequency we had sex, I had accepted my plight. I told her if she wanted sex, she knew where to find me. That night, I woke up to her snuggling up to me. It was the first time in a long while she would come to me. Try as much as I could, I just couldn't achieve an erection. My time with the stripper girl had taken away the sexual affection I had for my wife. She noticed this and started crying, saying i don't love her anymore. I simply told her it was just the stress. The following day, she was back to her normal self.

Last month, she finally graduated. I was happy that at least she would get a place to work and earn some money. But what she told me a few days later came as a shocker. She told me she wanted to go back to Nigeria. Her plan was to fulfill her dream of setting up a clothings line and since i don't want to support her, she'd rather go on without my support. I asked her if she was joking, but i could see she was dead serious. I asked who would take care of the kids if she leaves, and she said she intends going with them. infact, she had already told her sister to start looking for a nice school for them at home. I just couldn't believe it. Why make that kinda decision without consulting me first? She just told me her mind was made up. I tried changing her mind, but she remained adamant. Unknown to me, she had already booked their flight back home a long time ago. I had to call my parents to talk some sense into her, but afterwards they just told me to let her come home, that she may just need the change of environment for a while. I called and asked her sister why she didn't tell me about the plan knowing how close we were, but she simply said it was her sister's decision.

They left two days after Christmas. To date I'm yet to receive a call from her. I've sent her several emails but she hasn't responded to even one. She told my mum she hasn't had the chance to get a line yet, but I know that's a lie. It doesn't take you more than a week to get a phone and a line in Nigeria. Sadly, I may have to accept the conclusion that my marriage is over.

May God never allow u make any mistake as big as this ever again. How could u marry someone who puts you in second place to another? I was actually getting angry at the way your wife chose to behave until I got to the part where she blatantly told u to ur face that she would rather be with another man than with u. The mistake has been made but sincerely this was all your fault, you are only lying on your bed as you chose to have it made.Your problems started since u both got together and the truth is that she loved him more than she loves you for the very fact that even after bearing children for u, she regrets marrying you. Say no to being number two(2) cos that's what u were simply considered as and u knew it from the start.

duwdu:
In this case, I believe you didn't understand or apply the new rules, especially following your abandoning the line for so long. Glo's new rules have been all over the place for several months now.

Seek out and properly apply Glo's current subscription rules, and you'll receive 4GB for 10000 Naira. In most cases, the complete data appears at once. In some instances, the core data is followed by the remains bonus generally within 30 minutes.

Good luck.

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Plz enlighten me on the supposed rules which I perhaps didn't adhere to. But based on what they placed on their subscription page, #500 goes for 2GB for 10 days which I clicked but surprisingly was given just 800MB. If you can actually make me understand such deceit in a logical manner perhaps I might change my stance.

Glo is a scam. They advertised #500 for 2GB only to give 800MB at the end of the day. I just started using my sim after a year's absence and the first thing was for them to deduct my first recharge for some dubious service I never registered for. God in heaven knows I'm abandoning the SIM for real this time when I'm done with my credit.

northvietnam:
Which wing is the back up playing

Keep xpanding ur Vjay in the name of back up BF....

Nah so one idiot tell me for xmas say na too much trekking from bus stop to lecture dey make her Vjay xpand. ..... I was like , u Don mean it...

What's my own, just use rubber play my game commot....

Seriously! Trekking = Community well

The fruit they say never falls far from its tree. We warned and told them what was going to happen if eventually Buhari became president, but did they listen, now they are only seeing the effect of it all, in form of their families and relatives butchered and bagged by the day. Indeed, There was a country

safarigirl:
stand the hell up, whether the waiter gave it to you or not, take your case to the manager or someone else if that one waiter is being adamant, let it not be a waiter that will cause you embarrassment.

I would be mortified if some dude yelled in my face for whatever reason and I would stand up and walk out of that place immediately. Why did she remain seated? She was waiting for management to tender her an unreserved apology on behalf of the uncouth fellow?

This stuff has happened to me, you seat somewhere and someone else says 'that's mine'....and do you know what I did? I stood up. Social media did not hear me whining about anything, I did not wait to be screamed at.

Common sense required her to stand up, but no, she is Toke Makinwa, how can she stand up for a couple of nobodies?

Like I said, if she feels like she has been 'assaulted' there are laws that handle such grievances, if it is not deserving of a court of law, then she should suck it up and move on.

As much as it isn't a must that she should be seated on that table as there were other available seats but as I earlier said, there's no need being sentimental about this whole issue. You are using yourself as a case study but it's pertinent to bear in mind that relativism as to human character doesn't apply neither does it to situational ethics. The bar first and foremost is a public place and do bars have reservations? The answer is yes, but for how long?, which is usually time based, and most importantly, can ones reservation be cancelled and their seats/table given to other customers ? Yes. The seats were empty for a long time and the waiter deemed it fit to allocate her those seats,
it wasn't as if she just barged in there and proceeded to seat there. If they actually had a reservation, and their table was given away, instead of going to the customer, why not make a case with the person in charge, whom u had a contract with? Saying she should take it up in the court is something she would decide to do if it pleases her, and what u feel would have been common sensical I actually find demeaning cos nobody has the right to bully u no matter what.

safarigirl:
Toke is also an oppressor, so why is she complaining?

If she was the one in a celeb position and some random chic sat in a chair meant for her and her crew, you think thwy wouldn't force the random chic out?

See, this life is very simple. She did not have to seat in that part of the club, common sense says that to avoid trouble, you should just request for another seat, or better still, leave the establishment.

If she feels assaulted by this fellow, she can take the matter to court, if she feels her rights were trampled upon by the establishment, she can also sue them. Coming to social media to wail over something so petty, is an insult to the people that have greater problems in life.

It is her useless sense of entitlement that caused her this embarrassment

Did you read the part where she said, the table was given to her by the waiter? And for goodness sake, it wasn't as if someone was there when she got there, sentiments aside, like the other individuals she's also a customer and should be treated with respect like any other person. You call it petty because it didn't happen to you and thus u see it as something trivial, but always put this in mind whenever u choose to pass judgement, what means nothing to you could mean everything to someone else.

Like seriously! I now see the reason why nothing works in this shit hole. I can't believe a sane human being would support the rubbish that happened like most persons whose comments I hv read. Instead of taking up her cause based on its merit, some retards are busy maligning her person, I weep for this country cos with this very crude and lousy mentality, nothing good will ever happen in this country. That's why we are oppressed by the day and we still applaud our oppressors daily.

Rukkydelta:
Have money like Big Shaq
I claim it o

Heard his networth is now 1 million dollars

https://wealthygorilla.com/michael-dapaah-net-worth/

Na small thing u take escape Gemini

Have money like Peter okoye . The idiot when do this thing no see dangote put for that particular date