Food / Re: ₦700 Tomatoes In Aja, Lagos (Pictured) by Aplaudez(m): 11:44am On Apr 27, 2023 |
You never know anything, this is just the beginning, just anticipate subsidy removal 5 Likes |
Properties / Re: ₦500 Million Lagos House Causes A Stir Online by Aplaudez(m): 9:59pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Skiborobo: If you're a man and you can't buy this please don't come near me I'm very sure if your dad can afford to buy this, you won't come out and spill this because it'll look normal to you 2 Likes 1 Share |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Brighton (1 - 2) On 15th April 2023 by Aplaudez(m): 1:08pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Please stop making us feel bad Dedicating this ftc to all batch B1 2022 corp members passing out in June this year, may God make the Labour Market a favour Market for us all, may all our dreams and aspirations come through! 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Men Agree To This Nonsense Arrangement? by Aplaudez(m): 7:01am On Apr 13, 2023 |
Rokiat: Because those men are actually smart and understand how a woman’s brain works. The moment a woman start contributing in the house she will now think she’s the leader of the home. Her respect for her husband will start to diminish this is just fact.
That is why a true masculine guy don’t care for a woman’s money what he want is a woman that will bring value to his home because when you as a man become too lazy as to depend on a woman to help you run your household financially one of two things happens
1 She lost total respect for you because now she feel she don’t actually need you. She will start undermining you, talking to you any kind of way thinking you both wear the pants in that relationship. Some men think they can cheat the system and just married and lash on a woman. I laugh the moment anything goes wrong the woman will be first to yell out all the things she’s doing, even if she only does 20% this is just how women are. They will subconsciously resent you because this is unnatural. The woman is not designed to be the leader, the provider, they are just not. So if you try to use her for that, guess what, you wouldn’t get the results you want, trust me on this. A man can be successful, provide for his family and not put it in nobody’s face what he’s doing because it is not that serious to him. This is what God designed him to be, but that’s not a woman’s God given role. God is a powerful force guys and you really can’t cheat divine order. And now we think we can rewrite the rules which is why most relationships are failing miserably.
2 She wouldn’t be able to pour into her house, her marriage, her children, and herself as she should because she will be spending more hours at work trying to help you contribute to the household it’s just impossible that she will give 100% to her home as she’s supposed to. This is why women don’t naturally make good leaders because they can’t do it all be a homemaker and then go to work and be a leader. That is why they become emotionally in those leadership roles because they are overwhelmed. Don’t argue with me argue with your keypad.
A woman’s achievement and money don’t mean Shi..t to a real masculine man because he don’t need it. That don’t mean Shi..t to them. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good maturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.
You can’t cheat divine order. This whole switching of roles is the number one issues in relationships today. That is why the west most of them have the highest divorce rate and hella unhappy in their relationships.
For the fact that you're a lady, you're allowed to say this. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Do Men Agree To This Nonsense Arrangement? by Aplaudez(m): 6:59am On Apr 13, 2023 |
Gerrard59:
This is the koko. Are the men prepared to partake in house chores? Are they OK with assertive and somewhat opinionated wives? Money gives people confidence and makes them bold and assertive. Are Nigerian men prepared for that? Because let's be honest, the moment she starts contributing financially to the household, she will demand a say in how things are run. The idea of siddon look and Agama-nodding to every idea and declaration by the man would fly out of the window. It is like a company. The moment you become a major shareholder, you begin to question the CEO on the moves he takes because you have a financial stake in the company even if he is more experienced than you are.
Are our men prepared for that? Na why anytime una say women in the west contribute, I dey laugh. Una go fit be like western men? Una go fit allow una wives question you on things in the house? What's your point huh 1 Like |
Properties / Re: Man Who Built Home On Inlaws Land Uproots & Moves The Home After Divorce (video) by Aplaudez(m): 9:27pm On Apr 08, 2023 |
dawnomike: Makes no much sense to me though... Whatsoever you have given to anyone even if it is to your enemy, it is a gift and should not be taken back! With this comment of yours, it's a very painful thing that you're a man like myself |
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Aplaudez(m): 9:54pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
ozalogbo: I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.
However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.
Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.
Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.
What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now? If you ever allow that my head will never forgive you! |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: List Of Fake Employment Companies. Stay Off Them. by Aplaudez(m): 9:00am On Mar 15, 2023 |
rozenery: I got a text message from tyreus global as at today March 9, 2023 for the position of personal assistant /B.D.S.. location is 36 yaya abatan ogba...
Are they real please? Hi how did it go?, I received an interview invite from them this morning |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: List Of Fake Employment Companies. Stay Off Them. by Aplaudez(m): 8:59am On Mar 15, 2023 |
rozenery: I got a text message from tyreus global as at today March 9, 2023 for the position of personal assistant /B.D.S.. location is 36 yaya abatan ogba...
Are they real please? Hi how did it go?, I received an interview invite from them this morning |
Nairaland / General / Re: Three Things I Love About Nairaland by Aplaudez(m): 1:13pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
Nland isn't a place for frustrated people |
Travel / Re: JAPA: How My Nigerian Accent Failed Me In Canada (pix/video) by Aplaudez(m): 1:12pm On Mar 14, 2023 |
Attention seeker |
Politics / Re: 2023 Election: INEC Gets Cash For Elections by Aplaudez(m): 7:47am On Feb 22, 2023 |
Money that is going to be paid to the PO's and APO's on the election eve is enough to circulate this country, just watch the POS people been rendered useless. |
Family / Re: My Experience At A Traditional Marriage Ceremony Today. by Aplaudez(m): 1:04pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Broke men should please stay away from relationship/marriage.
He can't even produce common 2k cash, Edakun, how will he take good care of his bride if he can't cough out 2k cash?
His mate are holding 200k cash to their traditional marriage just incase of emergency. But your friend can hold common 2k. Nawa oo!!
Even the OP is a Keke man! Shior!
May God Help all struggling men o! Are you really in this country at all? Guys beware, na them! |
Politics / Re: Allow Old, New Notes Coexist, APC Governors Beg Buhari by Aplaudez(m): 12:59pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
It's not getting funny anymore, over here you need to discuss percentage with the pos guy before he'll agree to give you money, eversince I've being in this country I've never experienced such hardship before. And people will still vote APC 13 Likes 1 Share |
Fashion / Re: Please, Is This Outfit I Got For My Birthday Too Short To Be Worn Outside? Pics by Aplaudez(m): 7:47pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
Light78: Sell that outfit and use the money to buy food for poor people in your area.
Tell them that's how you wish to celebrate your birthday. You vibing like that Daniel Regha guy on twitter. |
Family / Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by Aplaudez(m): 1:23pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
Divayettymama: Just imagine the nonsense he's saying with confidence It's just his point of view young lady, calm down! |
Romance / Re: She Is Killing Me With Financial Demands by Aplaudez(m): 7:59pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
Well done sir, oloriburuku Keep the flag flying 1 Like |
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Celebrities / Re: Lagos Socialite Prettymike Goes To An Event With 6 Pregnant Ladies (video) by Aplaudez(m): 7:53pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
The hustle is real, the preggies self get hustle Safe delivery preggies. |
Romance / Re: What Was Your Favorite Song And Movie Of 2022? by Aplaudez(m): 4:22pm On Dec 30, 2022 |
Ku lo sa oxlade guy 1 Like |
Romance / Re: For Guys In Relationships by Aplaudez(m): 11:56am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Babe just called to pray for Me on Xmas day Been dey act like say i sick, emi ogbon 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Crime / Re: Indian Police Arrest Fake Nigerian Doctor For Duping Woman Of N15m by Aplaudez(m): 6:14pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Agbawo needs December money 4 Likes 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NSCDC Recruitment 2022/2023 by Aplaudez(m): 2:34pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
What happened to we graduates We're too confused in this country 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Messi Passes Batistuta As Argentina's All-time World Cup Top Scorer by Aplaudez(m): 10:33pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
Croatia eliminated Brazil to play this nonsense 3 Likes |
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Investment / Re: Hybitrage Just Scammed Us by Aplaudez(m): 7:57am On Dec 05, 2022 |
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Investment / Re: Hybitrage Just Scammed Us by Aplaudez(m): 11:28am On Dec 04, 2022 |
RockStarD:
They are not mumu or blabbing. According to them the DSS are watching Emmanuel Idowu almost 24/7 so if they make any move the DSS will catch them. The DSS wants to arrest Emmanuel Idowu while these guys want to hurt him really bad like removing his legs, they don't plan on killing him, just make him suffer for life. They also know the locations of his family, if the DSS gets him before they do, they will go for the closest people to him in his family. Another reason is that Emmanuel Idowu said the problem won't last up to a month, by the end of this month it will be a month. I think it's ok for both the DSS and these guys to wait till the end of the month. We're teaming up to form a WhatsApp group for this movement, if you don't mind lemme add you up, I lost 1000USD to that beast too |
Sports / Re: Qatar 2022: World Cup Opening Ceremony In Pictures by Aplaudez(m): 7:58pm On Nov 20, 2022 |
So Qatar couldn't give a single goal 2 Likes |
Education / Re: Can You Go Back To JSS1 For 300million naira? by Aplaudez(m): 4:40pm On Nov 15, 2022 |
Itoro350: 300K IS ENOUGH SELF Country hard 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Moment Tinubu Said "God Bless PDP" At The APC Campaign Launch In Jos (video) by Aplaudez(m): 4:05pm On Nov 15, 2022 |
This man is just confused! Like wtf is going on 1 Like |
Politics / Re: ICPC Freezes 1,233 Bank Accounts, Ex-gov May Lose 29 Duplexes by Aplaudez(m): 6:08pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Hmmm, and Nigerians are living in premium poverty, and someone is in possession this huge amount. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Business / Re: How Much Have You Saved This Year? by Aplaudez(m): 3:56pm On Oct 14, 2022 |
remsonik: Good day nairalanders, I will like us to discuss, as at today how much do you have in your account as savings? I have just 700k as my savings and I wonder why my savings hasn't entered into millions in the year.
My 4th month as a serving corp member, I have saved 60k so far 7 Likes |