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for a crippled guy to ask u out means he still has a spine.

@lakeside- i feel u dear, but its ironic how a playa like u (should i say "one-time playa") is now looking for real woman to chill with, i thot u'd like em "bad", u should get ova that idea that there's that special someone that will drown the playa in u. the work starts with u cleaning up your act before starting the hunt.

the girl was damn lucky the guy was in his "mother's spirit" otherwise,

babycool:
Doc Love

Please can one can have a healthy relatioship without falling inlove?

sho?? babycool, which one be that? u want to blowaway our quack dr.luv's brains?

Reverend:
It is of course a fact that the longer you leave it the less time you will have to enjoy it (unless of course you have found a way to live longer)

That also makes it a truth

if it makes u happy!

@ niyirocks- my dear,u made ur point.

@multioption- i think u should,its not worth da trouble

Reverend:
You only have one life, all you achieve by waiting is to cut down the time you have in this one life on earth to experience pleasure.

still ur personal point of view which doesnt make it a fact much less a truth.

arielle has said it all, a good marriage is made up of 2 good people and vice-versa the good ,thing is that it doesnt affect the price of foodstuff in the market

cheer up bro, just following in ur foot steps.

talk2sulta:
LOVE IS LUST.BUT LUST IS NOT LOVE..disprove me if you can.

see how we confuse ourselves with compounded complications. nothing to disprove anyway, its just your opinion

its

pope732901:
God Save you say you no put your OKO. If to sey you put am, You go just dey hang like Windows 98.

very funny! digital magun.

@poster- very soon u'll come back and tell us how u slept with a witch, abi? u need a serious J.O.B

Ujujoan:
Disagree all u want, dosent change the fact!!

its not a fact, its ur personal opinion and ur entitled to it.

@poster- two things are off limits for me, drugs and married men. take a cue

Usiola:
free the guy, may be chewing gum cover in eye wey make am no see topic

beats me. i tire for the guy o.

heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy this is not about sex. please don't twist the issue. damn.

am already lovin this meltdown. all i need know is popcorn and soda.

jesus wept.

@almondjoy- my, my, my, ur indeed a piece of amazin work. that was an overtly expressive piece there and i like it already. but its really not about sex or hiv, i woud however take ur advice on fastin and prayin. thanks dear.

Busta:
"many mistakes that guys make"

over and over again.

love aint a one way street. since u say its not about money, then u need to be sure she is as crazy about u just the way u are when it comes to her. she could be taking u 4granted since she knows ur hooked on her. pele

Rebellious:
I don't know why you are trying to find a way to change him. It is obvious that if he hasn't changed a bit from a teen to a full adult so the chances of you succeeding in trying to make him change is really slim. Look for someone who's "ready-made" instead of wasting your time and happiness trying to be a mother to some guy and training him the way his parents shoud have. It's just not worth it.

ur post was strongly worded and i appreciate ur point of view! am not tryin to change him, as people we evolve everyday as life is about growing and learning and i just feel this the stage where i need to see more of that.

opokonwa:
@poster
Simply confront his 'hedonistic' or unserious lifestyle eyeball-to-eyeball.
Simply sit him down and talk, shout, yell etc, all to him and not to Nairalanders

thanks 4da tip, but am a lady, i dont yell, ok.

@jkpretty- thanks for sharing your friends experience, i thot i was d only one going thru this

thanks guys for your opinions on this. as for talking, yeah i've tried that once in awhile, i manage to divert our fun conversations to dem serious issues once in awhile, he tells me he know's what he's doing, we complement one another and that we have a perfect relationship. his car his a gift frm his uncle and his business is being bank-rolled by his parents. i don't have anything against them anyway but he just does not seem to want to stand alone!

he's has nice qualities though, a good sense of humor, great conversation, always available and excellent hygene (very rare wit men). i've also never had any cause to doubt his faithfulness ( so far ), but when i look ahead, the picture looks incomplete. i really dnt want to loose him.

hi sistas, have u ever being in this kind of spining relationship before? u meet a guy and he sweeps u off with those lines and ur both crazy in love and its good and beautiful. the days turn to months and months to years and u are yet to see that growing sense of responsibity, commitment and devotion instead its like ur still trapped in your first year in college?

am not the nagging type of lady and i really love this guy but its like we've being going in circles for like 2 years now. when we met, we were young ( still are) and it was fun but we have grown and our lives have changed to some extent. i think my major issue with him his his hedonistic lifestyle cos he's a "good time" kinda guy but we never manage to get to the serious issues. i recently discussed my job challenges with one evenin and his response was stunnin " if it doesnt work out, pull out, can we hit the club? ". his over-dependence on his parents fortune is another case entirely.

am not trying to tell him to be someone else than himself and am not pushing for marriage or something @ all cost, i just need to him to stand up and show that he his grown, pls how can i do that without hurting his ego?

@poster: this is why ur hot, abi? its all good. dnt let stuff like that cos guys say wht they gotta say to get ur stuff!

@baur- am gonna excuse the blunder in ur post as a tyograhical error cos ur too cute to be shelling!

that chick of yours definitely must be a lowlife if she can't stick with a hard-working guy, (dats if ur one), just chill and let her fly cos trust me,in time, they always come back.

obviously ur love-struck than he is, please don't make a fool of urself lettin ur emotion overwhelm u. men can be like dogs atimes (no offense intended), they need to roam a little before they finally come home. if he wants to be with u, he'll eventually come around. ur a queen so i'll advice u sit on ur throne.

i guess u should ask urself if u trust in ur love enough to wait for him, there's no point kiddin urself if u don't.

@poster: u are soooooooooooooooo gay like yesterday! and i think ur looking for some logical explanation to your situation becos honestly size has nothing to do with gay vibes (we all have our insecurities). i guess your past has really messed up and ur now trying a reverse therapy, did u still indulge in that lifestyle or is that one xperience that altered your natural config?

as for the girl u are dying for, ask urself if its for real or ur trying to straighten up, cos ur door can't swing both ways. check urself bro and seek counsellling and prayers

wa_do_mi:
all of una na goat wey no get anything serious to talk about - simple nonentity who is hiding behind the internet to vituperate innuendos unbecoming of a reasonable homo sapien - Omo Eko - I am sure you are one of those women whose obo smells - this is why I wont say anything to you - until u assure me your obo is no more smelling, because hmm hmm hmm - still smelling - u need to see me privately.

my dear, stay on sex, but don't go near grammar cos its not ur thing and it doesnt suite u! ( we're used u being vulgar) . pele

@ wa_do_mi: i think ur just a freak of nature, some guy looking for some space to exude his amorous and pervet fantasies. no wonder ur post culdnt fly cos its just air . BIG SHAME

Douzy:
You already said it:
No passion.
Plus, 18k is not worth a wasting your time on a job you have no passion for.

you said it all. 18k for what? i understand that Sales/Marketing comes under the B.D unit, u will be responsible for bring business and inflows for the company and all u get is 18k?
That's crap? (especially for a job u'd practically push urself to do since its not ur passion)
let it pass. u'd get something better.