Arianne's Posts
Nairaland Forum › Arianne's Profile › Arianne's Posts
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 (of 15 pages)
pele dear, u seem to be the pun in this whole mess. i admire your courage. |
lucabrasi: |
Easybaby:lol, ![]() |
jkpretty:. "There are lots of sensible men here too, . . but like the women, you have to look hard." my dear, thats a lifetime commitment. |
Terminator:brother oh brother, do i smell complex issues somewhere in there? does my supposed "puffed up" stance make you feel that low? this is interesting. |
Terminator:of cousre i intend to.ciao |
frank 3.16:dear, its called a vicious cycle. |
mick plus- well said. the only way i survive this land is by not giving too much attention to somethings i read here cos some of them can actually result in braindrain. we all deserve a chance doesnt necessarily mean we are gonna get one |
Terminator:good morning to you 2 dear, u must have had a n awful nite, pele. technically speaking, guys post more crap on sex on this forum that ladies do (i clearly remember on of them still losing himself on a post about ugly d@#ks yesterday evening ) . what real life issues do u discuss, let me see - i need a sugar mummy, i want to disvirgin my househelp, ladies with white pubic hair , blah,blah,blah, just pure oral stench. only a handful show themselves as informed and evolved men, as for the rest, I would rather stick needles into my eyes than accommodate views that are meant to put others down. RUBBISH. knock yourself out. ![]() |
oga sam, e don do. i dey go my bed . |
lol, i bet moderator iice was a witness abi? ![]() |
what can i say, just my luck. ![]() |
for which church, pastor chinda3? ![]() |
my dear, times are tough but tofa is tougher. yeah, u can have a meaningful and dependable relationship as friends with females but it takes awhile becos women are sublime and can create a surface pesonality, once u guys can get past that phase she becomes like a sista to you, but with guys its easy .its either he's asking u out, dying to ask you out or as accepted his luck as a buddy . it makes the ride alot easier. besides, having guys around makes you learn a thing or two about the male folk. |
abeg oga rocket scientist, which xhemistry is that? we only rubbed minds like matured peeps do. don't give nairalanders something to muse about o! ![]() |
definitely more male friends. could use their good company and attention without worries of gossips and envy. |
gracias! |
knock yourselves out. |
sammie, sammie, sammie, i did not condemn every guy on nairaland, i recall saying there a few good ones i can count on my fingers ( your deliberate omission). i did not insult people i never met, i only stated my uncompromising stance (kind of cute for u to call me madam rice).do you feel condemned, poor you. my truths are bitter pills to swallow so i'll advise you get a drum of water! Oh one last thing. . .saying someone can change another person is the biggest urban myth ever perpetuated. Only YOU can change who you are. . .so please let's stop giving people false hope that they can change another human being. can you comprehend? |
@poster- are u still waiting for a reasonable answer? simple question- how did u come about your 80% mark ? did u do a physical head count or was it random sampling or mere observation? i'll advise you get something that looks like a life and stop wasting your days. |
Encomium:quite i agree, aint no point in killin yourself with grief at this stage. |
well u know what they say, charity begins @ home. |
sam milla- first of all, i aint married but am definitely with someone. "and who do i think i am"? well, am someone who can smell a trashy, no good, low life brother from a thousand miles away (my radar is that strong). no aplogies if my refusal to mingle with pple who spit crap instead of sound reasoning expected of a grown-ass male. i don't see that possibility, not in even in my next life. p.s - please wake up from that slumber and quit the that theory of people changing people, we're not zombies but humans bounded by our will and choices, that is what everyone needs to make a change. no love in the world will change you if you don't love yourself first. |
nice post, but i'd rather pass on the opportunity of hooking up with someone on this land even if i was single. no offence, but most of the fellaz here are way below my league judging by their perceived lifestyle from what they post. there are a few good men among them though, and i can count them on my fingers! |
ive been in that sort of situaton b4, bt mine was worse cos the guy was interested in someone else who treated him like shit while i was the one who practicaly worshipped him. yeah, it hurts real bad when you love someone who doesnt love you back that way but its part of the lesson on life and love. i got over it and moved on though i neva stopped feeling that way about him even though we're stil friends. accept the friendship and see where you guys go fro there. |
@yemi- well, frm the responses u've got, u should know that we also are in denial about one thing or the other. here's mine but its not really an insecurity issue but it was a cause of concern for me for a very long time. i used to believe or should i say think that i would neva get the kinda love i deserve becos am the d type that gives my all in a relationship but i always wanted that guarantee that my love interest would also be hopeless crazy about me. i always wanted it 50:50 or nothing. but the years have made me wiser and i dnt bother myself anymore cos now i know whether its 50:50, 60:40 or even 90:10, it will always add up to a 100% as long as u complete and complement one another. |

.