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RomanceRe: Help! My Boyfriend 's Ex Is Giving Me Nightmares by arianne(f): 2:10pm On Apr 09, 2008
pele dear, u seem to be the pun in this whole mess. i admire your courage.
RomanceRe: The Real Photos Or Nothing? by arianne(f): 11:10pm On Apr 07, 2008
lucabrasi:
think many people don't have their pics on here because of immature and snide remarks from other nairaland members, if anonymity is the only excuse then check out hi5 and facebook,who have millions in membership yet almost everybody don't just have pictures but people make it a competition to upload as much pictures on their profile as possible, i had my picture on before but removed it because of some people trying to score cheap points by making snide remarks about my pic and as far as im on here i definitely am not having my pic on.

i remember a lady starting a thread on how she can remove her pix from her profile last year, i guess she was naive intially but she realised later it wasnt in her best interest. i think such request should be made on a personal level with whomever you chose to share it with
RomanceRe: Heartbreak by arianne(f): 10:09am On Apr 04, 2008
Easybaby:
You got heartbreak just because he did not call sad angry
What will then happen when he call off the relationship. . .Na die be that! cheesy cheesy cheesy
lol, cheesy
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 9:14am On Apr 04, 2008
jkpretty:
your sense of judgment is still dull. Areas of your interest, don't usually dominate your life. Have u heard of place of relaxation? That's what nairaland is to me.

So a lovely game of "scrabble" or "chess" which is your interest, dominates your life? You are kidding here brother. If Romance so demeans u, then jump off to other sections. Have a nice life!
.

"There are lots of sensible men here too, . . but like the women, you have to look hard."

my dear, thats a lifetime commitment.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 8:51am On Apr 04, 2008
Terminator:
@Imani,
Now you understand what my earlier post was about; people looking 4 opportunity to talk up themselves as if they r more important than others.
I take back my comment about your profile.
brother oh brother, do i smell complex issues somewhere in there? does my supposed "puffed up" stance make you feel that low? this is interesting.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 8:47am On Apr 04, 2008
Terminator:
@ arianne
how many times ve u been to or contributed to the politics, sports, finance or as soon rightly pointed out religion section. Let me guess NONE. Ve a wonderful day


let me guess, your crystal ball revealed that to you. and do something nice 2day
of cousre i intend to.ciao
RomanceRe: Loving Someone That Doesnt Love You. by arianne(f): 8:38am On Apr 04, 2008
frank 3.16:
why is this a problem again? must someone you love love you? look worst things happen than being rejected and people still survive. why do we bother our self with people not loving us when even though they eventually give us the love we desire,we either get fed up and bored with the person after a short or long time. we start all over again to suffer the same love problem with another person forgetting the possible outcome.
abeg , leave that thing, life is too short to stick to one thing for a long time.
dear, its called a vicious cycle.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 8:35am On Apr 04, 2008
mick plus- well said. the only way i survive this land is by not giving too much attention to somethings i read here cos some of them can actually result in braindrain.

we all deserve a chance doesnt necessarily mean we are gonna get one
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 8:30am On Apr 04, 2008
Terminator:
most of the ladies here are a joke. Pretenders.
If you go to other sections of this site that discuss serious issues like politics, finance, sports etc how many ladies' contributions do you see, very few. But a visit to the romance and sexuality sections they take the lead.
What does that say, they are more interested in sex than real issues of life. But here we go again, men on this site are worth nothing and like 1 contributor said below her league ( what stupid lead).
I would rather stick needles into my eyes than accommodate views that are meant to put others down.
RUBBISH.
good morning to you 2 dear, u must have had a n awful nite, pele. technically speaking, guys post more crap on sex on this forum that ladies do (i clearly remember on of them still losing himself on a post about ugly d@#ks yesterday evening ) . what real life issues do u discuss, let me see
- i need a sugar mummy, i want to disvirgin my househelp, ladies with white pubic hair , blah,blah,blah, just pure oral stench.

only a handful show themselves as informed and evolved men, as for the rest,

I would rather stick needles into my eyes than accommodate views that are meant to put others down.
RUBBISH.


knock yourself out. cheesy
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 11:59pm On Apr 03, 2008
oga sam, e don do. i dey go my bed grin.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 11:57pm On Apr 03, 2008
lol, i bet moderator iice was a witness abi? grin
RomanceRe: Male Or Female Friends, Who Do U Have More? by arianne(f): 11:54pm On Apr 03, 2008
what can i say, just my luck. cheesy
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 11:50pm On Apr 03, 2008
for which church, pastor chinda3? grin
RomanceRe: Male Or Female Friends, Who Do U Have More? by arianne(f): 11:42pm On Apr 03, 2008
my dear, times are tough but tofa is tougher. yeah, u can have a meaningful and dependable relationship as friends with females but it takes awhile becos women are sublime and can create a surface pesonality, once u guys can get past that phase she becomes like a sista to you, but with guys its easy .its either he's asking u out, dying to ask you out or as accepted his luck as a buddy . it makes the ride alot easier. besides, having guys around makes you learn a thing or two about the male folk.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 11:32pm On Apr 03, 2008
abeg oga rocket scientist, which xhemistry is that? grin we only rubbed minds like matured peeps do. don't give nairalanders something to muse about o! cheesy
RomanceRe: Male Or Female Friends, Who Do U Have More? by arianne(f): 11:26pm On Apr 03, 2008
definitely more male friends. could use their good company and attention without worries of gossips and envy.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 11:14pm On Apr 03, 2008
gracias!
RomanceRe: 80% Of Lagos Girls Are Into Runs by arianne(f): 11:00pm On Apr 03, 2008
knock yourselves out. kiss
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 10:50pm On Apr 03, 2008
sammie, sammie, sammie, i did not condemn every guy on nairaland, i recall saying there a few good ones i can count on my fingers ( your deliberate omission). i did not insult people i never met, i only stated my uncompromising stance (kind of cute for u to call me madam rice).do you feel condemned, poor you. my truths are bitter pills to swallow so i'll advise you get a drum of water!

Oh one last thing. . .saying someone can change another person is the biggest urban myth ever perpetuated. Only YOU can change who you are. . .so please let's stop giving people false hope that they can change another human being.

can you comprehend?
RomanceRe: 80% Of Lagos Girls Are Into Runs by arianne(f): 10:28pm On Apr 03, 2008
@poster- are u still waiting for a reasonable answer? simple question- how did u come about your 80% mark ? did u do a physical head count or was it random sampling or mere observation? i'll advise you get something that looks like a life and stop wasting your days.
RomanceRe: Heartbreak by arianne(f): 10:11pm On Apr 03, 2008
Encomium:
There is no heartbreak yet because you are only lusting or building infactuation towards the guy. It seems you are the one that want the relationship to work at all cost. Please allow things to take its course since there is no big deal in dating someone abroad.
quite i agree, aint no point in killin yourself with grief at this stage.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Need A Sugar Mummy by arianne(f): 9:54pm On Apr 03, 2008
well u know what they say, charity begins @ home.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 9:43pm On Apr 03, 2008
sam milla- first of all, i aint married but am definitely with someone. "and who do i think i am"? well, am someone who can smell a trashy, no good, low life brother from a thousand miles away (my radar is that strong). no aplogies if my refusal to mingle with pple who spit crap instead of sound reasoning expected of a grown-ass male. i don't see that possibility, not in even in my next life. kiss


p.s - please wake up from that slumber and quit the that theory of people changing people, we're not zombies but humans bounded by our will and choices, that is what everyone needs to make a change. no love in the world will change you if you don't love yourself first.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Giving Your Fellow Nairalanders A Chance by arianne(f): 12:09pm On Apr 03, 2008
nice post, but i'd rather pass on the opportunity of hooking up with someone on this land even if i was single. no offence, but most of the fellaz here are way below my league judging by their perceived lifestyle from what they post. there are a few good men among them though, and i can count them on my fingers!
RomanceRe: Loving Someone That Doesnt Love You. by arianne(f): 11:57am On Apr 03, 2008
ive been in that sort of situaton b4, bt mine was worse cos the guy was interested in someone else who treated him like shit while i was the one who practicaly worshipped him.

yeah, it hurts real bad when you love someone who doesnt love you back that way but its part of the lesson on life and love. i got over it and moved on though i neva stopped feeling that way about him even though we're stil friends.

accept the friendship and see where you guys go fro there.
RomanceRe: Let Us Share Our Insecurities Here! by arianne(f): 9:53pm On Mar 27, 2008
@yemi- well, frm the responses u've got, u should know that we also are in denial about one thing or the other.

here's mine but its not really an insecurity issue but it was a cause of concern for me for a very long time. i used to believe or should i say think that i would neva get the kinda love i deserve becos am the d type that gives my all in a relationship but i always wanted that guarantee that my love interest would also be hopeless crazy about me. i always wanted it 50:50 or nothing. but the years have made me wiser and i dnt bother myself anymore cos now i know whether its 50:50, 60:40 or even 90:10, it will always add up to a 100% as long as u complete and complement one another.

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