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Since when is Children's Day a work-free day?

ItsTutsi:
The guy that said "mazi usain bolt" had me rolling on the floor

Me too!! I didn't want to laugh but it was dead funny!

lathrowinger:
Pandora will still leave the party and join ipob party.


Werey dey disguise


Ritualist in human form....

What kind of creature are you? What has this man done to you?

1Sharon:
Lol. You're so naive

I dey tell you!

AheadMarket:
Anybody Ayade brings should lose the election, for the good of Cross River State

I tell you. CRS is a PDP state. That Ayade gave a disgraceful account of himself just compounds it.

Pele10:
APC has a consensus candidate in person of prince bassey otu.

What kind of consensus candidate? We all thought so until we heard Chris Agara went and bought a form. How about Owan Enoh? We heard he stepped down for Prince Otu, then we heard he was still in the race.

spencekat:
Well,till then.This time around,it will be a heated one in CRS.

As it should be. This rotational stuff made us end up with Ayade. Besides, every region has had a turn. Who says this next round must start from the same place?

garfield1:
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Next gov is prince otu

Prince Otu has weak structures. Depending on incumbency is shaky as Ayade is extremely unpopular. However, Prince Otu has as his running mate a lady from central so that might also work in his favour even though she is unknown politically.

otokx:
So men answer Sandy?

Short for Alexander.

Penguin2:
I thought Cross River people preferred Sen. Gershom Bassey?

Is Sen Sandy more popular and better?

Gershom is quite unpopular. He is distant from his contituency. Sandy is very popular.

clergyboy:
A done deal since 2015..........people didn't know.

Thank you. Buhari has been part of the plan. All they've been trying to do is sell the idea of consensus which has been an uphill task, obviously. Jonathan is adamant - consensus or nothing. This weekend will be most interesting.

femicyrus:
I thought they wanted Biafra

This is Cross River State, not Igbo land.

By the way, you have all forgotten the innocent youth corpers you slaughtered because Buhari lost an election. How many northern elders came out to condemn it? My own friend even tried to justify it. Like I said, until you can be objective and fair in your condemnation, no one will take you seriously.

christistruth01:
A fulani woman was walking in the Street with her 4 Children and IPOB shot them dead

Is it that soludo has not yet heard or has he just decided to ignore this atrocity

What if it was his own Wife and Children is this how he would react ?

Even if soludo has not heard of the Slaughter of Northerners in Anambra What of Ohaneze ?

Their Silence is too loud, Shocking and shameful


Cc Mynd44, Lalasticlala

Frontpage


https://tribuneonlineng.com/black-sunday-in-anambra-as-gunmen-kill-mother-four-children-two-others/

Are northern lives more valuable than the igbo lives that have been lost? Did Buhari lose his voice all this while?

Tumbulum:
But Fulani killed Benue and have been killing Benue people since The world began and arrewa did not erupt.
Fulani have been killing ebonyi and enugu people since God knows when but arrewa never erupt.
So now you value human life because a Fulani woman is the victim right ?

Don't mind them. Decades of northerners murdering southerners in the north over the flimsiest of excuses. Now they have a voice to protest. Since we have all become savages, lets continue in that vein. Northerners are all over the south as well, and religious, tribal or political reasons are just as valid to someone, northern or southern, with hate and madness in his heart, murder on his mind and a knife in his hand. No region has a monopoly of violence. So until you lot, by some miracle, become objective and fair in your criticisms, cry me a bloody river.

You're a courtesan. Nothing to be proud of.

Parachoko:
This is a lie

Unfortunately, it is not. People just don't want to believe it.

midehi2:
Continuous doing before delivery helps alot, doctors even advise that

I had lots of sex during my third trimester in my first delivery. We were going at it like rabbits. Maybe Le Hubs was making up for lost time. As soon as I found out I was pregnant he stopped touching me. When I complained and asked why, he kept hedging until he finally came out with it, "But there's someone else in there. What if it reaches out and grabs my d^ck!" Men sha! Big babies!

kambili999:
A woman doesn't just decide to have an episiotomy. There are indications for episiotomy. If the woman needs one and all things are favourable for her to have it, she will be given.

Science has made things better, including delivery of a baby. There are lots things that help in numbing pain during deliver. Epidural is an example.

It will be a shocker to many of us that some women see bearing pain at childbirth as being more womanly than others.

Local anaesthetics can be given to even reduce the pain felt when episiotomy is being repaired.

Summary of it is, a woman can be given episiotomy and she won't feel a thing. Same thing when it is being repaired. It's just choice of the woman and expertise of the doctor managing her.

That epidural...hmmm. With my second birth, it made me feel funny. I started weeping. The doctors, the anesthesiologist, my husband, they were all confused. I was not in pain, I just kept weeping and I didn't know why. Very strange feeling.

Bull! Pathetic liars. This was no accident. And what is the latest rush to publish names of victims? Names that happen to be mostly Christian and Southern?. From decades of annonymous victims to a supposed thoroughness in ferreting out their names. Same thing with the okada incident in Lagos a few days ago. Most of the 'names' of the perpetrators were Christian. These people really think Nigerians are stupid.

ivili:
I believe it was the name of the father (ANENIH)that worked against him.

Shocking! Who would have thought! This is a clear demonstration to these thieving politicians that the legacy they leave behind is important and will affect their children.
Maybe Nigerians are starting to grow small sense.

Faber:
A friend of mine in Turkey married an Ukrainian lady. His wife is damn beautiful and fit. Even after giving him 4 kids

They are very humble, down to Earth and feminine. In terms of beauty. Slavs beat British women hands down.

Very true. The typical dull bland british guy had his head turned by those slavic cheekbones and pouty lips. Missus didn't stand a chance!! You men, sef!!

Ballzproblemm:
mumu fall for manipulation thinking say en done win , anyways carry on , until she start to scream her ex name during sex ya eye go clear

One of the pant-washing woman wrappers, living out their he-man fantasies online. Take them seriously at your peril.

Augustwife:
I had to open a new moniker so I can rant in peace. My head is full, so it's going to be a long post .

I got married to the love of my life 2017 (we started dating 2009) and we have two wonderful children.
He loves me (I know for sure), doesn't cheat too and my in-laws are the most wonderful people on earth ( my mil especially).

We have a joint business but the bad part :he is addicted to alcohol.

He wasn't like this before we got married, he used to drink occasionally so I can't really tell how we got here.

It's so bad that he can't go a day without it. Once he can't lay his hands on alcohol he will begin to shiver like a malaria patient.

This addiction has gotten us into debts that I had to pay with my savings on several occasions.

I'm talking of debts of 120k, 167k, 136k e.t.c. He's takes several loans from loan sharks , drinks like no tomorrow.

He has wrecked ourbbusiness and only with the help of God was I able to rebuild It by taking loans and paying back.

We even decided he gets a job so he can be more responsible but after working for a year he had nothing to show for it.

Twice his parents had to take him to a therapist but it was all in vain as he would go back to drinking.

My head is scattered,I can't think straight, it's making me hate him. I tried leaving a few weeks ago , I went back to my mother's house but trust my mama, she begged me to go back and my mother in-law too.

I don't even know what to do, my mental life is zero, I have withdrawn from everyone, I'm practically in poverty due to this addiction
He is a wonderful man BUT this addiction is a very big problem. We have prayed, fasted, gone to doctors but it's still there.

I don't know what to do .

Your husband seems to be a good man who has a serious challenge. He needs you now more than ever before. But it is a decision you have to make for yourself, it has to be whst is good for you and what you are prepared to sacrifice. Because it will be a long lonely road. But I dare say the reward at the end of it all will be so worthwhile.
If it were me i wouldn't leave him. I could never find happiness again when the man i love is on the brink of destruction. I would stay, pray and take some serious action. Such as finding a good rehabilition program than the quack you took him to. It will be expensive but sell whatever you can to raise the money. Your families will help.
Gird your loins and prepare for some hard times. But you will smile again and you will have your guy back. Be courageous.

kazyhm:
When a husband is having issues, fellow women advice dissolution of the marriage

When the table is on the opposite side, men advice the man should manup and take responsibility.


Marriage is a progressive work....not a destination.

You're a bloody liar. Show me which man has had a grievious problem caused by his wife that men here will advice him to "man up and take responsibility". If she were an alcoholic with all the attendant challenges of alcoholism, will he stay and help her? If she goes out and sleeps with another man, how many of you will forgive her and accept her back?
You people are a bunch of hypocrites who want what you are not prepared to give yourself. Yul Edochie had a wife he himself told the world was supportive and there for him when he had nothing. But he still stuck his wandering d^ck in other women and proceeded to marry one of them, shaming his wife before the whole world. The 'men' in this forum supported him, saying it was his right. Forgeting that she has rights too and was never told and given the option to enter into a polygamous marriage. Where were your 'for better for worse' adherents then?
It is a choice for the OP to make to keep supporting her husband. There should be no compulsion or guilting her into staying. Because most of you men are extremely disloyal and undeserving of a good woman. That is why many of you find your level with whores, wandering pvssys and lazy grasping women because like calls to like.

EmmaJnr1:
When Biafra leaves, we are leaving with all igbos and no part of our land would be ceded to any bigot. We are leaving with igbos of Delta, Rivers, Benue, Kogi and bayelsa with our brothers of the calabar people of Akwa ibom and the people of cross river state. Any other people that wants to join us apart from the above mentioned people, would be thoroughly checked before being allowed to join Biafra.

I repeat, no part of igboland would be left for Nigeria, all our people "WILL" be liberated from the shackles of Nigeria

Which cross river state You must be drunk. There are NO igbos in cross river state. You must be really desperate to try to force yourself on people who do NOT want to identify with you. Look elsewhere.

maestroferddi:
Make dem dey write rubbish...

Ayade who will end up with EFCC if he misses the Senate bus na im person dey hope on...

Cross River is PDP's to lose: don't allow anybody to deceive you.

Granted that Bassey Otu did well in the polls in the past but we are talking of the present and the fact that he has somehow been in the wilderness for the past ten years will count seriously against him.

In the final analysis, nobody can paper over the cracks of the huge unpopularity and repugnance of Ayade in Cross River State...

Don't mind them. Let them remain in denial. Any association with the monumental failure that is Ayede will only lead to more failure, even for a man as popular as Otu.
Ayade is the most unpopular and the worst thing thats ever happened to Cross River State. APC has no home in the state. It is a PDP state. It is Liyel I blame for foisting this disaster on the state.

Hot is as hot does. The woman gives him peace, rubs his head, rubs his stomach and feeds him delicious banga and starch while Mrs Hot is always quarelling and shouting, spending evenings out with friends rather than giving her husband attention. This young generation better go and learn how to marry. Otherwise find oyinbo or stay single. I only hope Mr Blossom doesn't turn out to be the typical Nigerian man, chasing small side chicks up and down, even after finding the one he claims is good to him.

oyeb15:
A good man is not what we need Sir. We already had good men in Jonathan, Yar Adua, Osinbajo, (even Buhari is a good man if u know him personally).

We need someone that understand the working of governance and politics. Someone with experience in administration, vibrant, fearless and visionary.

Those few are Atiku Abubakar, Rotimi Ameachi and Bola Tinubu.

The problem with Bola is not even his age or health but his strong economic cabals that feast on government resources, revenues and contracts. This won't be beneficial to any nation.

You are calling people who have been part of the reason nigeria is where it is today. Administration? Vibrance? Visionary? Is the experience you are looking for not the same experience they have used to run this country to the ground? Then we all complain about our situation. How can you divorce our situation from these same set of people we have been recyling?

tesppidd:


The joke is on you.

My issue with you guys is that you guys overrate Jonathan's credibility and honourabilty too much.

Jonathan is nothing more than a gentle/timid version of the average naija politician.

Spot on. He was part of the plan from the begining but wanted concensus.

Yujin:
Christians and southerners still think they have a country. It's baffling for a people been treated as thrash not to know their true position in a geographical space and seek a better one if they aren't comfortable with it.
Another of such senseless murder will still happen and Christians in Nigeria will find a way to swallow it. I've never seen the calibre of people like Christians from Nigeria. South Sudan fought against the same treatment to get their freedom 50 years later (1955-2005). Nigerian Christians have been killed for more than 60 years yet they continue to hold on to the evil system that kills them. It is a shame.

I don't understand. See the resignation in a man whose child was brutally murdered by a mob with over 100 armed policemen standing by. I am so sick of hearing "leave it to God" "it's in God's hands" "God will judge them" "God will provide". This religion has bred a group of spineless, unthinking, ignorant citizens who don't know their rights and are unwilling or unable to help themselves. Even to express their anger and outrage is now beyond them.

Nigerian men and their promiscuity. That is what has led to this. Total lack of integrity.