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Lalami3232:
Na so marriage suppose to be, not what we're seeing nowadays. Today if you mistakenly annoy your partner, the next step na divorce. Dem think say marriage na bed of roses. We dey even take pride in divorce sef. You go hear people dey say "I don't take shit from anyone ooooo", "marriage is to be enjoyed, not endured" bla bla bla. No perfect union anywhere. People wey we dey see wey don marry for years learnt how to tolerate, forgive and accept their partners for who they are. God know say I can never divorce my wife, except on the ground say na life/death situation. A friend of mine wey he marriage dey barely 2yrs dey ask me of divorce proceeding, I just look am and hiss. Funny enough eeh, na the women dey suffer for the divorce matter pass because before dem go see a better man, street don fvck dem tire. Small boys wey no reach to talk to you before go come. He too go wan still try luck weather he fit still shine your Congo and move. My dear men/women for nairaland, divorce is not the best option, that's if the situation isn't life threatening. No perfect union out there!!! Try to make yours work if you can


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "no perfect marriage out there. Try to make yours work and you would be glad you did"

Word!!!!!

BKayy:
Told you so. The West shot themselves on the foot by trying to repeat the same move they used on the Soviet Union and other Communist/Socialist they destroyed.

The West is losing even though Russia haven't started her own sanctions. You can't beat a player in his own game. Communism as a philosophy was designed to withstand economic hardship. Remember Biblical Joseph policy in Egypt
The only way to beat communism is by infiltrating into the minds of the masses with propaganda like they have successfully rendered Africans eternal slaves but it won't work in Russia where most don't like Western media.

Economic sanctions doesn't work on Communist countries, this is why North Korea is still alive and more developed than 80% of Capitalist countries. Communism as a philosophy is designed to protect the poor man at the expense of the greedy ones. This is total opposite of what Capitalism preaches which is for the few rich to live on the blood of the poor masses. If you can't deceive the masses to rise against a communist leader, you can't scratch the country.
The attack on Russian Oligarchs is merely teaching Russia the full meaning of Communism. Thereby doing the masses a favour

This is the end of Capitalism. If Putin didn't figure out how to bypass the trick, he wouldn't have invaded Ukraine.

Goodluck to Europe as they are about to buy gas 10 times more price as they used to buy it before, thanks to their own sanction on Russia. It is either they find a way to use Africa to fill the quota at the expense of Africans or watch themselves die.

****This is for those asking after North Korea. For a country to have the capability to develop Nuclear weapons despite the sanctions, that means that she is no longer in the league of average countries. Below is not Heaven, it is the picture of Pyongyang, North Korea.

1 million likes for this. These pussy politicians can't beat Putin at his game. The guy is a trained KGB killer with communism running through his veins.

Sterope:
Her shouting hasn't made things better. She is an adult that can communicate without shouting. It is good upbringing to raise a child that can resolve issues without screaming like a banshee.

Thank you!

Harddiskng:
Lmao, funny enough i would have done this same. Your son strikes me as a rational thinker. He feels can take care of issue thus involving the teacher would be making him look smaller/less responsible. You have a man in the making.

The lunch boxes look identical, If I don’t come home with the other boy’s lunch box where would I put my food for tomorrow naa. After lunch we can exchange it back

Regarding the issue of comparing what he has to that others, you need to listen to him more carefully to understand what the issue is, so you can set him straight.

Good analysis!

9gerian:
I get you.

However, if the excessive overreach is curtailed, US has the potential to lead the world peacefully, but then there is the military industrial complex that has its tentacles around the necks of US politicians and the establishment, which needs wars to thrive and stay relevant.

Going back to the same thing he said. For whatever reason, the US has been at the forefront or the hidden hand pulling the strings of almost every major crises the world over. The excessive overreach can never be curtailed as long as American politicians are bound by the interests of big business and the military not to mention their imperialistic leanings. Leadership qualities are the same as required for individuals and does not include bullying, threatening and destroying others to fulfill self-serving ends. The US is positioned with enormous wealth, technology and cultural influence. In that blessing lies huge responsibilities to exert positive outcomes on the rest of the world, if they must be the leader of the world. Do they honestly inspire admiration that is not tinged by fear and intimidation? Do you really think so?

ray501:
More reason why russia will want to prolong the war, just wonder why keiv is yet to be capture

Cat playing with the mouse before it pounces for the final kill and gobble!!!!!

IfnobeGod20:
But in this type of situation sitting on the fence makes you spineless, of what use is that you cannot take stance on a better that concerns sovereign of a certain nation.
I also fault you here my brother. If by tomorrow if anything happened in your country the next country you run to is either US or UK or these other western countries. There's no time you call this Asia countries for help. If the world had rely on these Asia countries, the world would have been worst off than this. I think moderately the west and America has been making the world live moderately, to show that democratic practice is immutable and non negotiable. No doubt they might have Committed some errors on the course of defending democratic practice as restoring peace and order but that in large extent had yielded some positive results.i think if I don't know anyone in my African continent, I know of Gambia, Egypt, Ivory coast and Liberia where they've fully restored order and democratic practice in nations that tyrannical tendency reign supreme

You can't be this naive. Come on, now.

Trump is not joking and he should know. This is the US 'foreign policy' and how it operates: ferment trouble and instigate 2 countries or factions within a country to fight each other while they sit back and watch their dirty work being done for them. Then they finally invade under the guise of "democracy" or "equal rights". At least Putin doesn't pretend to be what he isn't.

d142475:
Nigerians have indeed a very funny mentality; it seems we are the architect of what we are going through. How can a sane person support Atiku ? Here are some facts about Atiku:

1. He is a 75 years old man! SEVENTY-FIVE. Let that sink. If we are concerned about Tinubu’s age, we should be more concerned about Atiku’s.

2. Atiku is a Fulani man. How can we have two Fulani presidents back -to -back in a multi- ethnic country? How can we be so foolish to help affirm the Fulani born- to-rule mentality?
And with a Fulani man in power, do you think the menace of Fulani herdsmen will stop ? To have a cue, look at all the Fulani governors and see how many of them support their Fulani brothers from foreign lands, who are invading villages and kidnapping on our highways. Once they sack villages and settle on people’s homeland , their governors would appoint emirs for them. It’d be more of the same, because a Fulani man always supports his own.

3. Atiku has been clamoring to be president since the days of Obasanjo. How can we forget so easily that anyone who is too desperate to become president should be treated with utmost suspicion; how can we forget the Buhari experience so easily? Buhari had been wanting to be president since 2003, we all know what became of him.

4. Atiku has been in the corridors of power for as long as I can remember. He has a track record. My brothers and sisters, I’m not going to sit here and judge him, but take a look at his record for yourselves.
5. Key positions in Nigeria has been occupied by Northerners for as long as I can remember (even in the days of Obj- customs, ports, FCT minister,
etc), if you think this will change with Atiku, go and check your head very well .
Those guys see the rest of us as inferior, even though we are responsible for the vast human and natural resources of Nigeria.

I know Tinubu is not a saint and I’m by no means a fan of Tinubu, but considering what we are going through as a country right now - the ethnic and religious jingoism, the Northern superiority complex, the nepotism, the incompetence of officials (who are mostly from a region), the injustice, and the crumbling fabric of national unity, we need to rally behind any candidate from the South. I hope this Southern candidate is not Tinubu. But if he turns out to be Tinubu, I’d hold my nose and vote for him over Atiku anytime any day.
If you do the same thing and expect a different result, you are downright crazy. Atiku, like Buhari his brother, favours Northern Nigerians over the rest of us . And Fulani herdsmen will have a 16 -year uninterrupted period to kill our people, seize our lands and destroy our farms .
I’m by no means a tribalist. I used to be for one Nigeria, but I’ve seen that it’s scam ( at least in the mind of the North). The North never sees Nigeria as one. For them, Nigeria belongs to the North. But they won’t let us break into two, because they have Nothing ( landlocked, poor in human and natural resources etc). I’m sure if the North had half the resources that we have in the South, they would have broken up into their own country. They leech on the South and they want to “rule” us, destroy our environment and loot our resources. We need to be aware of this sad reality that Buhari has opened our eyes to. Buhari has exposed the mindset of the average Northerner, but we in the South are too busy chasing shadows to understand how the Northerners think. Be smart! Shine your eyes! Stay woke!

They won't hear. Nigerians truly deserve the leaders they get. Personally, if it came down to Tinubu or Atiku, I would not vote either, too shocked that it could happen. I don't think Nigeria has any hope, not with people still queing up behind either of these 2.

FAKE NEWS!!!

davodyguy:
That's exactly what I told someone.

Its a queue buffet serving, where people have to line up.

The food might belong to the officer

Officers are not served at VIP stations. Never ever ever. That is a breach of protocol. Not even in western countries that treat their staff better than we do. Let alone nigerian cash madams that act like they own the people who serve them. That is an obvious lie.

christistruth01:
It seems like the bottom of the plate that is blue it is not a Purse

It is a purse, my friend. See the chain hanging from it. Besides, that is a dinner plate. It has a flat base. Please stop defending this kind of behaviour. It is wrong on every level.

baby124:
He can’t change. If you continue, just prepare to assume most responsibilities with him more than likely robbing you of the little you have. They will keep telling you to endure, he will use ego and probably violence to shut you up, while you wallow in poverty. I have seen this case like 3 times.

The way people behave around money is so crucial in marriage. Some people are addicted to money. They get a high from getting money they did not work for, spending it lavishly and repeat. It’s best you let him as an adult decide if he wants to continue messing up his life or choosing his family. You need a lot of luck if you stay.

How will she know how far gone he is if she doesn't even try? How can you say you love a man and you don't try to help him? An addiction does not mean its his character. It is a sickness and can be overcome with support, love and expert help. You don't give up so easily on someone you love.

.... Ask you Mama even your papa never still complete till today.[/quote] I like that and its so true. This jumping out of marriage at the first sign of difficulty is very ill-advised. The OP thinks this is boyfriend/girlfriend. Marriage is hard work. You will never reap the gains of a good marriage if you're not ready to put in the work, sacrifice and committment. These young people, sha!

Debisy:
If us mind their business who go help curb further tension in regions

Please tell me this statement is tongue in cheek. Curb tensions? The instigators?Seriously?

Brandonx:
This whole is getting really interesting
The only safe place now will be Africa when the time comes.

Very true. Which is why its a pity Africa's greedy and incompetent leaders will not take the opportunity to resist taking sides, pull inwards together and genuinely build self-sustaining economies and infrastructure. I guess thats a tall order.

Pele10:
Small time now nollywood go use this russia _ukaraine matter act film.

While hollywood will use it for more propaganda.

a4cube:
Remember US did not clear Afghanistan in 20 odd yrs.

My dear if it were in the movies, after 9/11 Stallone or Willis would have stormed wherever, dragged out Osama and annihilated him and all his followers within 2 days after the WTC attacks. But real life is different, innit? It took...oh a few years! I do think it was an error, though. Wetin Kamala do again?

Righteousness2:
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E choke!!!!!! Very apt meme!

kelechiodo:
Good. Very good. When I tell people that the amount previously quoted is to inform the world the quantities and quantities of the weapons they are sending to Ukraine and not that Ukraine would pay for it, they started arguing. Well that is it. No matter whatever happens, Putin will be the ultimate loser in this war.
I've racking my brain to understand his long term goal in this war.
1. He can't govern Ukraine.
2. It is almost impossible to demilitarize a European country in this century by Force.
3. Ukrainians are very stubborn and intensely patriotic. Anyone who is bored of reading history should atleast read Fredrick Forsythe novel "The Devil's Alternative". Putin made a foolish calculation.
4. Historical, Russia has never win a war without allied forces being her allies. Without UK and USA, Russia would have been a forgotten entity either in the first world war or second.
5. Russia is ecomonically too poor to face the world and rest of Europe can exist without it.
6. Putin is not strategical at all. Why lieing to the world that you're not invading, thereby making the entire world affirms that you knew that you have no cause to invade.

Number 4 is total crap. Russia alone took on Hitler and gave him nightmares before the west made any strong effort. Some camps like Sobibor had been liberated by Russian guards before the Americans joined the war and in their arrogant way, took all the glory.
Number 5: Come on now, you know that is far from the truth.

Mad bad Vlad! Balls of steel!

iLegendd:
Lack of technology is the reason MOST whites don't respect or value blacks.

If I was a white man who manufactures almost everything on Earth, I will treat any race that mostly consumes without producing badly because I won't value them.

Your value in life is the value you give to humanity — especially technologically. Life is not all about reading books and getting a job, then buying a car manufactured by a white man and having 6 children with 3 sidechicks while going to Church twice a week.

Imagine all the planes, cars, ammunitions, etc. were bought in Africa. Imagine the respect they'll have for Africans because we have technology and they depend on us.

My dear, I never feel pity for how whites treat blacks. If I was white, I will treat blacks the same way or worse.

Even as a black man, I don't value black men who don't add value to humanity. All they do is either school and food or enjoyment and fun. No productivity.

A white man will even respect a Chinese man more because the Chinese are adding value technologically now unlike hundreds of years ago when they weren't adding any value as Africans are currently doing.

Nigeria has the power to uplift the black race by being self-sufficient like Russia, technologically, but greedy men in power don't know the technological strength of a race = the respect and treatment they get outside the country.

The smartest nation or people are those who manufacture great things, not those who use it. The dumbest are those who consume or use what others manufactured. Blacks, mostly Nigerians, belong to this dumbest category.

A Nigerian man always thinks the smartest are those Nigerians with PhDs and doctorate degrees with big grammar. My dear, they are dumb if they can't manufacture things — technological appliances that'll either change lives for good or destroy lives.

A few blacks are trying, but 95% are just consumers and the world rate us based on this 95%.

Let me ask you a question. If you're a white man, will you respect a race that consumes 95% of what others created, but only contributes 5%? No, you won't. You won't value them. You'll see them as parasites. No one likes a parasite. Do you?

Wish I could give 1,000 likes to this.

davodyguy:
Return him and return power to the north.
Jonathan is term bound.

The constitution permits an individual to be lected president for two terms of 4 years each.

GEJ was first elected in 2011 and completed 4 years on May, 29th 2015.

He has just 4 more years to go.

If he wins in 2023, he can't go beyond 2027 and power would shift to the north

Thank you. People don't seem to realise that.

godliman:
His down fall has just began. Nobody takes on the world and win, ask Hitler. You just love a murderer of innocent people irrespective of how devilish he is, truly love they say is blind that is why you throw a blind eye on his wickedness

There is no greater murderer of innocent people than the US. Why the hypocrisy? At least Russia has never pretended to be what it isn't? This is what the US does in various countries around the world. Constantly. Why were your voices silent then?

Righteousness2:
It was so Wonderful and Glorious!

A 40 year old young man who has been deaf and dumb for 37 years also had his Sorrows taken away as his ears and tongue were loosed by the GREAT GOD of CHOSEN !

So many other people too numerous to state had instant interventions from GOD of Chosen. Broken bones were restored, Those with Spinal cord , Paralysis Problems had the divine touch from GOD and were Healed!

A Police woman who had her body and legs swollen as a result of the vaccine Jab had instantaneous healing as the swellings deflated and she was totally healed by the Great GOD OF Chosen!

What the GOD of CHOSEN Cannot do does not Exist!

You sound really foolish.

DMerciful:
You're emotional. Do a little history how US reacted when USSR was building a missile
system in Cuba in the 60s. Was Cuba not a sovereign country?

No world power would accept a possible build up of military hardware close to her border by an enemy

Thank you. "Do unto others...before they do unto you"

Armaggedon:
You dragged your country into needless war.
NATO is not FIFA for goodness sake, it is an anti Russian military alliance. Having them in Russia's border is enough provocation.

Thank you!

FERNANDEZISBACK:
How is NATO a threat to him?
NATO is a defensive organisation that guarantees the integrity of member nations against attack through the medium of mutual support...

He is not defending his country he is invading a sovereign country.. understand that?
You can't defend your country by attacking another for no reason..just like torturing your wife for saying she wanna divorce you..
NATO is still necessary because it protects its members from the “confusion, instability, unpredictability” which are persistent conditions in international affairs. So NATO doesn’t need to be against any specific state or group to continue to have a very important job to do...To prevent any more annexed Crimea’s and Russian occupied Ukraine.
Russia intends to further expand her borders, NATO may deter WW3...
So you gotta understand that..

With due respect, I call bullsh^t on this. NATO knows exactly what it is doing. Putin is defending Russia in the face of threats from NATO and its members countries. From making incursions by sea too close to its boundaries (which Putin constantly warned against), to NATO's blatant romancing of Ukraine. "Invading a sovereign country"? The US does that surrepticiously all the time. At least Putin is not hiding under the banner of "democracy" or "enforcing human rights".
Maybe the West thinks Putin has mellowed with age because their actions are tantamount to poking a dog with a stick and expecting it not to snarl and snap. Or maybe they hope the world will roundly condemn Russia and set the stage for Putin's downfall. The west is nothing if not ruthlessly strategic. I just feel sorry for Ukraine. They will soon learn the two-faced nature of the west when they are left to stew in their own juice. How can you fight with your powerful brother right at your doorstep and think strangers across the world who have very little in common with you will protect you?

KingAzubuike:
Which media are you talking about? The western media which are all American firms? Until you realize the media is americas most powerful tool, you won't stop being brainwashed. We had alot from them about North Korea.. they brainwashed you with so many bullshit about the country which happened not to be true. They said same about Russia but the country has been thriving well. They even hosted one of the best worldcups in history. Common man, wake up.

I can't believe people are looking to CNN and BBC for 'accurate' report. Biden is trying to prove he's not a decrepit old guy after all and the UK just trots right behind the US as usual. I can't wait for a China-Russia alliance which is where all this is headed. Give the US some well deserved palpitations!!Lol!

bergs2:
I laugh when the young in Nigeria so much ascribe potency to the voting process.
Madam, there is no hope in Nigeria as long as we continue to uphold this present constitution; if you like get double PVC.
Who even told you that Buhari will cede power to anyone come 2023.

Thank you!!!!