₦airaland Forum

SunMusk:
Really US using Ukraine?? If The US is after the destruction of Russia thy will have enter the war since, but choose to stay out, that should tell you something. US didn't need Ukraine to attack Russia, Russia is already surrounded by Nato.

You don't sound very intelligent.

kowalsky:
As a guy you should never get married.

Marriage is societal construct put in place to guarantee the future of females and children. It doesn't pay you in any way.

You'll get tired of fc*$k#ig one woman.
You'll slave away your life and die earlier than said woman.
You'll loose you freedom and natural sense of male adventure.

The only allure marriage had for men was finding that one pure damsel who would do (and give) anything to keep you happy. So you slave away slowly to your death knowing the mother of your kids is truly 'yours' and yours forever in sickness, health and wealth. That was enough gratification at the time.

Nowadays that pure damsel is a myth. Marriage in the Nigerian society is an economic arrangement to yoke men with responsibilities without the 'joys' of marriage your forefathers had.

Your wife is not pure. She's fvcked a thousand and one dude before you. She probably thinks of her razz bf in Uni with the long schlong while fvcking you.

She's not loyal. She married you solely because you were her best option at the time for a better future. If this status quo changes her loyalty changes.

She's not 'yours' and I know that sounds possessive but in truth it was this 'possession' of women that fueled the male ego and spurred them on to accept the slavery that came with marriage.


21st century woman is not yours in any definition of the word. She probably has a better paying job than you. So you can't control her.
She probably has a literal horde of men chasing after her, so she has options.
You mess up and she fvcks her ex or her boss or your friend. And there's nothing you can do about it.

So you don't have any of that ego driving, testosterone pumping 'control' over your woman. She's your equal and rightly so. I genuinely believe a time will come when women will have more direct power than men. They already have more subliminal power.


Anyways. You're not getting any of the goods men used to enjoy in marriage before now. All you have is a yoke of responsibility.

You're tied down to one pvvssyy. When naturally you should be fvcccking as many as you could.
You have to devote a huge part of your income to raising kids who'll only remember their mother instead of polishing yourself up for more pussy and more worldly success.

You relinquish the two things that make you a man 'absolite desire to conquer the world' and 'absolute desire to fvvck as many young pussies as you can.'
As a man those two traits are ingrained in your mental state, yet marriage comes in and pacifies you turning you into a meek homely man who society tells must provide a good home for his family.

But society doesn't care about you. It only cares about your family. You're a readily disposable asset. You job on this planet is to work work work and raise a good home, then die. Why do you care about society?

When you marry you're dancing to the pied Piper tunes of a fundamentally corrupt world.
You're choosing society over yourself. Society doesn't care about you and it should burn.


Put yourself first. No, love doesn't come because cupid shot an arrow into heart of the girl of your dreams.
It comes when you prove your worth as a man. When you are successful. When you dominate your world however miniscule it might be.

Chase riches. Bang young bvctchess. Have a thousand baby mamas.

Think of Davido and think of your probably dead father.
The former might be a high riding junkie but he definitely smiles more everyday than your dead beat dad whose laughs come only in marriage anniversaries when he's told by a woman past her menopause that he was the best thing that happened to her.

You can be the best thing that's happened to many young girls in their 20s.

Work hard, retain your indominatable spirit and never settle for the 21st century marriage facade.


Edit. Oh, and if you're a girl reading this. Same thing applies. Don't lose your hot banging body bearing kids for a man who's only chasing you cos he needs companionship in his lonely world.

Society needs you to bear kids so society can continue. Hustle (or fvck your way to the top) and maybe when you're 35 you can consider giving up your body for those precious bundles of joy.

Damn, they did a number on you. You need therapy.

TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,

Congratulations. I hope somewhere within this self-serving excercise you found the impulse to assess your suitability as a boyfriend and as a husband. Oh my bad, as a Nigerian man you probably think the only qualification you require is to have something dangling between your legs. It's good you found someone who has all those qualities you want. But if you had an iota of what any decent woman wants in a mate (sincerity and integrity), you would have parted with your 'girlfriend' before now since she is not what you want, rather than stringing her along for sex with the watery excuse that you told her it would not lead to anywhere. You had to have known she wanted more from you. So now you're here, feeling like a big guy, telling us how a girl is weeping over you. Makes you feel real good doesn't it? Clap for yourself.
The only people i blame are young desperate Nigerian girls who accept poor treatment because they want to be married, most without knowing what marriage really entails. Goodluck. I hope this is really the true nature of your intended.

Gentlerespect76:
It is what it is; stop running away from reality. You speak and reason like a girl.

He/She/It would like you all to think that He/She/It is a white girl. Like anyone here cares. The only thing we see is a constant display of abject stupidity.

America sneezes and the world catches cold...oh sorry, thats Russia!

Ola4lead:
Can someone check the loose fan pics well and tell me something isn't right? Someone actually put the fan there for pics, cos both pics the blade angle are different and the kids pose are different...

The Fan fell off for real but i don't think the story is totally true

You are so observant. The curved blade facing the bottom of the bed in the second picture, is resting on the left side in the first picture. Obviously staged. I doubt those children were on the bed when that fan fell. And the position of the fan is just too neat and arranged.

Who will shut this mother loving idiot face Macron? France is steadily screwing over Francophone African countries and this twit is forming morality.

mariovito:
Nah mahn, won't do no such thing.
First, its not in my position to.
Secondly, none of them are holy, they should activate their wmds already, they can obliterate themselves for all I care.

The west is as guilty as Putin is of the same offences.

Plus, I'm negro mahn, this is not my war.

The best comment in this thread.

Typical Nigerian male. Thinks its his right to help himself to any female he fancies. He couldn't leave his bad behaviour in the jungle.

pocohantas:
When you tell them to change, they will be arguing with you. That is how they will carry their bad characters and enter abroad. When hand touch them, they scream racism and feminism.

You think it is Nigeria where people would ask what she was wearing or tell you how small girls love big gbola?



Which yankee women would ruin life? I thought they are better and more kindhearted than evil black/Nigerian women? They love Nigerian men and rush you guys straight from the airport.

There is no way on earth she is lying or out to destroy him. Foreign women do not behave that way. They love Nigerian men.

newdawn2017:
u re a Rabid animal, full of urself. I married a slave. U "forcefully seized d house key from her" u proud coward. Who do u think u re to dish out orders like that to a fellow adult? Re u d owner of d church? Did they complain to u? Is she d only lady that wears such skimpy clothes to church? I will deal with u d street way if I was that woman love will immediately end in my heart for u. U demonic narcissistic sociopathic entity!

Chai!!!!

Angelfrost:
What's your point exactly with this?!!!

THE point is he's a nasty little village boy who dreams of having sex with a white woman as that, to him, is validation that he has 'arrived'. Black men are the only race of men who publicly abuse and denigrate their women. I'm so thankful that black women are begining to date outside their race. I am not against inter-racial marriages or relationships, if thats who you fall in love with. But it is really low-down to abuse a whole race of women who look like your mothers, your sisters, your friends, in order to justify your choice of partner. No one really gives a damn who you f^ck. The irony is that black men abuse black women for dating white men. Go figure.

Enemyofpeace:
So while Prof. Chukwuma soludo was about to take the oath of office. They had just brought the Bible and the next thing we all heard was a loud GBOWAI! on somebody's left eye, with a backup scream MY EYE MY EYE!

Everyone looked toward the direction and saw Bianca and Willie's wife holding each other's Bone straight wigs.

Soludo left the Bible and state affairs and rushed to the slapping scene, and asked wetin dey happen for here?

Bianca started : Chuks, you know i am not a trouble maker. What gave this thing the audacity to ask me what I am doing under APGA’s canopy tent? APGA that my husband started! How dare she! Osodieme of yesterday!

Soludo: First of all, Bianca leave her wig. Willie spent so much money on this wig...

Bianca : Tell her to leave mine first na. Does she know the cost of mine.

(They finally let go of each other's wigs)

Soludo: Please can we leave all these drama for later. Today is my day, and at least you both should respect the day.

Bianca and Osodieme: Alright sir, we are sorry. It won't happen again.

While Soludo was going back to proceed with the oath taking, Willie's wife muttered under her breath “Ashawo kobo kobo"

Bianca : Osodieme isi gịnị now?
What did you just call me now. Gbowai!!! Another slap landed on Willie's wife right eye.

OBIANO : Bianca, I am only respecting your late husband, not that I don't know what to do with you.

OBIANO : Bịa, Charly nwa mgbafor, control this woman you invited here. I can use my 20 minutes power as a governor and order for her arrest.

Soludo: Willie, zukwanu ike. Let's do this thing and go home. You know women and how they do their things. Focus let's do this thing. I have some people to chase out of okpoko and Upperiweka around 4pm. Oge adirozi.

Willie : Okay, my man. Ife dị mma.

Read at your own risk.

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SPTruth:
She is a widow, that is one of the challenges widows get to face daily in our society, just because her "cover" has gone. Imagine if her husband was alive and sitted beside her would Ebele have the guts to walk up to her and insult her? If you are a married woman, please pray twice daily for your husband not to die at your young age. Even if your husband na efulefu, they get wetin dey still dey "cover", you won't believe the kind of insults and mean things that people cannot do to you just because that man is still alive. Take heart Bianca .

You are so right.

devigblegble:
Stop abusing the word pastor and call these criminals what they really are . Everyday for thief one day for the owner

He is a pastor!! Before he was caught if he were on the news for something else, you would have called him a pastor. Is it because he has been exposed? How about all the others that have not been caught?

ahaika23:
What next government are you talking about? Be realistic man. All these evil rulers we have, you think you know more than they do? See, they know what needs to be done to fix what, I assure you. And they also know that if people are financially liberated, they are hard to be used. What you see them do is a method of control at the cost of the people and it works still for them. Also in use is the tool of religion and tribalism, it’s working for them still. You think these rulers are dumb?

But if we eventually get a leader, nobody will tell you. Everyone will FEEL it. How do we get a leader? Some of us are still sane, some are getting sane due to hardship though this hardship also makes others vulnerable so it could be a 50/50 thing. The hardship is also resetting some tribalistic and religious ones too. So let’s see

Spot on!

Teaser4:
Factooooooooooos!!!!!

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[quote author=AllKnowing post=111097405]China lived through sanctions and flourished by it. Russia is no stranger to sanctions. She will simply grow her local competence and look towards Asia or The Middle East for patronage.

But there are exceptions to these sanctioned situations; example Nigeria and Nigerians (who have made Russia-Ukraine War their personal headache). Nigerians DO NOT KNOW they have been living with sanctions since forever!

1. Nigerians can’t use PayPal.
2. Nigerians can only access $20 a month (international spending limits, chai!).
3. Nigeria isn’t allowed to buy certain military equipments.
4. Nigerians no longer have access to send money abroad via MoneyGram or Western Union.
5. Nigerians can’t trade crypto legally.
6. Nigeria will never get license from IAEA to explore nuclear power plants.
7. Nigerian banks largely will not allow Direct Currency Conversion for international ATM/ web purchases.
8. Nigerians will never see KFC or McDonald’s set up shop in their local neighborhoods.
9. Nigerians will always seek the face of Britain before she elects political leaders to her highest offices.
10. Nigeria cannot sell her oil to nations the US forbids her from selling to.

Nigerians, do not weep for Russia-Ukraine, weep rather for yourselves and your unborn children!
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Don't mind them. We've been under the yolk of these western nations since 'independence'. They tell us when to breathe, whent to sh^t, who to be friends with, who to rule us. We are only marginally better than the Francophone countries who have to hand over their economy to France. And that namby-pamby Macron with a mother complex has the nerve to talk about "sovereign country". Really? Africa is the 'supermarket' of the west. That is why with the collusion of our evil leaders, they keep our people poor and uneducated, busy fighting each other with weapons they provide so they can mine, and dig and carry off as much natural resources as they can. I wonder if we will ever wake up to what these western nations are really like.

[quote author= post=111049241]https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/3/bride-in-coma-after-her-groom-died-in-an-accident-on-his-way-to-their-wedding.html[/quote]Oga stop with the bad news already!!!! We already have so much nasty stuff going on in Nigeria but even that is not enough for you. You go looking for bad news in other countries to add to our national misery! Stop it abeg!! And you mods keep pushing it to the front page!

Daniel058:
This Rob O'Neil Guy should remember that PUTin is a Sitting President while Bin laden was a Terrorist..

Typical American arrogance.

Suspect1:
noise!

Plenty noise!!!!

naija4life247:
I'm not sure this Femi is planning to come back home after his 8 shameful years of serving Buhari.

Is this Femi mad ni? Abi his whole generation wants to be unfortunate ni? Aiye bobo yi o ma ni daa ke. E no go better for his generations yet unborn

Why will he not come back home? Is Reuben Abati not back? Even acting like big oga and chastising a journalist on air for daring to address him by name. We have short selective memories in Nigeria. Femi Adesina can even run for political office, people will support him if he brings money. That is the nature of our people. Sad.

Are people suprised? From the top men to the lower cadre rulers, Nigeria is being governed by criminals. People who by their conduct and associations should be in jail, if Nigeria were a civilised country. From Buhari to Malami ti the ministets and governors and even local government chairmen, they are all thieves. It doesn't matter what party they belong to. PDP or APC, all the the same. So what is suprising in all of this. Kyari is going nowhere. Nigeria is finished. It is no longer a working country but one that is clinging on with bloody fingernails. The rulers have ravaged every bit of it and have thrown the remnants to the equally greedy populace to bicker and pick over the carcass of a once promising nation. The fact that people are still lining up behind these same old politicians that brought us to where we are in the first place, tells me that there is no hope for this country. What a shame!

Barbarians. So disgusting

BluntTheApostle:
That is the bitter truth.

A woman who has no control over her tongue is no better than a man who has no control over his fists.

They are both ruled by anger, but explore different means to expel the steam.

You cannot tell only the man to go for anger management classes. Because that would be solving only a part of the problem.

When a fight happens, there are typically two sides: the aggressor and the reactor.

A woman nagging her husband endlessly is an aggressor. She needs as much conflict resolution lessons as the husband when he gives her a resounding slap to shut her up. If you fixate on the physical abuse, and overlook the emotional abuse, you are not helping that family. If the man learns to control his anger, he will still have to contend with a woman who is still the same chronic nag. There is just so much a man can take before he slaps her again.

Nagging is not abuse. When a woman says the same thing over and over again, that is different from when she calls him names, belittles him by mocking him about his shortcomings, that is abuse. A lot of women are experts at it. Nagging can degenerate to abuse. But nagging is not an excuse to raise your fists against anyone. It is the same for both men and women. Using gender as an excuse does not sit well with me. If a woman slaps a man, she should expect to be hit right back. Violence is never acceptable. Neither is verbal cruelty to someone you claim to love.
Both forms of abuse leave lingering scars but physical abuse very often results in death.

obyrich:
Who are the old and corrupt people lobbying? Who are the people promoting these old and corrupt people all over social media and other forums? We the youth are responsible for the decay currently ongoing in Nigeria.

Very true

kingscare1:
It all started when he was allegedly burnt by stage lights when he was performing one of his songs on stage, he was badly burned, which resulted him opting for series of reconstructive surgeries to save the parts that was badly burnt on his body to maintain his looks as a superstar, and that caused the sudden occasional changes he had during his lifetime. Moreover, he had acute vitiligo that kept developing all over his face and body as he gets older.

Again, then, cases of racism and blacks stars not fully accepted in the white dominated country also contributed to that effect. Michael lived a depressed, restless and a hideous character away from paparazzi when he is off stage due to the troubles he was passing through at that time, apart from the aforementioned ones, other troubles he encountered was the alleged child molestation cases that was in court which almost ruined his character and life and so on.

Furthermore, inasmuch as Michael Jacksons were the biggest artiste then, he was and is loved by many fans all over the world, sold out countless concerts, had millions of dollars plus numerous investments, his life away from the spotlight were characterised with so many unexplained Controversies, indeed he was a tortured and restless soul, that explained why he constantly took high formulated drugs for him to sleep at nights.

Away from all the negative parts that accosted him while he was alive, he was the greatest entertainer ever lived. His childlike voice is unmatched, he made the world dance, he brought so many creativity in the world of music which inspired everyone and most particularly to millions of music and creative artiste all around the world. He was and is a legend, king of pop music as fondly called. He left his footprint on the sand of time, which made him and his music unique and timeless.

Thank you for this piece. We miss you, Michael.

Basheer22:
These, not this.


Their, not there.

Go and tell the people who sent you on this foolish errand to educate you properly.

Thank you. Paid agents all over this thread trying to do the dirty work of whoever is trying to sweep this under the carpet. They all sound alike down to the bad grammar and horrible spelling. A lot of Nigerians are evil, I swear. There is nothing you people will not do for money.

blackboy:
Kwontinue shouting yeah!! Kia!! Its a lie!! Etc . No be Aregbesola do likewise or even worse. He got 2nd term and now a Minister of one of the most powerful ministries.
We Nigerians love leaders who oppress us. Give Yahyah Bello 3rd term, he will win with a landslide.
People are begging him to be president even people from his state. Leaders like these who should be arrested after their tenure and stripped of all ill gotten wealth but no he will have police escort, maybe even DSS escort and be enjoying life.

Truly Nigerians are the architects of their problems. And its a similar story in a lot of other states. We will keep having the same evil selfish recycled rulers until we get some sense.

BRATISLAVA:
If she was toxic, how did he stay long enough to have 4 children with her? Her private part was not toxic, right?

Clearly he was the problem. He thought he could leave her high and dry. Look where that got him.

Nigerian men need to learn fidelity and commitment. They think they can jump ship at any time and claim "I need peace of mind" when what they actually need is no opposition to their BS.

Thank you. And all the " Team foreign women" people, better drop this nigerian men behaviour that is tolerated by your women and your society. A white woman can snap and kill your cheating mysogynist ass. They are very highly strung. So have an attitude change before you step out with a white girl. Some will love you, adopt your culture and even your language, as we have seen in some cases. But dare you cheat on her...you go hear am.

For all of you planning to "japa", better get what used to be called"handwork". Welding, carpentry, plumbing. Abroad, these trades are making crazy money. Learn these skills and get a trade certificate. I have 2 teenage boys and they're learning carpentry. They're at the top of their classes so they are not academically backwards. But in today's world, you must have a back up plan. A skill that enables you use your hands to earn your money and not depend on employment. OP very good topic that young people need to take heed of. I have friend in Canada whose son is in Uni. He goes to learn in a carpentry workshop in his spare time. Thats what gave me the idea. And the fact that in the UK, I have to learn to fix my own toilet and wield a hammer to fix doors and broken furniture because it costs an arm and a leg to get someone in to fix them.