Jobs/Vacancies › Experienced Production Manager by Aringon(op): 6:47pm On Jan 21, 2016 |
We are a startup going into the production of custard and we require the services of an experienced Production Manager, if you are interested kindly send your CV to grandtopbizness@aol.com |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Help Me, I'm About To Be Stranded. by Aringon(m): 12:11pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Please send your CV to folworldsupermarket@gmail.com maybe as a cashier for 30k monthly at Isheri, its better than nothing .
good luck |
Politics › Re: This Is What We Call Change by Aringon(op): 5:55pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
IGBOPRINCE: Nigeria is too big neggar. The change is hard here. Nothing is hard to achieve if you have the political wil |
Politics › This Is What We Call Change by Aringon(op): 5:40pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
(Nigerians! This Is What Is Called Change) The Tanzania Example
Last weekend they were opening parliament and there was a state dinner planned for all guests that was going to cost about 300m. President Magulufi cut the budget to 25m and ordered that the rest be taken to buy hospital beds for Muhimbili. They got 300 beds and mattresses and 600 bedsheets from that money.
On 23rd Nov 2015 he announced that there will be no official ceremonies for Independence Day on 9th December, the money is to be used for more pressing issues and the day should instead be spent cleaning up our environment.
On Saturday 21st Nov 2015 a group of 50 people were about to set off for a tour of commonwealth countries (don’t know for what) but President Magulufi cut that list down to 4 people, saving government 600m in tickets, accommodation and per diems.
No more foreign travel, embassies will take care; if it’s necessary to go, special permission must be sought from him or Chief Secretary.
No more 1st class and business class travel for all officials except President, Vice, and Prime Minister.
No more workshops and seminars in expensive hotels when there are so many ministry board rooms available.
President Magulufi asked how come engineers are given V8s when a pick-up is more suitable for their jobs.
No more sitting allowances. How the hell are you paid allowance for a job which you have a monthly salary? That also applies to MP’s.
President Magulufi has literally pressed the reset button; returning Tanzania to default factory settings, because that was the TZ Nyerere left us with.
On the day after he was brought to power, in the morning as State House officials were showing him round he decided to take a walk to ministry of finance, told them to get their act together, asked why some employees weren’t in office (ever since then the traffic jam in mornings has become worse) and ordered TRA to scrap all tax exemptions, everyone must pay taxes especially the big guys
President Magulufi went to Muhimbili Hospital unannounced and walked through the worst parts that they keep hiding from important visitors. He fired the director, fired the hospital board and ordered that all machines that weren’t working (so that people go to private hospitals owned by some doctors) to be repaired within 2 weeks otherwise he fires even the new director; the machines were repaired in 3 days
Finally, last week when going to officially open parliament President Magulufi didn’t go by plane, drove the whole 600km from Dar to Dodoma.
President Magulufi has reduced the size of the presidential convoy, even reduced the size of presidential delegation that travels with him
President Magulufi chose a Prime Minister we haven’t heard of before, a guy with reputation for hard work and no corruption. All the big guys we expected could be PM have been let wondering what hit them.
His motto is: Hapa Kazi Tu
After President Magulufi visited ministry of finance and Muhimbii Hospital without announcing, it is said the ports, (most corrupt, delaying, thieving officials) were all of a sudden the most efficient place. No loads are missing, things are done quickly and that habit of forcing for a bribe so that your container is released is no more.
Oh, they say when he was confirmed as winner people started congratulating him and wanting to bring gifts to his place he turned them back, saying he will receive all congrats over the phone, nobody should visit him.
All individuals/firms that bought state companies that were privatized but haven’t done anything (20yrs later) are to either revive the industries immediately or hand them back to the government.”
Me:How I wish President Buhari and Vice-President Osinbajo will take some cue from this truly ‘change’ agent from Tanzania !
Author of this piece is unknown |
Christianity Etc › Islam As A Religion Of Peace by Aringon(op): 11:57am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Where are our Muslim friends, let them come and defend what is in their Quran biko, enlighten us more
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Autos › Transparent Cars by Aringon(op): 8:30pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
The transparent car of ZF company equipped with different security systems is presented on the second press day of the Frankfurt Auto Show IAA Frankfurt, Germany
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Christianity Etc › Re: Sex Is An Act Of Worship! by Aringon(op): 8:16pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
alterswerve: Mast.urbation nkor? classified as sex as well |
Christianity Etc › Sex Is An Act Of Worship! by Aringon(op): 7:07pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Each time a married couple is having sex they are worship God. This is a major secret to get your desires met. Any need you have in your home, agree spiritual and seal it up with sexual agreement and it done. Also each time you are having sex with a man or woman you are not legitimately married to, you are also in worship but the difference is, you are worshiping the being that brought, that institution against God's law (satan) Stay away from pre marital sex and adultery is pure satan worship You cannot keep worshiping satan and not get the fruit of his worship.
The truth about all sexual intercourse is that it involves worship, we are spiritual beings in flesh, worship comes from the spirit, not the flesh. The flesh alone is not able to offer worship; worship is the touching of one spirit with worship is spirit to spirit (in spirit and in truth) In our covenant relationship with God all our worship which comes from our human spirit, must be towards our God who is also spirit. It is satan's purpose to distort sexuality from that which god ordained it. He corrupts, twists, soils and disfigures sexuality, distorting what is pure, innocent, and godly. The result is sex which is ungodly. It is impure, defiling, and perverted, and as it still involves spirit to spirit activity, it results in worship, which is hijacked by satan, to continue his rebellion against God
Ungodly sex because it is deprived of the nurturing of god's spirit, will not be a time of blessing like godly sexuality brings. Satan does not bless nor does he refuse the result of spirit to spirit mingling, worship to him; with the capacity to increase his influence by way of unclean spiritual oppression.
When you look at the act of sex, what does that little three lettered word mean to you? Do you take it for granted as another leisurely past time or do you use it to glorify God? 1 Cor 6: 19-20. Have you taken the time to fully understand just how powerful this is and what impact it has on your relationship, the world and to the Body of Christ? So where do you draw your knowledge and guidance from? Is it found in God’s word, after all He created sex to be enjoyed through marriage Or do you opt out for the anything goes, ready available, endless supply of lies and filth that the world has to offer through SEX.
Pleasing God or myself?
If you have already read Satan’s Bait you will have found a list of what the world has to offer and in reality there are more perversions than we could have ever thought of. As a “born-again Christian” you maybe indulging in some or all of these acts, so you really have to ask, “Will I be spiritually healthier from it all?” Romans 8 8-13. Will I be physically healthier if I continue to play around 1 Cor 6 18 and will I be emotionally healthier if I keep being ignorant? Heb 13 v 4. Or through these acts, what is it that I’m offering up to God by pleasing myself?
The roots of it all
While all sexual immorality gives homage to the god Baal, worship to Baal-Peor was considered to be vile and obscene. This was the heaviest end and the most degrading animalistic form of idol worship. This was purely Satanic worship, anything goes – worship, worshippers trying to outdo each other in how perverse they could worship Baal-Peor/Satan.
In the bible the name Baal (master or lord) is commonly used as a reference to Satan and the counterpart to Baal was the goddess Asherah, the fertility goddess (she had different names in various nations such as Venus, Aphrodite or Ishtar but her role was still the same). A pillar or image of wood was set up alongside the altar to Baal, and was worshiped with libidinous and lascivious sexual practices. Originally the idol was worshiped as a symbol of the tree of life, but later it was perverted to mean the origin of life and was formed phallic in shape with the male organs of procreation. Ezekiel 16:17
Problem is, the church in general is so lazy and probably still ignorant on addressing this subject. I was happy drinking out of broken cisterns because I chose the easy way out and listened to what the world was offering. Looking back, I willingly allowed myself to be fed the lies that the world had to offer. Now I could be blaming so many for my failure, but my failure was not reading the Bible or understand God’s heart on this serious matter, I was feeding the flesh and searing the Spirit by whatever means available because I chose to blind myself to the truth.
Things weren’t going to change until the Holy Spirit intervened and revealed to me that all sex was spiritual and all sex was worship AND IT CHANGED EVERYTHING. Through the Holy Spirit I learned as a Christian how I was worshiping, not God, but Baal-Peor with my spirit, soul and body – my will, my mind and my emotions – everything I did and got involved in, I willfully placed on the altar of sexual idolatry. Question is " What shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loose his soul " Repent today and come to Jesus Christ, He died on the cross of Calvary and shed His precious blood for you and I. Are you going to continue to nail Him to the cross again and again? Come today for He is knocking on the door of your heart . [b][/b] HE LOVES YOU SO SO MUCH |
Music/Radio › Re: Lyrics Of Timi Dakolo's "Great Nation" (Beautiful Anthem For Our Dear Country) by Aringon(m): 9:14am On Sep 22, 2015 |
This song should trend on twitter, this is the best song that's inspired me concerning my Great Nation Nigeria, God bless Nigeria and Timi Dakolo |
Romance › Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Aringon(m): 1:40pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Madam free u mind and pray, don't allow u eyes to make decisions for u Bonita101n2: I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.
My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.
I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.
It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.
Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you. |
Food › 15000 Bags Of Indian And Thailand Par Boiled Wanted by Aringon(op): 4:43pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Experienced Finance Manager(single Lady) by Aringon(op): 5:09pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
A single lady can easily relocate from the mainland to the Island unlike the married ones. She will head the account and admin dept. I hope you understand my points |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Experienced Finance Manager(single Lady) by Aringon(op): 5:02pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
She will have time for the company, it is not for ulterior motive Mr |
Jobs/Vacancies › Experienced Finance Manager(single Lady) by Aringon(op): 3:22pm On Aug 28, 2015 |
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Business › Proposal To Sell 10% Of Our Company Shares by Aringon(op): 6:24pm On Aug 13, 2015 |
PROPOSAL FOR AN INVESTMENT OF N10M
We are a startup manufacturer of a brand of Android smartphones which are of high end specifications but of lower prices and recently sign an ODM (Original Design Manufacturer) agreement with a contract manufacturer in china for 15years to manufacture the initial 3 sizes of the phones for the African market.
The Board of Directors of our company proposes to sell 10% of her shares for the investor who is to put in the sum of N10,000,000.00 (Ten million naira) only.
The purpose for which we will use the investment is to fulfil obligation by a South African Company who is ready to finance the project for $5,000,000.00 (Five million US Dollars) only and has sent in a letter of interest.
We will also sign an agreement with you that, if after 4months we do not receive the investment from the South African Company, we will refund the N10,000,000.00 (Ten million naira) only.
You will also sign a CAC Form to confirm you as one of the Directors.
We look forward to discussing further on this, if you are interested pls call 08091115803 or email grandtopbizness@aol.com
Thank you |
Education › Re: My Name Is OR My Names Are,which Is Grammatically Correct? by Aringon(m): 12:35pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
My name is- is the right grammar when introducing urself in a normal gathering. My names are- is usually applied in a court of law where u r known to many people with nicknames and other names. This is to prevent confusion to the judge when witnesses come to the box . It is grammatically wrong to stand up in a normal gathering and say " My names are Goodluck Joshua Musa Djicemob: My Name Is....
My Names Are...
This has caused serious arguments between me and friends couple of times so i decided to bring it to the house.English Language Gurus and Linguists,what are your take on the above phrases,which is better and grammatically correct when introducing oneself.Hopefully we can all learn a thing or two from your inputs. |
Business › Re: You Have A Project/job That Needs Financing? Let's Discuss. by Aringon(m): 3:51pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
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We are into Project Financing and are International Business consultant(s).
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Politics › Re: APC Rejects Saraki, Dogara As Senate President, Speaker by Aringon(m): 6:10pm On Jun 09, 2015 |
What is the meaning of using LEGAL n CONSTITUTIONAL means? 59 senators voted for Bukola n that's more than 2/3 majority 356 HOR members voted 184 for Dogara 172 for Femi Which legal or constitutional means will APshit go for? So if to say GEJ nor gree accept the election result, yawa for gas for naija |
Christianity Etc › Re: She Finally Agreed To Give Him Sex On His Birthday by Aringon(m): 6:24pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Heaven was happy and still happy with the decision to forsake sin. Continue in that might and praise be to God forever. Amen. [quote author=ProphetUdeme post=34555956][/quote] |
Travel › Re: Photos: See The Current State Of The Streets Of Calabar. by Aringon(m): 8:52pm On May 21, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Gay And Depressed. by Aringon(m): 6:12am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy: Being gay is my life regret, i have questioned God and myself how i got to this stage. I just feel like commiting suicide.
Here is my story, my name is Frank, 26, a banker. I am the envy of most women, because am 6.2" tall, fair and very handsome. My nickname is Ramsey Noah, this is to tell you how good looking i am. But i have a very BIG problem, i am attracted to the same sex.
This is a problem i have come to notice at teen, i love girls company more than guys, i play all the girl plays and hate football, am guessing that could be where my formation was transposed. I ended up liking what girls like when am not one. But i have come to change a few things becuase i went to a boarding house and was always ridiculed for that. So i changed so many things there, the way i talk, the way i walk, and my gestures, also i love football now more than anything, but my sexuality has refused to change.
I have all it takes to get a woman, i have a good job, a car, and live alone. But at this age, i have not seen a womans pants not to talk of getting in between. But i have so many female friends, so many that the always take me for a player. Am jovial with them, buy them gifts and treat them well, but am not sexually attracted to any of them and have no feelings whatsoever. Am just a good guy, i know that, because that is the best i can do to cover up my little secret. And they(ladies) love me too and many are dying for my attention. I have been asked out so many times by ladies. One even offered to pay all the bills just for us to get intimate, but i declined, lying that i have a girlfriend i dont want to cheat on.
To make matters worse, i hate being gay, sometimes i go celibate for as long as six(6) months simply because i hate my life and my sexuality. Am always alone, indoors all through the weekend, because going out with guys will result to girl talk and i have nothing to contribute, me of all persons, so hard to believe. I also hate gay companies, so many regrets afterwards as to why i am this way. I envy straight guys to the core, i so much wish i am one. When i see a guy and a girl holding hands and taking a walk, i have this feeling of giult amd hatred for myself that i quickly get depressed.
Here is the problem, i want to marry early, at least before 28 or max 30. I need to connect to a woman and force myself into a relationship. I need to get attracted to a womans body, and get turned on by that. And finally, i need to learn how to tolerate a woman, and live with thier baggage. Am comfortable as a single man, i dont mind living alone till i die, i can cook well and am not a sex freak, i can live for years without it. But i want kids, i love them and cant wait to have a daughter. I have once told myself that once i get married and have kids, i will divoorce my wife and live alone then the kids can stay anywhere. But this idea is pure foolishness.
I am very religious, as a matter if fact, this conditionn is the only sin i battle with, i know we all have one. I hardly commit any other sin. But i know that just this one is very mortal, but we are all strugglling because we are all flesh. It takes the grace of God to overcome sin generally.(Please dont come and critisize, we are all going to the same hell: homosexual, hetrosexual; and no sin is worse than the other.)
This my condition is getting me more depressed by the day and sometimes i wish to end my life. But i like my life more than anything, so am thinking of patronising prostitutes at least to get feel of what it takes like. But am afriad of STIs.
Please help a brother... My says " I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" brother pls surrender ur life to Christ n He will remove all the depression and set u on high with Him. The the first solution and thereafter, every other thing u seek will follow |
Politics › Re: 2015 Elections - Share Your Experience @ Your Polling Unit Here by Aringon(m): 3:23pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Just voted GEJ for the next 4 years, no cock to crow |
Family › Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by Aringon(m): 4:24pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
I will rattle her a bit, I mean I will tell her we have to divorce and that I have a girl that loves me and I want to marry her. I don't want you to have any womn elsewhere but this is an option to bring her back from her comfort zone. 5minsmadness: This couple have been married for three years and have two kids. The man met his wife at his workplace during which time she had just finished nysc. They got to know each other better and soon they became a couple and got married. The man helped her get a job at his place of work but noticed she didn't mention his help to her parents, making it look as if she got the job herself. However he overlooked it thinking it was no big deal.
Recently however he has come to realise that his wife doesn't love him. He feels this way because she never acknowledges his good deeds around the house, is never willing to listen to any advice he has to give but rather takes her friend's advice over his. Most times he asks for sex she says she is tired or in her period or that they should postpone it to the next day And when the next say reaches she pretends to forget. If the man insists it turns into a big fight and they don't talk for days.
The man decided to be helping her around the house in case housework was overwhelming her as they don't have a nanny. He washes the clothes, picks the kids from school, cooks food for the kids and feeds them when she comes late from work and he is the one at home. Despite all this it seems he is making no headway as their sex life has not improved. The man decided to stop asking for sex but the wife didn't even notice. She rarely serves him his food properly. He comes from a traditional family where the woman serves the man food as soon as he comes back from work. She says she was not brought up that way and starts cooking the food when the man comes home. He decided to be understanding and accepted to wait. But he finds if he doesn't remind her, she doesn't near the kitchen to cook for him. He had now resorted to serving himself when he gets home, thinking his wife will get the message but she is comfortable with it.
He feels the wife no longer has feelings for him and left for him would have divorced her long ago, but he doesn't believe in divorce. Also he is worried about the kids and how it will affect them if they separate.
Pls advice needed. |
Phones › Re: Michael Akindele, 30-Year-Old Nigerian Mobile Phone Maker, Gets Global Attention by Aringon(m): 8:18am On Mar 13, 2015 |
Oga, iphone,Samsung,HTC n other high ends smartphones are made in China GodMode: So all I need to do is get peeps from China to create a phone for me then put my brand on the phone and I'd be labelled a "phone maker"...
This is not news... Kids make phones in China.. |
Phones › Re: Innjoo One Discussion Thread by Aringon(m): 6:14pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
davthom: tell them.70% of the number on selling iphone6 and six plus are made in foxconn China.besides phones lyk lenovo vibe x2,xiaomi Mi 4 to Mi note pro,huawei,are all so good that they have crippled Samsung profits and forced Samsung to completly redisgn the galaxy s6 and the new a devices The annoying thing is that, these companies are just selling brands not the specs. Imagine Samsung n iphones are making 300% profit per phone. Too bad, yeah Xiaomi displace Samsung and Iphone in the Chinese market, even the redesigning of Samsung s6 and S6 edge is just rubbish |
Romance › Re: My Friend Has Been Seducing Me- I'm Confused. by Aringon(m): 7:42am On Mar 04, 2015 |
lordthree: Lately, I and my girlfriend have been having problems so we broke up two weeks ago and immediately my best friend heard about it she has been behaving weird. She called me to her place and when i got there she was in her underwear and told me to help her pick out clothes to wear it took like ten mins and she was in her underwear all through. She even rubbed her butt a couple of times asking what i thought about it .
Another day while we were talking, she asked if i found her attractive and i said i did but we are just friends then she asked why I'm not emotional with her, i said i have a girlfriend, she said "you have an ex" while saying this she had her hand on my thigh and was stroking it. It took the grace of God to leave there without doing anything
I'm confused. Do i go ahead and give her what she wants or do i just wait till i get back with my girlfriend because we have been dating for a while and sometimes we break up.I'm just confused. Oga, u said ur best friend? Then it is better cos she will understand u better. R u going to marry ur worst enemy? She has been praying for opportunity to be ur lover okay, talk things over with her and ask her if she wants a long relationship or just to fling with u n go. I am in no way encouraging u to sleep with her, I am saying do give her a chance and see what happens from there |
Phones › Re: Innjoo One Discussion Thread by Aringon(m): 7:24am On Mar 04, 2015 |
LKO: Please
someone should recommend a solid tablet for me. I need it for surfing d net and for mails. I m not into gaming. The tab should have a solid battery and should support OTG. (A seven inch tab would be preferable). My budget is 50k to 60k. I dnt want tecno G9 or any other Chineese brands. Thanks. Oga all brands of tablets or smartphones are all from China, be it Samsung,air mini n what hv u, are all from China |
Phones › Re: Innjoo One Discussion Thread by Aringon(m): 7:19am On Mar 04, 2015 |
OkeEsibe: techno, injoo re all d xame tin anyway dey re 4 d poor masses
imagine wizkid rockin an injoo fone....e dey kraze
chinko@its highest level t The problem in Nigeria is people claiming to know so much whereas they know nothing. My brother all the brands of phones are manufactured in CHINA, let say 90% and 10% in Taiwan. Be it iphone,BB,Samsung, HTC, Tecno,Gionee etc are all manufactured in China through contract manufacturing. It depends on what the brand owners want that the manufacturer will produce for them. It means the iphone, Samsung, HTC n all high-end smartphones are all CONFIRMED CHINKO |
Family › Re: Shocking!!!! I Caught My Niece self-servicing by Aringon(m): 7:19pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
When young children are exposed to love songs and wicked music video without parental guidance from the parent. What do you will happen, it does and that's the purpose of the music video. I need you to take her out to an eatery, speak with her n advice her not to be involved in such again. Outline the negative effects on her nad her studies . falconey: It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do |
Family › Re: I'm Confused: My Wife's Pressuring Us To Relocate To Another Apartment!!!!! by Aringon(m): 4:13pm On Feb 20, 2015 |
Oga Mr Joseph in bible was a christian and when Mrs Potiphar approached him for sex, he ben-johnsoned. Consider the safety of your wife and children before you become head -strong and later one regret it. Have gone thru this and I packed out of the house, u r lucky it hasn't affected ur business or job else you wud not have sat down to type this. dein77: Good evening, my able people. I initially wanted to post this thread on RELIGION section, but on a second thought, I considered it will make more sense to post it here. The issues to be discussed cut across FAMILY and RELIGION, hence my confusion over which section it should be posted.
My wife's been having recurrent nightmares. Seriously, she hardly have a smooth night. Its all screams and screams, and incessant dreams of death hovering around us. We have prayed and fasted, but the dreams keep coming. Whenever I'm on night shift, I'm also worried about her safety back home. Its either she dreams of our kids having serious attacks or herself being under attacks. Its really challenging.
A few weeks ago, we visited a pastor, and after some discussions he suggested we should relocate to another apartment/place. I pretended like I didnt hear him. When we got home, my wife brought the issue up again and I told her we werent going anywhere. I told her we should continue praying and believe God to see us through. We've been in our current apartment for a little over 5 years. Now she says shes no longer comfortable with the house and that we must relocate. Honestly, she hardly enjoys the place. Whether or not it got anything to do with what our pastor told us, I couldnt tell.
Today, she brought it up again. She had gone to see her business colleague, and according to her they zoomed off into religious stuff, and the issue of our house and the bad dreams came up. Of course, her pastor friend also suggested we relocate. A little argument came up and i had to leave the house. I'm typing from the office; night duty things.
My stand is this: being a Christian over a decade, plus knowing the fact relocating to a new place may not necessarily stop the attacks, I still believe we should ask some of our pastors to come over to our house and join us in prayer. I believe a Christian shouldnt run from demonic attacks, but should instead fight back and withstand these foes. Its my belief shaa!
I just renewed our rent for the year a few days ago. But my wife is still insisting we relocate. Her health and happiness, needless to say, is very important to the both of us, and I dont want to appear insensitive and selfish. What should I do? What if she is right? Should I stand my ground? What if I'm wrong? Too many thoughts crossing my mind. That will be the third place we will be relocating to within our axis.
Whats the best way to handle this situation? Please, I will appreciate all meaningful suggestions and advice....
Thanks, in advance. |
Politics › Re: How Fashola Looted N402bn Lagos Funds - Elombah.com by Aringon(m): 6:25am On Feb 15, 2015 |
Jorussia: We should desist from spreading unfounded and unconfirmed reports/rumours on the internet.Where did get the figures you are brandishing about? If such amount of money can be looted in Lagos state,that means the looting being carried out by GEJ's led FG is in trillions. Are you telling us GEJ has not looted? Jorrussia, u must understand one thing and that is, the dishing of this information s if Tinubu nd Fashola are angels. Fact is that, no sane person will throw these figures and facts because of propaganda. Was the lekki-ikoyi bridge awarded at that amount? Those loccations stolen by Tinubu to locate his businesses, are these verifiable? The tax business by ABC, is it true or not? We are no fools dude,APC r no angels, they re bunch of criminal elements and same like PDP, they shud not come here acting as if they angels from Heaven. I live in Lagos and I can confirm to you that, 89% of the expose` are correct |
Romance › Re: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by Aringon(m): 6:05am On Feb 09, 2015 |
sunwa: I walked out of a relationship of several years as a result of consistent lifestyle of infidelity of my Ex.
She was my first love and i did all a man could do to ensure she was happy at all times but she constantly cheats on me and at a point she eloped with another guy while we were planning for our traditional wedding and when she came back to her senses she thought she could find her way back to my heart but i shut it permanently against her.
This was after series of sexual escapades she has had with other guys which i later got to know.
Though i loved her and still do but because i could no longer trust her, which is incidentally one of the bedrock of any relationship i had to call of the relationship even after series attempt and appeal by friends and family for her comeback.
This was in 2012, with time the wound got partially healed and somehow we became friends against but this time around on a casual level.
In January 2015, she got married and i decided to respect her new status by cutting off completely from her to avoid any chances of having any immoral act with her.
Just last week she sent me a lady's picture on whassap whom she introduced as her friend and she informed me that she has discussed with about me and that the lady is interested in me and she is highly recommending her for marriage.
The said lady is cool, i have checked her out on her Facebook page and she got my pass mark but i have my reservations, I don't trust my EX, i fear she may have an ulterior motive, till date she regrets that we didn't get married even when she was engaged to her husband she went to confront a girl I was seeing and really messed up things.
Please i need your honest advice, I'm not seeing anyone for now and the lady she recommended looks good, do i go ahead and key in or should i decline "the offer", as they say " birds of a feather flock together". Is she planning to play a fast one on me ( a revenge mission).
Please, what do I do?
Thank you. Don't allow your eyes to deceive you, looking good physically does not and will not make the marriage to look good. Stay off and tell her CAPITAL N n O |