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Go and meet with your boo, sit him down and explain your personality to him and beg him to understand that it won't bring problem between you both and his family.

Also try and call them.once in awhile not necessarily on those festive periods and pray along okay

Havilaah1:
Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.

I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.

The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).

This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event.
Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.

I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions.
How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.


God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.

I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation.
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Everything created in this world is God the omniscient who gave them the knowledge. There is nothing like the moon is leaving us, they are on a goose chase

okoroemeka:
scientist are people that use facts to prove a point, before they reached that conclusion it will be years of research by world leading astronomical scientists and institutions to make such a statement and the type of equipments they use to do such findings you can't even believe such things are possible,yes God may create all things but God didn't create hi tech gadgets we are opportuned to use in this generation,they are made by scientists.

Liars, all they do is putting fear in the minds of people. God created everything beautiful

LUBBISH

WriterNig:
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The moon is drifting away from us.

Each year, our moon moves distinctly, inexorably farther from Earth just a tiny bit, about an inch and a half, a nearly imperceptible change. There is no stopping this slow ebbing, no way to turn back the clock.

The forces of gravity are invisible and unshakable, and no matter what we do or how we feel about them, they will keep nudging the moon along. Over many millions of years, we’ll continue to grow apart.

The moon used to be closer. When it first formed, about 4.5 billion years ago, molded out of rocky debris that had been floating around Earth, the moon orbited 10 times nearer to the planet than it does today. The debris, scientists believe, had come from a collision between Earth and a mysterious Mars-sized object.

https://cdn.britannica.com/q:60/26/157426-131-16C2E991/moon-Planet-Earth-space.jpg

Fresh out of the cosmic oven, the moon was hot and molten, glowing red in the night sky. Back then, scientists say, the moon was moving away at a rate of about eight inches per year.

Our planet and its moon were always going to grow apart like this. The gravity of moons, small as they are in comparison, can still tug at their planets, causing the larger worlds to bulge outward a little bit. On an ocean-covered planet like ours, the effect shows up in the shifting tides. The moon pulls at our oceans, but those oceans pull back, making the moon speed up in its orbit. And “if you speed up while orbiting Earth, you are escaping Earth more successfully, so you orbit from a farther distance,” James O’Donoghue, a planetary scientist at JAXA, Japan’s space agency, explained.

Scientists refer to this phenomenon as “lunar retreat” a delightful term, as I’d prefer to imagine the moon enjoying itself at a relaxing getaway, bending its rocky body into various yoga poses, rather than slowly ghosting Earth.

So also being a white doesnt guarantee a good marriage , it's even worse because the lady in question will not be able to put her bumbum in one place and be faithful to her husband

FutureIsFemale:
Can someone help me tell Reno that virginity does not guarantee a good home.

We are talking about virginity and you are bringing in gender. Are women the only ones to keep their virginity till marriage?

Honestly the hate on the female gender is so much.

Oga go and pray

san316:
I currently work in one of the Third Generation Banks as a full staff. Currently I am on the second level in the sales department, salary is good, being considered for promotion which hasn't come in a while, based in Abuja with family and all.

Got an offer with a better 3rd generation bank. next level in a different department, higher pay but will have to relocate to Kaduna. Report directly to a Group Head, will have a dedicated car but greater responsibility.

The current place is like my comfort zone, I'm well known and I've been here for Seven years.

Please advice whether to move or not.

Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.

Matured advice please

Bro, go ahead and marry your woman and relocate from that part of the town to somewhere else. However you are going to be their in-law very soon, try and discuss with theml concerning their future plans, besides are they Graduates or ?

If nobody answers him, he won't have anything to say

gaius01:
Job was a different man. He was just, and that was why Satan asked God before he do anything. Do you know if not for the covering of God the devil would have slain Job? Now we can't call that his set time to die.

In Act, a certain lady die, her name was Dorcas, after the women cried and showed the clothes she see for them, Peter bring her back to life. Had it been Peter didn't bring her back to life, can we say it's her set time right ?

Jesus bring La'azurus back to life on the 4th day. Had it been it was not Jesus, you will still say it was his set time right?

Now, it's clear people die, but in their death some don't die an ordinary death. Some die due to one evils, people wickness while others die due to their set time.

Not all death are set time. If you believe other wise in Islam please do it, but we Christian we can veto any untimely death in Jesus name and it will happen..

I don't know weather it's hausa or Islam they often use this word when a person dies 'That's how God want it to be'. I disagree not every death that God want it to be, some just happen due to wickness.

@Seun this is what you have caused, a Muslim trying to change our christain views simply because you refuse to put an oath. This not encouraging at all !!!

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Fuckingmallam45:
Titilayo and Ebong, that name somehow confusing , anyway sha
Yoruba Edo Lagba

Always claiming what is not yours,. Eno- meaning Gift from Ibibio and Being same Ibibio name.

Her mother is yoruba

SOEJON:
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Kindly edit your TOPIC ,CICC is in Calabar Cross River State and has nothing to do with Akwa Ibom

Wrong headline,the OP wants to be mischievous. It was a Commissioner who did that rubbish, it has nothing to do with the Government

omenka:
Not sure if one could label this progress or retrogression especially given the fact we exist in an age of ICT.

Below are pictures of the commissioner for Information and Technology distributing transistor radios to some beneficiaries, likely the staffers of the ministry.

Given the pervasive rot in our system at the moment, one would be left wondering how much the ministry might have claimed they expended on the "project".

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=3042699085779082&id=100001170625105

He is simply preaching the word of God, stop attacking him. Go ahead and attack God if you can.

edlion57:
Pls which sin should we adhere to.ur type will be ontop woman der type NONSENSE.my brother sin na sin

Your papa nor sabi bodi QED


[quote author=Jeffrey12 post=90692237]Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19[/quote]

daddytime:
Obj himself...

What is AL LGA? shame on you that you didn't do your reporting well

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Raskasal:
This post is directed to the matured minds in the house.

I've dated this lady for close to a year now and I have the intention of having her as my wife because of my love for her. She's got good qualities, cooks well, supportive in a little way but temperamental and easily provoked.

But there is this challenge I'm having with her, she puts up surly attitude and would always keep to herself whenever I correct her, and she won't talk to me for as long as we stay together, call or try to get in touch while away. This might last for as many days not until I come out to calm her down. Over times shes been doing this and the only way I've had to let things be normal is for me to talk to her again and beg her not to be angry. But I'm feeling I'm loosing my worth. This is someone that never admits she's at fault, talk less of apologizing. On several note I have had to take blame for her errors even when I'm not at fault just to make sure we're fine.

A recent development was that she came for holiday and was using the rest room within my apartment, I was passing by and asked her to close the door, she murmured, closed the door and she hasn't been talking to me since then and even when I do she'll answer reluctantly for like five days now. I am tired of living under same roof with someone that never feel anything keeping malice and I want her to realize her mistakes and apologize, but she won't, she'll rather stay back in the room, and whenever I go to the room, she be making avoiding moves.

I watched her closely to observe if she's into someone else but I haven't got any traces of that.

I have decided not to call her to terms again not minding if it costs a break up, but then am thinking I might be taking things way far.

Pls How best can I handle this? I really do love her tho and I am afraid of loosing her but I am loosing my worth and this has made her not have regards for me.

Thank you all

What you cannot sustain, DONT start it Bro. Be the man and act as a man. Thanks

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Its a shame on nairalanders that you don't comprehend simple grammar spelt our clearly. Na wa ooo. For your information, Hyundai logo will appear on the sleeves of the jersey from next season. Chelsea is getting more cash and that means CFC is a good product

Teedawg:
Lol ma phone is made in sk I've used and learnt about lots of products from china and as long it's not a well recognized company, it can never compete with flagship products just like your brain can't compete with mine

Only children throw insult at people you dont know, my friend your smartphone is made in China. I challenge you to post the picture and brand of your phone here. Even iphone is manufactured in China by Foxconn. Lots of products are manufactured in China but done according to the specs.and requirements. Stop arguing what you dont know. Thank you

Teedawg:
You know what chinese products can do right? I repeat do not buy chinco flagship replicas

What do you know about China and her products? The laptop or phone you are using to type this rubbish is from China

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mu2sa2:
Is it God collecting the money and spending it? Truth is pastor collects money on behalf of God and spend it on behalf of God.

What happened in the bible that made Paul to say in Philippians 4 vs 19 " my God shall supply all your needs in Christ Jesus"
You wouldn't know? Christians donated so much to the church for the work of God and Paul bless them with that prayer.

Humans intelligence is foolishness in the sight of God, He created you but you turned around to claim He knows nothing by creating you and turn yourself to a free thinker or atheist.

Science or your tradition created you? I laugh when I read foolish things on the Internet. You are lucky I responded to correct that impression of man of God dey chop money

mmsen:
From their dumb ass parishioners who willingly hand over 10% (or more) of their weekly salary.

Humans claim to know more than God, the 10% given is used for something meaningful and no gun was placed on their heads. They love their God and thats none of your business. Get on with it else jog on

No Sir, not correct.

The machines are customs duty free
Using of CNG Cummins generators brings down the cost generating power
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Customs duty on SKD is 10% of the cost of each bus whereas a CBU like this one is 70%
Salary to your staff dont cost a thing if you calculate the units per year vis a viz to the expenses.

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torres89:
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1) land

2) construction of building

3) procurement of equipments

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5) importation of materials

6) transportation to plant yard

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transportation of finished product

9) payment of staffs

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hope you are happy now

Kayus4real:
there was this girl I loved some times ago. I really loved her, I could do anything for her. she treated me badly, ignoring my calls most time and when she picked it, it would be a nightmare. She was so arrogant, rude and unpleasant. there was a day she told me she couldn't date me because I was so broke. She slapped me and threw dirty water on my clothes. It got to me that day and I was very depressed. I moved on.. despite the whole ugly event.

I got a job in a big firm two years ago and I can say I'm comfortable now. she called asking for an assistance I think I'm capable of rendering. Should I help her out? please I need your sincere advice..

Assist her bro but ask for her account details then transfer the money to her. You will call to say" I want to say I want to see you", please respect yourself and stop her . God bless you

If I am conducting an interview and you are a smooth talker, I will reject you

He is not a man meaning a natural man is prone to lying and deceiving others as seen in Numbers 23:19 and Hosea 11:9. When God makes promises He will accomplish it till the end.

For John 8:40, Jesus is a called a man because He was born as a man to die on the cross of calvary to ssave mankind from condemnation. God is a spirit and if He had come in the spirit form, He would not have been able to save mankind, He would not have been able to be hungry, He would not have been betrayed by Judas Isacriot, they would not have been to arrest Him. So He came as a man-Find where He is called THE MAN OF CALVARY

abdulkabirtobi:
Oga Pastor what can you say about these verses in your holy book?
Bible says that God is not man
‘God is not a man’ (Numbers 23:19)
‘For I am God, and not man’ (Hosea 11:9)

Jesus is called a man many times in the Bible
‘a man who has told you the truth’ (John 8:40)

‘Jesus the Nazarene, a man attested to you by God with miracles and wonders and signs which God performed through Him in your midst, just as you yourselves know.’ (Acts 2:22)

‘He will judge the world in righteousness through a man whom He has appointed’ (Acts 17:31)

Any justification for all these contradictions? I'm more than sure you can not win this argument, your holy book is never perfect and will never be so y are u ranting upandan?

Somebody should send these Bible verses to the old man

Matthew 1:23 - “Behold, the virgin shall be with child, and bear a Son, and they shall call His name Immanuel,” which is translated, “God with us.”

Isaiah 9:6 - For unto us a Child is born, Unto us a Son is given; And the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

John 1:1-3 - In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things were made through Him, and without Him nothing was made that was made... 1:14 - And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us,

John 20:28 - And Thomas answered and said to Him, “My Lord and my God!”


Acts 20:28 - (God purchased us with His own blood)
Revelation 1:5-6; Revelation 5:8-9 - (Jesus' blood purchased us)

Titus 2:13 - looking for the blessed hope and glorious appearing of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ


Hebrews 2:17-18 - “Therefore, in all things He had to be made like His brethren, that He might be a merciful and faithful High Priest in things pertaining to God, to make propitiation for the sins of the people. For in that He Himself has suffered, being tempted, He is able to aid those who are tempted.”

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This is sequel to the new legal requirements set up by the Financial Regulations Council, guiding all registered churches, mosques, CSOs. They now have a maximum period of twenty years to lead their organizations. In retirement, they are not permitted to hand over to their families.

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