Politics › Re: ANAP: Deji Accuses Poll Organiser Of Having Links With Obi by Aringon(m): 6:32pm On Feb 16, 2023 |
Deji is a shameless, silly, dirty pig and an Emory noise that makes the loudest noise. He knows nothing but always claim to know much. ANAP lease his private jet to be hired if you have money I!stead of parking it in the airport to accumulate debt. Anyone can hire the PJ Vixlot: Exposing 2023 Pre-Election Fraud: ANAP Jet , ANAP Poll
https://twitter.com/adeyanjudeji/status/1626196649759457280 |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi And His Wife, Margaret Obi (Photos) by Aringon(m): 5:37am On Nov 11, 2022 |
She is from Onna Local Government Area in Akwa Ibom State not from Cross River please NaijaRoyalty: He that findeth a woman findeth a good thing and enjoys obtains favours from God, so says the bible. And since H.E Peter Obi met his beautiful wife, Margareth, it has been blessings upon blessings upon the 2023 presidential front runner, Mr Peter Gregory Obi.
The photos below are pictures of Mr Peter Obi in loved up photos with his beautiful wife, Margareth.
Chei , I go love o |
Politics › Re: Why Tinubu's Visit To Obasanjo Is Shaking The Table by Aringon(m): 6:55am On Aug 18, 2022 |
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Jokes Etc › Re: What's The Reason Behind This Trending Meme (photo) by Aringon(m): 11:57am On Aug 17, 2022 |
He is a Kenyan comedian Ademola47: For like 5 days, I've been seeing this (photo) meme trending on WhatsApp Status, Facebook and Twitter.
What's the origin of the pics? |
Pets › Re: Moment Dogs Observed A Moment Of Prayer Before Eating Their Meal (Photos, Video) by Aringon(m): 9:49am On Jul 31, 2022 |
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Education › Re: ASUU Blames Peter Obi For South East Strike (2010) by Aringon(m): 2:03pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
Please sign underground to bring rubbish report but you guys refused to address the drug baron headache your corrupt laden master is carrying about. Una nova start Nonsense and ingredients Specialist900: all these governors, they all forget that one day they will cease to become governors then they will seat and recount all they did when they had power. its their time sha, anything they want to do they should do |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Offered Me Money To Support Him, I Rejected It — Deji Adeyanju by Aringon(m): 5:54pm On Jun 17, 2022 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: My Experience In Church This Morning by Aringon(m): 2:30pm On Jun 12, 2022 |
It will not discourage people, it's to show people that are new that, everyone will be scanned. Be free okay bottlewater1: Good morning nairaladers and happy Trinity day
So I went to church with my family, at the entrance of the church members of protocol use their security gadgets to search us whether we carry any kind of weapon. Me that did not even carry Bible expect my phone and offering, yet they use their gadgets on me.
My opinion:
I was just laughing because it seems they don't trust their members again for instance me a member of more than five years and listen to the pastor almost every week. I think this acts in church will further discourage people from attending church services but to stick to electronic programmes |
Travel › Re: Akwa Ibom And Europe Standard Of Road Na 5&6 .. Photos by Aringon(m): 9:04am On Jun 01, 2022 |
You are sick in the head and stupid from the womb for typing this rubbish about your fellow citizens. If you are called a black monkey you will puff like an over feed monkey. Idiot Corporate2020: It has to be. What is the residents population of Akwa Ibom? With 95% of Akwa Ibom indegenes working as house boys and house girls in Lagos, tbe state should be the cleanest on Earth |
Romance › Re: How Can I Stop This Girl From Coming To My House by Aringon(m): 2:28pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Nkọ afo okoyom, oyom okut Solofresh2: There is course mate of mine. We were close friends in school. So there is this day she followed me to my home (because I don't live in the hostel, I rented an apartment outside), I was so hungry so she decided to cook for me. After we finished eating, one thing led to the other and we had sex. This girl is in her early twenties just like me.
Since that day, she never lets me rest. We have been having sex and she told me she has a boyfriend. She comes to my house and we always end up having sex all the time. I have told her enough is enough but she keeps coming. I use protection though.
I blamed myself for letting her know my place How can I discard this girl totally because as long as she comes, I will keep sleeping with her. |
Family › Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Aringon(m): 8:38pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Bro, fix the date and arrange with the King and your kinsmen in collaboration with some Mopol to station around the burial or secretly arrest them one by one and after the burial then release then questionanswer: Hi everyone,
My father happened to be the first son of my grandfather who automatically inherit his lands and other properties.
My father just died and since I'm the first son of my father. Which means I'm automatically inherit and in charge of those inheritance.
Now my uncles are all ganging up against me. These guys not allowing me to do the burial of my father who passed away for a while now.
They keep giving different excuses on why the burial will not hold.
They gang up and cancel the burial i fixed previously and I lost everything. All what I spent for the burial arrangements was wasted.
I really want to charge them for this.
They are using the influence that if they are not in support the burial will not hold.
These uncles has really fustrate me and I keep spending money and wasting my precious time traveling back to the village for series of meetings just to please them.
Yet they're not approving my burying my father. Not like they are giving me any money for the burial. I'm the one handling it yet they no gree.
They said i cannot inherit the grandfather and my father's properties..so I cannot do my father burial. And these are for their own selfish motives.
The Kingsman and the king supports me and has cautious the uncles to desease from such. But yet they still persist.
I have tried to make peace and peace with them as family concern but yet they are all still ganging up. And wow to fustrate me.
Now my patience has ruined out. I'm in mood for actions now.
I want to take matter higher than the community level with them now.
I'm thinking taking them to court now. But I don't know the process.
I'm seeking for the right direction i can take to solve such issue.
Thank you so much � |
Nairaland General › Re: Why I Prefer Reading News On Nairaland by Aringon(m): 7:56am On Apr 21, 2022 |
I have been a member of this forum from 2007 and I love it so so much, I am addicted. For the tribal tantrums, I don't respond to such, truth be told, some are for cruise and some are deep-seated bigotry . Seun well done |
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me Again & No More Sex From Her.... by Aringon(m): 4:44pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Leave the house for 2 months and stay in an hotel, don't call or visit but remember to send money to her to take care of your son. DONT ALLOW ANY WOMAN TO FRUSTRATE YOU QED Philip94: I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.
She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.
Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.
I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.
She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.
B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.
Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.
NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology. |
Family › Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by Aringon(m): 5:08pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Go and beg both your dad and mum then leave the house QED Moz22: Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.
My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!
However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her
Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...
I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...
Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..
I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect
Pls ignore my typo errors abeg |
Romance › Re: I Am Having A Problem With My Girlfriend. by Aringon(m): 4:57pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
2 to 3 times a week is good, I thought it was 2 to 3 times a day. Bro please it's good for the prostrate, you will be 40 soon. Get on with it
[quote author=Videour post=111303818]Actually she's a good girl in all aspects. We have been dating for 3year now, she's all I want in a woman, her smile gives me joy every time with dimples.
I am 35 years she should be going to 25 this year. A career lady that has this hustle spirit in her but my problem is that she's obsessed with sex.
Imagine a man at my age having 2 to three times a week, which I know if I don't put in work she's definitely going to get it else where.
Psychologically, it's affecting me. Please what is the best way to handle this? My Nairaland family.[/quote] |
Nairaland General › Re: Which Year Did You Discover Nairaland ? by Aringon(m): 1:22pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
2007 RaymondEasyLife: As for me I Discovered Nairaland in the year 2012, During the Era of Java phone and free browsing cheat.  |
Travel › Re: Beautiful Roads In Villages In Akwa Ibom State (Pictures) by Aringon(m): 6:08pm On Feb 22, 2022 |
Why about Mkpok? Grgton: Mkpok ?? ? |
Family › Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Aringon(m): 10:52am On Feb 11, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: What was your God doing when all this was happening.. Ooh I forgot he was smiling from his home so the people he created can keep suffering..
You religious Dumbos are really disgusting.. Oga, God is supreme, He does anyhow He wants for His glory. He gave humans the freedom of choice and won't force this will on you. You that is criticising Him is alive today because He wants you to live. It's only a fool that thinks there is no God. Be careful because he can snap His finger and you disappear from the surface of the earth( I am not threatening okay), I am talking of reality. Cheers |
Family › Re: Married Men How Do You Confidently Cheat On Your Spouse? ( My Experience) by Aringon(m): 11:13am On Jan 15, 2022 |
Bro, didn't ask for ways to cheat or if there is guilty conscience along with it. Don't do it, run away from it Barrister026: My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature. All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.
So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.
At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.
(Which she told me, saying she go do me well) Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.
Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.
So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.
I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.
I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.
What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.
Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.
(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)
So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse? |
Crime › Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Aringon(m): 3:31pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
I am not supporting your action of raping your wife but she caused it. How can you deny your husband sex for a month say wetin happen? You slapped and raped her, you then apologize, give her time and pray along but do such again please. I will say if she does it again, hold body and any time she throw advances at you, shun her too. Like I said, pray and give her time okay. Be a man alright Noah9: Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.
My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.
Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.
Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.
Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.
I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.
I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?
I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.
Please Help Me. |
Family › Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Aringon(m): 3:26pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Just relax she will be good okay Fred166: I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).
My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.
We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.
I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.
3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.
I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.
Experienced men help a brother. |
Health › Re: I'm About To Abort A 4-Month Pregnancy Tomoro, My Babe Is So Scared! Help Pls by Aringon(m): 3:23pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Oga please I beg you in the name of God, allow her to deliver that baby else you will regret whatever happens later. Mylordmygod1: Hello nairalanders...
i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..
when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..
now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..
i don't know what to do..
please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..
how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..
though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?
And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe.. pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision.. |
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Now Shes Back But I Am Confused by Aringon(m): 9:47am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Blaze14k: I have been dating this girl for about two years now and our relationship was leaning towards marriage until we broke up. The reason we broke up was because she always go through everything on my phone including my bank transaction, who i called, the pictures i deleted on my phone, and who i blocked on whatsapp and facebook.
She literally goes through everything until i got fed up.. not only that shes also disturbing me about getting married to her all the time.
And i broke up with her because of something that is meaningless. We both moved on and I met this girl online and told her I dont want to date buh we can be friends. So after about 2 months my friends ex called me and said she cry almost everyday that she wants to speak to me. So she apologized for everything that happened and i just had to no choice than to take her back.
The twist here is that i told this new friend about my ex and she noticed a few good things about me. So she started having a crush on me that she wants to pay me a visit. Just this night she sent me a picture of her wearing some skimpy cloth and that definitely put my guards down and im really tempted to invite her.
Guys am back with my ex and this is really tempting what do i do. Please i need a mature advice cos this new girl might grow more feelings for me if i invite her. I'm thinking of paying her a visit instead of inviting her.
Matured guys please Don't sell your soul because of a pot of beans |
Family › Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Aringon(m): 7:40pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Skyflygang2: I dont believe it seeing is believing
Hit me up on whatsapp
Share me the video Doubting Thomas, until you see before you believe.bif Na me be the girl I will not send it mtcheeeeew |
Romance › Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Aringon(m): 7:45pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
You be small pikin jare ahmedaturboy: There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.
The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....
The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...
Advice on what to do pls |
Forum Games › Re: IQ Test: Can You Answer It? by Aringon(m): 1:51pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Zuze Psoul: Can you answer this? |
Family › Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Aringon(m): 4:25pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
If something unfortunate happen to that one child and you need to have another what do you think will happen to him? Vasectomy closes that chapter entirely Mercychen: Hi fam.
Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.
There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.
Before, I delve into the main discuss , let me quickly highlight how it all started.
Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.
He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.
So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me. That was how I got to meet bro.
Now fastforward to the main reason of this post. There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!
I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?
If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?
Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where? Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?
I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free. I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.
He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.
The big question is .. WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?
COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?
IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?
WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY? |
Family › Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Aringon(m): 8:50pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Free your kind Bros hashbag1: Nlanders, I have been married for 9 years now, amidst several incidences that gave me suspicions over my wife's infidelity. The one that happened of recent gave me nothing more than great suspicion over any other.
My daughter and son got infection, they were admitted into the hospital. On this faithful day, I was there with them and I left the hospital in the afternoon to get something for them to eat, I got back with the food and quickly rushed down to my office to tidy some work. I felt hungry and decided to drive out, on my way to the restaurant leads to the hospital, I was in traffic when I put a call through to my wife whom I asked how she was coping and how the kids were doing, while on call with her, I heard sounds of car horns so I asked if she was out, she said yes that she was going to get water across the stree, so i was like you shouldnt have stressed yourself since the house maid was with her, next thing she yelled at me saying why am I making ascertion as to who should go get the water or not, I was like but that isnt a big deal to ask, she was like well the house girl have been the one running errands all day, I responded saying instead of yelling at me, you would have just responded by saying the above.
As a responsible and concerned father, I decided to suspend dinner and branch at the hospital which took me 8 mins to get there because of traffic. On getting to the hospital, lo and behold, my wife was not there, just the kids and the house maid. I asked the house maid where madam was, she said she stepped out without saying where she was going. I immediately put a call through to her. "Babes where are you at, just got here now and you are not here". She immediately hung up on me, I called back, she didnt pick, called her again didn't pick, waited few mins and called, she picked and yelled "why are you looking for me" I was like but you claimed you went to go get water but its been up to 15mins and you are not here yet, next thing she said was I'm in a uber car, Wow uber car when you just said you went across the street to get water, how does being in uber car relate to that. I requested a video call, I hung up the normal call and called her on whatsapp call, she didn't pick, I called her back again on normal call and said you aren't picking, she responded saying am in uber car now, call me on video again, I did but she still didnt pick. So I decided not to bother since declaring her whereabout seems frutile. She called back on normal call saying she was on her way home to pick some her items to quickly do an advertising shoot to model to her customers in the hospital room, that she didnt want me to get mad at her reason why she didn't tell me before she left, I was like its not a big deal telling me that after which I have found out she never did go out there to buy water.
Husbands and fathers in the house, in this kind of situation, what could have been your thought? As for me, something was not just right, and the most damning part of all these is leaving the kids at the mercy of just the house maid, I feel if there is something she is hiding from me and leaving the kids like that is what the issue of trust has led us to, I am left in amazement and total disappointment. |
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Celebrities › Re: Reno Omokri: Davido Is Wiser Than All Those Who Gave Him Money by Aringon(m): 9:03pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: Ibom Air Signs An Agreement With Air Bus For The Supply Of 10 New Aircrafts by Aringon(op): 7:08pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Most of you don't understand business yet for the sake of sounding WOKE, you decide to write whatever you wish. Look, Ibomair is privately owned and managed by technocrats in the Airline industry, the state owns a small percentage like 10 and the rest by HNIs from Akwa Ibom. They run their business successfully and this one will continue to be successful perambulator: the same people typing "good one" are the same people that will be abusing Emmanuel when this airline inevitably collapses. Like I have said many times, Nigeria's domestic air-travel economics cannot sustain airbus or Boeing planes, that why all those who have established airlines using them for domestic routes in Nigeria have failed. These guys dont know what they are doing and they will learn the hard way. The ideal planes for domestic routes in countries like Nigeria are bombardier and Embraer regional jets. Like you said the aviation industry is an industry of very thin margins, all it takes is one Naira devaluation and you are already in the red. you dont shoot yourself in the foot before you even start because you want to brag you have prestigious name planes.
look at viable airlines in challenging environments and see what planes they use for domestic short haul , you will find they are regional jets and turboprops. |
Travel › Ibom Air Signs An Agreement With Air Bus For The Supply Of 10 New Aircrafts by Aringon(op): 1:31pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
According to the Governor of Akwa Ibom State, ' I am pleased to witness the signing of the agreement between Ibom Air and Air Bus to order ten (10) A220 aircraft at the ongoing Dubai Air show, taking place at the purpose built DWC event arena in Dubai.
The order of the ten (10) Airbus A220 is in line with our aggressive growth plan, which will see Ibom Air expanding its footprint into new domestic routes as well as regional routes covering West and Central Africa in the immediate future. The first phase of this expansion is set to cover cities like Malabo, Douala, Libreville, Kinshasa, Accra, Abidjan, Freetown, Banjul and Dakar. Ultimately the airline intends to operate throughout the continent of Africa.
After test running the initial two A220 aircraft, we can say the all-new A220 is suitable for the expansion, it is purpose built for efficiency, targeting the 100-150 seat market. It burns 20% lower fuel per seat compared to previous generation aircraft and flies to a range of up to 3,400 nm (6,297 km), offering performance similar to larger, single-aisle aircraft. The A220s combination of a superior cabin product and low operating costs are a perfect fit for the airline’s network growth strategy and will help Ibom Air offer its customers an unrivaled value proposition
Ibom Air’s giant leap in just two (2) years and five (5) months since we commenced operations is a validation of our aviation development pillar of our completion agenda which is on course. I have said and will reiterate that, till the very last day, I will keep working for and in the interest of Akwa Ibom people.
Please move to the from page , thank you
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