Thank you Tpia, i don't think we should suffer in silence , sometimes a problem shared is a problem half solved

hello my peace,
I had my last miscarriage in March and i saw my period in July.It takes a while for your body to get back to Normal.
Have your doctors run tests to see if everything is ok ?Arrgh i hate the fake symptoms it can make one crazy it is funny how these things happen when you want a baby.
Blessed are the women who just get pregnant have healthy babies without knowing what God has done for them.
May we never ever again cast our fruits before the harvest time again.

My peace, everyone handles things diffrently, and i can tell u it is almost impossible to forget about it. the best you can do is look for things to occupy your mind so you can supress it but i am yet to see anyone who just forgets completly.

Hi venuss, hope you are doing good yes we just have to have hope and wait.
Candylips, why the face? and yes it is not easy at all are you married?

Thank you pink lady and Amen.

Hello everyone,

I wanted to start this for women who are still waiting for a child, who have tried for a long time, have suffered miscarriages, still births  and  are trying to find alternative ways of having a child.

In our culture it is really difficult to talk about this as people are ashamed or don't know who to trust  and are just generally confused. I have suffered 2 miscarriages and i am still on this journey i believe that i will  be a mother some day.

We believe in Nigeria after 2 years  and no child you have major issues especially from your village but i know that is not always true.

So please come in let us support one another we can pray together, share ideas  seek advice and get advice  and travel this road together dont suffer in silence don't cry alone anymore let us help each other, until the day we carry our bundle of joy.
(My own bundle of joy was born December 2010 nothing is impossible with God)

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Hello just saw your picture you are beautiful . My husband is a C6 he was assulted when he was 18 and his spine got broken he has limited use of his hands and cant walk and so what he does so much more than some people who can walk around !!
We have been married for 4 years at first i was afraid i could not stay married to him, ibut with time i have forgetten he is in a wheelchair and tell him to do things he cant then i remember. please keep in touch. there is another website dont know if you know of it is called http://www.apparelyzed.com/.
There is no question about spinal cord injuries that have not been asked there and you can make great friends also.
See you around.

sasha009,
some of the comments here are really funny , i am married to a white guy it is not very easy but as they say love conquers all.
People will stare, people will point and Nigerian friends will not hide them selves they will even suggest a few men to you.
Most of us just have a feeling that once a person is diffrent from we are it is just wrong , forgetting blood runs through that persons veins as well.

I have been with my husband since 2003 and yes THE INTEREST IN MY COUNTRY MY CULTURE IS STILL THERE.
He understand pidgin that i cant even talk about him on the phone to my friends anymore unless i speak in my dialect
My father was a bit of a challenge but once he knew i loved him he let me be with time your parents will chill they might not be 100 percent happy but if they know you are happy they will let you do your thing.
we watch too much TV and don't know the truth some people know nothing about facts they just do monkey see monkey do and run there mouths.
Yes culturally it is diffrent but that is how your love grows you get to understand each other, since i am married to one i really don't care what people say or think i love him that is all that matters, so follow your heart.

Yes aduro is asylum application . And no he did not do anything illegal he was in the UK for only about 4 weeks before he had to go to Dublin it was family issues with where he was staying. so he did not over stay his UK visa all they know in the UK embassy might be that he went back to Nigeria .His UK visa was kind of a work visa he was working for the family, so they had control over the visa and collected the passport from him.

I am a bit confused about how to go about a visa application so i need some input from people who have travelled out of the country or know about aduro stuff.
My brother got a visa to the UK about 4 years ago ,went to London, but somethings happened and he was forced to go to Dublin,where he sought aduro.
He was refused and after a while he was deported to Nigeria. Now the question i am in the united states , i wanted to go to London for a holiday and i want my brother to come there as well just for the holiday and he is going back to Nigeria ,but will they grant him a visa?
Will the aduro he took in Dublin affect him in the UK embassy since he had to do finger printing while in Dublin but did not do any for the UK visa at that time.
Apart from London are all EU countries using the same biometric system? I may be over analysing but i just don't want them to reject the visa.
All great input will be highly appreciated.

Chiogo,
ALL the women i know with tatts are hot , so i don't know the women you might know that look ugly with tattoos and i think we are talking about tattoos not faces and a HOT woman does not have to be a beautiful woman you can be hot from the neck down

Most of the men here screaming no way are the ones with little or no morals .They are the ones who want 3 to 4 girls in bed and you are yelling here about tattoo's make i hear word jo. It is a form of expression nothing more nothing less you can date her sleep with her she can have your baby and you cant marry her,does this make sense? i hate when people play religion into every single thing we are all sinners somebody will die of something and go and account for his or her sins. WOMEN WITH TATS ARE FLAMING HOT!

Hi i saw this link http://library.adoption.com/articles/international-adoption-nigeria.html
I think it might give you a little insight about how you can go about it or you can ask someone in Lagos to go to the motherless baby home in palmgroove, i think it is called save a soul motherless baby home.i cant remember it would be easy since you are a Nigerian and they will love to give the children out for adoption to someone who can care for them because as you know we are not really into the practice of adoption yet. So i wish you God's speed on your journey.

My friends personal experience she went back there to say she was now married and they said it was a fake (you know our people collect money to be added as a spouse after you win the visa )and cancelled her visa and did not grant the guy the visa .so respect your self if you really want to come over to the USA don't go back there for anything once you get here arrange everything just take lots of pictures now that you guys are together in Nigeria save emails etc.
I know the love is hot now but you have a choice give up the visa and stay with her there or come over and bring her over!
But again everybody head different just do what your gut tells you ,make them no go say na me be destroyer of love

Hey plappyville,
How are you doing? I know it must be eating you inside but please say the truth now.   i know it will be hard but don't wait  anylonger , as you said  you wanted someone who could give you your stay and someone you loved as well, so you just had to take the risk of not telling him about the number of children in your family.
I am married to a white man also i know they don't always understand the way our family dynamics work and our loyalty to family. but  if you say the truth with remorse and tell him you loved him and you did not want him to be run off that was why you did not tell him from the start, i bet he will just be mad for a while and he will  understand as long as you have no more secrets of this type . Tell him you really felt bad you wanted him to know all your siblings that was why you introduced the rest of them  to him as cousins.

I asked my husband this  question like if it where me he  said that i must have had a  good reason  not to have told him and as long as the reaming ones just don't start coming to ask  for money it is ok , and that if the first guy ran away then maybe he did not love me enough because my family should not be an issue ,And reason not to marry me. You  should also have to find a job so that you can take care of your family your self without asking him , no do pass your power  do what you can don't give your self headache you have a baby to think about also.

Yes everyone thinks when you marry a white guy you become bill gates but they forget they are just like everyother person some are broke asses as well, and owe and live just on credit cards .
The white men they see in Nigeria live on there allowances and don't spend there salaries there so they can afford to do what ever they like ,but back in there countries fear no dey let them spend that way . so my dear plappy tell him maybe on valentines dey when you are professing your love again that you over love him sef but this is making you real sad you be woman na you no sabi cry  .It works for me hehehehehe
Hope it all works out  for the better keep praying about it ask  God to give you the courage to know what to say and when to say it.

Hi,
Beautiful brides, i have some wedding gowns for sale some have already been paid for and i have just 3 left , they are size 8 ,10 and 12 and if you need a specific one from any store in the united states you can ask me, it will be hand carried.pictures are attached below if you are interested please email .........for prices and when to see them they will be available as at Saturday the 14th.They are all brand new never worn, waiting to here from you ladies byeeeeeeeeeeeee.

Adesuwa

Ighiwiyisi

omonuwa

Amenawon

osarieme( Girls with this name dey fight pass Mike Tyson sef)

Osayi

Ivie

I think it is spelt Igwodala or Egwodala not sure.

osaze.

Hello,
Please i am trying to find short term accommodation in Lagos , i have heard of some Hostels (NOT STUDENT) in the Ajah, lekki axis area i don't know how true that is . can anybody recommend a place? i don't want it to be a semi LovePeddler house, i am looking for 6 to 12 months accommodation,any info will be well appreciated .

My to be brother inlaw does this Indomine with beans and cuts small small kpomo inside

If that was my case i will gladly pay for someone to help me .and if it is my sister or best friend that has such situations ,i will do it without even thinking about it.

Don't go back to the guy just let him go,If you stay with him while looking for someone else it will just be a hindrance. clear your head and relax someone who is worth his salt will come along,don't be in a hurry .

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa what is going on here did i miss something?Is this a husband and wife issue oya fire back i am bringing out  the popcorn!