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Interesting! Pleaded guilty since oct 5th and nobody knew ?
American justice. Smh
Many rivers to cross, many lessons to learn.

happney65:
Breaking.."George Papadopoulos pleaded guilty on Oct. 5 and the plea was sealed so that he could act as a “proactive cooperator.” The meaning of that phrase is unclear. But one nerve-racking possible implication is that Mr. Papadopoulos has recently worn a wire in conversations with other former campaign officials. This will surely have members of Mr. Trump’s inner circle agonizing about the possibility and wondering who else might have been similarly cooperating with the investigation"..New York Times...

Trump has gone deaf and dumb since news of George pleading guilty broke out..This is the beginning of the very End..

Maybe Trump didn't know they were crooks or crooks are best for business so he thought. But we are no longer in the mafia era...all these old rich men.
Jared K
Gate is a young man...mehn I'm wondering how he got to the top...get rich or die trying (gangster anthem).

Lol, maybe he eats fish and you know, they are expensive.
He may also like shopping and buying his jeans at GAP/mall

justwise:
Speechless, rented a room in the UK without fridge, microwave and washing machine already there?

£400 on shopping alone? You need to be flogged

@timesup234
Yeah one reason is because of the latest everything....latest phone (a big rip off imagine buying a Samsung for $500 + then monthly bill $50) 12 months later (black friday) they are already flashing another new one . Big screen tv...something is always new
Car....after 5years of paying off, you want another
Home mortgage is okay.
CC is lifetime
Student loans another lifetime.
A huge tale but make the best of wherever you are.

What i would encourage her to do...she should be doing 30-45mins walk daily.
Make sure she is seeing her doc and has her own monitor at home.
Eat plenty of fish, vegetables and fruits.

Not sure but the tax cut is going to benefit the rich...we will see - hopefully it benefits everyone.

stanech:
.@POTUS: "We're going to bring back $4 trillion, I think, at least... The tax cut is going to be massive.

Funlord,
More oxtail pepper soup and hen in a can for our bros in arms.

me too. I have a good bag to hold the bills but CC convenient

PDPGuy:
Chai. I have no qualms being an umpire. Someone is about to get richer..

cool dough...me likey

Abbeybailey:
You can be one of the referees too. Still waiting for his reply and we can keep it going as soon as possible.

The good old days!
Best wishes to all.

Op,
You made a mistake beating her up. Break that cycle of domestic violence because it goes in cycle. The best thing is to end the union especially since you guys have no children.

Count your lost and move away from there. Take mama with you if possible - that is if your father has another family. Leave the area your father is in.
You do have the zeal to make it but you don't need any drawbacks.

You are fined $1000 for throwing refuse on the road if you are caught according to the sign by the road.

Pidgin2:
Ask me why Nigerians eat and throw their refuse on the main road? We have a dirt culture.

Every summer when students go on summer break (june-sept), big work begins for facilities management in every colleges here. Holes on the wall are filled, sand papered and repainted. Every rooms in the dorm are painted. Every classroom, road, sewer, dinning, cafeteria, building redone. You come back to a brand new school and dorm room...they are colleges from 17th/18th century.

Sooooo true....well done!!
Every mallam sef don open eye...person not know where to pitch ones tent again.

KanwuliaExtra:
8. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing “holy” about the marriage institution. In fact it is best known as a war zone with many BATTLES aka CHALLENGES.

If you win or lose, depends on how CRAFTY and DYNAMIC you are in dealing with people in general.

It does not matter what religion or CULT you choose to belong to. You will always find INFIDELS and DEVIANTS is ANY!

Marriage is just one of those CULTS. It is either you are committed AS A COUPLE or not. One person cannot be the “believer”. They are way toooooo many “matrimonial infidels” in the world to make sure divorce rates remain on the rise. People who went looking for people to USE for their own selfish means and had no business getting married in the first place.



The main weapons you will need is wisdom, patience, COMMON SENSE, maturity, excellent communication skills and a great deal of self-control. The things money cannot buy.

EfemenaXY,

Wow! At the article.

"Can we check if the person (man and woman/husband and wife) is gainfully employed and domestically responsible"

Men/husbands should never leave domestic work to their wives. Join her in:
-The kitchen even if it is only eggs or water you can boil - she is making stew, assist in placing all the ingredients on the counter...start boiling rice
-Share in bathing the kids (if you have kids)
-Playing teacher at home
-Playing driver for after school program
-Playing judge and counsel to the kids
-Baby/kids sitting for either of you to take turns to work out
-Join in cleaning your home
etc
Just be a team player in your home ( be domestically responsible)

Gainfully employed - both (husband and wife) should be bringing money home monthly no matter how small.

I just think human beings intentionally complicated something that's just simple.
May we do the right thing and follow the simple and non complex paths in life's journey.

Interesting thread.
I agree with KanwuliaJara and ujujoan2 to find happiness within ourselves.
For marriage to be successful, everyone must be willing to play their imperfect role with love, a bit of patience and understanding. Imagine such challenge when only one person is raising the kids or doing the chores or making the money etc...that's recipe for burnt-out.

Let's talk about beer and oxtail
I like a good cold smirnoff...

funlord:
Thanks! Nice to see that the pepper soup got him! Wish he could have sampled the ox tail pepper soup I usually buy around my hood! Excellent with beer....

I watched the interview with Zach @ Obi
I personally think Hillary should just enjoy life away from politics.

obixcel:
Check out his latest on Hillary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ztkapsp4Ps

https://www.eater.com/2017/10/11/16460070/parts-unknown-lagos-sneak-peek-anthony-bourdain

http://www.cnn.com/videos/tv/2017/10/13/lead-bourdain-parts-unknown.cnn

Not sure if it's on youtube yet.

funlord:
Any streaming link available for that particular show?

Not yet uhuru

Abbeybailey:
The hardest working people on Earth but the leadership is probably one of the worst in human history due to corruption and nepotism. Hopefully, things will get better because Nigerians deserves better .

What is she going to do with 3 properties? Tell her to sell or rent out two and use the money to support and add to what you send her. Be straightforward and tell her how it is.
Op, you should discuss with your siblings about taking turns to send her a fixed amount of money monthly.

Londonboyrep:
Can relate to this. I have a really nice job and make about a million a month so I give my mum 100k and Dad 50k monthly. But atleast 2wice a year mum will still bring bill of 500k above and its just hard for me to say no. I know my parents really tried to give me a good life - private schools (including England) but sometimes I really feel its too much. I too like this guy has no property whilst mum has about 3 houses in Lagos and dad about same so they are not poor in any way, shape or form.

And carry their crosses.

Acidosis:
I'm going to ban this statement in my home. Nobody will demand any fruit from anybody, everyone will work out their own "salvation".

Change is inevitable if only that change comes sooner to Nigeria.
Hard working people!

My stomach was growling
is the fish from the Makoko riverine edible?
Wow @ cooking masa, fura etc

it should have been 2 hours

Abbeybailey:
Really beautiful indeed but I will take that Peppersoup over Eba. Watching the rerun right now on CNN. I like the juxtaposition of Victoria Island and Makoko riverine area. Beautiful show indeed.

Oh my goodness, now I'm hungry of eba
...thank you @ Anthony.
Nice program.
praying before pounding yam ?

thought he lives in Chicago.

Abbeybailey:
How is Stenchy gonna get electricity to watch it in his cave. That poor thing will be lucky to have 2 hours of electricity in a day.

Me too..."Lagos"
I'm a fan of his documentary and "This is life" (Lisa Ling)

PDPGuy:
I won’t miss it

Checkout Anthony Bourdain's part unknown tonight at 9pm.
@
abbeybailey, TheShopKeeper, PDPGuy, stanech and all.

Never should be. Many of the women turned him down eg the one that happened in Italy. The audio was . Not sure why the lady didn't lawyer up and sue him.
Anyway, I want to do house warming to buy one of his very beautiful homes in the market.

stanech:
Not an excuse.

True, they kept quiet for the sake of their career.

stanech:
I dont think it is a men's issue. This is just some sick gross men demeaning themselves. Women are guilty of this tooo. Lots of them knew and kept mute

Let me just laugh since you miss the word "men" which in this case mean all "women groper

obixcel:
Cheating? -I'm sure you fall into this category too Pot calling Kettle black. It's shocking you left out Bill Clinton and Hillary's handling of the women who came out and spilled the beans. How did you leave that out while blacklisting the POTUS? You see your hypocrisy? I support that women speak out, but u couldn't help with your B.S.