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Go fund me for wedding?
@wife #3, na ordinary hand so ?

Anabell2:
Maybe this is why he blocked her numbers

https://www.gofundme.com/brub5-wedding

My name is Hilda from Uganda and my fiance is Siena Gbudje from UK. We fundrising for our dream wedding due 4th August 2018. My husband lost his job immediately after he proposed and set a wedding date. We had planned to have our wedding in Greece but now we cant because he has no money. I dont want to disappoint my mum, i am her only child, she is very happy i got a husband and I don't want to disclose to her the wedding is cancelled because of luck of finances. Kindly fund us we do my dream wedding. We will be very grateful. God bless you all.

I got you. May he finds his steps back some day soon. The children resembled him so much.

naijagypsy:
dont speak like that , he got her a visa to stay as a spouse and turned abusive.. she had no idea... you will not understand abuse... thats it

Your sponsor has to do it - you can't do it yourself.

Ishilove:
Wow... so what took her so long to regularise her status?

Lesson - if you come to the west with a visitor visa and then got married, make sure he files for you before you start having children. Gladly offer him condom or get yourself protected. Communicate why it is important to get secured immigration wise before kids. It is for the children's, you and his good.

Wow, my fav guy here and the best tip giver we have here ? Can't be.
Lady, stay song when life throws you a curveball.

Oh no it wasn't baked. I cooked it in a pan sizable pot of boiling water

Bomgirl:
I want to bake my moimoi on Saturday. How long did you leave it in the oven? Anything to note or do specially while mixing? Thanks

I ate the fish and left the rest for you.
The doused croaker was really good!

funlord:
Croaker fish, french fries and fried plantain......all doused in too much pep sauce!

Na sleep remain...

you are most welcome. Your plate and fork are ready.

sholay2011:

lol, come join me in my adugbo jare

zaynie:
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Why don't they sell this kain of moimoi in my adugbo?

Mindfulness, no false allegation...it is easy to know
there would have been argument if the woman had confronted her husband which would have made her call the cop.
Also, I think whoever keeps the children get the home if let's say one of them is cheating and want out- though some agree to sell the home. Some men amicably leave the house for their wives and children with no hassle.
Anyway, either way trouble abounds.
Couples should work hard to stay in the confine of their unions. No need for sidechics, let the other person knows you are no longer interested.

I'm craving beef stroganoff o.

Fresh mackerel moimoi

Paired with Yoplait....yummy

No, but to help get him out at that moment and then she goes all legal...leave the sidechic out of it, give him some little class act and etc

Mindfulness:
The cops don't get to decide who keeps the house.

She should have taken the "no drama" route by simply asking the guy to make a choice. Sidechic's house or ours ? If sidechic's, then move out of the house- if he refuses, call the cops on him.

oyb:
The foolish woman thought she was in naija. Ode.

You are right and i think he should try condom. There are many kinds out there to try in order to get what is best for both.
The menthol/minty/spicy ones are good start. Op, don't give up yet. Just take your woman to the peak of the mountain.
Discuss with her about trying various condoms.

oweniwe:
I think you're right. Thumbs up...

But.... If the man agrees to be pounding till he pours inside, how will the wife relieve his fear of pregnancy?

A man can't shag a woman thoroughly it he has the fear of pregnancy in the back of his mind.

So it's obvious the husband has not been "doing it thoroughly"... But the fear of pregnancy.... I don't advocate pills and I'm sure the wife won't enjoy condom so the man is in dilemma.

I'm on sistahs side almost all the time when na money matter - guys own too much
lol @wayo woman. Good morning!

oyb:
someone canno troll you again

wayo woman

Dayo, wetin I do ?

raumdeuter:
Hauwa na wa for you o

This man leave me alone
Abi dem send you this afternoon ?

oyb:
See this woman, I thought your area of expertise was food, not knacking

Did you in your own weak character ever considered that same little cornered change can be used for other things you both might need in your home ?
You don't know how to manage a home is your weakness-isalright oyb.

oyb:
This is how all of you women will be cornering money if put in a position of authority. See your weak character, aggressively defending 10%ing.

Issokay

Op, why are you doing withdrawal ? Your withdrawal is making her not reach mount Everest! You don't need a shaman to tell you that. The act is not pleasurable to her.

@ raumdeuter
What I don't get is when men think they are stallions forever
If you enjoy sex so much back in the days, I mean she gave it to you so good, why are you still desperate and itchy for it few or many years after ? Why can't companionship be the top goal rather than sex?
Clothes, food, shelter and sex? Really?

Same here and worst off if you are the one cooking all the time. I take time off cooking and just do some fine dinning out especially on weekends.

Seahawk:
Fried rice, fried plantain, stewed/peppered goat meat and corn bread.

Man I love me some corn bread. With ice cold sweet tea, it’s the best thing ever.

I didn’t have much of an appetite for anything else on there but I made it so my family could eat. I was just watching them eat. I have kinda gotten bored with food. Does that happen to anyone else?

I was told the goat meat was very delicious. I’ll find out when I try it.

Op
Wow!! so you carry calculator dey calculate how much she spent on buying food? so she no fit keep whatever small change for purse again?
Osanobua!!

Spot on!
Even if someone wants to eat big carbohydrates, lunch time is ok not dinner.

sassysure:
Most of the food here are very unhealthy. This is a typical example. The only good food I see there is egg and then it's fried.

Amen!!
Can you imagine?
So marrying another woman is the solution to the problem at home
Op, continue to do the little you can giving her allowance each month. Show her nothing but love.
Take her to the hospital, follow her to the church to understand or get idea of what they preach. Above all thing, be patient.

Ammy5565:
She was a successful hairdresser for years and the breadwinner those years and all was fine, your dad assumed his supposed responsibility for a minute and she becomes a liability? Even married another wife when he can't take care of the family and you think she is the problem? Ok oh.
May your eyes open sooner or later.

Timbuktuo:
Is it not better for my blood to inherit my property than some manipulative opportunist? Why should my widow inherit my property when she only tolerated me when I was alive and she would probably remarry following my demise? Who knows if she even was responsible for my demise in the first place?

You see why our forefathers were wise? Polygamy was the default, bit you new school people say it's barbaric and archaic. "Marry for love" you say, but love is a scam. I am fully content to be a serial monogamist, I wouldn't try polygamy. Any woman that cannot abide by my ways will be summarily replaced. She can go and argue with her forefathers.

Tim, did you know our grandfather didn't have it easy practicing polygamy? Wives arguing and fighting, jealous, envy, children hating each others and many other strife. No, they weren't that wise. They just did what they got to do as farmlands need hands.
Marry for love with a mindset you both weather the storms of life.
When two people are involved, it's our way- not just your or my way.

3rd idea
Maybe soap and sponge from Mountain of fire and miracle. Baff, turn back, throw away the sponge and run don't look back.

kidman96:
Don't be an idiot. Why use the phrase "African man"? This is the height of inferiority complex. Everyone on that beach is black and African.so what the hell?

Secondly he may be homeless and just wants to have his bath. Its a beach and there is water not everybody at the beach is there for fun some just want to bathe. So let him be.

Please what are the best hotel to stay at Ibadan ?

Grew up in Ibadan....fond memories of that city.
I wonder if army day, Ojoo still exist ?

This Saturday, Christine Amanpour will be in Ghana for the love and sex around the world docu. From the brief preview, looks like something interesting.

Crackhaus and Sagamite, don't miss it. Let's see what Ghana ladies want to let the world know about sex and love. The Japanese women sha

Mindfulness:
I wanted to watch it but missed it.

Who us watching CNN's Christiane Amanpour sex around the world ?

On Saturday at 10pm, it will be Ghana!

Mindfulness, you watching the documentary?

I think married people should get sex in the confine of their marriage or have open relationship - both swinging.

Lol @ mini riot.

Abbeybailey:
Gbam. They hate America but loves Mr Green ($). All you need to do is daggle that $100 Bill in their face and see how they will start a mini riot in front of you.

I guess its hot in planet obodo!! Op, print and post these pictures all over Nigeria so NIN stop asking for $

Such blatant display of cursing oneself!
The reason why I like the western style - after 18 you are on your own. The individualism is what Nigerians should adopt. Look at this guy, tying himself on his mother's neck

ChildOfDoom:
i'm doomed, i know; and it's beyond redemption

I wondered- like isn't the rip off what made them rich including Trump too ?
Me, I'm waiting for the increase in $$$$$$ he promised

Abbeybailey:
Gbam. Trump is destroying America big time. How do a president fight a citizen of his country by mentioning him by name and trying to destroy his business. His a*s lickers will support him nevertheless not knowing that the racist pig is destroying the fabrics of what makes America a great country.