₦airaland Forum

Well said! @Reasonabledoubt
I wonder why people can't get a grip and understand that you are responsible for yourself as an adult. You are your own life architect and designer. It is between you and your maker to do the best you can.
Op, think about it - he is married with children who are his responsibilities... you should take his promises with a face value and say thank you with no expectations...no absolutely expectation(s)!!
I agree he should help his mama. You are wrong to expect something from him yourself. Leave him alone because you never know what he is going through financially or otherwise.

Reasonabledoubt:
He is not you father. He owes you guys nothing. If he decides to help your mum, it’s coz he wants to do so, not coz he has to.

It is the responsibility of a parent to train his/her children, so your mum did not do him or you guys a Favour by not remarrying, that was her decision.

She did her job, you people were not consulted before she decided to have you. So training you guys was not a privilege, it was her absolute responsibility.

Get your own life and stop looking at him for help, as you come this life, na so him too take come the life.

Some of you siblings expect that your older ones or the richer sibling will die for you. Make your own money. He has his own family to think of now, and besides you’re not the one working for his money, so stop feeling entitled.

Nigerians and their entitlement mentality.

He used pipette to suck the minion tadpoles out.

Paulosky1900:
u mean fucking those women? how else does he get his own sample...pls someone help me out cos am not understanding

Exactly...also bp should not be money-one goat is enough. The goat should be cooked and eaten by the groom and bride family alone
The one I don't like is when things listed are not given to the bride.

PDPGuy:
Lmao

When you adjust for inflation, the N800k bride price would be N2 million today.

Her husband must have really loved her to have spent such an amount of money as BP. If na me, I’ll ask them to either reduce it to N45k or they can go Bleep themselves.

If not for greedy family/parents, all what the 800k bought should have been what the lady would take to her new home.
From clothes to mortar, parents should never keep anything.

Bannon, I don't know who his listeners are...thought he was a wife beater. The guy looks like someone working so hard for his pocket. At the end of the day, he is smiling at his bank accounts

So why the hurry to pass tax reforms? Why not let people discuss the new deal further, get a grip etc ?
Maybe they want to pass it before Americans understand it - oh well

Oh! I did! So it wasn't true...ummm

Efe, it's really becoming something else. You only got to say I don't have money to spare to see the reactions of friends, family and strangers.

EfemenaXY:
Like you believe the story

Re:18 years, you mean 30+ in Naija

How could 2 people from the same family even bother to gain adm when they are aware that there won't be any money from parents? Why bother at that time to do the said exam? How are you going to do it for the next 6 years?
After 18yrs, please people should find their own paths in life.

Americans sure can poke fun
I think without the lights, the decor looks like a scene from the Shinning...the part where Jack was pursuing the little boy
It is beautiful with the lights on.

So OP Lance, go for some lab test to check if you are deficient in some vitamins such as your vitamin D levels, iron, zinc etc. Start eating healthy food, very less white rice and more beans, fish, vegetables. Make exercises your friend-be sure to spend at least one hour exercising - running, strength training etc

Very longest journey from the pictures...ummm
She has to go on a very strict diet for max result.

As long as she is treated well, be his one and only princess, no problem.

panafrican:
She is from California too ? another big mistake. California is the state of divorce and lawsuit. God save the Prince !
http://www.cnn.com/2017/11/27/europe/prince-harry-meghan-markle/index.html

Please what is the exact amount ?

sobmos:
hustler max 3800es

I have been good, In fact very good...ask EfemenaXY.
And you ?

Sagamite:
Took wetin?

All stashed away in Panama & Mauritius. They aint getting shiiit!

Have been good, how are ya?

Ummm, my turkey no get wings and legs o

They trimmed them off and called the turkey butter balls breast, eh ?

@ marital duty

maybe wifey could pick a duty - cooking daily or sex daily. Bukatyne, you are right but let's not call it martial duty

bukatyne:
Any woman who thinks like the bold shouldn't bother with marriage so she doesn't make an innocent man miserable.

Sex is one of the major reasons of marriage.

It is a martial duty that's why marriages where no sex occurred can be annulled.

See what's going on now in this country!

Mynd44:
Is there a need to call this "men's corner" or other forms of couch group counselling sessions? Lets just gist and talk.

We as men need to do better.

Oh my goodness!!
Sagamite!! Wow! Where have you been? Being a while I read your fighting post
Hope no lady took the house, cars, alimony and child support and threw you out yet
Seasons of American ladies - grabbers and touchers beware.
@post
Very soon what is happening here will reach Nigeria - the Kingdom of the oshodi grabbers and unsolicited touching chiefs and kings.

Sagamite:


Where are EfemenaXY, cococandy, bukatyne, NotyourB1tch, Ifyalways, armyofone etc. for me to turn them on.

They would need to move to Iceland by the time I finish with them.

Tell them you are not ready for a relationship right now. Give your self time to heal and no rushing- 3 month is too short (my opinion).
Hopefully both of them will understand and find their way.
Not sure dating/marrying anyone in your estate is the right thing unless the guy plans on moving out.

If he starts getting some skin infections, rash or something that won't go away, then it's village pple at work.

emmydee:
It is not every species of snake that you kill and hang on your neck. This particular snake is very poisonous! Everything about it is poisonous even after death!

Well done...it is well @ post the entitlement has eaten too deep to the extent most in African society don't know that at some point in life and time, it's every man for himself.

No, your brother or sister or family member's money is not yours. Siblings, by grateful for little or nothing and forge your own path.
Help your aging parents and that should be enough.

cruchenutii:
Yea, the poster's brother doesn't owe him anything. This is not even about pussy power.

People need to get their asses to work. It is the duty of the parent to cater for their children & not the brother.

It is this mindset that makes the First Born of the family go through Hell & Pain carrying the burden of the whole siblings instead of worrying about himself.

Your brother's money is not yours & this sense of Entitlement has to stop.

That herbs and African food he is drinking and eating must be good because of his feelings of being in his 30s.

Just saw the meal at his 91st birthday-
Elephant, buffalo, Sable antelope, impala and lion (the king)

Our own father Abraham...oh well.

Don't mix business with pleasure.
Make it only business no intro or plan to meet.
Don't make the place itchy.

Look at how my friend the Americana actor spoiled his body with fair and white-smh

I think you are having buyers remorse because you are feeling she can't give you a child.

.

@ No Longer grow as tall

Please where can I buy this book? @ naptu2

He wants us to break it down. ...oga increase the money...double it and get ya first class treatment as in- food in executive broken plate.

Queenext:
As in the pot?

What of if the food is "EBA", would she bring the whole pot of soup,and allow u to eat to fill,and return the rest to kitchen?

Oga,the food she cooks is small

Good-you can see the other side of things. Very eye opening right? Don't you just like it that if you must fart, it mustn't smell ?
Marry for the right reasons and make sure you have money most are going to stay until you go broke Financial security is very important though African ladies are too patient with brothers.

Imagine the abuse the poor woman faced in her home. Tell us the real words you guys used...on her because she doesn't come home on time. They are really helping their brother - such interference because bros doesn't know how to keep wifey in check. Op, you tried and need the best younger bros of the year award.

EfemenaXY:
Okay.

I’m done with this thread anyway.

That's what happens when parents have too many children. The female child in such homes look for way out. Op should have used condom. Anyway, you can't run away from life...this is life for you now so accept the responsibility. If you have been romancing, kissing and making love to her, why not settle down with her?

jashar:
When females say they don't have anywhere to stay then resort to staying in a dude's house, it makes me wonder whether they came from thin air.

You dont have to marry her. Send her out of your place and be responsible for the upkeep of the baby if she's pregnant.

Can you imagine he exchanged words with his mom whose anger was brought about due to hardship ?
I pity the poor woman.
The reason why I like how they made sure you are an individual and on your own in western world. See---smh

Caseless:
you've cursed yourself by ever thinking of raising your hand against your mom.

Short-tempered my foot. And you have the guts to tell us you got that rubbish from your dad .

Go on your knees and plead your mom for forgiveness, or you can never get it right in life. Do that before it is too late.

Whenever she's mad at you , leave the house. Park out of the house. She'll come looking for you.

How much did you give her or contributed for your feedings this month?
I just hate this type of entitlement of someone over 18yrs.
You should just come home and jejely go to sleep. Eat her food only if you are given. Best still, move out if you are over 18yrs.
Nigerians, take some responsibilities common!
Go get your own small place and start real life. Come visit with bags of goodies for mom. Mama is tired of you taking and not giving back hence her constant complaint.
According to you, your dad plunged her into hardship and you want to beat her on top??
Jesu onye ebere!!
Qui?