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Oh good Lord!!
I month worth of semo at a setting?
Nice one. Was that ogbono soup ?

funlord:
Enjoy some home made semovita and veggie draw soup while you reminisce!

No thanks. Not a fan of preserved vegetables.
enjoy yourself while I manage w/ kale as my Ugwu and baby spinach as my efo

Collyno82:
really will preserve It for u, till u come back

I'm surely missing nig vegetables soups.
Hit that soup with plantain amala.

Collyno82:
cheap vegetable soup. buy pumpkin is cheap now full market. buy stockfish 120 naira, buy meat 150naira n kpomo 50naira. ur soup is almost done. there is oil, pepper,salt n crayfish in the house. am done after 5mins. taste it. it taste good.

Lucky them... and too bad for tax payers...it is a tough world.

Richy4:
Well in Australia, they give $600 to unemployed youths fortnightly..Most of us get mad seeing where our tax money was going ...I assume that you are not a US citizen yet....why not ask them

Well there is no free money here. A graduate with no job gets free money ? Not in this country. Many are loaded with students loan fresh out of college. And they go back living with their parents. Somehow different because parents here don't have many children and maybe still working. So they got food for you to eat while you go about your job search. But will soon remind you to get your act together

Op, please keep searching and never give up.
Parents should stop having too many children.

Richy4:
I do not agree with you @ bold...there's no correlation between poverty and manliness....People don't brag about poverty...enduring poverty does not show that you are manly....The dude is depressed...In a sane world, unemployed youths got paid some stipends...I mean that's where most tax payers money goes to...

Do you know what would have happened to unemployed youths in Australia, US and UK and other parts of European countries if their government ignores them? There are high rate of suicide in some of this nation, so can u imagine when they were unemployed and broke..when a nation got the services of a suicide hotline in place, Does that mean the majority of the citizens are not manly?

What he is passing through is temporal which he will use as a story one day...the funny thing reading this is that he hasn't done NYSC yet and he is like this.... there's still much more waiting period for him.

Coco, hi lady!

cococandy:
I am

@armyofone. Hi

Babes, I'm good thanks. How have you been too?

Miss reading your posts. Glad to have you back
where are the other ladies?

EfemenaXY:
I'm enjoying this.

More please...

Armyofone! I see you girl. How've you been?

Long time babe

Lol, at DIY kit.

KanwuliaExtra:
Or use my "do-it-yasef" kit!

Ummmm, garri ?

Op,
Financial stress between couples isn't funny. Roll up your sleeves and help at home, keep up your games and work harder to get a job.

YahooNEWS

Associated Press VideosMayor: 1 Doctor Dead, Several Fighting for Lives

New York City's mayor says one doctor is dead and several others are fighting for their lives after a gunman opened fire at a hospital. (June 30)

Doctor who killed 1 at NYC hospital was 'aggressive'

Colleen Long and Larry Neumeister, Associated Press

Associated PressJuly 1, 2017

NEW YORK (AP) -- Dr. Henry Bello proved a man of his word.

After he was forced to resign as a family medicine doctor amid sexual harassment allegations, he threatened his colleagues. He said he would kill them.

On Friday, Bello returned to Bronx Lebanon Hospital with an AM-15 assault rifle tucked under his white lab coat and opened fire in his old department, killing one doctor and critically wounding six other people at the hospital, according to law enforcement officials.

Bello then shot himself, and staggered, bleeding, into a hallway where he collapsed and died with the rifle at his side, officials said. A photo showed the doctor on a blood-spattered floor as police stood over him.

Now, detectives are trying to piece together what prompted Bello to snap two years after he was forced out, and whether he was hunting for someone in particular when he went to the 16th floor and started shooting.

ooting.

"There are many, many details that we're still putting together," Mayor Bill de Blasio said, adding that terrorism was not involved in the attack. "This was a horrible situation unfolding in a place that people associated with care and comfort, a situation that came out of nowhere."

His former co-workers described a man who was aggressive, loud, and threatening.

"All the time he was a problem," said Dr. David Lazala, who trained Bello as a family medicine doctor. When Bello was forced out in 2015, he sent Lazala an email blaming him for the dismissal.

"We fired him because he was kind of crazy," Dr. Maureen Kwankam told the Daily News. "He promised to come back and kill us then."

The Daily News reported Saturday that it had received an email purportedly from Bello about two hours before the rampage.

"This hospital terminated my road to a licensure to practice medicine," the email said. "First, I was told it was because I always kept to myself. Then it was because of an altercation with a nurse."

He also blamed a doctor for blocking his chances at getting a chance to practice medicine.

People described a chaotic scene as gunfire erupted, spreading terror throughout the medical facility as employees locked themselves inside rooms and patients feared for their lives after hearing an announcement warning of someone in the building with a weapon.

"I thought I was going to die," said Renaldo Del Villar, a patient who was in the third-floor emergency room getting treatment for a lower back injury.

Shortly after receiving a 911 call about an active shooter, police officers went floor by floor, their guns drawn, looking for the gunman. Fifteen minutes later they confirmed he was dead in the building.

Bello may have doused himself with an accelerant like gasoline and tried to set himself on fire before shooting himself, officials said. Sprinklers extinguished the fire.

The officials were not authorized to discuss the still-unfolding investigation and spoke to The Associated Press on condition of anonymity.

According to New York State Education Department records, Bello graduated from Ross University and had a limited permit to practice as an international medical graduate to gain experience in order to be licensed. The permit was issued on July 1, 2014, and expired last year on the same day. Family medicine doctors handle more routine cases, such as coughs and sprained ankles.

Bello also worked as a pharmacy technician at Metropolitan hospital in Manhattan because he was having a hard time getting licensed as a physician, but quit the job in 2012 and filed for unemployment, according to the lawyer who represented him on appeal in 2014. He lost his case. One former colleague at Metropolitan said he would frequently argue with nurses and bristled at being told what to do, but his attorney in the unemployment action said that's not the man he knew.

"I'm absolutely shocked," attorney David Wim said. "He was such a nice gentleman. He was very humble, very polite, very respectful."

Wim said he even jokingly suggested to his assistant that she date the doctor, who was unmarried.

But Bello had a history of aggressive behavior. In unrelated cases, the doctor pleaded guilty to unlawful imprisonment, a misdemeanor, in 2004 after a 23-year-old woman told police Bello grabbed her, lifted her up and carried her off, saying, "You're coming with me." He was arrested again in 2009 on a charge of unlawful surveillance, after two different women reported he was trying to look up their skirts with a mirror. That case was eventually sealed.

It was not immediately clear if the hospital was aware of his criminal history when he was hired.

Two surgeons at the hospital told the AP that all six victims were in critical condition, but they were expected to survive. Medical staff at the hospital immediately treated all the patients in its emergency department. The victims largely suffered gunshot wounds to the head, chest and abdomen, they said. The most seriously wounded was shot in the liver, said the surgeons, who spoke on the condition of anonymity because they were not permitted to speak publicly.

Employees and their loved ones scrambled for information in the horrifying moments immediately after the shooting.

The 120-year-old hospital has one of the busiest emergency rooms in New York City. It is about a mile and a half north of Yankee Stadium.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/doctor-killed-1-nyc-hospital-055503088.html

He should have gone back to his home country.

To each, his/her own. Ummm from afar, peeping and taking a look at the society... I rest my case
Have a good afternoon my friend.

manikspears:
First of all, don't let's get into the issue of aso ebi. I understand not respect your opinion, so am going to leave you and your husband to it.but as for me God will never allow me to come across that woman that will see my parents as additional responsibility in Jesus name. As a lawyer I can advice a man to divorce over the issue (the decision he makes is none of my biz).I don't do fake smile and I'm that kind of man that will tell his wife to let her mum come stay in our house if there is a need. In fact my wife will get more respect from me if she takes good care of my parents but if she is the I don't want my mother in-law type na Oyo she dey o, what I do ,I do after all you hate my family so no problem face your so-called non additional responsibilities called children.if God go punish that kind wife make side chick be person we dey accommodating,your husband don go be that o,you don turn baby mama suddenly

Bros, it is the reality of today's world...if your wife has professional job, children etc I doubt she will be in the position of additional responsibility. A thoughtful husband will not go and bring mom simply because he expects wifey to take charge. What role will you play in the setup?
ps: mothers (both moms) generally so do not focus on mil.
We can't all be doing the same thing. You care for her your own way, I do mine my own way. My way will be getting her care and financial stability in her own environment with her social circle and friends intact. We visit, she visits etc but no permanent living.
By the way, what is aso ebi ? Jeans and t shirt ?

manikspears:
It pains me deeply that you see living with your mother in law as a caretaker job .you are not being fair ,so because your mother in law stays with you,you must go and drag your mother against her will to come and live in your house as if it is a competition.lets upgrade the way we think to make our relationships work,even the so called american's have their old parents living with them so there is no big deal to it.the main reason mother in laws stays with their children is because their husbands are no more,they have no companion,no one to talk to in the house,they suffer from loneliness and i'm sure you are the kind of woman that will never allow your children to stay with your mother in law.and when your mother in law dies now you will be the one selling the aso ebi up and down(commissioner for asoebi ) and will also be forming i love her pass,why don't you channel that strength to taking care of her while she is alive,afterall you will outlive her or no be so?so madam armyofone take am easy o,you can even leave her with the children and go on vacation with your husband without any fear.think positive.

She is working or trading, there are children involved. .. so now my question is who will be doing the care taker job? Be fair and bring in both mothers

manikspears:
Did you ever read the book of Ruth? There is a blessing for women who take good care of their in-laws .as that women has flogged her mother in-law she has signed a very sorrowful ending to her story. Those so-called children will never be useful to her at the end.lady's of nowadays don't know it and that is the reason their lives is the way it is today.you talk of house maid, these days that you can't leave your children with house help,you want to kill the old woman.my dear you are a lady,love your in-laws more than your husband because that is the only way you can win his heart and soul.

Only beat her beat her etc you guys are good at in that your Nig.
If you really love to take care of mom in her old age, best build her a home and hire a care for her, visit and provide for her.
You bring her into you and your wife's home for who to do the care taker job? Your wife has a job and children, plus you and you add mama to it ? Maybe she brings in her own mama too....You guys aren't nice to each other yonder. Possibly taking the stress of having to do it all on mama. NIN, be good to yourselves.

manikspears:
Say what? My advice to the op is to beat her to a level that she will never recover from till the day of her death, maybe na blind eye o or limping leg or broken tooth 2 of the above dey sure,shey be pikin wey no get home training na from outside they go teach her.now to that brother of yours wound am seriously if possible break bottle for him head,pikin wey dey watch him wife dey flog him mama with belt no fit useful again. Break all ties with them.to hell with them .I fit follow you go self.

Please you and your brother should join hands and rent simple comfy place for your mom. She can come visit but not stay permanently.
Two women with hormonal premenstrual and post menstrual "things" under one roof huh, you go beat tire.

Same kind of mindset we have in Nigeria where everyone feels the other person should take charge of them and their responsibilities / take care of you etc.
You're the first born so take care of your parents and younger one, you have money so take care of everyone in the society etc such mindset make more people entitled.
Op made a mistake by making himself too comfortable and I hope he learned his lesson.
Op, have an open mind and be grateful for the little they did. Stay strong and work hard.

@Ify
Couldn't help but laugh at your response.

Sounds like the guy has many wives and children and as such has no time to properly play his role.
Give that child a quality education (if you haven't started already) at this age especially since your wife is there. No any alufa has the magic wand for good change. You and your wife together can do the magic.

By the way, your wife didn't do anything wrong. You are badly stressed up. Please use the gym your body and mind really need it.

Smh, best you walk away if you don't like what you think you are getting than hitting or beating her. She is your wife - she has her own mind!!
Hussy: Babes, you forgot? Okay please can you do it for me tomorrow?
Wifey: No darling you know my schedule is so tight tmr.
Hussy: Alright I will take care of it, kissed and cuddled up w/ her.
Everything mustn't be war and survival of the fittest in Nigeria, must it ??

I don't see very strong/good reasons to own a gun in 2017 when we have so many high tech protections and alarm systems all around for 60 dollars or less per month. I prefer a world where only those in the mil, police, security should have access to gun.
Americans are misusing the privilege to own gun. You argue with wifey or friends, gun. You were fired from work, gun. Not happy with another person or neighbor, gun. You don't like a person, gun. You don't like that politician, gun.
Oh well

Mindfulness:
We have no guns in our house and we feel perfectly safe. I do not know one person in the neighborhood who owns a gun. In fact, gun laws re very strict and by comparison we have a lot less people being killed by guns here.

Good luck to you all in the wild wild west.

They should come do doctor without border to check all those Nigerian men with pot belly that think it is a sign of wealth. Man, its poo in there!! Next time I know my reply when I hear "na rich man"

What about paper and pay pal ?

Justdare:
Pepper is another word we pronounce wrongly.
We say /pe-pe/ where the correct pronunciation is /pe-pa/
/ˈpepə(r)/

@last sentence
And born 7 children wey dey hungry and lack the beautiful amala meal That atarodo stew and hot rice I want jare not anything to jingle the waist.

dangotesmummy:
Bros Sam the amala wey dey ose olohun in bodija na die.odun baje.e make brain die. God bless you.I feel like giving you a hug.infact na this kain amala and egusi wey you go chop and your waist will be ready to work on bed

thank you!

Kakamorufu:
still premier hotel

Look at such extreme filth! That place is not fit for human beings. Just look at the dirt before complaining about mosquitoes. That's their home! ! Leave that place for them!

sisisioge:


You are on your own big guy. You've got to find a way to draft an agreement with the lil guy or forget

I never eat belly full na action you dey think about ? Wah, wah, wah, wahhhhhh

Op, Try to over feed the baby and he will sleep through the night. Get a baby sitter for the weekend and go take care of yourselves.

Please can someone recommend a very good, clean, no bed bugs, high security hotel in Ibadan.

Meaning someone actually ate it right ?

kelz2205:
He never said consume,he said accept..

lordnicklaus:
Na better mess u go release

Wow, what happened?

Pidgin2:
Someone travelled to his village to claim his father's land but he did not return ever again. This man was healthy and strong when he left, OP if you like yourself face front o, just move on

Mindfulness, I understand but the whole thing is becoming a distraction to the purpose of government though. At the end of the day, nothing much but stories.
Four or eight years is not a long time.

Mindfulness:
Becoming? It has become a circus the moment the clown boy Trump decided to run for president.
And yes, democracies are expensive but they are worth it. And if Trump's campaign enabled the Russians to meddle with the very core of the American democracy, which are the elections, the American people and the rest of the world need to know it.

I am 99% sure that Trump and his campaign team are guilty.