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texazzpete:
You destiny killers should stop giving moronic advice to this man! Such wicked, brainless advice.

Lol @ destiny killers!

Elephantiasis- from our pal (Google)

"A tropical, parasitic disease that affects the lymph nodes and lymph vessels"

"Elephantiasis refers to a parasitic infection that causes extreme swelling in the arms andlegs. The disease is caused by the filarial worm, which is transmitted form human to human via the female mosquito when it takes a blood meal. The parasite grows into an adult worm that lives in the lymphatic system of humans"

poster, you have the below at your disposal-
www.google.com
www.webmd.com
Read and enlighten yourself for the sake of humanity.

They used juju to fight wars while the white man fought with guns and exiled their kings. Fast forward to present day, they are still using their voodoo while we watched the world showcase their latest fireworks heralding the new year...recolonization is needed ! Maybe this time it will come with the much needed "great awakening"

1Sharon:
Africans are so stupidddd. The stupid comments here have just left me speechless. I don't even want to bother with this thread.

I leave you all to ur superstition/religion-induced psychosis.

Foolllsss


No wonder some of you were carted away on slave ships and no wonder you were colonised.

Fools

Happy new year @ Mindfulness, Efe and everyone!

Maybe this year, we will be rich enough to get invited to M-largo

Very selfish of him seeing that you are helping him take care of his responsibility of assisting your brother.
Village house that they will fight you for at the end of the day.
Face your life and don't live anyone's dream but your own. You've found the woman after your heart, that is more important than a house you won't live in.
As long as they have a roof over their heads where they are, village house is of a very minimal use.
If ever you think of building one, make sure it is in your name and not his name.

Lmao at your replies.

Very funny how they get work up when Nigeria is called out for something many naijans are good at doing.

EfemenaXY:
Couldn’t have said it better.

Lady peacefull,
You didn't make any mistake by not talking to his family because you don't understand English or the language to communicate with them was the reason. So not your fault - don't feel bad.
You've been together for a very long time.
He used you to to make his stay in Japan permanent.
So it is up to you to stay or leave (he would like that after all you left on your own).
Highly possible he has a wife and kids in Nigeria (maybe before he met you)
He may be taking advantage of your communication problems. 15 years together and never made efforts to take you home - your guy is playing a fast one and smart alec on you...it's so clear sister.
So if you ever become tired and decide to leave him, make sure you do it in court and formally.
Sorry for your experience! Stay strong for it is well.

I wonder! No end in sight for an 18 years old and above adult to behave as one (an adult) and leave the nest. The only thing is whining all over the place.
Op, you are old enough to find your paths in life.

Look at it this way, your mama is stressed up. If I were you, I will stay in school, financially support her etc. Financial burden is wearing off your mom hence your present experience with her.
If mama gives you 50k, tell her mama I have a small job to support so keep the money or give me only 30k. Ease her burden and watch the changes in your relationship.

EfemenaXY:
At 21, he should start making plans to be independent rather than diss the only parent who cares enough to feed, clothe and school his ungrateful bottom.

Waiter, please one shot of bloody Mary for this lady

Simplep:
D time u use in fvcking girls,use it to hustle,u problaby wud hv gone nd come back too.men nd fvck,some don exchange dre brain for toto

It is so sad how things are.
Parents just make love and birth anyhow in African society. No plans, nothing and kids are expected to fend for themselves or first born carry the responsibility.
It is sad that the cycle goes on!

ummm, find laughter in stuff while still looking at the seriousness of it. Just say "alright joke aside, let's get real"

spyroet:
u are just a confusionist what do u take me for A KID?, u dnt even knw what u are saying hw old are u by theway.

There is nothing like herbal remedies with diabetes. Na wah for you. The only herbal you should be doing is buying vegetables and spices.
Common put on your googling glasses and research the best way you can help your mom manage her current health problems.
Start with her daily food, doctor appointment and moderate exercise.

tuazor:
Thanks every one for the response.

Well for the answers, yes she had high sugar level. But that has been controlled. As of yesterday morning her sugar level was about 6.4, which the doc said is a bit OK, Though she is taking the tablet to control the sugar level.

We spent three whole weeks in the hospital, like I said, there was improvement but just as we came home the swelling started again.

Am thinking going herbal but don't really know the way. Or probably, seek a more experienced medical attention which of course I Need clarification on. Or, are there drugs I can buy? Where and how do I get them?

I just need solutions please.

Lucas

Obama, he radiates humility- very humble guy.

Lucasbalo:
Look all the lapdogs waiting for Tramp to give them their independence. You guys will be waiting for a long time. Your problem is not Obama, your problem is your leaderships in Nigeria making a mess of your country. Like your god tramp said, you guys should stay in your huts because we have enough Uncle Toms and Aunt Jemima in America already.

I tell ya, I wonder o

imconfused:
How come it’s only in naija that adulterous women or their lovers die mysteriously?
The ones here are very fresh ,bubbly and live very long sef ..Her husband probably poisoned all of them

Efe, make you permit me with option 2

Pal, during the day time, fetch water from the river full drum and dive inside at midnight for your blessings.

EfemenaXY:
There are no “if”s or “what if”s here. You’re either 100% committed or not.

So which is it?

Very lazy boy I tell ya.
the poor guy is doing the right thing but his lazy child will never understand that.

baby124:
You want to attack your father because you refused to work hard thinking that you are made for life. Lazy thing. You will be surprised by your fsther’s Will. You better go and find work.

Over look that one now eh funlord.

funlord:
What's with the M by your name? I know your a lady from your days in the foreign affairs thread? Correct it!

Well done! Happy holidays! Great meals @ cococandy.
Where Efe and the rest ?
Used to be like you...host this host that...na me-guest no dey dry and na so I spoiled everyone with dishes. My mom would send me native and authentic egusi, better ogbono, suya spice, vegetables etc na my place students like to hang out and eat real home food. They come knocking when I'm studying sef. See marriage proposal thereafter I no dey do again these days i come tire. I still cook for some but not that Jesus Christ and 12 disciples super
Na only the apple of my eyes I dey feed now

cococandy:
Christmas party at my house.
I cooked all of these.

Nigerian fried rice
Hawaiin fried rice
Corn bread
Egusi soup with pounded yam
Meat pie
Puff puff
Turkey
Grape jelly meatballs

I’m tired that’s for sure.

No, it must be shared responsibility among her children. They should take turns. Nobody should shoulder taking care of parents alone.

bettercreature:
You must be very stingy! You shouldn’t wait for your siblings before you do things for your parent beside it’s not suppose to be a shared responsibility.You can only advice them to contribute but don’t wait for them
Give them what you have and leave the rest

Big bird is on weight watcher. She eats spinach salad for dinner.

funlord:
She actually looks like one of big bird from sesame streets relatives. Swagless!

I agree with you. The whole thing is like going to Las Vegas to play lotto-
Let's see if the big businesses will bring their business back home as he said. We will wait to see how the new changes improve small business or if companies spring up like mushrooms.
Merry Christmas to you and everyone!

Mindfulness:
You can go back and make amendments? How? Start another war to justify your high military budget or trigger another economic crisis that does not only affect America but the world? By the way, I thought you were highly indebted and I thought the GOP were the party of fiscal responsibility? How is Trump going to finance infrastructure programs now? And who is going to pay for the wall? Last time I checked, Mexico refused to pay a dime.

I think it will be okay - nobody has the magic wand to really predict the outcomes of the tax overhaul for America. At least if it doesn't work, we can always go back and make amendment.
Hope it helps us break into upper class PDPGuy, Lucas, Mindfulness, and all let's hear a resounding
amen!
Break through is coming downnnnnnnnnnnnn in 2018!!

It is simple oga

Ask him to move out and if he refuses, either you move out yourself or get the cops to move him out.
Oga landlord, I'm moving out next month. So move out if bros doesn't wanna move.

Op, please what does your wife do for a living ? Working, looking for job, buying and selling or stay at home with the little kid? Try empowering her so that one person doesn't carry the financial burden.
Always leave your rent money in the bank.

You are welcome sir.

Now throw the braids come sir.

Akposy:
Thank u ma

Jim Reeves...my mom loves his songs and she calls them "sentimental"

@ post
Rest well Miss Joy.

sholajigga:
John reeves.

the kind of bread you eat with tuna and mayo.
throw that braided bread here.

Akposy:
All thanks to Chef justus for d oven that made this lovely bread. I have upgraded my bread skills.

It's Vanilla milk bread. Come and eat.

cc
Adayoung. the oven was used in making this

too lean...na bone remain to chew as meat on the displayed chicken.

Oyindidi:
The chicken too small

True. One thing too - it is never greener with the other person.

Op, since you all have financial stability and are compassionate, you all should join hands in supporting your mom and last born. Send him update if possible.
He doesn't want to start something he can't finish or continue - it is called life. Everyone can't be the same.

Viking007:
If there is one thing I've learnt in this life is that - You are all You've got, no one owes You anything. The earlier You start living Your life expecting nothing from anyone, the better.

Dreaming of the day Lagos Ibadan express way will look like that beautiful freeway Explorer posted.

Rest well firefighter.

It would have been best if he discussed with your husband who in turn gives you head up about the plan for temporary stay - when are you coming and when are you leaving - madam must know.
Ask your husband how long the guy is going to stay.

everything on the list should be what new wifey will be taking to her new home. You know it would be like doubling the expenses of the new family if otherwise.

PDPGuy:
Well, as the bride is marrying into a different family, there is no need for the groom to give her anything on the list.