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baralatie:
Can we say the decline was because he did not trust the outcome or purpose of the meeting!
All the same

Nasty o!

Yes that's a possibility. Plus Nazis are usually emotionless, stone-hearted pricks . Can't predict what brother is up to.

ibinaboonline:
For the remainder of their lives, the siblings rarely saw each other, but on his deathbed in 1974, Rudi invited Adi to speak to him one last time. He declined.
(More coming, depending on engagement)

Took the rivalry too far. Declining to see a dying brother due to some feud is what one would expect from a nazi German though.

All extremely successful companies at the moment and both brothers should be proud.
Btw;
Nike > Adidas > Puma

UyaiIncomparabl:
Honestly, just seeing his picture on that thread made me lost all interest to take anyone seriously on this forum.

And we are all devastated to hear that.

Performance Enhancement Drugs PEDs.

If you know you know.

Excellent thread.
Not one of them was able to refute the op. Just some lame assrs jokes from the usual suspects and some bullshhitt that's completely unconnected to the main points raised.

Most are beginning to see you as the annoying victim players that you are. Lovely stuff.

richmond500:
what do we do again, carry the world and give to ladies?

Right now people could deny u job just because u are a man, when you apply for some jobs, they will just tell u we are not looking for males.

Men are grossly undervalued but ladies will play the victim cards here

You jest, but that's what they want, more or less. Men should hand over the world to them; men's sweat and blood should be given to them on a platter. And even if we do that, they'll likely still moan and complain that we gave them a world that doesn't look like garden of Eden.

Handsomejok:
Thanks I will take her to motherless home tomorrow morning

Fcckk you man. No, really, proper fucckk you, you fucccking loser. Who's gonna be the next witch to blame when you inevitably turn out to be an even bigger loser than you are right now? Your mum? Your sister? Anyone but you, I guess. Annoying fuckker you are.

bukatyne:
This thread is a testament to fact that you either do not understand basic biology or you just want to incite a gender rubble here.

If you said why are men angry about cheating wives (taking out pregnancy), then your OP might make sense.

The moment you add paternity fraud to it, then your argument lacks no merit.

The day men start carrying pregnancies or switching their bastards outside with the wife's child, we can have a discussion.

And the constant justification of a woman's wrongs because a man does it too is getting stale. Who steals because his neighbor is a thief or he/she was stolen from?

It makes more sense to set the standard you want for YOUR OWN man.

Sucks that women like you make up what, 10-20% of the female population. Few lucky guys usually snap them up. Most guys just have to make do with the likes of the OP and live miserable lives.
Mgtow is surely a more appealing option though.

neyoohhh:


You see this woman ehn, they never mature mentally and very wicked at heart

Too mentally immature and daft to understand that even their children are victims when it comes to paternity fraud. They just keep pushing the extent of their illogicality and shallow mindedness, FFS.

I have said it, and I'll keep saying it, nairaland family section is home to some of the daftest women on the planet, no kidding. When they come up with their usual daft takes, one cannot help but shake his head. Almost makes you feel educating the girl child is a waste of resources, but then about 2-3 of them appear to be somewhat reasonable, so I'll drink to that.

advanceDNA:
Is there a Nigerian man that does not have a tale of a woman or women begging him for money??



I don't get ...are all girls just greedy...or feel it's their right to collect money from any man that says "hello."

Both.
They are exposed to the same opportunities as their male counterparts. Attended the same schools and interviews, but somehow they end up more or less beggers. Kai. Can't make this shittt up.

mariahAngel:
Honestly, I feel sorry for your soul.

Weird you still think I give a damn what you think of me or my soul.

mariahAngel:
Of course, you enjoy it.
I mean, you’re only seen where and when hate thrives.
Never for once have I ever read a positive contribution from you on this platform. Never!

By their fruits, ye shall know them.

This, right here, is the type of compliment I live and thrive on. Never hid the fact that I'm no fan of most female posters on this section. Hate everything they stand for. Hate y'all hypocrisy as it's being exemplified on this very thread.
So I take this comment of yours as a compliment.

advanceDNA:
Oh ..by the way...if this comment somehow find it's way to destroy your bunch of destinies and careers like u claim...I apologize in advance...

Oh, no, no need for an apology. I, for one, absolutely enjoy it when the ladies in this section are riled up and triggered by comments of anonymous persons on nairaland.

Missionaire:
I don't get....
A lady created this:
https://www.nairaland.com/6753146/careers-men-turn-off-lady

Nah, this fact doesn't fit into the "women, victim" narrative. Delete this, bro.

Kola1010:
I am always scared of reading such news cos it might affect the trust I have for my wife

Nah, that's in the past. These days, it only amuses me. . The feeling of being vindicated.

It is the way it is. Women only look out for themselves. They don't even care about their kids the way they want everyone to believe. Always quick to use these kids as pawns in their stupid, petty games without an ounce of care the long lasting damaging effects this could have on the kids. See Tonto Dike. Constantly embroiled in stupid scandals all over the social media. Imagine the effects on her child, especially in the future; the internet never forgets.

My advice to men remains; invest for your older selves. Age 18-60 is long enough time to work and save up a sizeable amount of cash to see you through old age.

Gloriouspraise:
Amitryptilline

This one usually comes with lots of troubles. There are better antidepressants your Doctor should consider switching you to.

Good luck. �

Mleeperbother:
Lmao!
Amiitriptyline that I took 300mg for over a year and no withdrawal symptoms.
Why are they giving you 25mg?
For sleep? Or to control urination? Headache or neuropathic pain?

People respond to drugs differently, the case of the op isn't unusual.

Gloriouspraise:
My reason is , the doctor tells me to take 25mg for two weeks , and when I went back to complain again , he told me to continue with it , I just wish there is something I can take like vitamin c or something simple to cure me of this things that I am passing through , I just want to get my normal sleep rhythm back ,I have been battling with this for 7 month

Like I said earlier, the side effects usually (not always) improve with time and that's probably t
why your doc insisted you continue. However, if the insomnia persists and you are unable to tolerate it, which I think is the case here, you should discuss possible alternatives like switching to antidepressants that are sleep inducing (sedating).
In the meantime, a few lifestyle changes can help;

*Avoid caffeinated drinks like coffee, all these energy drinks, particularly late in the day.

*Get regular physical activity or exercise, preferably before evenings.

I don't understand why you are scared of going back to the hospital, tbh. Usually, at the initial stages, antidepressants present with lots of side effects but they get better with time. If you feel too miserable, however, and can't endure it, you should go see your doctor. Do not discontinue without medical supervision.

Cc Gloriouspraise

Man utd and Barca lost in one night. What a fckking day. I'm gonna sleep like a baby.

This one sweet me die. They got CR7 and all of sudden they think they are equals with City, Chelsea, Liverpool and the European elites.

When the squads are all equal in quality the only differential is the manager. OLE is shitit

Olayetan:
My dear
Would you listen to the word of elders?


Do not move out, your mum is being hard on you cux she felt where you are isn't where you should be, improve yourself in what you do and try place value in your handwork, also try to keep up with the cooking at home, all of this aren't going to kill, in fact, it will build you for your home.


Moving out isn't an option you should consider, don't let her words get to you, she's also pained n doesn't know how best to approach the situation, but don't see it as hatred towards you, just focus on how to improve yourself in what you do and your mum will realise what she's doing to you as time goes on...

Bullshiiitt advice, op, don't take this.

Mum is hard cos op isn't where she should be and that makes the constant insults okay? Do you realize being insulted on a regular basis especially by ones parents can lead to emotional and mental wounds which are usually worse than physical ones?

Op, move out as soon as you can afford it and you have a sustainable income.

LastProphet:
. My younger friend is 45 never married and not missed one bit of fun, he's been rich for over 20 years and obviously traveled more than you or all those that support you. See if you go and ask Don Jazzy in private if he's lonely his true answer might confuse you. Pls there's farrrrrr more to life than that your tiny happy family, my dear some people are preparing for the one-way Mars trip as we are typing so you see is about your background, your exposure. I can bet you have very low ambition like most black people.

Just a genuinely awesome comment, boss, and I agree with everything except the emboldened. Some people do have low ambitions and that's perfectly fine, as far as I'm concerned. Not everyone is cut out for high ambitious pursuits, and some just think is best for their mental health if they lead a simple life.

Jerryherd:
That's cos you have the discipline to trade your addiction for some healthy alternatives.. most addicts are mostly people who lack discipline

Fair enough.

Jerryherd:



You can only trade addictions before you finally end it

Once you make the decision to stop Alcohol, then you must have sleeping pills , depressants or Valium handy for the sleepless night

And to quit tobacco you must get, e-cigar, or any moderate caffeinated beverages or kola handy at all times




.

Not always. You can trade alcoholism/cigarette addiction for healthy habits like exercise/gym, new skills, hobbies, etc. All capable of being good sources of dopamine release.

Op, I can relate with your worries. Quittng alcohol is the best decision I've ever made in my life. The benefits of sobriety far outweighs whatever benefits one can get from alcohol. And yes, quitting is extremely difficult since overtime, one's body get used to alcohol and abrupt discontinuation can lead to withdrawal symptoms which are, frankly, extremely uncomfortable and even life threatening.

I advise you check into a psychiatric hospital, where you are likely to be placed on a detox program (basically some drugs can help reduce the severity of the withdrawals while). You can also join online alcohol help groups, there's one on Reddit.

Good luck, man.