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Am impressed. Sincerely!

kenonze:
Am not too comfortable with the way those men are holding her.

Tah, instead of thanking the men who saved her life; see what you are saying

Okikiki:
@OP
nameerfhtennek:

I must start by congratulating your maturity and calmness in handling this matter up to this point.

However, some facts garnered from the story (your side of the coin) suggests :
1.Your woman never had absolute trust on you hence she broke up with you and entered another relationship

2. You have been having issues with her for a year now which suggests built up aggression which has not been fully resolved.

3.Both of you are yet to understand yourselves which is impacting on your compatibility.

4.I see a situation where none of you listens to each other's needs culminating into latent anger. Any minute provocation revives the same anger and trouble breeds from there.

MY ADVISE :

1. You need to address the trust issue in your marriage. Does your wife have absolute confidence that you are always there for her? You are the head of your home, you would set the tone of what your home should be and vigorously pursue an all inclusive policy.
The lack of trust made her to doubt the veracity of your explanation about forgetting the internet gadget in your office.

2. Find out your wife's pains. It is not all about you. She might be struggling alone, without you noticing her pains. Open up for her to empty herself in you. Then she would have the inner peace which would translate to yours as well.

3. Do not send her packing at all. Bring her closer and forgive her with a very stern warning that she won't be so lucky next time such occurs. Build a bond with her.
No marriage is perfect, it's a whole lot of work from both of you to make it succeed.
However you are the head, walking into the life of another woman might not be the best option for you because you wouldn't know the content of the next woman's character.

Putting all together, he who is forgiven more loves more, as declared by the Greatest Teacher Himself.

It is well.

Read this:
http://www.richardpaulevans.com/index.php/2015/02/09/saved-marriage/

Matured Advice

seunmsg:
According to him, Dudafa had on
March 22, 2010 brought two Skye
Bank officers, Demola Bolodeoku and
Dipo Oshodi, to meet Patience at
home to open five accounts.
The deponent claimed that Patience
was the sole signatory to the
accounts.
He, however, claimed that after the
five accounts were opened, Patience
later discovered that Dudafa opened
only one of the accounts in her
name, while the other four were
opened in the names of companies
belonging to Dudafa.
Somiari added, “The applicant


This woman and her handlers must think that Nigerians are fools. She signed all the five account opening documents herself and she's now claiming many years later that she's not aware that only one of the accounts was opened in her name and the others, in the name of companies she had no interest in whatsoever. But she conveniently used the account up till July this year before they were frozen. It is very clear to all discerning mind that they perfected the dubious arrangement just to hide the identity of the real owner of the accounts. If this is not a clear case of money laundering, I wonder what it is.

EFCC should immediately arrest and charge Patience Jonathan to court for corruption and money laundering. Dudafa should not be the fall guy, patience must be tried as well. There must be no sacred cow in the fight against corruption.

No Sacred Cow kwoo?, what of Buratai?, has be been tried?. For us to achieve anything meaningful in this war against corruption, it must not be one sided!

seunmsg:
According to him, Dudafa had on
March 22, 2010 brought two Skye
Bank officers, Demola Bolodeoku and
Dipo Oshodi, to meet Patience at
home to open five accounts.
The deponent claimed that Patience
was the sole signatory to the
accounts.
He, however, claimed that after the
five accounts were opened, Patience
later discovered that Dudafa opened
only one of the accounts in her
name, while the other four were
opened in the names of companies
belonging to Dudafa.
Somiari added, “The applicant


This woman and her handlers must think that Nigerians are fools. She signed all the five account opening documents herself and she's now claiming many years later that she's not aware that only one of the accounts was opened in her name and the others, in the name of companies she had no interest in whatsoever. But she conveniently used the account up till July this year before they were frozen. It is very clear to all discerning mind that they perfected the dubious arrangement just to hide the identity of the real owner of the accounts. If this is not a clear case of money laundering, I wonder what it is.

EFCC should immediately arrest and charge Patience Jonathan to court for corruption and money laundering. Dudafa should not be the fall guy, patience must be tried as well. There must be no sacred cow in the fight against corruption.

No Sacred Cow kwoo?, what of Buratai?, has be been tried?. For us to acjieve anything meaningful in this war against corruption, it must not be one sided!

Chai

Caisenes:
You're igbo, but your grandmother a yoruba woman brought you up?? Please please please don't try confusing the name checkers o

Haaaaa haaaaaaaaa

Chai Chai Chai

GMBuhari:
God does not send devil to his chosen nation


GEJ was a failure, he's like a skunk and his stench is still still being perceived all over the nation



And for other mumus that'll blame APC and Buhari


How will you restore this nation's economy whose main means of survival is crude oil the price of which is declining in world market and the production has been cut by more than 75% my GEJ's mercenaries?

Oh and rice maize, beans, wheat, sorghum takes at least 4 months and the real cash crops like cocoa, rubber, timber et al takes at least 6 years?


Im sure they will run away from this question

Another Liar Muhammed

ayusco85:
Black and yellow..

Why does black rich guys like marrying fair skinned ladies?

Million dollar question

So that they will have BLACK and YELLOW PiKiNs

OlajumokeBread:
What a weak man
So, a female did this to him and he still calls himself a man.

I will be sleeping and you wake me up to tell me that a woman wants is at the verge of attacking me with a machete, i will wake up, disarm her and give her a dirty slap

Don't decieve your self oooo. She will first of all pretend as if all is well,then put some thing in your food that will make you sleep away. Then while you are in a deep slumber, she will design your body with her Knife.

wowww, this was wayyyyy backkkkkkkkk. Just lying down nd letting the memories roll by.

Solution must dey

Chai, so the Teethful Bokoharem man has finally succeeded in scattering PDP. This has always been his grand plan all this while

HERSLEY:
Sweet dude dah makes me w*t I like his new track little bit more dude just dey fire pidgin English... The animal above me keep hating

Makes you wet eekwa?

kettykin:
Prof Gordian Ezekwe was the person who pioneered the biafran mobile refineries several light years before the world started talking about modular refineries , so effective were the refinery that there was no shortage of petroleum products and there was no importation of petroleum products into biafran soil, biafra powered all its war machines with their fuel unlike nigeria that relied on imports and still till date rely on subsidised Imported fuel.

Biafran engineering invented modular refineries and mobile refineries which the world is even yet to contemplate.

Truly if Biafra had succeeded in breaking away then, they would have become a great Technologically advanced Nation. But Alas!, it never happened!

justwise:
How do you know that?

From experience bruv

soberdrunk:
When Nigerians who do not have the required qualifications to travel to the US Will still be trying their luck like say nah BET9JA........

Na lie ooo. The decision to grant visa lies solely in the hands of the person interviewing you. They give at their discretion. Once they don't like your face, forget it!. I have seen so many people that had even more than the required qualifications but still were denied.
While walking up to them, they look at you and form their impressions. That is why your gait, confidence and the way you answer their questions matters. They are Psychologists.

Chai I remember when I went for mine na so one oyinbo man wey de talk fri fri for nose like person wey dem tie em nose just ask me one question come reject my application. I come shout Ndia eriem ooooo!

progress69:
For the wailers who hapilly invaded this thread thinking they will see something to masturbate about, Sorry for the disapointed. Am dure some of you Ekpas will only read the headline and fly to comment.

Back to the matter;

In 2009 when I became governor of Central Bank, the Nigerian government spent N291 billion that year subsidizing petroleum products.

“Two years later in 2011, N2.13 trillion was spent on the same subsidy, so has our population increased ten fold? It was very clear that this wasn’t oil subsidy; it was a scam.


This is just oine of the greatest heist carried out by the gele wearing woman and her master. Imagine using 25% of this year's budget to finance bogus subsidy claims. Even the most inteligent and unrepentant wailer can never come up with anything meaningful to defend this scam


“This is just on kerosene; can you imagine a country losing $120m every month to a non-existent subsidy on kerosene, and not on the PMS.

This one is broad day light robery. Nobody ever i repeat nobody ecer biught kerosene at a subsidized price of N50 -N55 per litre at any filling station. Just once in a blue moon that NNPC sells at the price at select outlets. who was swallowing all the money?

Today oil is selling below 50usd per barrel for over a year now,everyone is crying economy.imagine we had all these monies in our reserves

God help us

.....and when Jonathan wanted to emove subsidy, where you not among the Ekpas that fought tooth and Nail?

Kenai:
When we kept drumming it to the heads of these dunces that Buhari's appointments have NOTHING to do with merit and qualifications but are based on 3 factors - Tribalism, Nepotism and Cronyism - they went haywire with the usual empty, hackneyed recitation, "I don't care where Baba picks his people from, as long as they PERFORM".
Well, there you have it.
Playtime is finally over, and the grim, depressing reality that these "technocrats" were actually UNQUALIFIED to handle these posts has finally come home.

See, you can never win with nepotism or cronyism. The fates will not allow you. One way or another, your intellectual emptiness will be laid bare for all to see.

When you replace a Barth Nnaji with a Fashola, an Adesina with an Audu Ogbeh, an Okonjo-Iweala with an Adeosun, an Emeka Mba with an 83-year old Durojaiye and a Mobolaji Johnson with a glove-wearing clown; then trust me you have already staged your own epic failure.

This man was running a team of economic illiterates and high-powered dimwits all along, but you piled excuse after excuse to defend the blunders.

Now they're out of ideas and are finally looking for 'experts'...
Wait... You mean these clowns were mere 'office holders' all this while?

Tell me something!

Best wishes.

On point

It's very simple. The EX just wanted to show the efficacy of Okafor's law

How can I ever forget that morning of 2006. I had saved and saved and saved to buy my dream phone, a Sony Ericsson. I had just finished my youth service programme and that particular day, I left my house for a Job Test with KPMG. My mind was so preoccupied with writing and passing the Test that I didn't even notice when my phone slipped out from my pocket in the Taxi I boarded.
I came down walked a few steps and had this feeling that all was not well. I immidietly felt my pockets and realised that my most treasured possession was gone. At that moment, my whole world came to a standstill and through out that test my mind was not even there as I mourned my lost phone. Need I mention that I failed too

Also, to that thief that tore my window net and stole my 80 gig IPOD in 2010, may you continue stealing for the rest of your life!

NFF, Fuji House of confusion

otitokoroleti:
Yes, HOPE is a poultry farmer in Ibadan

Haaaa haaaaaa. Kai laff don kiii me. People get bad mouth here oooooo

Rapum oooo Rapum oooooiga adokaram Dross mooooo

sinaj:
Your grammar chased her away

Um... are u related to Jenifa

Tah, I don see you nah English Prof. ITK

Simply lovely! Cure to a weary soul

The western Nations got better with years while African countries degenerated

I remeber what happened some years back, 2 of my friends took this very fine Absu girl clubbin, got her drunk, had crazy sex with her and one of them even went down on her, licking up every thing like his life depended on it. After just 2 days, one of them was completely unrecognisable. What happened to him you may ask??, well, this young man's cheeks lost its shape and trippled in size. You would think that he was carring 50 liters of water in his mouth. He had to rush to the hospital where a doctor diagonised that his mouth has been infected. He was thereafter placed on serious antibiotics.
To be honest, I had been nurturing thoughts of kpanshin that girl then, but after seeing my friend in that condition, I ran faster than Bolt would have.
LESSON LEARNT: A girl being beautifull and clean does not mean that she is not carrying one STD or the other.

WHOcarex:
Taar!!! Don't mind that liar. Go through her other topics you will see what I mean. She is just a jealous and lazy being. Bitter wicked thing. "worked in a saloon, I have been paying me and my bro fee" my ass. Her brother is simply tired of her attitude. Mtcheew

Hmmmmm, bro you mean ooooo