Politics › Re: 2015: Why Ndi Igbo Are Angry With Jonathan – Uko by ashieduplus(m): 2:26pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
petrov10: anyody can claim to be igbo na today ?? Of course. I do not deny that fact. Same same as you. Who knows if you are really Igbo or even Nigerian. I have nothing to gain by |
Politics › Re: 2015: Why Ndi Igbo Are Angry With Jonathan – Uko by ashieduplus(m): 9:11am On Jan 06, 2015 |
petrov10: Apc make no mistake about this
Its a done deal already
Do not expect any igbo within or outside S.E to vote for buhari That's not possible
Igbos will vote jonatan come feb
Gej 2019 as sure as heaven  I'm Igbo. Nwannem, I and my house (6 adults) are voting Buhari Speak for yourself. |
Romance › Re: Six(6) Things I Take Into Consideration Before Approaching Any Girl by ashieduplus(m): 8:10pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
So many fickle - minded folks on Nairaland. .. smh |
Politics › Re: Buhari Garners 40,000 Followers On Twitter In 2 Days. by ashieduplus(m): 12:50am On Dec 27, 2014 |
derecho: bros,you maybe amongst the few. .that's if you used your Christian name. Trust me. I live in lagos. People are really tired. Most of my friends voted Jonathan in 2011. So did I. In hi d sight if it wasn't my worst ever decision then it was a close second. I don't have a xtian name by the way but I'm Igbo, Delta state. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Garners 40,000 Followers On Twitter In 2 Days. by ashieduplus(m): 11:51pm On Dec 26, 2014 |
derecho: Just checked.Mostly muslims from the North and South West.Some few Christian names who just registered on twitter.Anyways,different persuasions. I honestly beg to differ. Been on twitter for more than a year. I followed Buhari days ago. So did all my siblings and friends. We are all southern Christians by the way. |
Politics › Re: Presidential Popularity Poll by ashieduplus(m): 11:48pm On Dec 26, 2014 |
GMB |
Politics › Re: Jonathan Has Performed In All Sectors - Sambo by ashieduplus(m): 11:14pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
expert1000: Haters tak it or leave it, GEJ till 2019.We cnt risk Islamisation of Nigeria.Buhari boys boko haram hav drain his bank account, daz y I had 2borrow 2pick his nomination form Stop taking hard drugs. They are detrimental to your mental health. |
Politics › Re: Photo; APC Vice Presidential Candidate Campaigns For Vote Inside BRT Bus by ashieduplus(m): 10:20pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
luvinhubby: Obviously you failed in the comprehension, cos the prof. was hawking(soliciting for voter patronage) inside the brt bus & that, my friend, is against the law. Dear luvvinghubby, Please justify ur assertions with proof, showing the relevant acts of parliament/laws. A concerned Lagosian. |
Politics › Re: Photo; APC Vice Presidential Candidate Campaigns For Vote Inside BRT Bus by ashieduplus(m): 10:20pm On Dec 25, 2014*. Modified: 10:50pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
luvinhubby: Obviously you failed in the comprehension, cos the prof. was hawking(soliciting for voter patronage) inside the brt bus & that, my friend, is against the law. Dear luvvinghubby, Please justify ur assertions with proof, showing the relevant acts of parliament/laws. A concerned Lagosian. |
Politics › Re: Northern Pastors Endorse Osinbajo’s Nomination- Guardian Newspaper by ashieduplus(m): 2:42pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
chukwudi44: The umbrella body for xtians in Nigeria is the Christian association of Nigeria. Anyother body is fake. I can assure you that this organization is fake and is not registered CAN are on their own, my brother. No serious minded xtian pays them heed anymore. Besides, on that day CAN will not be there to force people to vote for PDP. Xtians and Muslims alike are tired already. |
Politics › Re: Northern Pastors Endorse Osinbajo’s Nomination- Guardian Newspaper by ashieduplus(m): 2:38pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
Nonybb: ATTRIBUTE AND CHARACTER OF A BUHARIST
If you are a Buharist...
¤You must be a Northerner
¤Your religion must be Islam
¤You must hate Jonathan without concrete cause
¤You must be violent and an anarchist
¤You must be abusive and might have called Our President shoeless, clueless and Otuoke drunkered
¤You must have covertly loved Boko Haram when they started newly but now hates them because you have that conception that GEJ is culpable (In other words, you must be a former sympathizer of Boko Haram)
¤Your Party must be APC
¤You must/might secretly love Sharia
¤You might partly be unexposed academically
¤You must have a Born-To-Rule Mentality Syndrome
¤2015 might be the year you will first kill somebody in your life due to electoral disfavour
¤You must have blamed GEJ for too much rain this year
And lastly,
¤You must hate and insult me for telling you this #TRUTH My name is Azuka. I'm a baptist. I'm from Delta state. I support Buhari. |
Family › Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by ashieduplus(m): 8:40am On Nov 24, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: After reading a friend's latest entries in her diary, I thought about writing my "closing" arguments on friendzoning and "nice guys finish last". I decided that it isn't worth my energy right now. But I'll say the following and leave it at that:
Friendzoning is an act of selfishness. This is because love is beautiful when you're the recipient. When someone loves you, they make you a very high priority in their lives. You benefit a lot from that. They're always there for you. You can count on that. If you have any kind of need, they will be right there to stretch themselves and provide it. But here's where it gets tough: love is vastly expensive to the lover. The lover spends a very difficult kind of currency - themselves. Where do you replenish such expenses? Only from other people who love you in the same degree.
Now, someone is spending themselves on you and you enjoy that. But you would rather not spend yourself on them for whatever reason is applicable to you. What do you do? Call Love Friendship and invent arguments for why they should keep up the expense even when it kills them to do so. That is what makes the Friendzone issue difficult to leave alone. Those who have been drained like that tend to be cynical about love and the value or worth of fellow human beings.
About the "nice guys finish last" matter, I have only this to say: like attracts like. If a woman is attracted to men who do not respect or value womanhood, it says a lot about her not just about men who do respect womanhood. If a woman wants tough guys who are all about swag and money and bachelor pads, whatever she says about them being real and all that, it means only that she is not very interested in motherhood and stability. You want to live the life of the club and spotlights, you don't belong in the home, the kitchen and the bedroom and nursery. It's that simple.
When a man or woman is ready to take on life, they don't look for fast-moving stuff, they look for deep roots. And if they have spent their youth running around and jumping on every train headed south, well they have the consequence that they will not be very deserving of any kind of love, to say nothing of a good man's or woman's love. Forgiveness exists to ensure that they can be rescued but it is not something they have any right to. So if you're a nice guy and the flashy girls are giving you the cold shoulder, move on. Don't complain. Simply build yourself a life you can be proud of and you will have your own pick of women. Don't be bitter about other people's choices even if they hurt you. Just free them and thus free yourself to breathe, to live, to grow and become everything you can be.
Addendum: I realize that there is a conflict about the definition of "nice guys". I have only this to say about it: there are dull guys, there are players and there are decent men. Dull guys are boys who have not acquired the, er, "balls" to take on life. Players are the typical bad boys. Decent men are the "nice guys" in question here. Decent men make homes. They tend to keep long relationships so whenever they're in the market after their first time, they aren't nearly always the most polished. They place their women very high on their priority list because they understand gow critical the role of womanhood is to a man. You don't generally find them in clubs, not because they don't like fun but because they have moral boundaries. You won't meet them at strip joints unless they're on a break from decency. They aren't regulars at pick-up bars and restaurants because some things tend to be overdone. A decent guy is simply a man with boundaries. He does not live on a constant high. He is a centered person and does not chase thrills as a matter of course. That's the nice guy here. If you have any other definition, it doesn't apply to my arguments.
There, have a nice thought or two now.  God bless u. That's all I can say.. God bless u. |
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Phones › Re: Nigerian Twitter Users (Tweeps) Thread - Let's Follow Each Other by ashieduplus(m): 11:08am On Jan 02, 2014 |
@AzukaChiemeke1 |
Christianity Etc › Re: Speaking In Tongues by ashieduplus(m): 1:24pm On Nov 02, 2013 |
There are some funny facts about the Azusa revival which the pentecostals lay claim to as thier origin.
1. When the "revivalists" received the "gift of tongues" they actually thought they were speaking real earth languages. So where did the argument of angel-speak come from?
2. Subsequently, pentecostal congregations sent out missionaries armed with these new tongues to evangelize the far corners of the globe. After all, some of them could speak Cantonese, right? Wrong! They failed woefully.
3. It was only after the evangelism debacle that pentecostal theologians began to talk about Angelese, private prayer language and their other pet deceptions. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Speaking In Tongues by ashieduplus(m): 1:08pm On Nov 02, 2013 |
Shdemidemi,
I'm with you on this one. But please realise that no matter what you say these tongue speaking xtians may never change inspite of the evidence. All we can do is tell them the truth in love so we can absolve ourselves @ the judgement seat of Christ... I was a Pentecostal up untill February this year. Then I stumbled upon an article on the interet that shook me to my foundations. After prayer and much crying God led me to the truth. Now I am simply a xtian, nothing more. Whatever the case we must keep fighting against all these dangerous doctrines e.g. Word of Faith, Tithe paying, prosperity gospel, speaking in tongues, holyghost fire prayers, special anointing, e.t.c. God be with you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Speaking In Tongues by ashieduplus(m): 3:46pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
I have spoken only once on Nairaland about speaking in tongues, probably because from experience I know that people hardly ever change their beliefs, more so when these beliefs, however erroneous can be backed up by experiences and not by reason. I have been there before, you see. I have spoken in tongues, prophesied, sown seeds, been slain in the spirit... name it. It was only when I began to STUDY the bible in detail, putting my education to good use that I discovered the truth. Now that I know better I count all those things as loss. Now, for those who use 1st Corinthians chapters 12 to 14 as their excuse for engaging in this unbiblical practice, please note:
1. When a word (like "unknown" in 1st Corinthians 14 vs 2) is italicized in a translated work such as the bible, it means such a word was not in the original text but is added for clarity. In other words, the word "unknown" as used in 1st Corinthians should ordinarily not be there but was inserted by translators of the KJV 1611. No wonder in the NIV translation the word "unknown" is absent in those same verses.
2. As part of my course in the university, I studied the evolution of the English language and can authoritatively say that "tongue" as used in 1611 was just another synonym for language. However, it was more specific as it con notated "dialect". Therefore, what the translators wanted us to know was that any language the corinthian xtians did not understand was simply "unknown" to them. While this was clear in the Greek, we English speakers would have found it difficult to grasp, so the learned KJV translators inserted "unknown" to make it easier for us. It is unfortunate that much of christendom has stumbled over this single word. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: First Bank Graduate Trainee Recruitment From May 16-30, 2013-apply Now!!! by ashieduplus(m): 3:34pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Please, has anyone else gotten the second invite for the assessment in lagos? |
Romance › Re: What Do You Think Of This Wedding?(pic) by ashieduplus(m): 11:50am On Oct 26, 2013 |
Tarzan/George of the jungle... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Should Pastors/ministries Sell Their Books And Messages? by ashieduplus(m): 4:14pm On Oct 19, 2013 |
The funny thing is that i have learnt more scriptural truth from nairaland this year than from books I read for years... you all should even be asking what is being taught in these books and materials. So much heresy is being taught today. Indeed the Christian bookstore is one of the most dangerous places for a.Believer to visit. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is The New Testament Rightly Labeled New Testament? by ashieduplus(m): 7:27pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Bidam: Jeremiah said it in Jeremiah 7:22-23. Listen to what the Eternal inspired Jeremiah to write: “For in the day that I brought them out of the land of Egypt, I DID NOT SPEAK . . . OR COMMAND them concerning burnt offerings and sacrifices. But this COMMAND I GAVE THEM: ‘Obey my voice . . . and walk in ALL THAT WAY THAT I COMMAND YOU, that it may be well with you.’ ” There you have it.The 10 commandments was differentiated from the sacrificial laws.  Bidam and scriptural engineering ooo Abeg where did u see ten commandments there... ? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Anti-tithers Are Playing On The Intelligence Of Nigerian Churches by ashieduplus(m): 7:42pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
Candour: The scriptural gymnastics on this thread will make professional gymnasts and contortionists green with envy. The following are some 'wisdom' poured forth on this thread 1.Jesus was a Pharisee who paid Tithes 2.Melchizedekal law of tithing is the new format. 3.Paul explained how to drop Mosaic Law of Tithing and pick up Melchizedekal tithing 4.The Mega rich pastors are the conclusive evidence that Tithing works 5.Pastors took over the privilege of the Levites I believe more will pop up The extent to which these guys are prepared to go in order to perpetuate this fraud beats my imagination. ... There are none so blind as those who will not see. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Anti-tithers Are Playing On The Intelligence Of Nigerian Churches by ashieduplus(m): 7:30pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
The facts are clear as daylight. Any other interpretation is plain dishonesty. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Anti-tithers Are Playing On The Intelligence Of Nigerian Churches by ashieduplus(m): 7:27pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
@Mko This is part of the reason why ASUU are on strike. Our children no longer understand comprehension passages. Paul used Melchizedek as a simile for Jesus. It was just .a comparison. No wonder he says "another priest" in that Hebrews passage. Besides, I have studied that passage in Several versions and analysed it (using my training as an English graduate/linguist) and I am pretty sure that Jesus is not Melchizedek. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is The New Testament Rightly Labeled New Testament? by ashieduplus(m): 7:19pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
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I agree with you... The true start of the Nt is Acts Chapter 2 because that is when the Holy spirit is given. I observeved this earlier this year when I began studying my bible without denominational bias. Much of what we've been taught in our churches is plain error. |
Literature › Re: Fanta, Amnesia And Other Issues by ashieduplus(op): 6:47pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
Tanx. Of course I am. Expect more stories soon.. |
Literature › Re: Fanta, Amnesia And Other Issues by ashieduplus(op): 4:47pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
P.S 1. DISCLAIMER: The above story is a work of fiction. While purely co-incidental, any similarities to real persons (living or dead), places and events are however NOT regretted.
2. For more information on the lecherous antics of SUG members please contact the Students' Affairs Division of your nearest higher institution.
3. The writer of this piece (names withheld) is an Achebe wannabe (currently unemployed), who, under the pitiable delusion of someday winning the Booker Prize, divides his time between writing bland, colourless prose and composing nonsensical verse. In his bountiful spare moments he gossips (over bottles of Chelsea Dry Gin) with his friend and fellow writer, Steven Osiegbu, wooes his neighbour's househelp (Onome) and supports Manchester United. He has never drunk Fanta.
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Literature › Re: Fanta, Amnesia And Other Issues by ashieduplus(op): 4:44pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
But unlike her I never forgot; neither did the stars (the crickets are long dead). I know she did not lie. She simply cannot remember. So I'll let it pass. After all time heals all wounds, they say, except Ibadan tribal marks. I no longer drink Fanta. |
Literature › Re: Fanta, Amnesia And Other Issues by ashieduplus(op): 4:42pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
You want to know what happened? You really want to know? Well, inclining her head, first to the right and then to the left, Christie took a long look down at me (I had knelt in supplication), smirking. Then she took my plea, tested it as if it were a wedding dress, rent it like sack-cloth, then turned and sauntered in the direction of her hostel.
My friend, what could I do? I just knelt there because I was too dumbstruck to move. My heart had sunk like the ill-fated Titanic. All my hopes, my fantasies were shipwrecked. I just stayed there, like Jonah on the shores of Nineveh; like castaway fish rotting at the riverbank. What did I do? I forgave. I forgave her as I got up, dusted my trousers and walked home, blinking back the tears that stung at my eyes (I did not cry, mind you). I forgave her for not picking my calls the next morning, for never speaking to me again. I exonerated her when, on hearing the tale those clowns in Room 19 turned me into a laughing stock until my graduation. I gave excuses on Christie's behalf even though she refused to invite me to her wedding (she is happily married, one kid, heavily pregnant with a second). Yes, I forgave. |
Literature › Re: Fanta, Amnesia And Other Issues by ashieduplus(op): 4:27pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
However, one night a week before our final exams, Courage - that prodigal son of mine - sneaked up to me like Nicodemus. In between the old AfriBank ATM and the staff quarters in Campus 2 I brought out my words from their hiding place and said them, wrinkled though they were. I bared my heart before Christie. I told all. A million stars winked that night in admiration of my candour. A thousand crickets chirped offering moral support. And I smiled, just like they do in those Dettol tv ads: "If I don't take care of her...." |
Literature › Re: Fanta, Amnesia And Other Issues by ashieduplus(op): 4:23pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
Then, Final year, second semester. Time was fast slipping by. Christie and I had remained friends through thick and thin, SUG stalwarts, Ghanaian beauties and nosy matrons notwithstanding. But Christie said nothing. And I kept mum, hiding my feelings like stolen funds squirreled away in Swiss banks. |