₦airaland Forum

janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

Uprightness100:
Freeze to me looks like someone specifically recruited by Lucifer to confuse people and Package them to Hell.

The guy is always with one Controversy or the other. Things that have nothing to help with the soul of Humanity and Eternity.

blazingblender:
.fr oluoma
The only priest that speaks for the people
The Catholic Church don't practice divorce
So what is the difference between nullification and divorce kwanu??

Whazar:
Tah!!! I’m not sex starved. Why would I be lucky I got raped?

Edyice:
Get sense na ...

Ododowa ( yoruba) left Nigeria , now they want to join Central Africa or East Africa but Nigeria are now telling not to join .


Will ododowa as a country listen to Nigeria and their commands

9182736455O1999:
Instead of them to blame Putin they are blaming Zelensky.
na wa for Nigerians o

MrLondonder:
brother, that thing is a hut...pirrrriod.. it loook like the kinda hut u can build for 5k (5000 NAIRA) (NO OOFEINSE)

MrLondonder:
SAY WHOT? House or hut? excuse me sir, that looooklike Hut, not house!!!(no ofoeinse)

LeoDeKing:
Reno, go back to whoever is bankrolling you, tell him, portraits of Tinubu will be in all formal organisations and government houses all over Nigeria from 29 May 2023 to 29 May 2031

Also, tell him Nigerians reject okoro.

HenryDion:
You see that region, I fear who no fear them... It's better my son turn to a yahoo boy, or take mpurumiri, than to be a skull miner. Imagine being this heartless at this young age ... I need to start wearing helmet

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?
So you think all this rubbish you wanna apply here will make your marriage succeed. Mtchewww. You're a man. So Man up. I wife should be a helper. So stop this division of labor. If she gives you her conditions. Can you?

Urbanchampion:
People should be encouraged to be vaccinated and there should be great effort at monitoring the vaccinations. Severe punitive measures be put in place against those who may circumvent the process. I have seen where Health Workers collect as little as 5000.00 to issue fake vaccine certificates. Pastors even encouraged their close circles to pay and collect the certificate.

Kingpin1000:
What is the age bracket for Olympics?
How many key players have played I the olympics?

NwaAmaikpe:



For the beams, I understand but expansion joints within a single column?
Damn.
That is no expansion joint and I pity those who believe this fvckery.

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Juliusmalema2:
I doubt that of beating on the buttocks for guys. I have never had erection while been flogged on my buttocks, the pain alone no be here.

Domistar5:
There is nothing like sexualize. This is science and the truth.

Efe42:
Hey guy's I'll just go straight to point..


I started dating her some months back about 4 and now she's about going for NYSC service is there any chance of continue this relationship but I'd love her so much??