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Some girls are funny sha. How can you be drawing debt with someone you've known for a week? And then the next thing will be 'oh he doesn't respect me', How will he respect you when you don't respect yourself? Bb is not for everybody. Some people gather all their life savings to buy one only to find out that the cost of maintaining it is too high. If she can't afford the Bis then why did she buy one in the first place? Was she not paying for the subscription before the guy came along?.
I can't ask anybody for credit or anything because most people(guys) give things with ulterior motives,and i seriously don't want to hear anyone say 'but you were collecting my money' down the line.
If he offers to give,great,but i won't ask. The only people i can disturb for credit are family members.(i wouldn't mind sending 10 pls credit me messages at once to my big sis,because when you disturb them enough,you'll get what you want. . Lol). But a random guy? Haba. . The minute you do that he'll lose any sorta respect he had for you.

Yes. . Had some scary occurences. Mayb i'll put another one up later.
I have no idea whereTensor is-haven't seen him in a while.
Btw-How be? Why the diff username? Were you banned?

malmo:
I think it is pretty bad.What many people does not know is that it opens doors to demonic possession.Most things that people considered fun are actually satanic orchestrated.Bible says one should flee from all appearances of evil.The act also gives room to sexual deviations and all other psychological compulsive disorders, which may affect one sociological orientation.

@bolded,holy shyt! So demons now browse? Just hearing this one oh. .
@second bolded,dude,where are you getting this stuff from? If you think e-flirting is wrong then just say so. Laho,you don't need to talk about demons,and physchological stuff you know very little about. You think OCD is caused by e-flirting? Global warming nko? I'm sure it's caused by e-flirting too. .

koolchicco:
Excuse me! Speak for yourself, Esosa.

You have just lied,Ossy.
Liar,liar,pants on fire!

190,bia nwanyi,why dem ban you?

@topic,people lie. About little things,big things,at work,at home,etc. Everybody lies. There is no such thing as a completely honest relationship.

Roky? Hmmmmn. .
Well. .
Roky was busy

@mds,why did you even answer him sef?
I really wanted everybody to ignore him.

@Reed,but would you hit her? And in public,no less?

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=605312.msg7743037#msg7743037 date=1297881778]Huh? What happened to Banky [/quote]Oooh. . Thaat bf. Well he's good. We actually watched the premiere of his new video on bellanaija on Val's day.

No be curse but i no go translate.
Now you know how it feels when you're writing igbo up and down and refusing to translate.

Jaysus. Mr. Cork sure has a one-track mind.

Lol. . Omolola no vex naa

Okaiee. . E ma te gui(bet you have no idea what that means ). Issues like what?

Me fine too. How's our 'yawo? Havent been seeing her much.

@kc,but i'm not a feminist naa. . My own is hitting a woman is wrong. Period.
Btw-K'abo. How is life treating you?

@topic,i don't condone physical abuse in any way,shape or form,  And hitting her in public? I think for him to have been comfortable hitting her in public,he night've done it in private before. And even if that isnt the case,once a man hits a woman,he will most likely do it again.
I can't really empathize with the wife/say something about some guy tapping her arse because i can't see myself in that situation. And if,by some miracle some Ewobi taps my behind,God help him if i don't cut off that hand that day. But that's just me,i guess. If it hadda been me,i would have set him straight immediately. And if the guy isnt a crazy shythead with no respect whatsoever for women,then we have to ask ourselves,what would have given him that confidence to tap a married woman's behind in public?

@kc,who said anything bout Mrs.C? I havent even replied to this thread properly. Look closely at the reply you quoted and compare it with the reply you posted just before that. Notice anything similar? I said the same thing you did-just tweaked it around a bit to mess with you.
And in any case,have you seen me today?

Omolola my pikin,is there no way you can find out? Like ask him or something? You have to know whether the feelings are mutual or not before you can do anything-otherwise all you'll be doing is talking probabilities.

DEATH!!! I nor talk am?
*singing kefee's 'e dey shack me'*
Love dey shack you,e dey make you hiiiigghhh!!!

Perhaps the panel-beating has been going on between the man and wife at home sef. Who knows? Men. .  eh!

No problemo. .
Here's a sure-fire way to get you to write an epistle:How's your guy doing?
When you get started talking bout him and how mushy he makes you feel,there's no stopping you!
Love nwantiti.

Omolola1:
mo ti gbo e o tosyn
Its a gradual process, i hope i would love him coz he deserves it

You have chosen a wise course,my daughter.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=605940.msg7742013#msg7742013 date=1297871346]@ A

Hey - I just saw your paragraph - you wrote much more than I did and you are calling my little murmurings an epistle?

You better "Jump Back Jack."  [/quote]Hmmph. . Little murmurings she calls them. I was being preemptive. If i hadn't reminded you of your new year resolution,who knows?
P.s-I hardly ever write that much-most times it's not worth the effort,but you,you write ten times as much all the time!

Come shy-one,i thought you repented from writing epistles?

Well then,since you arent sure whether your  ex has feelings for you or not,he shouldn't be an option. When it comes down to it,YOU have to make a decision. If you choose to stay with your bf(and i hope you do),you need to realize that making a relationship work takes effort and hard work,so you have to be ready to commit to your boyfriend 100%. You keep saying you're trying hard to reciprocate his feelings but it's not working. I wanna ask,are you still in contact with your ex? Do you talk to him? Call him? Have lunch/whatever with him? If you're still in contact with him,then how do you expect any effort you make with your current bf to succeed when you're constantly in the face of temptation? Here's what i want you to do-cut all contact with your ex. No calls,no texts,no meets,nothing. Get rid of the old and stick to the new. When you've ended all contact with him,you can start trying to commit to your current bf. Feelings fade with time. If you do all you can to stop feeding your feelings for your ex,i don't see why they wont fade in time. But if you keep seeing  him/talking to him/whatever,i bet you there is no way you'll be able to make things work with your current bf. Give him(your current bf) a chance. Make an effort. Try to make things work and give him 100%. If after actively ending all contact with your ex and making a real effort with your current bf,you still dont click with him,then you can't think of leaving him or whatever. All i'm saying is,give him a chance. He deserves that much.

Why did you and your ex break up in the first place? Did he have some character traits that you couldn't deal with? Did he cheat? Was he abusive? Sometimes having feelings for someone isn't enough-You have to be rational about things. Have the causes of your initial break-up been resolved? Has he/have you changed? If the reasons why you broke up with him in the first place are still there,then who's to say if you give him/he gives you another chance both of you won't break up again? That's one part.
Second,are these lingering feelings you have one-sided? Do you know for a fact that he feels the same way? If you're not sure he feels the same way,then remember that a bird in hand is worth two in the bush.
Thirdly,if you had to compare your present guy and your ex,how would they fare? Would you say your present guy is better/more stable/whatever? If he is,then don't just rush out of a perfectly good relationship for something that might not be the best thing for you in the long run. Yes,you have feelings for your ex,but you have to learn to love what's good for you.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741176#msg7741176 date=1297865405]Where did I saY the GUY SHOULD GET AWAY WITH IT?  Please stop adding poo and it is not cool.  Now you want to change the situations, the THREAD IS ABOUT A MAN TAPPING A MARRIED WOMAN ON THE ARSE and now you shifted to a husband rubbing his cock on a woman.  BUT I AM THE CRAZY ONE, WHAT THE bleep.

Do you have ADHD?  SERIOUSLY.[/quote]Not funny! Adhd is a serious,emotionally draining and frustrating ailment. [quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7741288#msg7741288 date=1297866266]LIKE I SAID STAY FOCUS.  Ritalin is necessary.[/quote]i've been suspecting you for a long time Mama Chimette. You a nurse?

MzGreat:
tile ti lo ma lo mr cork kukuru ku kuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

Cork did you hear?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]What i was/am looking forward too. Many days of blissful nothingness [/color]

I'll drink to that!

blink182:
As sick as it may seem I also sort of enjoy it, no maltreating though just a little teasing. . . this is some funny stuff I guess psychologists have a name for it

Yes,it's called 'psychosis'! @the rest,na wa for all these Boko Haram people sef.

But the girl is not serious sha. Why did she start dating a broke-a**ss man when she knew she had no intention of marrying him? Has she not wasted their time? Everyone you date should be a potential mate. If she knew financial security was a big must,then she shouldn't have started dating a broke man in the first place when she knew she wouldn't marry him.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=605312.msg7736828#msg7736828 date=1297802919]@Atreides
And what about the boyfriend?[/quote]The one you gave me,abi?