₦airaland Forum

HopeVictor:
Na you OP..no be your friend... instead of begging the boy you for find one lie tell am..eg..
1..the door spoil you bin dey try fix am
2..one deadly scorpion pass through the keyhole you were trying to remove it..
3..you were checking for security defaults on the door..
As you no fit keep your eyes one place..

Hashabiah:
Bros I am an African, and I grew up with the idea that running errands for my elders was a sign of respect. So it is a cultural norm in African society which I support 100%. And if my child does not do emulate such, it is a sign he is rebellious and if he is disciplined in the process, so be it

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

HONESTFACT101:
Abeg you fit predict if naija go better......signing out

TheEnygma:
Nigeria: A country with so many talents and no opportunities to show them.... Someone should tell that boy not to be drawing the lifeless one again

dreamzy:
this is amazing! lala comman see a raw talent

adadike:
See what you will do. Be a man for once coz I love real men o. Confront the lady angrily in the presence of your wife and warn her sternly on her mode of dressing especially in your presence
After this, storm out of the house and go for a refreshing drink

Sheuns:


Topic should be how not to finish spending your salary before the next one comes.

Pernotti:
The idea is to maintain your value in her eyes... doesn't matter if she's the messaging type or not.

When you take equal or even more amount of time to reply her, she will perceive you as a person of value who is probably busy with other things. It also gives you an air of mystery, more time to think of a good response and therefore making the convo more lively.

Also remember never to talk to them about it.

bejick:
did you read where he said when he get back. that means he is abroad.

lecturer50:
Please house I need an advice.

Ever since I got a federal government job,

my relatives have been disturbing me for money.

There must always be an issue that involves money which they want me to solve.

Recently, my mom become sick.

They are threatening me that I would be held responsible if my mom dies,if I don't make sure she is cured.

But I have taken her to hospitals, and she is trying to recover.

I do this whenever I visit home since I am working in a state far from home.

Her health challenge is due to old age.

But today my uncle called me that I should resign, get back to the village and personally take care of my mom,

failure of which,if she dies, the whole family would hold me responsible for choosing job over my mom.

Can you imagine resigning your federal job to get to the village and start staying?

The calls, the demands, the attacks are getting too much for me.

Please should I just switch off my phone so that no one can contact me?

I just need advice?

BigDawsNet:
Just love your neighbour as yourself