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I'd advise you pray about it. But has it been this way ever since you got married, or its just a recent development? If it is a recent development then there is a problem some where. Either way, have a heart to heart talk with her and pray. Bros there is Power in the name of Jesus, and having a Godly home where Christ is the King

50 shades of grey, or rather 50 shades of the commissioner. I hope it wasn't for ritual or occultism, this one that she had bruises and blood coming out of her mouth and privates. May the Lord help us and prosecute the wicked.

In the first place, dinning with the devil is a bad idea, he never ever keeps to hos promise and even when he does, there is a heavy price attached to it. It is far better to be a pauper in the house of God oh, far better.

SimonAndal:
I tried really hard to like this, but I can't get past the Nigerian accent. I'm sorry, I just can't. It's a deal-breaker for me.

And what is up with the unnecessary slo-mos and the hastily edited jump cuts? Truthfully this is a bad trailer.

Well that is your opinion, but on like most Nollywood movies I have watched, this stands out completely.

butta: @kofsy this is NKan be , as far as am concerned the children should be the next of kin and not the wife. the bible has said it light and darkness should not cross path since your aunt choose to pitch her tenth in the devils den then her problem just began why should a christian lady marry a muslim man for Gods sake ? This is so wrong muslim people vex if una wan vex christian should marry christian and muslim should marry muslim ...

GBAM!!!!!!!

Thank God we have some fine dudes on nairaland, I was begining to worry about the recent pics of some humanbeings I was seeing, and I wondered how such could make meaningful contributions, just thinking!!!!!!!!!!

Speaking of phone, i cannot categorically say whether it is luck, but i believe its just the Mercy of God,coz i lost my BB twice and twice the persons who picked it returned it. i have a bad habit of driving and leaving my phone on my lap when i make a call,and when i reach my destination the phone slips and falls. this has happened twice and the Almajiri(s) who found them returned it, the first one returned it to the family i went to visit while the second took it to his mallam who contacted me to pick up my phone. no one has told me now to always leave my phone in the bag even when it rings

debrief08: If the man of the house cannot solve conflicts like an adult then deal with him the way he acts like a child. I have learnt it is counter productive to reward bad behavior, he acts like that because of the attention he ges from acting out just like a small child does.
He wants to be a baby allow him. Be polite but equally ignore him, when he is done with throwing tantrums and acting like a spoilt child he should come and act like the adult, father and husband he is meant to be.
Why would a grown man be acting like a child and expect to get petted? No wonder marriages keep getting sour, we expect one party to put up with all sorts of things, never have a diffferent veiw or believe. His attitude is bad, he needs to work on it. It is his problem and not her own.
Why should she be the one to beg and crawl because a grown man chooses to act worse than my 3 year old? We keep telling men that they are babies when they are not.

Very tru, even mothers have a part to play here, why won't he be spoilt when he recieves same from his mum, the woman is expected to play the part of mother to both daddy & children.Haba!!! God will judge 'Oh

I am not a football fan at all but permit me to say that it is surpirsing that after all these years and despite the increase in football activites, no one has beat Pele till now, and just one person!

;Good points. Unfortnately most men are not looking out for these. they prefer the ones that are glittering and shining that will show them pepper. Of course it is good to be attracted to the person you will eventually marry but LOOOOOK OUT FOR CHARACTER AND NOT BEAUTY ALONE

The problem with we Nigerians is that we are tooooo mouthy and arrogant. Had it been a Non-Nigerian criticized the Nigerian Police force, we would have been bitter and reigned all sorts of insults, yet here we are reigning insults on ourselves, washing our dirty linen in public. So what if the Nigerian Police is faulty, which sector of the economy is good with the way most people talk on NL one will think they can stand for their rights and fight the present injustice in the country, but alas, they are only good in typing nonsense and insulting each other. How many of you can join the Police force and make a difference?? You are not even Happy we have a little dignity left - another country is asking for assistance from us. Im done here. Keep hating!!

Oooooh IBB, MY Birthday mate. Lets celebrate o' jare ;DOooooh IBB, MY Birthday mate. Lets celebrate o' jare

Im suprised it even lasted this long. It seems Heidi has a flare for old men.

@ OP I think the question is not why do men cheat but Y do women date married men when they know they are married?? what goes around comes around, if you cheat on another person's husband, yours will cheat on U also, its a two way thing. I agree that most married men cant help cheating, but we women are encouraging their promiscuity toooooo!

@swiftlycool. Thanks

I happen to be one. Thanks for the compliments! it takes ONLY the Grace of God, as there are so many challenges. Lol

India bids farewell to ascetic revered as a 'living god'
By Harmeet Shah Singh, CNN
http://edition.cnn.com/2011/WORLD/asiapcf/04/27/india.spiritual.guru/?hpt=T2#0_undefined,0_

I thought a God was supposed to live forever?

Why are they all of a sudden facing out chloroquine when it has been in use for almost a decade! Those artesunate rubbish almost killed me at some point in time until i used chloroquine! Abeg they shouldnt face out anything oh!

This is not a rumor. I saw the Galadima's house on fire. I happen to be on the run myself. I can't even reach home coz of the crises! May God deliver us.

hail to the king, hail to the living word! blessed be thy holy name forever and ever. amen

sweet jesus, sweet jesus how wonderful you are, you are brighter than the morning star, you are fairer, more fairer than the lilly that grows by the way, you are precious more precious than gold. thank you lord for who you are, you are not any other god but the one, only and true god, full of righteousness and rich in mercy and grace. thank you for your mercies and blessings over my life. its not easy lord, infact it is painful. but i just want to stop the grumbling and complaining for once and praise you, and say thank you for everything, even this pain, the plans you have for me that are yet to unfolded, the fact that you have engraved me in the palm of your hands, the promises are too many lord. thank you jesus

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Evang. Misheal
08032729002te][quote][/quote]With what has been going on aroud the world, crises, breaktrus in technology, increase in wickedness, etc, it is enuf for any sleeping christian to wake up. but knowing the day the Lord will come(21st May 2011), is not acceptable to me. coz the bible says no one knows not even the son, So what if it doesnt happen on the 21st??

WE HAVE GOOD ACTORS/ACTRESSESS NO DOUBT, MY MAIN HEAD ACHE IS THE STORY LINES, I DOUBT IF THE SCRIPT WRITERS/PRODUCERS ARE ACTUALLY LEARNERED/LITRATES; NO SUSPENSE, VERY EMPTY INFACT U FEEL STUPID AFTER WATCHING SOME. CANT THE  ACTORS PROTEST
ALSO WE NEED MORE VARIETY, AS IN IM TIRED OF SEEING THE SAME FACES ON EVERY MOVIE, AS THE MOST POPULOUS COUNTRY, I FEEL THERE ARE SOME UNTAPPED RESOURCES.
I LIKE NAIJA MOVIES BUT IM ALWAIZ DISAPPOINTED AT THE END OF ALMOST EVERY FILM. AND THEN THE ISSUE OF "WANTING TO BE AMERICAN" JUST DOESNT FIT MOST ACTORS.

KUDOS TO YORUBA MOVIES!!!

WE STILL LOVE THEM THOUGH!

thanks y'all, i just got my cook book! im sending to those who need it. very grateful.

Pray, and pray hard, one thing i know is infatuation evaporates after sometime. Give it time and space and see if the feelings are still there. Love is neither obsessesive nor possessive, its a situation where u are loving someone and yet in control of your senses, not wondering in dreamland coz the day u get married, believe me, U will key into reality. then what look at it this way, when the chips are down, will those feelings still be there? when (Godforbid) she has an accident and looses all those essential qualities u like, will those feelings still be there Love is everything the Bible says it is, so are u ready?

Truly mine has been on and off, today im very hot and the next im so cold i cant even pray, over the years God has exposed me to alot of hard teachings-discipleship classes, but i dont seem to be able to sit up, im so complacent and distracted and i dont know what else wuld make me sit up! it is a slippery path im treading- i know but i just cant seem to radically get up, and the truth is i am very tired of struggling. i just want it to flowwwww naturally, unhindered.

A decent lady must pass through good home training else she will be wayward

Even that one is not a guaranteeee, though a good foundation, its just serious prayers these children need, coz the rate of external infulence is growing at an alarming rate. in the past those things that were seen as bad or too exposing, today it is acceptable and normal. Music, films, dressing, even Homosexuality will soon be equally accepted just as sex before marriage is seen as normal and acceptable. it is just a matter of time,

Giving is a personal thing, the Bible said dont let your right hand know what your left is giving and vice-versa. People should give IF they feel led to and selflessly too without expecting a reward. it baffles me that people dont live with their personal convictions anymore, rather it is about what the Pastor says, it seems the voice of Pastor is heard more than that of God. its like God is a money spinner and the motives for giving is not pure. So what if GOD DID NOT SAY YOU SHOULD GIVE YOUR SALARY AND PASTOR SAYS YOU SHOULD? WHICH WILL U CHOOSE BUT HOW MANY OF US ARE ACTUALLY HEARING THE VOICE OF GOD SEF? END TIMES!!!!

There's hope for this country. God will do what He pleases with or without your prayers. Most times things really have to get bad to get good. Ill keep praying 4 His will in this country. GOD BLESS NIGERIA  , THERE IS HOPE!

Brethren, just to encourage you and not so u feel i am discrediting daily guides, they are very important, but let us strive to hear God from His word, that is to say, allow the Holy Spirit Guide you through the word, let it be like a devotional, U will discover that He will reveal alot to you as a person. im working on that too. The Lord is our strength.

Ive been reading the posts with keen interest, and i feel i should chip in a little. we have reached a period where " the more U see the less you understand" and the Lord knows those who are His. Criticizin men of God isnt wise! just play your part as a christian. We are in the last days, so we must be careful and take heed. Each of us as individauls make up  the the body of christ i.e. the Church, and not some Auditorium. So arguing about these things isnt wisdom.
One thing i know is that God will do His work with or without the cooperation of any man. He can raise an army out of dust to feed the poor and evangelise. U just do your part as a christian, and leave God to Judge!!!!