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Herodion: chai! 4:30am? o boy make i go sleep jor. Nairaland, you no go kill me *yawns like a dog*

na wa o!

Those pants too tight na

It is well with you.

Na mtn I dey use o! Tanx

How pesin dey send PM sef

Modified: Op gud morng o. Abeg no post pins here o. Send to pple's respective email addresses. Mine is ayoatanda@yahoo.com.

And hope say nor be #100 card u dey dash out too?

Hi sylvyangel, I just sent you a mail. Thanks.

Sylvyangel: i saw d email frm nairaland that u sent me a pm bt i always get a failure notice each tym i try 2 reply it. Pls cn u send it angelsylvia60@yahoo.com. Thanks..., the link to her fb profile will be prefareable. Thank you

Wow , this is heartbreaking. Just read through her diary and my heart breaks the more.

Rest in peace vivianc

Cashio: Only he who has not been to the stream late nights and early mornings will doubt the existence of mermaids.why should three women all tieing only white wrappers be washing their clothes in the stream as early as 2:30am....why didn't they wait till we draw closer before running away(dnt wanna say disappear cos of thomases)

Guy, where in the story did you see the bolded part of your post.

Some people ehn..#smh

dis babe you funny o! Oya tell us about it, at least me I wan hear read am

nicky4lif: its finished nau,what else do u want to hear?unless u want to hear about my first time on flight,the landing was an experience I will never 4get but can't share that before some people start asking me the village I come from hahahahahahaquote author=30DB4FA6]Op continue ur story na!!!! Abi e don end for there?

Lolz.. .. The same way I felt when I first moved to Abuja 1999, the first 1year was the most miserable time of my life..I felt like running back to Lagos, even if I could in my dreams..like you .

But I got used to it sha as time went by.

nicky4lif: Good for u but as for me.I can't stay in abuja,infact if I dream nd see myself in abuja i wll make sure I return in same in same dream before I wakeup.author=ayde]^^@nicki4lyfe.. Mayb, but that's when and if I set my heart to start getting used to it.

Me wey dey seriously pray that my hubby gets transfered to Abuja ..I'l just work my own transfer too sharp sharp ..equation balanced.

^^@nicki4lyfe.. Mayb, but that's when and if I set my heart to start getting used to it.

Me wey dey seriously pray that my hubby gets transfered to Abuja ..I'l just work my own transfer too sharp sharp ..equation balanced.

Lolz @ op's story.. , na JJC things jare.

Lagos life is just too hectic and stressful. Lived half of my life in Abuja and had to relocate to Lagos on job and marriage basis but 2years down the line and I'm still not used to the life here and have refused to get used to it!

How Lagosians live sanely in this insane enviroment, I still don't get it .

It's really a small world

Royal Roy thanks for extending your hand of kindness to Baba Oyo...and to think that you didn't know "Alhaji" was a Nairalander who already had an idea who you were!

This just shows that our character, both in the real and virtual world, could go a long way. You never know who the person standing next to you is.

It baffles me how some on here who tag themselves e-warriors could rain insults on another poster just because they share difference in opinions . It may be a faceless forum, but not really faceless afterall.

With RR, you can tell he is a nice guy from his posts. Baba Oyo too, _{to mama oyo and awon omo oyo :p} and that's why they were able to sync in the first place.

Spread the love around!

Food for thought - What do your comments/or posts tell us about you. Think about it.

Wow.. Lord you are indeed great! Been on this thread 2days now and can't believe I read through the 28 pages.

It's been a roller coaster of emotions for me, but all in all, I thank God for your life Serubawon, your precious kids, and wonderful Olori. God turned your mourning into dancing and wiped away all your tears. Praise be to His name. HE that started this good work in you will surely bring it to perfection.

Also prittigirl, after 10years of breakup! It is indeed the Lord's doing and wonderful in our eyes.

To the other posters too who dropped their stories and are going through one challenge or the other, the Lord is your strenght and there's surely going to be light at the end of tunnel..just hold on to the Almighty God of Immortal Creation (Olorun Isedaiku).

I've learnt a lot from Serubawon's life and other stories shared on here and has made me appreciate my spouse more and see life in a different perspective.

@Spoilt, God you are so funny . @Jennykadry..alaye mama .
@CC, our events planner, so full of wisdom .
@Analytical Baba, tuale! You too much! .
Tgirl, Saisera, Ujujoan, greatgod2012, bellong and every other posters , you all have been great encouragement not only to Serubawon but to all.

Uncle Seru, let's know how the thing dey go oh, so I can e-attend the whole jollification thingy .

Congrats and it is well with you and family.

@jimohibrahim..please go ahead, thanks

jimohibrahim: I can tell you guys how behind close door end,so interesting.....anyone interested should let me know.

@freezy..you funny die o! See all the powerful powerful "esi" (reply) you dey give dis boy ..they got me cracking up.

It's very obvious he was just trolling

freezy: Wait o... is that all you could summon as a rebuttal? I was right. Little or no intelligence.

Such that we do not get mixed up and folks don't know who the actual dullard is, I'll stop giving you a response. You may convince me to do otherwise when your grammar is fixed.

Cheers mate.

See peeps dey give my guy songs oh..chai, nairalanders I hail o! Una nor dey carry last..

@ op, sorry you hear. Just pick ursef up, dust ursef, and start all over! O pari.

Eyah ...

So where all dem Ini Edo, Omotola and co. wey dey buy million naira handbags and what not? Ehn..I tire for dis kin thing sef.

Interesting.. . Were you actually driving and taking those pics yourself? ..hmm if yes, o dikwa very risky o!

@Omolola1 ..thanks.

I just began watching Telemundo too and you've done justice to this story. I will start watching it.. .

Anyone to give meq the story so far for Behind Closed Doors? ...it looks quite interesting too.

Thanks.

Omolola1: Aurora is about a lady that died at age 20 but wasn't buried. Instead she was frozen through a process called Cryonics. 20 years later, her father who is the owner of the cryonics hospital found a cure for her illness and brought her back to life without the consent of the medical board.
Before she died, she had a daughter for a young man named Lorenzo but he nevr knew abt this.
She's back to life now still looking 20yrs but is actually 40yrs old and also looking agemates with her daughter, since her daughter, Blanca is 20.
Her parents raised Blanca as their own so she is totally unaware Aurora is her mother.
To cover up her father and save his face, they had to lie that Aurora is d daughter she had. This lie keeps spreadin and spreadin to d extent her step-son, Martin who is a son to her love, Lorenzo is now in love with her.
Now the medical board has given d go ahead for d doctor to bring Aurora back to life.
The lies keep on spreadin and it's becoming annoying.

There u have it, hope I tried

moscobabs: if u try to strike in my company,u will find another person on your seat the next day.One man Business,The owner has the final say!!
But no matter how the owner treats us,at the END, the TIME we spent in the company will be a great THING to remember.

Hahaha ..this got me cracking

Lolz @ fuji house of commotion.
I just had to come back to the thread again oh, cos I'd already exited (out of anger sha )

aadetoyin: This thread has turned to fuji house of commotion! Aha!!!!

So my question is, how did the Op know the unkempt looks of her boss is the wife's fault..even going to the extent of saying the man eats outside before going home because of one thing or the other. And someone is up there talking about assumptions.

You don't know the situation at home so you cannot judge.

In as much as it's expected of the woman to ensure her man looks neat and presentable, same goes to the man - it's a two way thing.

From time immemorial, it's the woman who bears the grunt. Marriage fails - it's the woman's fault. Children turn out bad - it's still the woman's fault. Childlessness in a marriage - the woman's fault. Now husband looking unkempt - again the woman's fault.

It is well with women o!

aniffy4eva: This is precisely my point. Who determines the extent? I'm pretty impressed that she's very concerned about the image of the company and will not let her boss spoil it because of his "marital issues". The fact that she didn't mention anything about contacting the wife also shows that she isn't being meddlesome.

My main challenge with this thread, and largely the forum, is that there seems to be an ideal that we expect everyone to ascribe to just because we do. About being conversant with this section, trust me, i've been around for a while... No be by number of posts o.

My Yoruba folks will say "nkan ti ko da, ko da. Ko loruko meji" which literally means (and I will say this in pidgin) "wetin no good no good, e no get two names".

Bellong has nailed it all.

#exits thread.

Imanuelle: A man returns late from work somewhat tired

he probably gets carried away spending time with wifey then they sleep off

next morning it's time for work

then he discoveres there's no clean shirt left

he stays calm without even trying to raise an issue and probably tells full time housewife to help him wash some others

then he puts on some other shirt and goes to work

in as much as I think the op went too far going with him to the salon, I still think her message should not be ignored

why do women think they're the only ones to be pampered all the time?

Men need that too once in a while

now you all should quit ranting and take the advice

You think he's a man and therefore needs no attention right ?

If you don't take care of him then someone else May

And pray tell me why she has to care for another woman's man? How does it affect her paycheck? Did the boss complain? Does she even know if the man is just plain dirty and has refused his wife's efforts to making him clean? What's her freaking business?

She has no justifiable reason.

You just don't go out and start blaming the wife for whatever. Women don suffer for dis world whr we dey. And to think that she's a woman herself. Still smh sha..

My own 2kobo.

@ Op..and you actually think you are making sense with this your post.

It seems you have lots of free time in your hands at work for you to start noticing every detail on your boss and even take him out for grooming..na wa o.

You had better face your work and life before somebody breaks your head or swear for you..haba! You really have gone overboard. And to imagine the man sef, dey follow you go salon and all that..these our men sha.

Shebi e remain small wey you sef go join league of married women, that's when you go knw wat's up..don't worry I'l" be looking out for your post when you come back on here complaining.

Home wrecker radarada
#and she actually thinks she's making a point sha! ..o ga o!

Efemena_xy: @OP, seeing as you can't help but empathise the 'plight' of married men, why not extend your humanitarian gesture of 'concern' to ALL married men?

I mean, why stop at your boss? What about your average roadside mechanic? Molue driver? Wheelbarrow pushed at the market? Hmmm?

Try to be more inclusive. Trust me, you'll be doing us married women a big favour, since we obviously haven't got a clue on how to 'maintain' our overgrown baby husbands.

Talk about taking Panadol for someone else's headache.

Mtcheew.

Seconded!

I marvel at the replies of some women as regards this post and it gets me thinking

The op was only seeking for opinions and maybe her choice of word - "allow" - was not the proper register to use.

A woman dressing, most especially married, should be modest. You can go ahead and wear your bum shorts and all in the confines of your home, but not outside.

Morally and biblically - as a christian, even for muslim faithfuls, which explains why they cover up with hijabs and veils - a woman isn't suppose to expose her body.

If the husband feels the wife is going overboard with her dressings, jewelries and make ups, he can call her to order. Likewise the wife to the husband too, because they are partners and not in a slave master relationship.

@ ypp, please go easy with some of your comments on this forum. #No hard feelings.

I hold your hands in faith and feel the pain with you.

No amount of words will make you feel better, I know what it means to lose a loved one and your expectations dashed to pieces..been through it.

Allow yourself to grief..if you need to cry please don't hold it back.

The Lord will comfort you and your wife. He knows best so please don't question Him.

In due time, very soon.."your quiver will be full of arrows" Pslm 127:5

It is well.

^^ Thank you CC for this post and God bless you. I marvel at your wisdom on settling issues at times

@ Op..so sorry for what you are going through and I feel your pain too. As a woman I can relate with everything you have said.

Had the same experience with my husband too at a particular dwindling time of our lives and after asking the many "whys" questions and there seem to be no headway, I ignored him and focused on myself and the kids. It wasn't easy but I had to do it..I wanted my marriage to work by all means so the question of divorce was out of it. Now I didn't just assume he was cheating but had evidences of which he didn't deny them.

It all paid in the end because not too long after he turned a new leaf and we are past that chapter in our lives.

You can talk to your husband and also be sure he actually is cheating on you before taking any further step.

Above all, pray.

Prayer can change situations.

You are in my thoughts.

lwtmb with all these comments, chai

Airforce 1, why you sef con dey yeye ursef like dis? With your many records of "dissing" people on this forum, you think say you go get positive response with this your post ni?

Anyway sha, what I see in your pix is no 6 packs oh..truth be told..na ribs like someone said

Tellwisdom

Mbeketoto

Royal Roy: Lwkmd.....I didn't even think of it.

May be true o!!! Make I start my ministry then......Royal Roy Ministry For Women affairs!!

Don't mind the guys, too many skeletons in their cupboard!!

You want them to declare that they are single here when madam sef dey on nairaland?

Or married when their e-girlfriends know their usernames?

Very funny

Honourable Minister for Women Affairs, I troway salute o!