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I really appreciate the information in this thread. It really helped me when i felt alone in my journey to deliver in the U.S.
Thank you everyone.

For those of us that would be going to Atlanta Georgia, Nigerian Consulate, please reach out to me regarding Notarizing your documents.
You can let me know the day before your appointment. I will be near by most of the days, but for my Nairaland family, I will give good attention.

Congratulations for your bundle of joy!
Everything is quite straight forward, don't fret, you're doing great already.
And if you have questions please let me know.

I’m interested. How can we contact you?

Spectranet is quite stable and fast enough. The problem I have with them is their system update in the middle of the night when I work and they don’t have coverage insome areas like where I am presently in Abuja, I have to use mtn.
Mtn’s data runs down so fast but it’s as though monks count is chunkier and fast gbs are gone in a few days....

Emioga:
I opened with gtb and it was into my naira account

Thank you.
How do I fill a direct deposit form with the U.S Treasury? How do I contact them? Do I have to call them or email them? To talk to them about the check I have now.

Because I was on the phone forever waiting on a queue...

Can I get a direct deposit into my dollar account with GTB?

Thank you for taking out the time to reply and help me.

Emioga:
had to open a savings account and filled a direct deposit form from the US Treasury. Now I receive the money directly into my account. Thanks

Please where or which bank did you open the savings account?
I’d it a direct deposit into your Dom or Naira account?

Thanks for sharing.

Has anyone tried this? Do they really pay you on due dates? I want to invest soon.

Hello everyone!

Hoping you would join us to pray.

https://web./MOPSOG/

Blessings on you.

Hello everyone. I invite you to pray with us.

https://web./MOPSOG/

Blessings on you!

Hello everyone, I would like to invite the Men in the House to join us to pray every day on Facebook: https://web./MOPSOG/

This is helpful for: men that want to build their relationship with The LORD,
Men that want to build or rebuild their prayer lives by rekindling the fire on their fire alter.

See you there!

1x2x3:
I'm sorry I'm saying this and it hurts my heart to agree with the warnings of marrying a single mother. I'm not the best writer but I will try to narrate my experience and findings.

First of all I would like to point out that there are very few single mothers who can make a good wife while majority of them will ruin you and make your life miserable if caution is not taken.

I've been dating a single mother of a 5 years old boy for about a year and half she is 30 and never been married. I wouldn't just jump into such relationship but for the fact she is someone I knew back in my School days however, we lost contact for about 10 years before we met again and I kind of understood the story she told me and the circumstances she had the child (Till date I didn't bother verifying her story of course I don't care).

We dated for about a year and she got talking with a few of my friends and sibling but the striking thing is she is yet to introduce me to any of her friends or siblings even though I knew she have many siblings and some friends (I did question her about this and she said she doesn't have someone she can really call a friend).

Looking at the kind of reserved life she lives I felt this could be normal but still something kept telling me there's more to these whole pretentious reserved life because I'm introverted and can easily figure out who's pretending to be one. Mind you, she is the church going type who prays and wants my well being yet I could still figure out there is something not clear thus my reason for taking my time to propose to her. This is actually not my fault as there is no way I can figure out who she is unless through someone close to her.

About 6 months ago a pastor that is yet to meet her in person told me that if I marry her I will end up divorcing but being the doubting Thomas type I gave no ear to whatever the pastor has to say until recently when something unfolded.

She lives 3 hrs drive away and comes visiting most of the weekend. Here is the major problem which I must admit I'm at fault but I thank God I was at fault because it paved way for the revelation. Throughout the time we've been dating I only visited her once which she complained about, I wasn't just too comfortable going there to spend time and do certain things (I didn't just find this right but I'm very much comfortable if she visits alone or with the kid). She complained a few times about me not visiting until 2 weeks ago she told me she was traveling to Abuja.
I inquired about her reasons of traveling and she said she needed to rest since she's on leave (Redflag). Her reasons didn't sound logical so I objected, I told her I wasn't comfortable with her traveling, she kept insisting and she jokingly said she will go and face the consequences when she returns. We talked about this for days and she eventually went against all odds and traveled.
On getting to Abuja she started acting funny like not taking calls or calling and when she finally returned my call I told her not to call me until she is back from her trip (I needed to avoid unnecessary worries)

She returned after 4 days and called knowing fully well we've got issues to thrash. She started complaining I don't give her attention as much as she wants (she seems not to be able to deal with my introverted person anymore). The ranting was becoming rude, sounding like a different person from whom I thought I knew. We got to a heated point I had to ask for any of her siblings number, she immediately became defensive and threatened that if I dare contact any of her siblings (7 of them) that I won't like the outcome . It occurred to me she isn't in good relationship with any of her siblings even though they talk sometimes. She just doesn't want me to contact anyone. Out of her rudeness I asked her if she is ready to be under a man since she has brought up marriage issues on few occasions. She said she isn't ready to tolerate bulllshitt of men afterall she has a child, marriage is about children and if things aren't working in a marriage everyone can find their way . The pastor's words occurred to me instantly. I took about 2 hours telling her how much she needs to adjust and understand she isn't supposed to tuzzle with a man else it will be hard for things to work in a home.

She said so many unimaginable things that it dawned to me she was pretending to be nice all these while. She said she wants a man that can take alll she does, I then asked her if she is ready to take all a man does she said no and I told her to look for a man and pay his groom price since she wants a man she can control.

Still scary to me she pretended all these while, going to church and acting very responsible hoping I marry her which I genuinely had intentions to but for the fact something kept telling me I needed more time to know her.

At the end its obvious she is used to being a single mother and if she divorces tomorrow it will be nothing new to her.

Guys make sure you scrutinize that single mother before you jump in. There's a reason she's single and in her 30's.
I found out she's not in good terms with her siblings because she doesn't like taking orders or listening to advice. They've talked to her about being rude and disrespectful but rather than listen she drew bad blood between her and all her siblings.

Thank you for sharing your story with us. It must have been painful for you.
Please don't go near her again. She deserves a man that loves her, take care of her wholly and her son.
Truth is that you are not strong enough to be her man even if she did not have a child.
A good man, husband material should not bad mouth his wife this way in public.

What you described here is not a single mother, you just described what any ordinarily woman could have done to you.

There are many reasons she may not be in good terms with her siblings or family, you didn't get her to trust you enough to open up to you about something that is so sensitive to her...
You failed there.

You didn't visit her, how can she be sure that you won't abandon her and break her heart? How can she be sure that you loved her when you don't visit her, or chase her. She will definitely not introduce you to her family until she is 101% sure.

You search your soul, are you saying because she lost it, got angry and upset with you, that she was pretending? Any on can get angry or frustrated including you.

Also, you advicing when she was upset with you was bad timing. You should have picked a better and calm time and a better method to communicate to her.

There is a reason she is not married because, no real man has giving her the trust and confidence to want to be married

Hello everyone,

A 12 year old who is streetwise is not the same 12 year old you have kept at home. Please be careful not to wait until that so called 'Baby at 12' rapes your infant son or daughter. Yes they rape infant boys too...

Please flog that 12 year old very well but please also let him or her understand why they are being punished, not because of hatred but because they have to build a better character in order to stay and work with you.

Please also try to talk about a future with him in terms of school and dreams... Flog when necessary, shot when necessary and love as human, as per someone's child.

Let him know that he is getting old enough to be sent to prison for some certain things.

The truth is life is not a bed of roses for millions of people, child and adult, so much to deal with, so so much, just to survive.
It is either unfortunate or fortunate that he or she need to work harder that their peers in order to go to school or survive. Encourage them to know that stealing is not the answer. They can actually ask for something and get it...

Do your part, if it does not work, send them packing to their family.

Hello everyone, I've read your chats.
Its apparent that we all agree that we are not happy about all these things going on.
Please stop arguing and insulting one another.

Rape is a very serious accusation and it is an even more terrible experience when a woman or young lady has been manipulated to have sex.

Understand that women and men are not the same in mind or body. Most shame and effects are heavy on the woman. And it's not that easy.

Okay.

Now, I know both parties, I could have believed Pastor B did not do anything with the 1st accuser. I didn't even want to listen, but I also know the 2nd alleged victim, and I had to listen. Even if people change or I can't know 100% of this 2nd accuser, there is a 95% chance that she is not lying against them according to the character I've known.

Please also remember, in the 2nd accuser's video interview, I believe she said the main reason she was anonymous is because she does not want people to think that no she was doing it for fame...

It's not easy to talk about being weak, manipulated, violated, used, derogated especially sexually, especially in an African setting.

Please guys let's press towards the court resolving this and calling all persons involved.

Also, I don't think private reporters should be bringing out pictures or names of anyone at least until a case is in the court of law. If you are wrong or right about the names and pictures, you would be exposing ladies to possible danger from supporters of the accused or accusers. Because they don't have the protection that celebrities do.

We need the court to take up this case and settle it as soon as possible.

Thank you for taking time to read my post.

Thanks for the information.

We have Toyota Hilux, Prado and Buses for sale.


They are 2018/2019 models.

You can request inspection.

We have enough to supply government ministries.

Thank you.

Where can I buy this in Abuja, I finished the one in my neighborhood and the shops say the supplier has not come back.

So please what is the best stabilizer for lower than candle light?

Flakky, hope you don't mind if I perch here.

Respectful and must love children nanny needed.

Hello Nigeria's future,

I'm looking for a female corper that loves babies.
You would need the skills of playing with a 10 month old. That would be your major work for the first 6 months.
You would need a little administrative skills as well.

If you live around Apo mechanic area, Kabusa or Waru.
That would be easier for you.

If you stay in with us, that would be helpful both ways.

Please call and let's discuss further privately.
Minimum start pay is N15,000

Please spread the word to other female leaders like yourselves.

Thanks for coming!

Hello Nigeria's future,

I'm looking for a female corper that loves babies.
You would need the skills of playing with a 10 month old. That would be your major work for the first 6 months.
You would need a little administrative skills as well.

If you live around Apo mechanic area, Kabusa or Waru.
That would be easier for you.

If you stay in with us, that would be helpful both ways.

Please call and let's discuss further privately.
Minimum start pay is N15,000

Please spread the word to other female leaders like yourselves.

Thanks for coming!

Hello Nigeria's future,

I'm looking for a female corper that loves babies.
You would need the skills of playing with a 10 month old. That would be your major work for the first 6 months.
You would need a little administrative skills as well.

If you live around Apo mechanic area, Kabusa or Waru.
That would be easier for you.

If you stay in with us, that would be helpful both ways.

Please call and let's discuss further privately.
Minimum start pay is N15,000

Please spread the word to other female leaders like yourselves.

Thanks for coming!

Hello Nigeria's future,

I'm looking for a female corper that loves babies.
You would need the skills of playing with a 10 month old. That would be your major work for the first 6 months.
You would need a little administrative skills as well.

If you live around Apo mechanic area, Kabusa or Waru.
That would be easier for you.

If you stay in with us, that would be helpful both ways.

Please call and let's discuss further privately.
Minimum start pay is N15,000

Please spread the word to other female leaders like yourselves.

Thanks for coming!

remmy2nv@gmail.com

Please where is Wumba in Abuja? Any land marks?

ollah2:
These tests are not consistent. Check the test using their app on your phone while connected to the same wifi

Okay, will do. But I said they were for different times. I don't expect them to be consistent.

ollah2:
These tests are not consistent. Check the test using their app on your phone while connected to the same wifi

Okay, but I told you that these are different times including peak periods. So they are not expected to be consistent though.

Last picture

Third one.

Their mifi is 25k and another for 35k.

I don't remember how much their router costs.

I'll send pictures at different times of day

These are speed tests at different times.
Even the peak periods are good.

Hi house!

So I did a speed test on an ntel mifi I saw near my area in Abuja and it was zero point something.

So I decided to renew my spectranet which has been working great for me.

Thank you.